Sapiosexuality:
That's probably because you don't understand it. If you do and shed off those ingrained mental prisons culture leaves around, you'd know better.

Boy! Feminism is bullshit! I totally believe men and women are unique entities and no one can take the role of the other.. Well, women try to take up manly roles but it's all nonsense! Having to even try in the first place, makes it invalid!

Bolustical:
Is it only me that is having the feeling that Chimamanda is riding on the back of feminism in order to keep trending?

I'm sure the spirits revealed this to you, you must be a seer. As a seer, has the spirits shown you Buhari's fate come 2019

The same set of people that goes around saying; men are scum.. Bla Bla Bla.. Are the pathetic Ddick worshippers!

ShawtCake:
Boy! Feminism is bullshit! I totally believe men and women are unique entities and no one can take the role of the other.. Well, women try to take up manly roles but it's all nonsense! Having to even try in the first place, makes it invalid!

So is feminism asking men to take manly roles and what does it even mean? What should define any role? Culture or commonsense? Why should a stupid man be the head of the house? Why should a wife who is a bad cook but with a chef as husband be in charge of cooking?

ShawtCake:
The same set of people that goes around saying; men are scum.. Bla Bla Bla.. Are the pathetic Ddick worshippers!

How does being a dick worshipper stop one from being feminist? What do you even understand by feminism? Why call cry babies and girls whose knowledge of feminism is equal but opposite to yours, feminists? Does a man loving the va'gina makes him less a free man?

Dareal90s:

I [s]don't argue with dull people, go to school u won't go, our oyel our oyel, that's d effect on ur miserable life[/s].

Now he is talking off point just as expected
TYPICAL AFONJA

They hold the door when ladies hv not opened their leg. And shut the door after that.

Sapiosexuality:
How does being a dick worshipper stop one from being feminist? What do you even understand by feminism? Why call cry babies and girls whose knowledge of feminism is equal but opposite to yours, feminists? Does a man loving the va'gina makes him less a free man?

wait! Do you work with Jamb? Pls stop mentioning me o.. We are entitled to our opinions.

Sapiosexuality:
Sounds like Bullshit to me. What is wrong with being angry about the male chauvinism in this wicked world?

Male Chauvinism?? Well, I am no misogynist so I won't talk about this. But then, everything is wrong with being ANGRY. You don't lead a campaign in anger and expect to garner followers. In the end, you'd come off as a mad man, or at best, a joke. If anger is a tool here then she is exhibiting a literary device we call ANGST.

How did a simply plea for clarification amount to bullying?

You might be a Chimamanda apologist but her discourse with Hillary was never a plea.

'In your Twitter account, the first word that describes you is ‘Wife.’ And then I think it’s ‘Mom,’ and then it’s ‘Grandmother'. And when I saw that, I have to confess that I felt just a little bit upset. And then I went and I looked at your husband’s Twitter account, and the first word was not ‘husband.’

So would you please point out the 'simple plea' here?

[s]How does questioning the illogical glorification of men showcase a child from an oppressive home? Honestly, if there is anyone who is oppressed, intellectually, morally and mentally, I think it is the majority of Nigerians who have bought into the matriarchal narrative. Once you free yourself from that, and understand what love ought do, you'd see with her eyes[/s]
I'm sorry. I tried seeing the correlation of the struck out sentences but never really made sense to me. How does opening a door for a woman come off as illogical glorification? While you are playing Merlin to Arthur here, I hope you are aware that the lady in question is married and her ANGSTS, are directed at niceties or perceived soft spots reserved for the women folks by the men? Perhaps I would hit the next feminist on the shoulder like I would my male friends just because I intend saying 'Hi'.

ShawtCake:
wait! Do you work with Jamb? Pls stop mentioning me o.. We are entitled to our opinions.

And you don't think that we are also entitled to question any opinion? Don't be afraid of what the truth has got to offer. This is a chauvinistic male world. Cut down on what traditions and culture tells you. Cut down on what religions with Gods who are too imperfect to be worshipped or praised tell you. Question the orientation you were given. Question everything. Once you do, you'd see the truth.

Rapoo:
I think the only time I can hold the door for my wife is when she's pregnant. I keep saying this that public display of affection is not being romantic or caring.

I support her on this one. even those criticizing her have not been since doing those things for wives/girlfriends.

Your opinion, your life, your choice.

Sanchez01:

Male Chauvinism?? Well, I am no misogynist so I won't talk about this. But then, everything is wrong with being ANGRY. You don't lead a campaign in anger and expect to garner followers. In the end, you'd come off as a mad man, or at best, a joke. If anger is a tool here then she is exhibiting a literary device we call ANGST.


You might be a Chimamanda apologist but her discourse with Hillary was never a plea.


So would you please point out the 'simple plea' here?

[s]How does questioning the illogical glorification of men showcase a child from an oppressive home? Honestly, if there is anyone who is oppressed, intellectually, morally and mentally, I think it is the majority of Nigerians who have bought into the matriarchal narrative. Once you free yourself from that, and understand what love ought do, you'd see with her eyes[/s]
I'm sorry. I tried seeing the correlation of the struck out sentences but never really made sense to me. How does opening a door for a woman come off as illogical glorification? While you are playing Merlin to Arthur here, I hope you are aware that the lady in question is married and her ANGSTS, are directed at niceties or perceived soft spots reserved for the women folks by the men? Perhaps I would hit the next feminist on the shoulder like I would my male friends just because I intend saying 'Hi'.

Is anger a bad thing? If I am angry about evil, have I committed evil? If I'm not angry about evil, am I a good man? Is any emotion for simply being an emotion bad or good? Is happiness good? If a thief robs and kills a pregnant woman, is such happiness good? Is good and bad emotional or moral concepts to be hidden in any emotion?

Sapiosexuality:
And you don't think that we are also entitled to question any opinion? Don't be afraid of what the truth has got to offer. This is a chauvinistic make world. Cut down on what traditions and culture tells you. Cut down on what religions with Gods who are too imperfect to be worshipped or praised tell you. Question the orientation you were given. Question everything. Once you do, you'd see the truth.

For Fvck sakes leave me alone o! Ah.. I'm not interested in explaining the whys and hows of my views to you! I'm not a blockhead, Im atheist.. So, stop saying shit like u even know me. PS: don't let thunder fire you, don't tag me niccur.

ShawtCake:
For Fvck sakes leave me alone o! Ah.. I'm not interested in explaining the whys and hows of my views to you! I'm not a blockhead, Im atheist.. So, stop saying shit like u even know me. PS: don't let thunder fire you, don't tag me niccur.

Lol. On a public forum? I should stop quoting you? Not even Seun the owner of Nairaland or any of his mods can give that order.

But sorry, being atheist doesn't make you smart. It doesn't make you dumb either. Same with being a theist. It simply and only means you don't believe in Gods. It doesn't mean you are a smart person.

Sapiosexuality:
Is anger a bad thing? If I am angry about evil, have I committed evil? If I'm not angry about evil, am I a good man? Is any emotion for simply being an emotion bad or good? Is happiness good? If a thief robs and kills a pregnant woman, is such happiness good? Is good and bad emotional or moral concepts to be hidden in any emotion?

Three fallacies in less than twenty!

1. Hasty Generalization (Male chauvinism)
2. Argumentum ad misericordiam (What is wrong with being angry about the male chauvinism in this wicked world?)
3. Moral fallacy laced with rhetorics (The Now)

By the way, you have deflected from the discourse. It would be great we stay on course.

all of u are just trolling on Amanda
even banky W that said that everyone has a right to choose is calling Amanda ridiculous for saying *SHE* doesn't like men only opening the door for women

in other words guys she didn't say it's bad or good she just said she didn't like it ,must someone like something eh?
so y'all mind ur bizwax and find what you will eat this night

IamD18:
I stand with Chimamanda on this.

Men should stop worshiping women to claim gentleman.

allow them in any situation they find themselves..... If they can't find their way out, they would surely beckon for your help. If not,allow them suffer small

IamD18:
I stand with Chimamanda on this.

Men should stop worshiping women to claim gentleman.

If anyone deserves to be worship, it’s women,

Sanchez01:


Three fallacies in less than twenty!

1. Hasty Generalization (Male chauvinism)
2. Argumentum ad misericordiam (What is wrong with being angry about the male chauvinism in this wicked world?)
3. Moral fallacy laced with rhetorics (The Now)

By the way, you have deflected from the discourse. It would be great we stay on course.

Three fallacies? What does fallacy mean in this context? Your disagreements or the true meaning because it doesn't look like it?

Simply tell me, what's wrong with being Angry? Isn't the world ruled by males who think one divine deity gave them over women? Isn't the world controlled by men? Who created barbaric cultures to foster their cause? How does a realization become a fallacy in your logical world?

But...I really want to know how anger is wrong. I want to know how fighting evil with anger makes evil nonexistent. Tell me. I'd like to know.

Rapoo:
I think the only time I can hold the door for my wife is when she's pregnant. I keep saying this that public display of affection is not being romantic or caring.

I support her on this one. even those criticizing her have not been since doing those things for wives/girlfriends.

yes,public sure is not the best...... Just like I can't kneel in the open or secret to propose to a gal

IamD18:
I stand with Chimamanda on this.

Men should stop worshiping women to claim gentleman.

Will u keep kwayet? !!!

I agree with Chimamanda 9 out of 10 times. Her manner of delivery sometimes could appear aggressive. Asides that, she makes a lot of sense to me.

missyadorable:
Why would a man hold a car door for me when I have hands and they are free?
Nigerian man and public display of care and affection is equal to trouble inside the house.

Opening doors for women is not an African thing let alone Nigeria and it's not car doors only.

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

man need to tap small current

You dont event understand what the woman said

IamD18:
I stand with Chimamanda on this.

Men should stop worshiping women to claim gentleman.

CaptainGOOD:
Banky big head shut up pls..
She is only airing her opinion based on the questions asked to her.
Its not like she is telling people not to open doors for women.
Dont u know what interview is?
If she said otherwise u people will still start crying "FEMINIST"

Stop sounding like common afonja nairaland illiterate biko

I understand where you are coming from...Omoluabi Afonja are trained by women who are not bought like a commodity in the market hence we treat them well......and as far as that guy...banky W is concern, he is way bigger than u lots, even bigger than your buloda who brought you to lagos..ok

Rapoo:
I think the only time I can hold the door for my wife is when she's pregnant. I keep saying this that public display of affection is not being romantic or caring.

I support her on this one. even those criticizing her have not been since doing those things for wives/girlfriends.

guy u make sense jare,majority of guys opening those doors do it to show off n flatter d lady.na hot love n it fades essily

IamD18:
I stand with Chimamanda on this.

Men should stop worshiping women to claim gentleman.

if u like treat ur wife like al those agbero for lagos treat theres, is ur problem. We go c d outcome on nairaland wen ur wife go old and turn to another thing.

Can women pay Groom price then??

When I said Chimamanda was losing grip of herself, one lazy, retarded nairaland feminist wannabe verbally attacked me. Good news is.. I eventually tamed her.

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

Mtchew! U abeg carry ur poverty mentality to one side.

safarigirl:
The opening of the doors is fine, my own is that why do men think they have exclusive right to the edge of the seat?

When you want to enter a car, they would want to seat by the window and push you inside

when robbers stops the car and lights your cheeks two as they often do.....you with your own hand will turn the edge seat to taboo