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Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by iceybux(m): 10:49pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
LUGBE: whaz this poo sayin... is it u cant wad or what?.. u just have head no brains.. such a stupidity 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by ajayiopy: 10:50pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Tehila07: I had similar experience when i newly married and cried out to God to bless me such that i will not ask for anything from my wife. You can't separate women from money .what assurance do you have that if you divorce her that you will get a woman with better character . Marriage is black market and nothing you can do about it. Forgive her and move one because your happiness matter. Always remember that if you die today she will leave her life,infact if she is your next of kin,you know the rest. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Treasuredlove: I love this comment. I thanked the person you quoted, too. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Ogaonos: 10:58pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Eketem:u rite d problem wit marriage in Nigeria is DT it over hyped. Marriage is jux like going 2 uni nd told so many propangada nd den wen finish u realise dt degree no get power nd DT na hard wrk moni dey nd u b like hw wish i knw i 4 plan well.in our society we think DT a man go sabi marriage wen such man train himself 2wards it but d truth is not d case.d ideology of go sch no talk 2 girls o finish sch go get job marry na nonsense nd dey affect sum of our guys.because as a guy eh na 4rm secondary u dey train ursef 2 b a man.as u make female friends dey ask questns 2 knw learn nd wise up even me na my elder bro educate about ladies involve marriage because of he exposure he get 4rm teenage about ladies. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by FaceThem: 11:04pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:You Are a F.O.O.L For Saying Trash 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Respect55(m): 11:06pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
LUGBE:Like ur father 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Ogaonos: 11:07pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
eeewise:na small pikin dey worry DT lady.e Neva c any thin.try such 4 marriage d man go endure 4 a while but wen e done reach am 4 neck e family go hear d issue.d true is there no mature single lady anymore.DT y i don't fancy marriage.DT y b4 u propose 2 a lady check nd recheck her mata wit ur pastors.ladies pretend a lot esp d graduate ones |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Respect55(m): 11:07pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:Where is it stated that a man must carry the financial responsibilities of a home |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by AmericanSons: 11:08pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
HRHQueenPhil:what is wrong about that? |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Abagworo(m): 11:09pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
My dear you have no issues at all. It seems your marriage is new and you still dey learning stage. So many married men wish this your problem is all they have to contend with but unfortunately every one has bigger and more complex issue. Relax at home and be a good husband. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
generationz: I'm trying to see how op sounds like me, but I can't. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Ugosample(m): 11:13pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
HRHQueenPhil: His predicament has nothing to do with marrying his age mate |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by SlimzDboss(m): 11:20pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
It's in the nature of women to keep their money and rather demand from us. As husbands and head of the family, it's our sole responsibility to work hard and provide for the family not the duty of the wife unless she decides to support. There's nothing to regret about but rather cut off extra unnecessary expenses, keep your home under God's total control and double your hustle. May God bless your marriage. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by banio: 11:20pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Tehila07: Be a man. If it means quarrelling your wife, do it. You have to be a man and control your house. But you MUST provide food oh. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by condomuser: 11:29pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Where is it written in the constitution that it is his marital duties to pay his wife's bills ? All this una local champions mentality. yettymuse: |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by bossrillboss: 11:36pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
HRHQueenPhil:..nd so?? |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by ableguy(m): 11:37pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
mankettle:She was playing along all the while because she knew age wasn't on her side any longer. Now she is married she had to reveal her true colours, that's why it's not cool to marry such desperados. Besides it tells one to marry when you have more than enough to take care of the family don't mind women and their we will manage talk. They'll definitely change am for you. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by piagetskinner(m): 11:39pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: chai..you nailed It. i don't know why the man is behaving like a sissy.. I like u already for that comment...can I slide into ur DM? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by seadesi1986: 11:39pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
the same thing is happening to me too, this is my story. me and my wife we r also agemate, she is d type dt love to save alot, to d extent dt she doesn't v an atm card, she lost her job in july last yr, 3mnth after our marriage, i was workin wt isonbpo ilorin branch bfo relocating to lagos, same yr, we both jobles, i quickly got a teaching job while waiting for d big wig, by december last yr go a cinema job with one of d leading cinemas, she was stil at home spending my money, something happened last mnth and i lost d job, while she got a new job mid july, the low point nw is, things has nt being easy, coz all my money has being spent on buying things to our home being new couple, the little money nw is fo her transport and feeding, she told me to tell my bro nt to come to our house again pending when we wil pick up again, but i told her dt hw wil he feel, in short i told her to get a job, continue her fashion, she relied on my income, nw we startin over, she nag, alws indifferent, al women are d same, 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Aystarz: 11:55pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
adedayoa2: Did you hear this one? In the 21st Century, ladies like this are still looking for men who will carry all their burdens Marriage is a scam and will only continue to benefit these self-centered, manipulative beings. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by NNAMDIII(m): 12:13am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Gracesofar:Good day sir! I would really like to see you. I stay near 82 division |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 12:21am On Jul 27, 2018 |
xtervaganza:awon mummy e lo n shoriburuku... Alaye baje.. When you have a woman, wait for her to feed you. Bastard son of a gun! Stupid boy! 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Nobody: 12:51am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Oga OP. When they talk about issues faced in marriage...your case is not the worst. This is an issue of selfishness only, that doesn't mean your wife don't love you dearly. Anyone can get angry if you login with their password without informing them.. Pls see a councillor.. To tell you the truth? You yourself needs more adjustment on your own.. Try and get advice from people with more marital experience.. You ll see that your case is just mere misunderstanding.. Its like you are expecting 100% trust at this Level of your marriage..pls be patient and you ll see things turn out well. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by donqx: 12:56am On Jul 27, 2018 |
hmm |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Tundeiab(m): 1:09am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Bros, you both might be 36, but you both are not matured for marriage. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nahzyla: 3:00am On Jul 27, 2018 |
condomuser: Where is it written that only a woman must go to market and cook for the family? Yet you Nigeria men will never share kitchen work or house chores but you want a maga that will give you money. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by generationz(f): 3:03am On Jul 27, 2018 |
CrescentMoon:loooool I know you are in your thirties and earlier this year you seemed to be having a mental breakdown about getting married this year. kikikiki |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by nahzyla: 3:05am On Jul 27, 2018 |
If a woman had started this thread to complain that her husband is saving his money instead of spending on the family all the hypocrites on this thread will come out to insult her and call her lazy and gold digger and ask her why she married the man for money. Then they will praise her husband for having saving habit instead of being wasteful. Now the tables has turned they are still blaming the wife for saving. Op I don't pity you, forget what your fellow men on the thread are saying they will always side the males in any argument so me I have learnt to support my fellow women and toss objectivity in the dustbin. Mr man go and find a better job to help you be a better provider, don't wait for your wife to feed you, its your duty to provide while she takes care of home and kids. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by KevMitnick: 3:27am On Jul 27, 2018 |
If you don't have money please don't get married �to avoid these kinds of stories 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by dankol: 3:40am On Jul 27, 2018 |
emerged01: for me. this is the best advice so far.. many people were just mocking the op directly or indirectly. I can't tell the op what to do. he obviously didn't do much homework before flying into the hot soup of marriage. but I wish to expressly plead with him to shun any idea of making his wife pregnant or having children now.. if by commission or ommision, a child comes into this unresolved issue.. it won't be funny.. pls don't bring a child into this mess. thats my only concern. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by dankol: 3:45am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Silvermoney:good question.. but what happens to a second passive stable income. |
Re: I'm About To Regret Getting Married by Ndubuisipaul1: 4:04am On Jul 27, 2018 |
Any time u need money from her . just give her hot round of sex. The abnormal kind of intercourse . I think this can format her brain for a period just place ur demand on her immediately. 1 Like |
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