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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by dignitate: 3:45pm On Apr 27, 2018
greatnaija01:
Why cant you start as A FRIEND? If you LOVE her, then keep working at it from what she gives u, maybe you have not improved yourself well enough to EARN her respect and LOVE....

you have to check yourself and see if you are actually what she NEEDS? feelings are not all about you, consider her too....

WHAT REALLY ARE YOUR REASONS FOR LOVING HER... are they selfish? or generous? meaning... is it only you that would benefit or she will benefit more too. Also, whats the rush.... are you sure you just dont want to get under her clothes?

PLS CHECK YOURSELF FIRST..... Ladies are very intuitive... they do not just act or take major decisions on FEELINGS.


FIRST ANSWER, PERFECT RESPONSE!

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 3:45pm On Apr 27, 2018
Don't let her play with your emotions.

Most ladies are like that.

If she really likes you and has a crush on you she would have been praying that you notice her.

Well, you can be friends with her if you're the type that keeps friends who knows maybe she'll notice your handsome smile or your kindness or your inner beauty or whatever it is you have to sell... eventually. undecided

Otherwise you'd better go your way.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by LordAdam16: 3:45pm On Apr 27, 2018
The mod that made this FP just saved a life. C how dem b 1 use d OP tk shine.

-Lord

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2018
comshots:
You fit be friends and still dey do the things wey boyfriend and girlfriend dey do.You suppose know say no be all babes dey say i agree.

Bad boy spotted grin

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Dove1998(m): 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.

U want to kpansh abi.....??
Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Emmwizy(m): 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2018
My guy forget the babe.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2018
she"s not into u guy

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Born2winnx: 3:46pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.

You won taste the girl toto..use condom

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by adegeye38(m): 3:48pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.
bros move on, she no dey feel u niyen, and lets just be friends is a nicer way of saying no,or she sees u as someone she can benefit or ask favour from, just move on don't let any girl waste your time, its not worth it

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by kekilika: 3:48pm On Apr 27, 2018
Op.... I don't know what to tell you. But enjoy these memes

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by zicoraads: 3:49pm On Apr 27, 2018
You can't have them all. Realize that some will turn you down. When you realize this and it happens, it'll feel normal.

Pray tell, if ladies are put in a line, and you are asked to pick five only. By looking at them, you already know who to pick before who. Same thing applies to ladies.

Forget about her and move on.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 3:50pm On Apr 27, 2018
Na this line topic you go see crowd of readers below. 95% are currently males. And we say men don't Need women more than women need men? If I slap.........

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by showafrica(m): 3:50pm On Apr 27, 2018
SoapQueen:



Agree to her terms first before you open another thread in four months calling ladies unprintable names. Don't give her any money, so you don't start saying she used you. Apparently, she doesn't love you as much as you do, yet.


Surulere!

Asa nwa, that's just the point however, do not promise to provide everything for her when she becomes lover. If she loves you, she will come, don't use money to entice her either. Take her as a friend and friend zone her also. Make sure u don't spend and don't love too much. Gain no dey for too much luv

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 3:50pm On Apr 27, 2018
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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 27, 2018
greatnaija01:
Why cant you start as A FRIEND? If you LOVE her, then keep working at it from what she gives u, maybe you have not improved yourself well enough to EARN her respect and LOVE....

you have to check yourself and see if you are actually what she NEEDS? feelings are not all about you, consider her too....

WHAT REALLY ARE YOUR REASONS FOR LOVING HER... are they selfish? or generous? meaning... is it only you that would benefit or she will benefit more too. Also, whats the rush.... are you sure you just dont want to get under her clothes?

PLS CHECK YOURSELF FIRST..... Ladies are very intuitive... they do not just act or take major decisions on FEELINGS.

and when d girl don chop op 50k and she no still budge and op keeps spending..hoping she say yes..hope u will give op shoulder to cry on ooo..after im money 4 akant don finish cheesy

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by frankmoney(m): 3:51pm On Apr 27, 2018
Op let me educate you , Never , I repeat never ask a girl out until you are sure she loves you and by love I mean she is head over heels for you , a woman's brain is wred differently , once she is sure you like her and you have started responding to her green light she shuts you out . She feels there is nothing interesting about you anymore , the best way to get a girl you like is to confuse her perception , act like you like her today , and don't give a damn 2moro and the next few days , she would be totally unsure of her place in your life and would try to win your attention without you even doing anything , why do you think girls fall for guys don't care about them

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by GuntersChain(m): 3:52pm On Apr 27, 2018
Moving from friendship to relationship is not an easy task. Go straight to the point if she doesn't want it, move ahead. Tell her you already have lots of friends that you don't need more.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Eagba(m): 3:53pm On Apr 27, 2018
Friendzone her

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by SmartyPants(m): 3:54pm On Apr 27, 2018
LieDetector:
Maybe you didn't do much to convince her. I created a similar thread coupla weeks ago and I got some good advice from well doing nairalanders relationship wise. Now this is what you do albeit it's going to be hard for you since you believe you "love" her : stop calling her and never pick her calls. Don't respond to her chats and don't chat her up. If possible, get close to any of her friends(female) and just have fun with her. You'd get to see this same girl that declined you looking for ways to crawl back to you.

So did you finally get the girl?

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Reelmii: 3:55pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.
wait till BBN 2019, make sure u are one of the in-house and above all make sure u win, then u dont need to convince her, she will convince herself.. na u go tire for her begging, girls and their liquid sense

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 3:56pm On Apr 27, 2018
Oga if you like your life,yourself, and your destiny,Run.....for your life.
Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Dangerousboy(m): 3:58pm On Apr 27, 2018
frankmoney:
Op let me educate you , Never , I repeat never ask a girl out until you are sure she loves you and by love I mean she is head over heels for you , a woman's brain is wred differently , once she is sure you like her and you have started responding to her green light she shuts you out . She feels there is nothing interesting about you anymore , the best way to get a girl you like is to confuse her perception , act like you like her today , and don't give a damn 2moro and the next few days , she would be totally unsure of her place in your life and would try to win your attention without you even doing anything , w
hy do you think girls fall for guys don't care about them
sir you seems to know what you are talking about.can you throw more light on it.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by keypad1: 3:58pm On Apr 27, 2018
nairaman66:


True talk! Had the same issues too! She wants me to buy her expensive stuffs and shopping and all that.. I told her point blank, I can only do that for a girlfriend. I also told her that I don’t want to be friends and we should stop communication!

After several days she start calling me asking for the same thing! She never knew I had already moved on!
ma nigga!

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by anochuko01(m): 4:00pm On Apr 27, 2018
Oga don't just move on....but run on!
Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by CSTR1003: 4:00pm On Apr 27, 2018
I doubt if there is any guy that has not happened to.

And it is mostly due to these reasons,
(1) She already has someone .
(2) You are not up to her taste and she wants to let you down easily without hurting your feelings .
(3) She is actually not interested in any relationship.
In my own case I suspected it was number 1.
The moment I heard let's just be friends. I smiled and said okay.

I kept my distance and she started asking me why I don't call her anymore.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Reelmii: 4:02pm On Apr 27, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


I don't understand Nigerian guys these days.. if a lady says she's not interested in dating you.. take that!
stop disturbing her.. I'm 100% sure you don't love the girl truly, you just wanna fúck her and dump her
who is this transgender that forgot her gender and registered as a male, will u say something reasonable
Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Worksunlimited: 4:03pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.

All you need to do is be more than just a friend to her friends and her brain go format to wetin you want, Simple!..

Na she go even come ask you out ma sef..

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Checked86: 4:04pm On Apr 27, 2018
she wants to take care of some pressing issues. hold on. the only thing i have to tell you is that it will never yield anything.
Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by SmartyPants(m): 4:06pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.

Being friends for a while is good. I can tell you already like this girl so much which may be obvious to her. It is likely she may have been interested in you but lost a bit of that interest once she noticed how eager you are to be with her. Being friends will allow you be yourself around her and women are attracted to men who can truly be themselves around them.

I would generally say that you don't have too much to worry about right now since she said she wants to be friends, and this is a fairly normal thing for a girl to say. Be friends with her for a while but allow your relationship with other ladies to grow naturally as well. If she doesn't get jealous that will show you where you really stand.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by santricedupas(m): 4:07pm On Apr 27, 2018
guy this are the rules,

1. never toast her again since she said already that you can be friend, that is a nice green light.

2. are you working or have money.

3. do you have a personal crib she can come anytime.

4. Can you spend a little like going to eatry once a while, your going there is not all to buy chicken and juice, you can just hang out there just buying a coke and meat pie. but you can order chicken and rice once a while.

5. discuss romantically and don't be shy.

6. let her be free to you, and as you get along

7. let her visit you

8. if you want sex you can initiate it after her second visit, because nigerian ladies will never initiate a sex move even though they desire it.

9. use a condom for protection if she is a slay lady, and never mind for omo mummy.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by Toks2008(m): 4:07pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.

The best way to start a potential romantic union is being friends even if it is for a day so go ahead and be her friend and let fate decides...

Just know the time to quit if you can't stand be friendzoned permanently.

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Re: I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends by vickrichie001(m): 4:08pm On Apr 27, 2018
Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.
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B patient like patience jonathan,n d goodluck will com like Ebele jonathan....

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