My baby also isn't so good at talking.... And me that I make effort to make conversations, she says I talk too much. She's an introvert.... So I understand....

Same thing I'm facing right now and that has made her have a close friend who gives her attention on the ground that she's single, to the extent that they talk for long periods on the fone n even chats for long hours even while she's with me

UniqueOJ:
The long distance is frustrating

Some ladies are referring to guys like me who dont even know they exist O! For the guys, how are we sure all these ladies you are calling boring, too beautiful, are in far place etc recognise you as partners? Just becouse you have my number and say hello once in a while on whatsapp doesn't mean we are in a relationship. So dont use me as your current relationship.

She is nt a virgin bt she says no sex till marriage,i stl love her wat do i do.

That is how some people stick their noses around in people's privacy.Don't be nosey!

My Gf nags a lot. She has temper issues, the last time she caught me cheating, she smashed my phone and the next week she bought a new one. Calling all my friends to come and plead with me to accept her back . I dont know if this is Love or Obsession. Cos she said if she doesn't have me, she will kil herself and her blood will be on my hands. I love her sha, but just hate her anger management

Just be patient. With time the truth about wat is goin on wil surface.
Hop for d best my dear. But also prepare for d worse. I wish u well.

Flashylily:
Hate the way he treats me at times. He went for nysc,since the last two weeks, he never called me unless he sees my missed call. When ever I complain of this call,he either complain of airtime or battery issue. The current problem is that I gave him two missed calls yesterday night,he didn't even bother returning it and I also saw him online yet no message not until I texted him and he replied. I didn't complain but I really gave him cold attitude which he observed.

This is a serious issue. Just follow ur heart.
Hop for d best and expect d worse.

rafabenitez:
She is nt a virgin bt she says no sex till marriage,i stl love her wat do i do.

my is too young and very un- serious with th e relationship ,..
shs 21, and I'm like her second bfrnd in the secpn relationship ..

we fought all the time and it breaks my heart. I had to let go so we both can find our companion.

Rule 1. Never bring your relationship to social media. It is both immature of you and disrespectful to your partner to do that. It is better to seek private counsel.
#myonenairacounsel

samso247:
My Gf nags a lot. She has temper issues, the last time she caught me cheating, she smashed my phone and the next week she bought a new one. Calling all my friends to come and plead with me to accept her back . I dont know if this is Love or Obsession. Cos she said if she doesn't have me, she will kil herself and her blood will be on my hands. I love her sha, but just hate her anger management

proud cheater.
smh
I would have broken all your properties and give you rat poison.

I didn't use to like the self centered nature of my now ex.. All she cared about was herself, even when am in financial stress she never one day willingly offered help. All I know was that I was hustling harder to make her happy, till one day I go tired.

What broke the camels back was when we were having challenges with our wedding plans due to my parents not in support. She was hell bent on pushing me to go ahead without my family. it got bad that when I lost a major uncle she pretended to show concern and just 2 days after the sad news was pushing for the wedding.

The only money she manage to bring out in the whole plan which was used in sewing her wedding gown she was asking for refund. Nah me tell myself say this lady to kill me when we enter fully.

I hate the fact that he doesn't speak/chat with me until I do so.I have talked to him about it and he said he is an introvert. He doesn't talk until you do so.I'm getting tired of the relationship. And the fact that he is far away from me doesn't help matters.

The demand for expensive things is too much

She don't like to read. Buy a book, put diamond inside and give her as a gift. Come back next year and pick your diamond intact. She is a graduate

Preshy561:

proud cheater.
smh
I would have broken all your properties and give you rat poison.

Its not like am a proud cheater. Dont get me wrong

She so much love that tin

samso247:
My Gf nags a lot. She has temper issues

Based on this we could be dating the same gal..Lol. When she's angry she can do unimaginable things. She flares up over trivial issues. She wouldn't let me go either. it's been 2 weeks since I stopped seeing her.

samso247:
Its not like am a proud cheater. Dont get me wrong

just amend your ways.

unclefamous:
then to make it interesting ask her questions that requires long answers

Like he should define some long terms? What is Pollination? Define Anatomy and Physiology?

tradepunter:
I didn't use to like the self centered nature of my now ex.. All she cared about was herself, even when am in financial stress she never one day willingly offered help. All I know was that I was hustling harder to make her happy, till one day I go tired.

What broke the camels back was when we were having challenges with our wedding plans due to my parents not in support. She was hell bent on pushing me to go ahead without my family. it got bad that when I lost a major uncle she pretended to show concern and just 2 days after the sad news was pushing for the wedding.

The only money she manage to bring out in the whole plan which was used in sewing her wedding gown she was asking for refund. Nah me tell myself say this lady to kill me when we enter fully.

Thank God you ran for your life. Some ladies hold the lips the bitterness of the entire generation. Such a materialistic personality

samso247:
My Gf nags a lot. She has temper issues, the last time she caught me cheating, she smashed my phone and the next week she bought a new one. Calling all my friends to come and plead with me to accept her back . I dont know if this is Love or Obsession. Cos she said if she doesn't have me, she will kil herself and her blood will be on my hands. I love her sha, but just hate her anger management

Both of you are possessed

On my ex. Chai the girl fine just as mamiwater . so beautiful but just boring. When I mean boring she was. There wasn't any deep connection or connectivity between us. The difference of our intelligence was just too wide. No deep communication nor spark.she almost turn me to 2nd papa. Pls Guys if u are a graduate be careful dating underG because u might eventually turn to milk factory.
I like it when ladies are independent but these days u see ladies hinging it on u that is a must u do it.

ekmike:


Based on this we could be dating the same gal..Lol. When she's angry she can do unimaginable things. She flares up over trivial issues. She wouldn't let me go either. it's been 2 weeks since I stopped seeing her.

I dont know, gals are something else oooo, but y did u stop seeing her? Dont u love her anymore

olugabbie:
This is a serious issue. Just follow ur heart.
Hop for d best and expect d worse.

the prblm is i love her,she loves me too bt dsnt wnt sex nw,ive tried bt stl says no fr nw,im jst inbtween.thnks bro

mrphysics:


Both of you are possessed

samso247:

I dont know, gals are something else oooo, but y did u stop seeing her? Dont u love her anymore

I love her but I realize she would never change (not by me) and I can't tolerate it anymore. She's the type you can date for 10 years and never think of proposing cos she's unpredictable. I hope to settle down next year

vuc1:
We hardly fight or argue. She's too respectful, loyal and humble. She loves me too much and it scares me whether that is normal. A typical naija babe is opposite of what she is. I feel it's all a scam.

Just be careful and be on watch out!!!! Kos the demon in some are kept for some while

I dnt even have any I wish I can find one today...

MichaelBukamzy:
My woman is too shy. Not good at interactions at all.our phone calls always bored with her "yes","no" and haha replies. But she loves me ooo

that is the nature of phlegmatic set of people. Only what u need to do is to study her temparament and astrological sign, and dat will surely help u to cop with her. Thank God, she is nt a nagging person

ssuccess:
I've been reading posts and comments, and I discovered that many people are enduring relationships.
This is terrible!
Till when na?
Yes you can't be jumping up and down, but you might need to take a break, see the world, then know which part of it you want for yourself.
There is life after a breakup.
Most of the folks who posted things above were Men, I know if the women are to really purgate their emotions, tell their stories, we'll be left sobbing.
Look, the ultimate purpose of any relationship is COMPLIMENTARY, and HAPPINESS.
S/he must be able to fill in your emptiness, be strong in your weakness. This way you compliment each other.
Above all happiness is key.
Never think of what others will say because my sisters and brothers, YOU'RE YOUR OWN BOSS!

You said it all