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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by sugah: 5:48pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith:Unfortunately you are the one with a narrow mind and either not understanding my post or just being prejudiced. Go back and read my initial post, the first paragraph to be precise. At no point did I condemn his taking care of his father's ailing health, so there's no need for the attempt at a sermon you are preaching. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by skentelelady(f): 5:51pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith: So many definitions depending non the circumstances Inn this case, a real man wouldn't come online to air his own side of the story. He would rather keep quiet and sort his issues A real man wouldn't compete with his wife like he has come here to do A real man would not boost that his name should be on the documents. He would rather be silent and calm which could even make the woman change her mind A real man would not come online to brag about his wife begging up and down because she has no choice but to be with him A real man would not even stoop so low ton reply all posts written against him This fake and egoistic, inferior, low life, money miss road man has lost his re respect if i were his woman Woman like I said, brace up. Don't beg him, ignore him. This will shock him and break that his ego I know his type and silence is their best answer 6 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 5:53pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Ok women shouldn't be humble? please don't take that to your marriage if u are not married we all have to treat each other with respect and love I know 11 year old who told her mom nobody care about your money The 11 year old dad have lot of asset too more than the mom The mom was talking about money |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by skentelelady(f): 5:56pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
BIXYBABE: He might have but not as much as he claimed he spent. U flew with your dad abroad, paid for treatment and all expenses, must have bought things for family nd friends aside medications, came back and finish new building for his parents and finally dropped how much God knows just for show off He's capitalising on the woman's weakness: her love for him. She even said he dropped money to complete where as it was the change from all his 50% I am sure he didn't even drop everything. He still kept part for himself since he already saw the woman spending hers on the whole project Very selfish! 8 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 5:56pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
sugah:U said marriage is we fully understood that but your other view you error what I have done was to address the area i felt you error |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by sugah: 5:58pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith: Learn to read to understand. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 6:05pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
skentelelady:I am going to tell u what a real man do A real man is a man that love his wife and family Real man work for the betterment of the family A real man speak his mind a real man will not take nonsense from nobody Put family need above all interest meaning his father is part of the family he should let his father die 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by ImaIma1(f): 6:05pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith: I said that because it is mostly men who have issues with pride and ego. I am.all for love and respect. And i do not have a man with an overinflated ego 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 6:06pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
sugah:Please go re-read your comments have u a F up day kid 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 6:07pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Love, women do have ego too |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Gloriagee(f): 6:12pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
My own thoughts exactly.... BIXYBABE: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 6:23pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
sugah: U see the reason why I said you are narrow minded "it's the man's responsibility to make sure his family is a unit." both husband and wife responsibility to have a united front Marriage is a team so it is the team responsibility to get the best out come of life We all have flaws |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith: How many user ids will you open to defend yourself. @Heseesall, honestly, there is no redeemable quality in this your husband. Just count your losses and move on. Just my 2 cents. See what desperation to get married at all cost can cause. 4 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 6:30pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
kmcutez:sorry I only have one id user account the issue here is about real life not about defending the man or woman they need to work out their difference for the good of their marriage Their kids need they we all can learn form this issue above There are no winners in broke marriages |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by ImaIma1(f): 6:52pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith: Not near where a man's ego is. Have you met a proud broke man before? Women still bend and try to shift ground but men are always too rigid because of fear of their ego being bruised 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by DMerciful(m): 6:59pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Check when the two accounts were created... Way back so they couldn't have been the husband. They are just passionate about the issue. Isn't this issue intresting for real? GoodFaith: 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GoodFaith: 7:24pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Yes but I am bless men and men What about women and women ways 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Gloriagee(f): 7:48pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Please be specific on if it was the client or co worker or both u hugged? That must have been some hug? Or maybe, just maybe it was your friend with benefit? MIKOLOWISKA: 2 Likes
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by skentelelady(f): 9:19pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Gloriagee: E don tay wey bros the cheat Extra extra, u see your life. So your wife is right u are a serial cheater 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by PamaB(m): 9:34pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
skentelelady:Go and get your real man. You sound like a potential divorcee. See the kind of advice you're dishing out. I know your type, I can bet you have ended several relationships. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by sevule(m): 9:38pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
ExtraExtra: @ExtraExtra Brother let us not beat about the bush, you are CLEARLY in the wrong here! You admitted that you used your share of the proceeds to treat your father and your wife used hers to buy the property and you helped her finish it off. Please be honest - who owns the property? It clearly belongs to your wife. The fact that you helped her finish the property does NOT make the property your own! And for goodness sake how can you be so SELFISH and demand that she signs off the property to you and to only you? What kind of a man are you? You are just being a bully who is using his wife's love for him to control her. My brother please do not insult our intelligence and say that you were joking when you told her to pack out of the house. No married man jokes about a thing like that especially when he is angry as you obviously were. How will you feel if your wife told you she slept with your best friend and later said she was joking? Your wife obviously knows you very well and that is why she put the house in her name. Obviously if the house was not in her name, right now she would have been out on the streets after being kicked out by you! What I see here is a case of ego. You were shocked that your wife outplayed you hence you decided to separate from her over a non issue. Your wife was very wrong to insult your family and you were wrong to ask her to pack out of the house. Do not let your pride be your undoing. Be the man in the relationship and reconcile with your wife. You and your wife definitely have a lot of issues to work out and I recommend you see a counselor or pastor. This story should be a lesson to women out there. Shine your eyes! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by DMerciful(m): 10:32pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Can't you see that you comment will only make things worse. Do you think they are bf and gf? For goodness sake the man is the head of the home and should be accorded respect. The woman should not have put the house under her name alone irrespective of whether she built the house alone or not. Who was the one that was married with a bride price? A lot of men becoming sisi! Among all the male species, why is man becoming the weakest? No wonder the life expectancy of men is much lower than women cos men are refusing to take charge of their domain. Very annoying sisi everywhere sevule: 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by skentelelady(f): 10:54pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
PamaB: Haaaaa a divorceeee indeed. See level of reasoning looolll. I am not on the same level with you so I will walk away now 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 12:03am On Jul 24, 2018 |
GoodFaith:That 11 year old lacks good manners, and has been badly trained. How can you speak to your own mother like that? If his dad falls ill tomorrow, or looses his wealth, and the mother turns into the breadwinner of the family, what would the child say? Someone has been filling that child's ears with rubbish talk, and he deserves to be punished. When elders are talking, 11 year olds are not allowed to put their mouths in it. Nansense! 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 12:06am On Jul 24, 2018 |
DMerciful:What on earth are you saying? The woman has offered to put their joint names on the property, but the man refused saying ONLY his own name must be on the property. That is so unfair, considering the value of her own contribution. Well he has left the house. If he makes the mistake of divorcing her over this issue, he will marry a she-devil who would not only be a leech on him, but would make his life miserable. Karma is real. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:15am On Jul 24, 2018 |
sassysure:you can't even shine my clowns shoes 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:19am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Chikicaka:you are stale like the cow |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:20am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Chikicaka:you are stale like the cow |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:24am On Jul 24, 2018 |
skentelelady: I don't hug women go and ask the guy or his wife what she saw Notice she frames story to suit her signs of woman spoiling for fight She could see signs already. If u had clear conscience, u would not say get out of my house.He even tried If it's me I will chase d idiot from the first accusation I don't tolerae insecurity if you no wan do again, leave not by force to be married to shrew or cheater You father father must father must have said that to your mother severally for you to this that's the best way to calm a woman down or I will get another wifemy mother doesn't run her mouth |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:26am On Jul 24, 2018 |
skentelelady:Maga must pay That's y you are pained that she robbed u of your ego by using only her name.Who ego epp when moni is involved
Shame is a USELESS emotion Who shame epp yeah she does cos no other man will put up with her stupidity like you |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:31am On Jul 24, 2018 |
skentelelady:Before nko Why marry low esteem if you can't remind her everytime Where the fun in that
She's not worth me People are not perfect but she has her good sides too.So that means she should use her bad side to cover it commit murder before you die see if you go make heaven, mumu Why did u decide to marry her Inn the first place when she was been rejected by other guys?Ask the husband, slowpoke I resemble d mumu What did u see in her or she was pampering you with money since her parents are rich? You better answer d husband Cos you sound very unintelligent if you like peach 50th century women will never measure up to men 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:42am On Jul 24, 2018 |
skentelelady: I read Slowly Unlike someone here who is on her period
Why . Like someone said earlier, you have issue with inferiority complex maybe because of your poor background. Is it your inferiority or poverty
Prick and surname And covering of shame (description of inferiority complex by the way) Maybe she's not beautiful or didn't have suitor to marry her on time. You are such a greedy man.Greed is good Your parents are very selfish too to be against your wifeInsult your husband parents and see who will support you dumdum
He'r mistake was running her mouth like you're doing You brought change after flying with your father abroad, built built your parents house and drop like 5% change to complete the woman's house so in the future you would tell the world you contributed How e take concine you aproko how you take know say na 5% I suspect. You're the wife. Retarded woman Who shame epp you think it's every man that will allow you fools to railroad him Tunda faya una . I can't stand a nagging woman which one of their traits but a nagging man is not fit to be bea head of a familyIdiots can dish it yet can't take it No one stop you from heading your family Make una brain reset. Mumu
Never start what you can't finish . Woman if you are reading this please brace yourself up and don't allow this man to have his name on that documents for any reason She should keep the document and marry it My guy don free am for her now that's a man
Onus of proof is on the accuser go call pesin thief without proof see wetin go be your portion stupid woman
He will build I will build or go rent an apartment,He has rented move in witg yyour our family but u can't do this because u have just been out shined by your wife A woman that outshine her husband not a wife without ego A man is nothing Nobody Can't expect a woman to understand 2 Likes |
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