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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Rhozabeth(m): 8:31am On May 19, 2018
Bro, Nigerian girls are wired that way! Tell them to go to hell they will demand for transport!
Only a very small percentage will never ask u for anything!

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Royaldave200(m): 8:31am On May 19, 2018
Rosay15:
. Am sorry am nt on any social media for now, u can only chat me try my mail.. Tnks

Ok then, mail it is.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by columbus007(m): 8:36am On May 19, 2018
embarassed[quote author=Elder001 post=67685783]
maga
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by MrSly(m): 8:41am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.
I have come in close contact with two girls. First is mature, focused, beautiful, loving, so reserved, in suspicious manner, almost not demanding.(dad is well to do) . The second is younger, extremely beautiful, passionate lover, but nags, seems not to have plans for financial Independence and very demanding. She can demand for virtually anything you can think of. Reason why I prefer the first.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by princeade86(m): 8:45am On May 19, 2018
Humility017:


you're blessed to have such a woman.
thanks bro and am proud of her. if u need such girl, I pray God will give u ur own woman that wunt be liability to u and at d same time trouble maker.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by kyaagbanairaland(m): 8:46am On May 19, 2018
samyfreshsmooth:
girls will always be girls..............whether dependent or independent undecided


they'll always demand something from the guy they're dating......................be it spiritual, physical or emotional undecided


what you need to do is "work on yourself" undecided


you dont always have to give in to their demands undecided


to succeed in a relationship and reduce damage, always put and have this golden rule at the back sorry front of your mind:


"NEVER DO FOR ANY LADY WHAT YOU CAN'T DO OR HAVEN'T DONE FOR YOUR MOM OR SISTERS OR FEMALE GUARDIAN OR GRANDMA!" undecided
I would prefer the emotional demands. Fvck all others.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by MZTALILO(m): 8:49am On May 19, 2018
YoungDaNaval:
Bro me I no dey pretend, e no dey be say e no dey. period!
Na so o, dr nr go kill u put o
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Chukapage(m): 8:50am On May 19, 2018
missyadorable:


Does he f^¢K his sisters?
is he the only one enjoying the sex?? Nigeria and strange mentality!!!
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by OluwatobiMayowa: 8:53am On May 19, 2018
Majority of the girls that don't demand are ugly.

The beautiful ones demand because well, if you don't give, there are other guys that are ready to.

The rule of thumb is to spend what is left after investing/sorting family. So that way you are not entertaining any unforeseen circumstances.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Chukapage(m): 8:54am On May 19, 2018
solasoulmusic:
I don’t know how you want to be married but cannot provide for another without feeling somehow selfishness seems easy but the right one will meet you halfway at least men are a bit ungrateful lately some of you are not mentally ready but you want to settle down is this how you will abandon children when they ask you

Please if your not ready to give to the point where you are even insulted for it do not even bother
A random bitch and A mans children are on two different levels!!
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Joemtu: 9:03am On May 19, 2018
Your problem is pride.you r not humble..and its not just you but most nigerian men are too proudful.I see them doing the same in s.africa.Do u know most of man's problems are due to proudful attitudes? Look at your politicians the ones u call leaders! Proudful.look at yourself..buying a laptop which u hardly afford! But pride didnt allow u to tell a poorest lady u cant afford..

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Cloud007: 9:07am On May 19, 2018
comshots:
One told me straight that i would spend on her.Another one was indirectly telling her friend in my present that she could only date a guy who would be giving her ₦5k every month after i had asked her out.The other one asked me to lend her ₦5k to help cater for her sick mother.I no say that ₦5k go enter voicemail lastly.Well,i dey avoid them after that statement.There are other mugu to extract money from.
wait...5k every month? I don't understand.... what kind of table are you standing on sef... secondary School girls?
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Humility017(m): 9:09am On May 19, 2018
princeade86:
thanks bro and am proud of her. if u need such girl, I pray God will give u ur own woman that wunt be liability to u and at d same time trouble maker.
amen....thanks who don't want such a favor?
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by arki(m): 9:10am On May 19, 2018
the truth is DAT u HV not come across the one that truly loves u. One way to find out if a girl loves u is DAT she will find it difficult to request anything from u, even when she does, it won't be something that will cost u much. A girl that truly loves u will try to build u. Except if u caused by showing d girls u HV met that u can buy d whole of Nigeria

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by pocohantas(f): 9:12am On May 19, 2018
oyb:


you will find ladies that don't need anything from you.

problem is , you have no idea how to relate with a woman who does not need you. more to the point, you don't want a woman like that.

which is fine, but what is irritating is the pathetic hypocrisy.

if the op [probbaly another small boy storyteller] meets a woman who needs nothing from him, he will start wailing about her disrespect and strong head.

...

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by ericsmith: 9:13am On May 19, 2018
sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop kiss kiss kiss kiss


please our patient needs to rest ,,cumma be going.



we will transmitted,no,,sorry!! transmit via transmission on a transmitter to you when he as fully recovers
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Brownzzy(m): 9:14am On May 19, 2018
sisisioge:


I'm gonna ask not demand, just once. Buy me a laptop baby, my birthday is tomorrow kiss kiss kiss kiss




hmm Nigeria girls everyday na their birthday you meet her today� her birthday na tomorrow will you kip kwayet
criminals una weldon

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by ModelX(m): 9:15am On May 19, 2018
sassysure:


I want to correct this assumption. A woman looks good for herself and not for a man. Not even her husband.
How do women disguise themselves in make-up and all manner of body enhancements without feeling any shame?
I'm hoping you can answer this question - it may lead us to understand how they can also demand money from men, without shame.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by londoner: 9:20am On May 19, 2018
OluwatobiMayowa:
Majority of the girls that don't demand are ugly.

The beautiful ones demand because well, if you don't give, there are other guys that are ready to.

The rule of thumb is to spend what is left after investing/sorting family. So that way you are not entertaining any unforeseen circumstances.

Not true, so called 'ugly girls' still demand to be bought for because it's become a culture and expected thing.

I woman that respects herself and knows her value will actually be offended that a man thinks she can be bought. It's how you see yourself that will dictate how you navigate the dating world. It's also culture, if you are using a man for his money gift and exchange for your time or body you're either an escort or a prostitute. The man that is giving is the 'john' , customer or client.

Nigerian men need to learn to attract women with WHO THEY ARE and not WHAT THEY HAVE because they are hiding behind material gifts.

If a guy approaches me with what he has or what he earns, he is automatically cancelled because that's an insecure individual and 'ain't nobody gat time fo' dat'.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by nwaonyeze001(m): 9:26am On May 19, 2018
Elder001:


lmao... are you guys afraid of approaching working class ladies? undecided

The kind of ladies you guys attract though..

D working class ladies.....most of them are so rude and lack P.R, they will only give you audience when you smell of eloquence and wealth, even with their exposure, for those once, if you don't have a ride (car) first impression to them, don't even dare
Statistically, 98% tho, there are good once who won't care about your outward appearance, but my guy, they are like looking for a pin on a sea shore

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by rocknation62(m): 9:27am On May 19, 2018
comshots:
One told me straight that i would spend on her.Another one was indirectly telling her friend in my present that she could only date a guy who would be giving her ₦5k every month after i had asked her out.The other one asked me to lend her ₦5k to help cater for her sick mother.I no say that ₦5k go enter voicemail lastly.Well,i dey avoid them after that statement.There are other mugu to extract money from.
some will stylishly tell you dey don’t date stingy guys...

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Leo10000(m): 9:37am On May 19, 2018
franchasng:
That is it! I have this average buoyant handsome friend who was dating a very pretty lady working in a big firm where she earned around 250k per month salary and drove Toyota Corolla 2006. This my guy is a bit loaded, but he broke up with the girl, why

Ladies really need to be careful mhen, this lady just threw a golden opportunity to spend her life with an amazing successful young man who don't chase ladies around despite his success.

She demanded for my guy, her boyfriend abi fiance to change her car for her, that is he not ashamed that she is still driving this old model car, 2006 car, old model car Ah, our ladies get mind i swear cheesy cheesy

My guy said the first day she said this, he took it as a joke, not until a day they had mild disagreement and she repeated it in a louder way hehe.....and that was the bullet that killed the hero shocked shocked

Out of my mumu pity pity mind, I was even pleading on the girl's behalf for him to forgive her and give her a second chance, but my guy told me that if I know what he knows about this relationship that he doesn't tell us, that I will advice him to end it now!

He later revealed to me how this lady that earns 250k o keep demanding for this and that....maybe she was the one taking care of her entire lineage sha cos she's the first daughter, but even at that....she ought to have exercised restraint, and the guy is now married to a wonderful lady, prettier and will I say richer than his ex, life sha...guys open your eyes o, no enter gutter with your two eyes open, our world has changed....every family now should be funded by the husband and the wife for a stable family in case one dies or becomes incapacitated tomorrow, u never can tell

u can imagine that,ur friend is really lucky,as a man there ar so many things to spend money on, few years from now,a focus guy shld be planning on building his own house,have establishments,how on earth ll such a guy with a leach girl called a babe allow such goals come true,LOVE IS LOGICAL,SOMEONE WHO LOVES U DEARLY WILL ALWAYS PUT THEMSELVES IN THEIR PARTNERS SHOES IN ALMOST ALL SITUATIONS,ANY OTHER SITUATION ASIDE DIS IS JUST AN OPPORTUNIST.....IF NA SO GIRLS DEY,MAKE WE KU KU DE PAY FOR SEX ALONE AND UNTO D NEXT ONE,SHIKENA...

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Alwaysking: 9:40am On May 19, 2018
nikkypearl:
shocked
Lol..
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Olulinks(m): 9:40am On May 19, 2018
sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop kiss kiss kiss kiss
If you really mean what you're saying, what's Laptop for a clean looking gel like you! No joke please.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Olulinks(m): 9:43am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
The reason why I opened this tread is to know if other guys are experiencing same.
This is truth. What you project is a generous rich and a big-hearted guy. Gels don't like that. They want you mean and strict then the will stay. But you don't necessarily need to be mean and strict, just project it. But be soft, sweet and nice.
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by temmylorlah(f): 9:50am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.
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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Reference(m): 9:52am On May 19, 2018
Simple. Your standards are just too low. Tweak your search software. I don't have the time to read your epistle save the fact that like attracts like.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Olulinks(m): 9:55am On May 19, 2018
Rosay15:
Bt dere is sumtin I don't understand in we ladies.. If u are dating guy does it mean u shd put all ur burden on him... Cus I dnt get.. Some ladies now turn relationship to buz center.. Issokay
You're a unique being. But tell me you never bothered any guy with your needs before?
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by yvonne111(f): 9:55am On May 19, 2018
yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

Almost all the guys I've also dated are demanding, some would pretend at first, then later start demanding endlessly for cash (yes! guys beg for cash too).You are not alone dear, God will provide the right girl for you. Amen
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Melsan: 9:56am On May 19, 2018
sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop kiss kiss kiss kiss
Wife material spotted wink. This your sense of humour ehn kiss
Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by londoner: 9:58am On May 19, 2018
nwaonyeze001:


D working class ladies.....most of them are so rude and lack P.R, they will only give you audience when you smell of eloquence and wealth, even with their exposure, for those once, if you don't have a ride (car) first impression to them, don't even dare
Statistically, 98% tho, there are good once who won't care about your outward appearance, but my guy, they are like looking for a pin on a sea shore

Have you given a thought that these ladies also don't want to be used? They also get approached my boys and men that look like they are in need and often turn out to be opportunists?

Some Nigerian men also use women. They've made an internationally known internet business out of it in fact.

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Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by mrkel(m): 9:59am On May 19, 2018
As my friend would rightly opined " The boy is good, the boy is good, you must show working". Relationship in Nigeria is predicated on the concept of "quid pro quo".

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