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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by henrymorebaba(m): 7:57am On Jun 23, 2018
Bros, your wife is seeing someone else. You are not satisfying her enough. Women like sex, if you don't satisfy them they would get bored.
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Mutemenot(m): 7:57am On Jun 23, 2018
Op, how romantic are you and how much play do you have with her before penetration ? All d while you had sex with her does she cum or u just pour n run to the bathroom? How does she react to your demand previously and, has she ever made a request for sex?
Women like to be wet before u paddle otherwise it 'll be boring n painful to some. N you must also consider her psychological state, I personally don't have erection if I have financial issues or any serious something bothering me .
Another thing is that 3 times every week is fucking much for a family woman n man, sex no be food . Try not to be controlled by your Dickson, all d sex urge to grow for weeks or more days then wen u hammer, u guy would feel like it was in the days of Adam.
God bless Ur Home

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by dealslip(f): 7:58am On Jun 23, 2018
Just give her time. Alot of factor like stress, hormonal imbalance and anxiety probably at work can cause a lack of interest in sex. She would come through. It is like an athlete not in form. Don't expect optimum performance from such. Try and control yourself and allow her rest. She is not a young woman too plus having to take care of the family also takes a toll on women and sex will be the last on the mind. Just keep the communication part, praise her more and compliment without talking about sex. In a month she will bounce back.
Also check your self do you seek her satisfaction too or just do your thing and continue life. Women take longer to cum than men. This means you must deliberately control your climax for her to reach hers then you can release. If you haven't been considering her climax as well then she really has nothing to look forward too and she starts loathing sex and you all together. This can creep into other areas of a relationship. In all just make sure you talk and don't get angry over revelation she might say made her lose interest.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by openmine(m): 7:58am On Jun 23, 2018
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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by twinskenny(m): 8:00am On Jun 23, 2018
shortgun:

He is talking about sex with his wife, not that they want to act a porn movie. sad
Haba kilode
lol na real kilode
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by BlueScholar(m): 8:00am On Jun 23, 2018
NokiaN8:
she is seeing another man.. from experience... watch her steps... maybe her ex called her a d they having a nice time at ur back... or smthing with a neighbor...

True....Or OP has become fat, dress poorly or he is also always available.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by RiyadhGoddess(f): 8:00am On Jun 23, 2018
oxygenlove:
maybe your wife have been eating another set of ,.......





Op please don't mind this person. A won dabi mo se da

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:01am On Jun 23, 2018
The only thing I'm excited about here is that he's still strongly sexually attracted to his wife after 10 years. smiley

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by narorose(f): 8:01am On Jun 23, 2018
I think something else is bothering her cos thrice a week is definitely not too much

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by mimimile93: 8:02am On Jun 23, 2018
ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.


What does his wife really got to offer him apart from sex?

She probably avoid giving that man sex simply because she's giving it else where..

Fear women.
No ho.e would say she doesn't like sex.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by nwaanambra1(m): 8:03am On Jun 23, 2018
NokiaN8:
she is seeing another man.. from experience... watch her steps... maybe her ex called her a d they having a nice time at ur back... or smthing with a neighbor...

you took this right out of my mind!


bros your sense na follow come! original! them never dilute am! cool




and the guy she is fukn now is fuking her like mad - so op ur 3 times a week Bleep is like totori to her now - the other guy is digging her well deeper! cheesy
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by openmine(m): 8:03am On Jun 23, 2018
shortgun:

He is talking about sex with his wife, not that they want to act a porn movie. sad
Haba kilode
She is also referring to what we all call variety.....
Aside sex,there are some certain things we always do almost on a daily basis can be so boring and make you lose interest..... At that stage,you try to seek new ways to do such rather than get stuck in that same way.....

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Speakdatruth: 8:04am On Jun 23, 2018
Tychamps:
Before you use sex kill her, make she run
I know Nairaland users are most 20-24yrs. I won't expect someone like you to understand what the man is going through.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Sall(m): 8:04am On Jun 23, 2018
Something most be wrong with your wife , three times a week is not much all. Mr man take second wife if you can afford it.
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by wink2015(m): 8:04am On Jun 23, 2018
ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

WHY IS THIS PORNOGRAPHY MAKING FRONT PAGE ON NAIRALAND.

Romance page dey there na for this Indecency!
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by wristbangle: 8:05am On Jun 23, 2018
Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

Thank God your sense is coming back. I almost give up on you but for this statement of yours, there is still hope.
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by openmine(m): 8:05am On Jun 23, 2018
shortgun:

He is talking about sex with his wife, not that they want to act a porn movie. sad
Haba kilode
She is also referring to what we all call variety.....
There is nothing wrong with having pre-intimacy sometimes instead of the constant insertion...
Aside sex,there are some certain things we always do almost on a daily basis can be so boring and make you lose interest..... At that stage,you try to seek new ways to do such rather than get stuck in that same way.....

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by yhungbrowhne(m): 8:05am On Jun 23, 2018
wildcatter23:
Ideally, this might not bode well with certain people. Let me get to it. You should give the lady a break and try out the services of these pay as you go on the net. 10years of 3times a week, you are a stud and shouldn't keep drilling that woman.

Then learn to communicate, communicate and communicate with her. Seems something is on her mind.

It's not all the time one is in the mood for sex.
I didn't advise you to get a side chick o. You can get a intimacy gadget o if hitting a lady outside compromises you marital principles. Or you get soap and m*********

But Guy seriously, after 10years of active service, you suppose retire that lady with pension and gratuity
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Nobody: 8:06am On Jun 23, 2018
3× a week is too much. She needs sometime off.
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by lovingyouhun: 8:07am On Jun 23, 2018
oshe11:
Lolz.....

Just 3 times a WEEK?shocked


I was giving my girl twice on a daily basis back then in schoolwink



Maybe you are no longer satisfying her, like after first round you just go flaccid. So to her, sex is more like a chore to satisfy you and something she no longer enjoyscheesy


But ask her sha, na she dey wear the shoes and obviously knows wear it hurts

Commom sense will not kill you shall, love your comment kiss

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by RiyadhGoddess(f): 8:08am On Jun 23, 2018
Op I saw now that some mofos are already insinuating that your wife is already cheating on you that's the reason for her sudden withdrawal from sex. Op please disregard these silly advice. Remember that most of this people giving you advice on nairaland don't even have a home in the first place. Many are not married or they are married but are not happy. Don't let a won da bi mo se da (enemies of joy or good things) put words into your head o. Like I said, sex 3 times a week is much. Once a week is cool and the rest can be pre-intimacy. Find out from her what the problem is please. God will not destroy your home o insha Allah

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by ibori1(m): 8:08am On Jun 23, 2018
watch clueless ,a nollywood movie, ur problem is solve bliv me
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by debedebe(m): 8:10am On Jun 23, 2018
ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.
we both share same feelings, all what you said also is happening to me everyday.
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Speakdatruth: 8:10am On Jun 23, 2018
highqueen:
tell to her to know whats actually wrong somewhere.

you don't just take it as she told you,there might actually be something bothering her or what you have failed to do as a husby.




narorose:
I think something else is bothering her cos thrice a week is definitely not too much

This is like the 10th comment saying "something is bothering her" is something wrong with all of you?

WTH is bothering a woman that has chosen to neglect her marital duties? WTH is wrong with a woman that's about to push her man out of the home? WTH is wrong with a woman that's not using her sense and obviously handling a sensitive situation the wrong way?

That's so weak a reason. You don't pass any message to your husband by denying him sex, that's outrightly unaccepted in marriage and to think everyone of you girls is saying the same thing shows you've not enter the institute or perhaps you've not learnt enough.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Amakababe(f): 8:11am On Jun 23, 2018
Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara
you talk exactly like an experienced prostitute. No offence.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Fourwinds: 8:11am On Jun 23, 2018
Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara
hmmmm.....Ngwanu... it is eeehhh medical ...Idiamaka
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by debedebe(m): 8:12am On Jun 23, 2018
Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara
your advice is correct,both for those who doesn't know how to do mouth action nko?penetration should be reduced i totally agreed with you 100%.
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Quality20(m): 8:12am On Jun 23, 2018
ur wife is probably I n her late 30s or more. Many older women ain't sexy cos of loss of estrogen hormone, reduce ur sex tns to once in a month or marry a younger less educated sexy girl as second wife
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by ZirdoRoray(m): 8:13am On Jun 23, 2018
Just three times a week.. Your sex life is already not exciting and she is not even scared you will get it elsewhere. Mr. Man it seems you're the naturally slow type (no problem with this) but you need to spice things up. You need to continuously show her your adventurous and energetic self by exercising and bringing lots of friends around both male and especially females (pls don't take advantage of this) and she'll start been enthusiastic to keep up with you. If she complains about this new development, just keep your cool, assure her BUT don't give in to her low libido. The way to get a woman to please you is to start showing alot of stamina. I guess you don't have much. If her work or body type keeps her tired, then you need help her keep up with your new pace intelligently. Show her you can get IT! Females are naturally pleasant, caring and nurturing- they are wired that way. Care for her in other ways but she has to see you lead are on with wisdom without giving in to her. Women can't stand it when they are continually been tease by someone they respect, they always give in. More importantly you have be able to satisty her everytime. About 90% of women don't have genuine orgasm like we men do. They may moan and even scream but they are faking it. Believe me, when your woman start having real orgasm, you will know without any doubt and you don't have to ask if she did because it will be so obvious. Get this book, "How to satisfy a woman everytime and have her asking for more" by Laura Hayden.
All of a woman's part are very soft, so banging her hard like popular opinion and porn says is not the right way to please her, even if she thinks so from popular opinion. When you know how to really give it to her, she will be asking for it everyday. Remember the natural fact that women are more emotional and sexual than men. STEP UP YOUR GAME!

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Greenbullet(m): 8:13am On Jun 23, 2018
This man self, don't you know that when women start bearing children, their sexual urge fades , what you need to do now is to get a small good girl that can be servicing you in your free time so that your wife can rest, it's not cheating, your wife has chosen to delegate her duty of satisfying you !

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by des4ella(m): 8:14am On Jun 23, 2018
oshe11:
Lolz.....

Just 3 times a WEEK?shocked


I was giving my girl twice on a daily basis back then in schoolwink



Maybe you are no longer satisfying her, like after first round you just go flaccid. So to her, sex is more like a chore to satisfy you and something she no longer enjoyscheesy


But ask her sha, na she dey wear the shoes and obviously knows wear it hurts
My guy wait till u marry first; because ur twice a day for your girlfriend, will b twice a month for your wife.

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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by nwaanambra1(m): 8:15am On Jun 23, 2018
RiyadhGoddess:
Op I saw now that some mofos are already insinuating that your wife is already cheating on you that's the reason for her sudden withdrawal from sex. Op please disregard these silly advice. Remember that most of this people giving you advice on nairaland don't even have a home in the first place. Many are not married or they are married but are not happy. Don't let a won da bi mo se da (enemies of joy or good things) put words into your head o. Like I said, sex 3 times a week is much. Once a week is cool and the rest can be pre-intimacy. Find out from her what the problem is please. God will not destroy your home o insha Allah

once a week ke!

ok!

your husband go soon marry 3 wives on top ya head! cheesy

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