yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.

missyojo:

Op, there's no how you won't spend on a lady you are in a relationship with thou it varies. I for example don't demand from my partner except on very rare occasion. just that once a lady knows who have a small change at hand she will start demanding. Love is meant to be reciprocated but ladies don't see it that way, as such they believe it's the guys responsibility to take care of them that after all he's going down too. My advice is this, reduce your spending on a lady and you will know which one is a wife material.

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

Elder001:

cool.. didn't sleep long

highqueen:

awww!!sorry about that.
I slept very late too.

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

franchasng:
In Nigeria, Rich guys attract broke ladies

The richer u are as a guy in Nigeria, the more broke but pretty ladies u will be attracting into your life.

You hardly find the so called good independent ladies...is either they are forming hard to approach, forming classy queens, always frowning and always forming too busy or they are being too rigid, I think that's where the problem of finding the so-called good independent ladies lie, so don't blame it on guys at all

Elder001:

I
see you later

yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.

comshots:
Without a woman you will live long and have rest of mind.They are the reason most guys meet their untimely death.Though konji can be very stupid.

franchasng:
if what u typed is true, you must be a Yahoo boy

Only Yahoo guys act in the manner u described in your comment and they don't go far financially. 20 - 30yrs later, they are either broke going about bars telling stories of how they used to be very rich or they are in their village drinking palm wine with grandpas, pls change your mindset, even Mark Zuckerberg don't spend like that on Priscilla Chan his wife. Be careful of what u wish for in life

Elder001:


With this writing I'm not sure if you've up to 1m in your account..
I detect clowns when I see them

charliboy654:

Its normal jor, where u wan see Nigeria girl wey nor go ask of anything. They always demand, its their nature. If you have u give, if u don't tell em u don't.

selfmadeboss:

I made 7times that amount u just mentioned yesterday. U need to see how I squander it on my instagram followers. We send money errands man

oyb:


you will find ladies that don't need anything from you.

problem is , you have no idea how to relate with a woman who does not need you. more to the point, you don't want a woman like that.

which is fine, but what is irritating is the pathetic hypocrisy.

if the op [probbaly another small boy storyteller] meets a woman who needs nothing from him, he will start wailing about her disrespect and strong head.

Elder001:


lies make me hungry

who're you trying to impress?

Royaldave200:


Trust your day was as great as mine? Am jibade...hope you don't mind we chat privately?

Rosay15:
lol

Deeaba:
Well I dated a girl who always ask for money almost everyday. I call her most times when i'm on break talk for like 30 mins, and around 7.30 pm I will just see her test. Love i'm stranded,can't leave the office cos I don't have transport fare. Please assist me.Then I will be like you did not mention anything like this when I called this afternoon. her is excuse is always I forgot. I keep giving her, not because i'm stupid but because I felt she might need the money. Paid school fees, give money sometimes weekly.
Her phone got damaged. I got 2 small phones at my work place gave her one to be using pending the time I got her a new smartphone. that was when issue started, she was always talking about the smartphone every day that it became so irritating and decided not to buy for her again. She even referred to the small phone I got for her in my presence palasa. This is a working class lady. So it's not an issue of dating working class. She just likes demanding.
I broke up with her and I've since had my peace, dating another one as we speak and I'm ready to give the whole world to her cos she does not ask, and when I give her things she is so appreciative mehn. I'm in love again

SlimCaze88:

Bros please help me make i chop, I am seriously broke
0029966746 diamond bank

sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop

Elder001:
How do ladies even feel when they're reading posts like these?

These posts are useless because no matter how long you preach they won't change as long as there are some guys out there who're ready to give them any amount just to have sex with them or make them their girlfriends.

The problem rests solely on guys... imagine a kid saying up there that you must spend on a lady because you want her to look good for you..
if a guy can say that what else do you expect these ladies to say?



Nigeria sha.

martineverest:
so ironic.....guys are the cause

sisisioge:


I'm gonna ask not demand, just once. Buy me a laptop baby, my birthday is tomorrow

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.