pacesetting:
women will always run their mouth,

my mother has never run her mouth

whether they own the house or not. Most times, when some of them finish ranting they come back to apologize, just like the lady. It's the duty of a man to have self control both in speech and in action.

Everyman has a breaking point
she reached his
now she will learn to watch what she says

JoannaSedley:
Can you all see. !!!!!!. Who ever pays the piper dictates the tune . Same way husband ran his mouth and got shut up. Nobody has that monopoly. The era of men holding all the aces is long gone. Run your mouth and see an iron hand clamp it for ya.

who is begGin upandan now

Elfmannisback:

They know it hurts when told to leave the house but they will be piling up insults and abuses on u regularly and expect u not to hit them or insult them back. I don't understand these people!

na d fish brain na in de worry dem and d men that didn't bring the hammer down early in the relationship

Ziggylady:



Did any woman tell you she is the one feeding her husband or rather a foolish man exposing himself on how his wife is being "arrogant because she is feeding him? .

why is she too arrogant unless she wants him to expose himself

.na una dey still open una yash because of inferiority complex.

no be complex unless the woman makes it so

funmisticqueen:
for that you need to adress the issues and come out with the truth, if you were somewhere, what is your alibi, let her check it out, let her have access to your phone

how do you do that when she is on warpath and then decides to push your buttons (parent insult). he's human, his patience has limits

funmisticqueen:
for that you need to adress the issues and come out with the truth, if you were somewhere, what is your alibi, let her check it out, let her have access to your phone

how do you do that when she is on warpath and then decides to push your buttons (parent insult). he's human, his patience has limits

even Jesus went apeshit with the money changer inside temple fa

Vicyace:

I'm not against him taking care of his parents.

yeah you're

MIKOLOWISKA:
yeah you're

Did you see the part where I wrote Justified though?

kmcutez:


How?? There was no issue until the man told her to leave THEIR house. Who is the evil one?

the one who kept a secret for years

cococandy:


Yea slide right into my email. Lmao

You’re going to help me financially . You need you own comedy act. Very funny.

Let's let it fly since it's not needed. Take care

oloyede252:

the one who kept a secret for years

Did you read the wife's writeup. It's only a secret if she knew it was wrong in the first place and purposely did not let the husband know. She said she thought the husband knew that the documents were in her name, because she did not see it as an issue having the documents in her name only. Probably she did it to simplify the buying process since the guy was not around. He was out of the country with his sick dad.

Since both of you are reading this, please, let love rule. Wife, try to let him know that you still love him and that you are not selfish. If he chooses to rent a house for you all, go with him and rent out your house. It's still the purpose being fulfilled. You save the money, one day, you might help him from the savings. He might repent of his resolve too and accept to gladly live in your house.
Also, do something about your tongue. Let humility rule in your heart.
For the husband, you need to forget about your ego for now and for the sake of Christ shelve your plan about relocation. Live with your family and save to build a better house. Then you can pack into the new place with them and then she can rent out her own house.
Please, both of you shouldn't allow Satan to tear your home to pieces. Please, please and please!

kmcutez:


Did you read the wife's writeup. It's only a secret if she knew it was wrong in the first place and purposely did not let the husband know. She said she thought the husband knew that the documents were in her name, because she did not see it as an issue having in the documents in her name only. Probably she did it to simplify the buying process since the guy was not around. He was out of the country with his sick dad.

it's not a secret but the husband was not aware of the name on the document. also if thought the husband knew she wouldn't use that as a way to attack the husband back for his statement.

MIKOLOWISKA:
how do you do that when she is on warpath and then decides to push your buttons (parent insult). he's human, his patience has limits

even Jesus went apeshit with the money changer inside temple fa

you just have made up your mind that she wont listen to you, you know her mumu button, press it na. where there is a will, there is a way

MIKOLOWISKA:
how do you do that when she is on warpath and then decides to push your buttons (parent insult). he's human, his patience has limits

even Jesus went apeshit with the money changer inside temple fa

if he had replied calmly instead of in anger she wouldnt have gotten to the point of insulting his parents. they both messed up

oloyede252:

it's not a secret but the husband was not aware of the name on the document. also if thought the husband knew she wouldn't use that as a way to attack the husband back for his statement.

She was surprised the husband made that statement and let him know the property was in her name. She said she had to remind him what they agreed upon then.

Where did she attack him?

funmisticqueen:
if he had replied calmly instead of in anger she wouldnt have gotten to the point of insulting his parents. they both messed up

my sister
many women can nag for Jesus
and most insecure types can jump to conclusion like Chioma ajunwa

I had a girl like that

I immediately knew it can never worky between us

me wen no get tolerate nonsense talk

if I will marry second wife I will tell you
if I will mess around I will tell you
and I will not talk if you do since I am guilty
but stupid accusations I won't take from my father or Nigerian army
is it now one spoilt brat I will now take it from
ah no o
my bodi no fit take am

funmisticqueen:
you just have made up your mind that she wont listen to you, you know her mumu button, press it na. where there is a will, there is a way

see my madam
I like most men do not have sharp mouth
we respond with our fists or back of hand
or nuclear option of leaving which the man has employed cos that's all he has left after being betrayed

all she had to do was get proof with investigator then decide whether to leave or stay

not try to anger him without a plan

it's like civilian fingering police man and pretending not to know why he's in hospital all after

MIKOLOWISKA:
my sister
many women can nag for Jesus
and most insecure types can jump to conclusion like Chioma ajunwa

I had a girl like that

I immediately knew it can never worky between us

me wen no get tolerate nonsense talk

if I will marry second wife I will tell you
if I will mess around I will tell you
and I will not talk if you do since I am guilty
but stupid accusations I won't take from my father or Nigerian army
is it now one spoilt brat I will now take it from
ah no o
my bodi no fit take am

spoilt brat that brought business idea and they both benefited from it, spoilt brat that never rubbed it in his face that she came from a better background, spoilt brat that still tried to conpromise when she knew she was wrong. if that is your definition of a spoilt brat, then you are not ready for marriage, if you can tolerate a bad boss that doesnt pay you regularly and shouts at you, why cant you tolerate a nagging woman,

if women were in your shoes, intolerant to 'spoilt brats' then they would be going to prison for killing men like you. Food for thought

MIKOLOWISKA:
see my madam
I like most men do not have sharp mouth
we respond with our fists or back of hand
or nuclear option of leaving which the man has employed cos that's all he has left after being betrayed

all she had to do was get proof with investigator then decide whether to leave or stay

not try to anger him without a plan

it's like civilian fingering police man and pretending not to know why he's in hospital all after

we do not know the little details of the argument to make that inference. she confronted him to find out the truth to her suspicions, the ball was in his court.
how many people can afford an investigator?

Vicyace:
After reading the husband's part of the story, I could sense pride, dishonesty and no transparency on the part o f both parties.

Mr husband, no one should take sides. You are both wrong and the problem didn't start recently.


]It started the day you used your part of the money to cater for your parents(justified though) but not carefully thrashing it out with her. She must have felt ambushed and arm twisted by your decision which you likely carried out MANLY of course.





For her to be suspicious of your dealings means something was actually wrong and all you had to do was give her some reassurance. You telling her to pack out just sent shit right to the ceiling.




Bros. You need to rebuild that home. Would you like to have your children grow up in a broken home and exhibit a worse display of character when they are grown ups?

Her family will never support her.( no sane parents would) they want their daughter to remain married so they will oonly castigate her and beg you to reason beyond anger.

See this as a collective fault and tackle it as the head of the house.

Carefully sort this out and live your life away from social media.

She's your wife. You guys allowed the dark spot to grow so big because you fuelled with lack of love and c communication.

where did he not communicate with her
every decision he made he had meeting with her
when she took decision it was with suspicion and unilateral

Bros do well by talking to your wife and settling thius matter like adults and partners. Don't make her feel she's inferior to you because she's a lady.

still blaming him

You wanna take kids away from her? You both own them. The moment you do that, you create a bad platform for your kiuds and they will suffer most not your wife.

Think smarter and better bros.
Put anger under your foot where it should be
Throw pride into the sewage. It should be there forever
Rise up and filled your home with sweet smelling love and watch her apologise and behave like the lady you married.

funmisticqueen:
we do not know the little details of the argument to make that inference

a judge or jury will not not make facts up
they can only go with what has been presented to them

. she confronted him to find out the truth to her suspicions, the ball was in his court.

she decided to do so I'm loud and toxic way
never works

how many people can afford an investigator?

she's from rich home
besides all she had to do was put listening device in car or bribe coworker

not rocket science

kmcutez:


She was surprised the husband made that statement and let him know the property was in her name. She said she had to remind him what they agreed upon then.

Where did she attack him?

keyword- let him know because he did not know
furthermore they agreed to build a house but the wife feel it's her name that should be on the document because she contributed more.

This issue has made me understand that in today's world marriage is more like contract that could end anytime so couple should acquire things separately.

MIKOLOWISKA:

a judge or jury will not not make facts up
they can only go with what has been presented to them





she decided to do so I'm loud and toxic way
never works



she's from rich home
besides all she had to do was put listening device in car or bribe coworker

not rocket science

now you are not thinking rationally, i dont want to turn this to an argument cos you seem to be fishing for one. i will act maturely and kindly walk out on this. Goodday

funmisticqueen:
spoilt brat that brought business idea and they both benefited from it, spoilt brat that never rubbed it in his face that she came from a better background

she waited for most painful moment
that's the worst of all kinds of spoilt brat
passive aggressiv
silent killers

, spoilt brat that still tried to conpromise when she knew she was wrong.

back track not same as compromis
you comprise from position of strength not weakness

if that is your definition of a spoilt brat, then you are not ready for marriage, if you can tolerate a bad boss that doesnt pay you regularly and shouts at you, why cant you tolerate a nagging woman,

only a fool works for free
I've never seen my mother nag pm I know unicorns exist
I will never settle for a nagger
even the Bible warms against it
but konji and societal pressure (neither of which get to me) push ppl into unsustainable unions

if women were in your shoes,

women not in our shoes
we built different
but we learn
they do not
feel entitled to misbehave
same way men feel entitled to cheat or beat women who allow them to
I don't tolerate such and pity men who do

intolerant to 'spoilt brats' then they would be going to prison for killing men like you.

how will you kill me when I have nothing to do with you
I can sense spoilt from a mile away

Food for thought

poison my dear not food

funmisticqueen:
now you are not thinking rationally,

see
this is how the woman started using insults
when I start now
you will run to mods

i dont want to turn this to an argument

instead of debating with facts you're going the way of emotion as most women are wont to do

cos you seem to be fishing for one. i will act maturely and kindly walk out on this. Goodday

quit yoursel
good riddance

MIKOLOWISKA:
See this bastard prostitute fool. Please apologise and forget what I just said so as to avoid strife. Nonsense

Wow! Is that all you can say? Dimwit...

Yagazie2016:
Wow! Is that all you can say? Dimwit...

ahnahnn why don't you let it go the way you advised the man Shebi you're matured. bloody hypocrite

egojeny1:

Nonsense and ingredient. Hahahahahaha!!!! This got me soo baaaaaddd!! Don't mind the fool that calls himself a man. He thought he's wise he doesn't know that his wife is 'wiser' and 'wisest'. Damn!!

yet she's begging upandan
where is the wisdom

MIKOLOWISKA:
ahnahnn
why don't you let it go the way you advised the man
Shebi you're matured.
bloody hypocrite

This guy you go sabi nag for real life. Replying and quarreling with every post that you do not agree with. Are you a fish seller?

MIKOLOWISKA:
ahnahnn
why don't you let it go the way you advised the man
Shebi you're matured.
bloody hypocrite

Why should I? We are talking about his wife, who he has vowed to live with through sickness and in health. But you? You are just a nonentity with zero experience in what marriage entails. Plus..... a church rat with low self esteem. Chew on that sucker!

funmisticqueen:
she has been investing in a man who has not given her a reason to trust him 100%. how has that panned out for her, is it not the same man that wanted to throw her out.
has her case not become stories that touch because the man is greedy and wants to massage his ego, did she throw him out of the house despite knowing it is in her name

they've been living in peace and the wife confess he's a good man.

...then they have misunderstading and the wife ABUSE, CURSE AND RIDICULE HIS FAMILY.

He couldn't take it anymore and angrily ask her to leave but wife reminded him of the obvious.

since it's certain he aint the owner of the house, he left to start all over again. which part of the story confuse you.

he ran from abusive woman who never trusted him