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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by azelab: 3:01pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Mr . husband sincerely speaking hardly you would see a woman that is not rude among nowadays ladies who turn to woman , mostly of them need to servicing them with day to day word of God if someone wish to reduce their high rate of rudeness, not limited to your woman only but I am giving you a generalise preference. These are ladies you would date for almost 10 years before marriage and hardly you would understand their true behaviour and attitude because nowadays ladies pretend a lot. Now , you don't have solely right to order her to change the document to your names only , someone bought land with her money , do little structuring with her own money and you you expected her to write only your name on the documents , is never and ever done...... I am a man and I surely what a man could do so I would advise you to accept her to put your both names on the documents . and if you want only your name on it , then return all the money she has spent . meanwhile is not good as she abused your parent based on what you said if truly she abused them ...... I have stayed and lived with many and I could tell you that almost possess the same character and attitude. so sure a wife can abuse her husband parents when things are not going smoothly but most of this things is the husband fault because we husband don't usually inculcate the word of God into their lives when we get marry to them but living them the way they were been trained from their parent house... please if your wife is very ready to surrender and obedient kindly accept her back but never instruct her to put only your name on the document but the name of both of you. May God put your house in orderly. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 3:02pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
addictiv:Oh my brother, may God Almighty bless you 1 million times every Sunday, for this post. I felt like dashing you 10,000 likes for your comments. The man has NOT learnt how to manage his wife, tame her tongue or control her excesses. My former boss was a tigress in the office, but by the time she sees her husband, she turns into jelly. Who says a man cannot have the 'mumu button of his wife, in his hand? 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Platony: "" I ws born in Enugu, ogbete to be precise." - . Afonja cone, U can't be born in Ogbete n u couldn't have lived in Ogbete...It's It's never. If u know 042 @ all, Den u will know that u can't be born there . Onye era. Ndi mmaa tigie gu eka 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: What is the username of that your wife again. @Heseesall, you better do the needful and safeguard your life and that of your children. Are you seeing the type of man you married? Kai!!. This man will kill you one day. 6 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by mechanics(m): 3:05pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Forgive and forget, mistakes do happen. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Icecreamy: 3:06pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Dear ExtraExtra, hope you have sorted things out with your wife. That business that yields so much enough to build two houses please help me beg your wife to introduce me to it after you guys must have settled. Thanks 7 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:08pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: stop making excuses, that's how you will make excuses even after they post pics of her dead body. Aeon "he did not mean to crew" 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:10pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
utenwuson: Okay let's say she was abusing his parents which is wrong. What gives him the right to say GET OUT OF MY HOUSE? 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:12pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
utenwuson: Uncle it's not any God's grace. Stop treating a woman like an inferior and you will not hit her. You meet people by the bustop, in banks, your oga at work, hospital workers, police men, SARS officers, fellow drivers that annoy you, insult you, some will hit you, so how many have you beaten. Stop making excuses for your bad behaviour. 9 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:15pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
oloyede252: Uncle if you're blind then we're not. Use your eyes and count all the comments of men telling him to leave his marriage so the woman can eat the house. If the tables were turned you would call all the women commenting for the woman bitter feminists, but now the guys are the ones commenting and dust has entered your eye and suddenly you cannot read English. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre: Don't mind the idiot husband. A house that he contributed very little to. Women in this part of the world are to be blamed. They have made the rest of us women to look foolish. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:16pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
TheKingIsHere: Because one of them has sense enough to know that family is higher than ego. It's clear that ONE is not the man. 7 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:17pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55: See this bitter single male prostitute, looking for how to wreck another man's home. Aren't you ashamed, talking cho cho cho, yet no single sensible advice. Keep advising people, don't advice yourself, I look forward to your divorce story in nairaland. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:18pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55: Point of correction, Under HER own roof. 6 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:18pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: You're not making sense. Dismissed! 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:20pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: Why don't you marry your ego and give birth to little eg-ren since its more important to you than family. 6 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by CASTOSVILLA(m): 3:21pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx:They're not sharing spoils of war. That was a bad move by both parties. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Bluemalam: 3:23pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
mfm04622: Most sensible advice by miles. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:24pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: His cheating is the cause. If she was the one that was suspected of cheating now, yall would not talk about anything else. Y'all would harp on it - Check yourself madam - Try to close early from work, in fact don't go to work again, your husband is your number one priority - Don't go to work away weekends, stay at home and cook his favorite food and f**k him on top the hot stove etc etc etc etc Now you're trying to deflect, lai lai. He is cheating and he needs to check himself. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:27pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: Uncle that means a lot more women would have killed their husbands all around Nigeria. Not only do the men insult them because they're the ones feeding and clothing the women, they also beat them and cheat on them. In other words, shut da f**k and stop making kindergarten excuses for bad behaviour. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MarieSucre(f): 3:29pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:Uncle stop with your foolish infantile excuses. He himself said it that there were some actions he was taking that made her feel he was cheating on her. I hope you will also give this advice to men who suspect their wives of cheating too. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Platony(m): 4:10pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: See dis Johnbull o. I dey tel u wer dem born me, u dey argue Is it ur born?? We stayed at coal camp....i ws enen named afta d hospital. Ok ok,...use dis n calm ur nerves. BTW, we're nt mates ok. Dnt be disrespectful to ur elders.
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by metro10: 4:12pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Amumaigwe: Please, don’t deceive yourself. Healing and forgiveness does not work in a vacuum. It starts with TRUTH and GENUINE conversation. Real repentance and transparency is void in this man. What is marriage by the way? It’s a covenant built in love, truth and transparency. These are decent attributes this man lacks. If I were this woman, I will think smart and wise, if I still need to be in this marriage. A lot of people are in jail they call marriage just because society expects them tied to it. I am happily married and I won’t treat my wife like that. I live in the states, women are wiser and can’t be used as doormats. As a Christian, my heart bleeds when I see someone, using outdated tradition and customs to devalue another. Jesus never told us to do that. Jesus never took from others for self gain. He always gave. Ladies, please use you number 6. God gave you the topmost part of your bodily system for a reason! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Platony(m): 4:12pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: See dis Johnbull o. I dey tel u wer dem born me, u dey argue Is it ur born?? We stayed at coal camp....i ws even named afta d hospital. Ok ok,...use dis to calm ur nerves. BTW, we're nt mates ok. Dnt be disrespectful to ur elders.
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by ImaIma1(f): 4:22pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
You and your wife could have tried to resolve this issues. Both of you should drop pride, entitlement, who is wrong or right and try to resolve your problems. Apparently both of you are wrong. She, for insulting you and your family and for putting the house in her name...and you, for asking her to leave the house whether it was said in anger or not. What if the house was in your name alone? Your asking her to leave won't be a case of "you didn't mean it". Just try to sort out your problems because you guys obviously still love each other. Every marriage has their issues. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 4:27pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55:financially? Lol. How did you conclude that I need financial help? “Otherwise“ what does that even mean? |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Chamakh93: 4:41pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
i personally belive it was God that exposed that woman when the man said " get out of my house" . so dont blame the man . Assuming the man had not said this , he wouldn't know that he had been betrayed. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TheKingIsHere: 4:49pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre: If she had sense knowing that family is higher than ego, why bring up the cheating allegations in the first place? Didn't she know then that family is higher than ego? 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Rajosh(m): 4:50pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
paulynpen:lying because you will beat me or what |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Rajosh(m): 4:56pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
LaudableXX:https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 this is the link to the story I read. I still can't find where she made mention of those things. she only said he used his money for his parents and gave no details as you said 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 5:04pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Rajosh: Oga, go back and read through her comments on that thread. She said: HEseesall: She also went further to state that: HEseesall: HEseesall: And also said: HEseesall: It is all stated in black & white on her thread. Read it up here: https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home/1 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by eniolorunfe: 5:12pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
@ op, U better go and learn how to give a woman ASSURANCE!!! If you knew how, you wouldn't find yourself in this type of situation. Men that marry "liabilities" know how to do this, how much more you that your wife is an "asset" . This story brings to mind the story of King Solomon and the two women with the baby. The person who has made the least sacrifice always finds it easiest to walk away or destroy what has been built. You know the right thing to do but it seems you still have some people on the sidelines massaging your ego. When all is said and done, na every man for himself last last. A man is a COVERING for his wife and children. If you cannot be this, you have no business being married in the first place. 1 Like |
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