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bammy777:
oh, wrong person. but just happen to have same name. Bamidele Mayowa

oh!..., okay

DonPiiko:
Lefulefu and lalas247 your attention is needed here

hey don. Happy Sunday
what's up

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Safiaa:
That’s because she’s your sugar mummy and you’re the houseboy. She’s the man and you’re the woman in the relationship. You’re not a peace with yourself that’s why you’re so quick to call everybody broke and shame women who don’t behave like your fiancé. You are enjoying the benefits of the relationship but you secretly don’t want to marry her. You know you will turn into the certified slave in that house, that’s why you had to open a thread so you could feel a little bit better about yourself. But it backfired. Now you’re taking out your internal frustration on this forum by calling every woman you come across as broke. Darling, if you want to be a sugar boy nobody is disturbing you. You’re the same guy that said you can’t date a woman who still lives with her parents, yet you carried your big self to live in another woman’s house? You’re not even ashamed of yourself, yet you have the audacity to call people names. Your mother is crying over your life, because she can see how much of a useless man you are. She carried you for 9 months, only for you to grow up and become another woman’s personal housekeeper and a proud one at that. Honey, this is the last time I will quote you, live your life and stop bothering me. I’m not the cause of your very misfortunate situation. Lerra x

i am really disappointed in you..., so, coz his fiance bought him a samsung s9 means, he is d houseboy, while she's his sugarmummy?..., come on bae, pls grow up.

Lalas247:
hey don. Happy Sunday
what's up

are you seeing this girl?
she said I'm getting married to a sugar mummy because my fiance is 5years older Than me while she's dating a guy who's 14years older than her.. I also saw her posts encouraging a 21years old girl to go on with her marriage plans with a 40year old man.

is this girl from another planet? because this stupidity doesn't have limits

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

One of the most stupid and trashy post I ever read on Nairaland from an average Nigerian Girl


What happened to mutualism ..... All the factors you listed above , same goes for the man too ..... You can only win such stupid assertion above over a broke ass nigga ..... U try that shit with a made dude , he is going to throw you in a murky gutter that you deserve to belong ....


Nigerian girl wants equality/mutualism but wants to be a leech at the same time .....

I worked my ass off, made my money
I provide for my girl's need both basic n superficial
Upon all ladies in the market (now that girls have become pure water) , I choose U
I gave u my body (an average girl needs total attention during sex than an average guy) ..... she will demand for orgasm after orgasm, she wants to squirt ....( All these doesn't come easy unless you are a skillful sexual maniac)
So, I also trusted her with my time and Biological clock
I also risked my emotional state being with her ......

Now, tell me what superficial thing a lady does to a guy

I only respect a lady with adequate Intelligence and Brilliance and not a mumu like you who has no intelligible argument other than my body and my emotional state ...... is that something superficial

Good morning and happy Sunday been waiting on you to come and give us an insight into what you think about finances in relationships. I will be taking your advice about my own case

Lalas247:
hey don. Happy Sunday
what's up

prechbills1:
this fool said I'm gonna be a house boy and marrying a sugar mummy because my fiance is 5years older than me yet she's encouraging another lady who's 21 to get married to a man who's 40year old.. she herself is dating a guy who's 14years older than her..

you're very stupid I swear

if this is how you think and behave in reality then you're useless

you think every lady out there is poor like you, sorry my fiance isn't a broke asshole like you.

I bet you can't even afford a car for yourself

you're just childish and useless

like I said earlier, even Jesus can't deliver you.

you said you're living in the UK, when you've never boarded a plane before.. your fake life is just stipidty shít

broke clown..

not because she’s 5 years older than you that’s not the main issue. but because she’s your financial master and you run to her feet when she calls your name. Little boy please get out of my mentions I have better things to do this Sunday morning.

Okay guyz. it's now dirty. let's be matured abt it..... it should be an argument not a fight

aynerodcirus:
i am really disappointed in you..., so, coz his fiance bought him a samsung s9 means, he is d houseboy, while she's his sugarmummy?..., come on bae, pls grow up.

https://www.nairaland.com/4445976/mom-doesnt-want-me-marry

Read it thoroughly, then come back to me.

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

Wow, you see love in grey!

prechbills1:
are you seeing this girl?
she said I'm getting married to a sugar mummy because my fiance is 5years older Than me while she's dating a guy who's 14years older than her.. I also saw her posts encouraging a 21years old girl to go on with her marriage plans with a 40year old man.

is this girl from another planet? because this stupidity doesn't have limits

5 years is not a big deal
here no one cares about age . its not even a factor. but its her opinion hun she is entitled to it .
aslong as you and your Mrs are happy zero fuvks dear ...
its taking me years to just accept different ways of thinking and mentality ..

happy Sunday

makydebbie:
Lol you're typing as if she's doing this grudgingly or something and she deserves to be patronized for it. It's wrong dating a lady who thinks she's doing you a favor by dating you. It's supposed to be mutual. Wtf.

Thanks Debbie, I use to respect that Safiaa girl, I never know she fall into the majority category of girls that believe they are doing a guy a favour by dating him .....

What do u have to offer other than pvssy , hmmm @Safiaa ..... If u continue with this mentality, u better stay up with your broke ass niggas because ur assertions only work around them , if u try ur argument with an intelligent made dude, gutter is your home !!!

Lalas247:
5 years is not a big deal
here no one cares about age . its not even a factor. but its her opinion hun she is entitled to it .
aslong as you and your Mrs are happy zero fuvks dear ...
its taking me years to just accept different ways of thinking and mentality ..

happy Sunday

the way some people reason, I wonder if they were given their senses in Mars

happy Sunday to you too, Miss Ukwulicious

DonroxyII:
Thanks Debbie, I use to respect that Safiaa girl, I never know she fall into the majority category of girls that believe they are doing a guy a favour by dating him .....

What do u have to offer other than pvssy , hmmm @Safiaa ..... If u continue with this mentality, u better stay up with your broke ass niggas because ur assertions only work around them , if u try ur argument with an intelligent made dude, gutter is your home !!!

What do you value the most other than sex in a relationship ? Nobody has answered that question, I’ve asked at least 4 guys. Putting aside emotions and companionship. Something physical.

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Safiaa:
https://www.nairaland.com/4445976/mom-doesnt-want-me-marry

Read it thoroughly, then come back to me.

hey common, can't u read btw lines? That's a made up story. wow

prechbills1:
the girl is bragging up and down with a guy that isn't even worth millions..

my chain better pass the guy

even my fiance has millions, I don't brag but one goat that her bf doesn't have upto 1million won't allow people to hear word

lol,shut up abeg.

bammy777:
hey common, can't u read btw lines? That's a made up story. wow

Now it’s a made up story. But isn’t that what he’s been arguing with me about? That his fiancé does this and that for him, now it’s a made up story. You guys are ridiculous Lool.

Safiaa:
What do you value the most other than sex in a relationship ? Nobody has answered that question, I’ve asked at least 4 guys. Putting aside emotions and companionship. Something physical.

I value intellectual beauty, physical endowments, beautiful face

DonPiiko:
Good morning and happy Sunday been waiting on you to come and give us an insight into what you think about finances in relationships. I will be taking your advice about my own case

you know how I feel about this ...
lol ladies don't even like when I say this but here goes .....

I detest Lazy females who feel entitled to a mans money when they have done absolutely nothing ( earning wise)
my motto is to be Independent! the respect you get from that is bliss.
I will support my man any way I can to make sure as a family unit we a comfortable .
now will I marry a guy with no job : Yes on one condition he is actively looking for employment and has the tools to secure a good job. those types of guys are gold even if they may be broke now . those are the Ines you build a future with from the bottom and you both rise to the top.
but most females don't see beyond the exterior look.

my advice to you always date hard working females also b hardworking yourself
giving gifts and spending on each other is a two way thing ...nothing wrong in that it is wrong when it is demanded and one sided and sole responsibility is on the man . 2018 stay woke

me just want beard and good shalom

Safiaa:
Didn’t read everything, but my opinion is that as a boyfriend you don’t have to spend your every dime on your Gf or cater to every single thing she wants to buy. However you need to spend money. If you can’t afford to date, stay single. It’s as simple as ABC. Nobody is putting a gun to your head to have a gf.

Good, you ve simply said a broke guy shouldnt date. Question is should a broke girl also date?

highpriestess:
lol,shut up abeg.

Lool the guy is just so pitiful. A disgrace, i can’t fathom his immaturity and stupidity. It’s just too much for my brain to handle.

babasolution:
to be honest girl,it seems am so out of touch,but the way guys on nairaland comment bothers me,are they really nigerian or what,they be looking for rich girls at the same time complaining that girls are after their money,if these are nigerian guys its so pathetic,the future is female indeed

Cry me a river, wuss... What kind of cheap attention are you seeking?

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Safiaa:
That’s because she’s your sugar mummy and you’re the houseboy. She’s the man and you’re the woman in the relationship. You’re not a peace with yourself that’s why you’re so quick to call everybody broke and shame women who don’t behave like your fiancé. You are enjoying the benefits of the relationship but you secretly don’t want to marry her. You know you will turn into the certified slave in that house, that’s why you had to open a thread so you could feel a little bit better about yourself. But it backfired. Now you’re taking out your internal frustration on this forum by calling every woman you come across as broke. Darling, if you want to be a sugar boy nobody is disturbing you. You’re the same guy that said you can’t date a woman who still lives with her parents, yet you carried your big self to live in another woman’s house? You’re not even ashamed of yourself, yet you have the audacity to call people names. Your mother is crying over your life, because she can see how much of a useless boy you are. She carried you for 9 months, only for you to grow up and become another woman’s personal housekeeper and a proud one at that. Honey, this is the last time I will quote you, live your life and stop bothering me. I’m not the cause of your very misfortunate situation. Lerra x

Soo savage asin KILODE!! Chai

bammy777:
I value intellectual beauty, physical endowments, beautiful face

lol. So that’s exactly what she brings to the table. Herself, because that’s what you value.

Safiaa:
Lool the guy is just so pitiful. A disgrace, i can’t fathom his immaturity and stupidity. It’s just too much for my brain to handle.

lool,I always laugh at his stupid comments and tease him with them,but his block head wouldn't get.

that boy has a shiit for brain.

Safiaa:
Now it’s a made up story. But isn’t that what he’s been arguing with me about? That his fiancé does this and that for him, now it’s a made up story. You guys are ridiculous Lool.

lol. wow funny how I hype u. so u just can't see its a made up story? wow I even know d guy but reading that write up, it's so obvious the story is just another NL topic when someone want discussion and things lyk that are to be ignored not capitalized on.

Lalas247:
you know how I feel about this ...
lol ladies don't even like when I say this but here goes .....

I detest Lazy females who feel entitled to a mans money when they have done absolutely nothing ( earning wise)
my motto is to be Independent! the respect you get from that is bliss.
I will support my man any way I can to make sure as a family unit we a comfortable .
now will I marry a guy with no job : Yes on one condition he is actively looking for employment and has the tools to secure a good job. those types of guys are gold even if they may be broke now . those are the Ines you build a future with from the bottom and you both rise to the top.
but most females don't see beyond the exterior look.

my advice to you always date hard working females also b hardworking yourself
giving gifts and spending on each other is a two way thing ...nothing wrong in that it is wrong when it is demanded and one sided and sole responsibility is on the man . 2018 stay woke

me just want beard and good shalom

have you visited family section this morning?

prechbills1:
the way some people reason, I wonder if they were given their senses in Mars

happy Sunday to you too, Miss Ukwulicious

lol trust me if you read enough post on Nl one can get high blood pressure
how's our wifey?

Safiaa:
That’s because she’s your sugar mummy and you’re the houseboy. She’s the man and you’re the woman in the relationship. You’re not a peace with yourself that’s why you’re so quick to call everybody broke and shame women who don’t behave like your fiancé. You are enjoying the benefits of the relationship but you secretly don’t want to marry her. You know you will turn into the certified slave in that house, that’s why you had to open a thread so you could feel a little bit better about yourself. But it backfired. Now you’re taking out your internal frustration on this forum by calling every woman you come across as broke. Darling, if you want to be a sugar boy nobody is disturbing you. You’re the same guy that said you can’t date a woman who still lives with her parents, yet you carried your big self to live in another woman’s house? You’re not even ashamed of yourself, yet you have the audacity to call people names. Your mother is crying over your life, because she can see how much of a useless boy you are. She carried you for 9 months, only for you to grow up and become another woman’s personal housekeeper and a proud one at that. Honey, this is the last time I will quote you, live your life and stop bothering me. I’m not the cause of your very misfortunate situation. Lerra x

You finish work here

Ego deflation completed Nice one