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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Vicyace: 5:30pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: I'm not against him taking care of his parents. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by CanadianEnginee(m): 5:52pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
keepingmum: You haven't bought sense after these years. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by chronique(m): 5:53pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: I had that philosophy before then but sometimes, love makes us bend our rules. It was the first time and I promised myself not to ever allow it repeat itself. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by favouredi: 5:55pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
DKM123: You are so unbaised. God bless you for saying it the way it ought to be. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by chronique(m): 6:00pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
pocohantas: It is not my job to comment on every thread about marital crisis so if you do not see me commenting on the ones that affects women, it means I didn't see it. When I saw the initial thread,I asked the woman not to change the documents of the property to his name for any reason. I didn't even know this was the genesis of the problem. One thing is sure and that's the fact that if I was in his position, I'd never feel comfortable with that woman and would also not live in that house again. And just so you know, I'm an advocate of treating everyone the way you want to be treated. It doesn't matter if one is a male or female. Just treat everyone fairly and justly. People who know me well, know I'm one of the sweetest folks around. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:10pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
chronique:The good thing is that you realised it earlier. While growing up, there was this neighbor whose wife was doing "fine" and she even bought a car but the man's situation was nothing to write home about. Their children tilted towards the woman (she earn the big bucks) while the man was glorified daddy. The greatest mistake OP did was his failure to put in place informal standing rules of the union prior to marriage. He allowed love to take control of his senses and now the result is what we are seeing. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 6:10pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Apparently that’s not true since the man can easily ask her to leave. And he did ask her to leave. So that means his property can’t be hers. But since she owned it, she has never asked him to leave did she? Says a lot The evidence is against you. Many women have been cheated out of property they acquired with their men because they allowed only his name to be on it. Dishonestly is foul. Stop it TonyeBarcanista: 6 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 6:18pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
cococandy:Send me a mail. We can get things done |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 6:20pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
cococandy:The 'otherwise' is not for police consumption |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 6:22pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
[quote author=MarieSucre post=69582036] See this bitter single male prostitute, looking for how to wreck another man's home. Aren't you ashamed, talking cho cho cho, yet no single sensible advice. Keep advising people, don't advice yourself, I look forward to your divorce story in nairaland. [/ Lol. What is the meaning of male prostitute. Haven't heard of dat b4 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 6:22pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
That poster is a male Don’t buy the BS. Nihilstjnr: 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:24pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
cococandy:Coco my sister, If you read his submission, he said he had assumed that the property was registered in their names only to realise years later that he's been scammed. Only a woman that anticipate divorce or death of the man would behave the way OP's wife did. How many more secret is she keeping away from the OP? Meanwhile, she doesn't need to ask him to leave, she acted the way she did because she anticipated her life without him. Thank God he's wise enough to leave the place for her. Meanwhile, men don't usually anticipate life without their family or a good wife. OP angrily asked her to leave because she used toxic words on him, his lineage and his family. I, will do same if a woman that calls herself my wife insult my parents, my family or my lineage. She can return when she is ready to act responsibly. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Scammed out of what? You’re kidding right? I didn’t read past that. You’re obviously biased. Jut ask yourself this. if a man did a business with his woman. They shared the profit and she used her for her family (at this point all of you would be calling for her head already), then expects her name to be out solely on the proceeds from the man’s share after asking him to pack out and it backfired, would you be saying she was scammed? I know it’s really difficult for you guys to put yourselves in other people’s shoes that’s reason why a lot of you support injustice. Otherwise if you’re able to ask yourself “if I’m this other person who would I feel”? , We wouldn't be having conversations like this. TonyeBarcanista: 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 6:35pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55: Yea slide right into my email. Lmao You’re going to help me financially . You need your own comedy act. Very funny. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Aquariann: 6:43pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Evathyst: She bought the land but they built the house together. It was after the house was completed, he moved to complete his family's house with his balance. Y'all can support the woman, but don't twist what both of them said just ti drive home your point. She owns the land, but they both own the building on it . HEseesall: ExtraExtra: While there's plenty of blame to go around, the wife is not exactly trustworthy. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:43pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre:feel being the operative word. did he say he was cheating. who con Jose now. who is being ppl upandan? if she want divorce she ask for it not insult his parents 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:46pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre:my madam why did they marry men that insult them my classmate killed her husband she is in jail now who lose you that is throwing insult since instead of stating your case are the baby brain here,just like the woman foolish women always starting what they can't finish 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Gloriagee(f): 6:48pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Bass123:you are an idiot, |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:50pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre: so I'm your village you jail suspected thieves without proof , yall would not talk about anything else. Y'all would harp on it I am not y'all I don't do speculation and if I do I walk out not go and start fight that I will lose like a fool even if he is cheating how e take concine his parents how is her insulting then help her she was badly brought up why they had to marry her off to whoever showed the slightest interest dem plenty for my estate |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:51pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre:we already doing that cos your lot just not worth it |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:51pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MarieSucre:you don't accuse someone without proof |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:53pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
funmisticqueen:how do you proud to someone that has made their mind up. this is how children are suspected of witchcraft are burnt at the stake |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:54pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
cococandy:Coco, the man contributed his cash to the development of the property. If she was sincere wouldn't she inform him that the land is in her name since it was "her share" that was used to buy it so as to enable the man appreciate the true situation and determine his next step? But NO, she hid it and even used his cash to add to the building. Every sincere spouse know that whatever befalls the parents of either party also affects them. At that point a wise woman will not say "you use your money to treat your father", instead she would say "we used part of THE money to treat Papa". Only a wicked wife would utter the former! If my mother/father in-law has ailments, I will see it as my problem and not just my wife. But Op's wife doesn't care! It is her kind that prays for demise of MILs. She should keep the apartment 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:58pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Anextin: In my household yes that one can't have a divergent view from yours.you can diverge all you want just not under my roof You keep attacking everyone who doesn't applaud the man. you keep attacking whoever doesn't applaud the woman
so you're a mind reader now Oya what am I thinking She started the house, and he just added what he had left from the travel which means 75% funds did come from her, yet she's willingly to compromise, it's too late for that you step on a scorpion you learn the hard way and all she's asking for is how to make her proud man understand and accept joint ownership. Yet you see her as the villain. her tongue and lack of class is the villain she shouldn't have attacked without proof and without being ready for the consequences now who is begging upandan is it your busy if you're so busy why did you reply me shior 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
freshvine:she has been investing in a man who has not given her a reason to trust him 100%. how has that panned out for her, is it not the same man that wanted to throw her out. has her case not become stories that touch because the man is greedy and wants to massage his ego, did she throw him out of the house despite knowing it is in her name |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 7:04pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
addictiv:are you blind or can't read she accused him of adultery without proof and like you started hurling insults when she saw her stupidity but when e happen she begin de run from pillar to post I have seen women who have the worst tongues on the planet, who literally spit fire but you would not believe how gentle and submissive they are when their husbands who are real men are around, just watch how she will be calm from now on cos he is treating her fuckup properly because real men treat their women right. how has he mistreated her is she not the one mistreating him and he is disciplining her which is what REAL MEN DO Its only an insecure fool that would drag properties with his wife and sees her as a competition because he comes from a poor background and she's well off. And after slaving for the family all she gets in return is to be thrown out empty handed while the alofrate runs around town with scores of women, IF she is truly the bread winner then why is she begging the man Unfortunately for him the plan backfired.speed bump still on course who is begging now she will be brought to her knees Shebi she no get good training she will learn outside This is what happens when women get married to little boys who think they can now keep a family after sighting the first strand of pubic hair. But you wouldn't know that would you?what I know is women do not respect bit ch asss niggas like you 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:for that you need to adress the issues and come out with the truth, if you were somewhere, what is your alibi, let her check it out, let her have access to your phone |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by PamaB(m): 7:09pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
For the Woman to exclude the man's name it's evil. That woman can kill him or file for a divorce soonest. Even after everything she said and he affirmed that he used his money to complete the building she couldn't go change it secretly. She has been anticipating a failed Marriage someday. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 7:11pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Evathyst:mikolowiska doesn't tell ppl to get out of house he hasn't seen seen the documents mikolowiska simply trying to let ppl male and female know they shouldn't bite more than they can chew stop poking the bear then crying when it detours you
he dint build o he completed
ppl are different God forbid, if he dies, my siblings who happen to be mostly boys will just easily put me out with the 'You're a woman tag'. you have a terrible family Like the yorubas often say; 'Oko o kin je ti Baba t'omo ko ma la'la'. Meaning a farm yard doesn't belong to both the father and child without a boundary. may you marry a man you will be feeding If not for what he has up his sleeve, what has the name on a document (ordinary paper) got to do with marriage? why did she insult his parents knowing that will set him off now e don happen she's begging upandan Is the woman collecting tent from him? Is she bringing in other man to the house? Abegi! Most Naija Men are narcist!and most women marry them knowing full well what they're getting into why you no go marry pesin wit no ambition you can't eat your cake and have it you want to marry an alpha fvcking submit before he goes silver back on your Dumbasss 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
PamaB: How?? There was no issue until the man told her to leave THEIR house. Who is the evil one? |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
CASTOSVILLA: Yes, a very bad move. Some events in their past has long established massive trust issues. |
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