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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by pocohantas(f): 8:43pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
chronique: Alright dear, my apologies. I didn't see the wife's own though, followed a link on the first page to view the thread. Sweetest indeed |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by chronique(m): 8:51pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
pocohantas: The taste of the pudding is in the eating. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 8:53pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Yagazie2016:the same way if sees a backstabbing shrew as a nonentity with zero experience in how to coexist with your partner your wife just pretending to treat you like man cos you have money may your marriage be tested then we see if you will not commit suicide then we will know who has esteem you think is by mouth we have been stretched and we didn't break you that are just starting we de wait you fool 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 8:58pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
kmcutez: Nah just commenting on issues that I find intriguing Replying and quarreling with every post that you do not agree with. Are you a fish seller?aspiring fish seller 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:03pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
lighternote:a man without ego is nothing even his wife will not respect him what will happen if the marriage crash will world stop turning a man's ego is the biggest issue ppl get killed cos of ego wars are fought cos ego ignore ego at your own peril hence diplomacy insulting ppl parents that they ignored their own immediate family for is not smart 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:12pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
freshvine:see better woman joor 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Yagazie2016(m): 9:14pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
[quote author=MIKOLOWISKA post=69590335]the same way if sees a backstabbing shrew as a nonentity with zero experience in how to coexist with your partner your wife just pretending to treat you like man cos you have money may your marriage be tested then we see if you will not commit suicide My initial comment did not deserve the kind of response from you. There is no way issues about a house should lead to a marriage breaking up. It's not worth it. I know the OP is pained, and rightfully so. I suggested what will make him stronger in the marriage. Leaders are not necessarily rulers or dictators. If his wife is a good woman as I hope, she will respond positively to reconcillations from him. It will even surprise her. Meanwhile he gets to heal and save his marriage. He also will be able to have peace of mind- this is non existent in a troubled marriage. He can easily make enough money to buy or build houses within a few years and in an honest way. That's what God can do but it normally works when the marriage front is stable. Now let me tell you some things, I have been in a successful marriage for over a decade. I have a joint account with my wife and she is a sole signatory also in my business accounts. My marriage has been tested many times and we came out successfully and stronger each time. It's not good to be dividing funds or to operate different accounts in a marriage- my thoughts. It's not also good to be exchanging bad words online. Apologies for my coarse words. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:17pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
dominique: to provide and protect but clearly she can do it by herself so no need for man To exert your powers as her Lord?yes as a matter of fact it's not her house it's THEIR house African men and their irritating egos deserve to be put in their place every once a while, some deserves to be outrightly dumped like this opwhy she no go marry Arabian man make she know wetin ego mean 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: freshvine is not female. he is a misogynistic man posing as a woman. did you just join nairaland today? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:19pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Amberon11:the woman deserves him for not putting him in check |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:21pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
dominique:yet she is begging upandan now. parents house is real 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:23pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
GrammarCheck:I'm sure you cant pinpoint the matter |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:29pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
maasoap:insulting your parents and treachery are not minor issues that you can take it does not mean others can 4 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:29pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
abike12:who's begging between them now |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 9:30pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga: Probably The thing is funny I wonder how he feels when people call him a woman. Laughing at them behind his keyboard most likely 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:32pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
maasoap:until the day she see better option and dump you |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:47pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
[quote author=Yagazie2016 post=69590837][/quote]whatever floats your boat
only time will tell whether you will learn the hard way or not
whether you pained a good wife or not
if you're a good husband or not
this guy clearly picked the wrong woman and is learning while the woman married for convenience |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:48pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
[quote author=Yagazie2016 post=69590837][/quote] |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by maasoap(m): 9:49pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: If ever you are lucky to marry a good woman, dumping you will be the last thing on your worry lists. I'm a lucky man. Relationship is about forgiving but some spouses always finding it difficult to forgive and forget. When I finally learnt this trick, my life became simple and enjoyable. You wouldn't understand. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:49pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
[quote author=Yagazie2016 post=69590837][/quote]My initial comment did not deserve the kind of response from you. There is no way issues about a house should lead to a marriage breaking up. It's not worth it. I know the OP is pained, and rightfully so. I suggested what will make him stronger in the marriage. Leaders are not necessarily rulers or dictators. If his wife is a good woman as I hope, she will respond positively to reconcillations from him. It will even surprise her. Meanwhile he gets to heal and save his marriage. He also will be able to have peace of mind- this is non existent in a troubled marriage. He can easily make enough money to buy or build houses within a few years and in an honest way. That's what God can do but it normally works when the marriage front is stable. Now let me tell you some things, I have been in a successful marriage for over a decade. I have a joint account with my wife and she is a sole signatory also in my business accounts. My marriage has been tested many times and we came out successfully and stronger each time. It's not good to be dividing funds or to operate different accounts in a marriage- my thoughts. It's not also good to be exchanging bad words online. Apologies for my coarse words. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by maasoap(m): 9:55pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: Where did she insult his parents in his write up because I didn't see that part? Besides, children sometimes insult their own parents too, I've seen it. So, if your spouse insults your parents, you will divorce her? That's not the solution. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Vhikie: 9:57pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
This man is really a good man, but I think the transfer is not a good idea. "You don't run from something because it a challenge", this is your marriage and you can't just walk away from it, you've gotta fix it. Remember Wisdom is profitable to direct. To the woman : I'm not in the position to judge you, I know you are judging yourself already. A good man is hard to find, you have one already. So give it whatever it takes to keep him and save your marriage. We all make mistakes, but the courage is only seen in accepting our mistakes and making genuine effort to correct them. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:01pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Yagazie2016:BROS when you insult a stranger that did not insult you you deserve every kind of response There is no way issues about a house should lead to a marriage breaking up. It's not worth it. anger doesn't care about what is worth it or not why we should avoid it at all costs BROS if he goes back if will not be stronger she will believe she can always beg him that is why he wants to bring her to her knees so she never tries it again cos he tried trusting her and she went for the jugular and missed a guy tried this with a classmate of mine she stabbed him to death never wound what you can't kill it will not give a second chance Leaders are not necessarily rulers or dictators.it's safer to be feared than to be loved pm history shows If his wife is a good woman as I hope, she isn't if not she will not nag him to the edge she will respond positively to reconcillations from him. It will even surprise her. this is not a marriage never was her parents just off loaded her on him to hide the shame dem plenty for no estate He also will be able to have peace of mind-he can never have peace of mind knowing his wife doesn't trust him this is non existent in a troubled marriage.it's not about the house or the money it's about total obedience at this point dude doesn't care about trust again he's going for safety not idealism That's what God can do but it normally works when the marriage front is stable.abeg many successfu happy divorceed men out there I don't know you so I'll take your word for it good for you I have a joint account with my wife and she is a sole signatory also in my business accounts. My marriage has been tested many times and we came out successfully and stronger each time. Hmmm no comment your thoughts not gospel works for you not for everyone
depends on outcome Apologies for my coarse words. accepted [quote] |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:02pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
kmcutez:no time to allow one woman come and cloud my joy |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:02pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Odunharry:Gbam |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:04pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Robynwelo1:she needs the marriage not him that's the right |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:12pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
iomoge2:gold digger spotted 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by DukeNija(m): 10:14pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
folly22: The most reasonable response so far. This right here is the root cause of the problem. How and why they decided to split the profit is beyond me. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:15pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Eketem: it's called a will
Chei den don do you strong tin
abi they were jumping for joy that someone considered the, spoilt rude ugly classless insecure daughter
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:16pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
sisisioge:taming a wild shrew |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:16pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
bukatyne:no bad mouth did |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:18pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Eketem: yeah she will from kookiness but it was sweeting her to dish out the crap now she's playing victim now that she's seen her stupidity |
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