Op you are just too funny.

I can't stop laughing here.
You are just like most men out there, who do not want to spend a dime when dating, thinking your woman will never request a kobo from you even during marriage. You thank your stars, you've met such incredible woman who can hold her own and not bother u for feeding money and will even feed u on top. Lol

Men, will never cease to amaze me, lol.
Women who are desperate to marry will not request a kobo from u during dating, some will even spend on u sef, but marry her and see another colour of her u never imagined existed. As the saying goes, there are so many ways in catching a rat. Lol . Nija oooo
Just man up! Double your hustle! And take care of your home. I bet u won't mention she's the one paying rent o. Ordinary feeding for both of u and possibly visitors u are whining. Hahahahahahahahaaha.

O ga o!

Okay

Wilfredpat22:
Sir I will advice you as my own brother. Be strict sir and drop what you can afford and also cultivate the habit of saving

Any of her visitor coming, try to walk out of the house early enough to avoid being asked for money to entertain. Use your head sir

YOU ARE A MAN

My advice too

yettymuse:
OK, whilst you were dating her you weren't spending on her because............ She's miss independent huh Men like you make independent women carry calculator about... You married a woman because you want to be sharing bills? Really??

Ovoko!!!!!!!!!

Nothing wey person no go hear for this nairaland. You're depressed because you're performing your marital duties, top of which is taking the financial responsibilities of your home?
You've not even started, no kids yet and you're whining like this?

You married her because of her money.. You never chi chom chin!

Are you kidding me?
I weak abeg!...

ozuor

Just talk to her and work it out.

Who force you? Tell that to the gods. Rubbish

You are not making sense. Both of you are childish �

Op firstly it was a grave mistake to think ur spouse money is for the two of u. If u didn't know before, now u must know, once u are married, if ur wife has N5million with her and u have N5,000, please never ever assume that the total money in that household is N5million plus N5,000. The total money is that which belongs to u N5,000.
The believe of the majority of typical African women is that their own money is for them alone while ur own money is for the two of u cos it's believed that the financial responsibility of the household rest on the man and theirs is just to support when they feel the need.
So Mr Op up ur game, the person u date is completely different when u marry such person. Marriage is a black market institution, u will never know what u are getting urself into until u sign ur life away for better for worse...

Timi Dakolo advised us yesterday na.
U don't have money u go dey marry.
Warris wrong witchu?
Get a life b4 u get a wife!

adedayoa2:
the fact remains he got married to the lady because she's working, guys like am plenty for Abuja here, whenever they ask me 'are you working', I tell them I'm a student and I stay with my aunt and that's the end o, they start avoiding you.

Abuja men are the worse

Another fake story for front page.

biko accept my *sinparty*. She yaff deceived you and used the woman logic on you. She needed to get married so she lure you into it by presenting herself as never demanding woman. Y ou yaff enter one chance. Anyway, she's not a bad woman that's how they all are. You just have to try harder bro. It's too early to run away from her. Just try and tell her the truth about your brokeness. Maybe if she believe you, she might start entertaining visitors from her own pocket. You'd be surprised that visitors will even stop coming. Anyway, that's a challenge, accept it and be a man. Hardwork doesn't kill, poverty does. By the way ayam still searching for someone to challenge me too biko.

My broda, she s wiser and you are mumu. continue living ur mumu lifestyle. I pray God will help you.

Money, Money, Money... it’s a god to so many these days. Story is obviously one sided. The problem is obviously you didn’t not delegate fianancial responsibilities. This is very important as you are on the same level. Delegate this, if she is ready and stick to it. I think the pressure will reduce some way.

Before any man should go to the river,he should ask the older fishermen which river to fish,how to cast the net,the type of net to use,type of boat and when to cast the net...so,you wont catch mami water....my guy run for ur life,na mami water b dat.

Its beta to be single and hoping for a good woman




Than to be married and be wishing you were single.




Well, bukata Neva even show u dey do like dis



Nawa to u o!

Dis story is not complete. The wife too shuld be heard

Reading...

Honestly couldnt grasp why u are hyperventing over these small issues......



Bro! Talk to YOUR WIFE....


You don't even have any issue, the Only issue your have is self imposed grudges......




Talk to YOUR WIFE, COMMUNICATE!!!

You should talk to her

Was getting tired of the avalanche of political threads

They say the first 2 years of marriage are usually the most difficult so hang in there, just as much as possible try to communicate with your wife and find common ground.

Wilfredpat22:
Sir I will advice you as my own brother. Be strict sir and drop what you can afford and also cultivate the habit of saving

Any of her visitor coming, try to walk out of the house early enough to avoid being asked for money to entertain. Use your head sir

YOU ARE A MAN

I don't expect that from you ma'am

HRHQueenPhil:
u married ur age mate? all the best sir

shuu e bad People wey come marry who senior them nko??

Wilfredpat22:
Sir I will advice you as my own brother. Be strict sir and drop what you can afford and also cultivate the habit of saving

Any of her visitor coming, try to walk out of the house early enough to avoid being asked for money to entertain. Use your head sir

YOU ARE A MAN

Sharp gal

Wilfredpat22:
Sir I will advice you as my own brother. Be strict sir and drop what you can afford and also cultivate the habit of saving

Any of her visitor coming, try to walk out of the house early enough to avoid being asked for money to entertain. Use your head sir

YOU ARE A MAN

you just hid the nail. I salute you for saying this

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Thank me later.

Wife needs to be thought how to manage abi?He is only buying minerals now,and he has started complaining bitterly.Watin wan happen when he reach time when him go spend money for naming and start to buy Pampers?He is just selfish and greedy that's all I see.

HRHQueenPhil:
u married ur age mate? all the best sir

My guy same age is not the reason the woman is misbehaving oo. So don't ever think you can escape such because you are older than your woman. If you are twenty years older than a woman that is not virtuous you will still experience such or even worse and there are women older than their husbands that are respectful and peaceful.

Marriage is a Night Market, you don't know what you bought until you get home and check in daylight.

My own dey my body

God will see u through

I'm so speechless

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LOL.

You got sucked into the "Miss Independent" scam.

The only good news is that you are only beginning to get frustrated. E never hook you finish. By the time you get frustrated, you may not have money for data to come online to vent.

Good luck!

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