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Flickzvill:
Happy Sunday peeps well let me not bore you with the details, I broke up with my ex today because I am tired we started dating few years back while I was still in sch I was in 300lv nd she was in 100lv. At that time we started she stated shes got more of male friends than female I accepted bcz dia was nothing I could do.

Months after she lost her hostel space nd wanted somewhere to stay for the night before going home the next day nd I myself traveled i wasn't in sch nd I can't allow her sleep in my apartment my 2 roommates are guys I told her to go to her friends in the hostel but she declined that she can't stay with her I now asked her where does she have in mind she mentioned a guys name I was a bit angry at first but I asked her why him she said bcz he is like a brother to her I just laughed nd allowed her so she doesn't say I am controlling.

Anytime I asked about this guy she keeps saying his not like dat bla bla black sheep like I am a kid I confronted her that this her friendship with this guy can't continue believe me before they cut ties this said guy had to graduate before i rest you see why it's bad to date small girls? Fast forward this year she's now a big girl we are still dating but I noticed something she started hanging out with some girls they party together flex which is very normal but what pains me the most is going to sleep in a random guys house nd anytime I asked her if she's back she would say I nd my friends couldn't make it home so my friends bf offered to house us, believe me this is not the first time it always happens and anytime I confront her she uses this words "I am not married stop acting like we are and stop controlling me" this gets me worked up bcz I don't understand ladies like this why be in a relationship when you want to live a single ladies life? Few days back she called that she would be attending a wedding with this so called "friends" I just said ok but call me when you get back home she agreed hours later no calls i had to call her around 11.pm she didn't pick till this morning she flashed me nd den I called her she said she slept early that's why she didn't pick my calls i just said ok and asked her if she's home yet she said no I asked her where was she, she said shes in her friends close friends house I was like again? She started ranting what was wrong with that? Really?.

I am very much faithfull bcz I choose to I can as well carry any lady I see and bleep but that not my thing I can as well bring ladies over and party everyday but that not my thing I want to build something strong so my kids will emulate, my parents where very responsible even my dad confirmed it that my mom was very responsible before they got married that why I am very responsible today. I called her not too long ago and told her I am no longer interested in the relationship she bluntly said if that what I want fine and I ended the call.
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the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings. Happy sunday

You ought to have ended the so called crazy relationship a long time ago. She is not ready yet, allow her fly and enjoy life.

Focus on whatever u are doing for a living and be looking around carefully, u will definitely cross path with a Lady of your spec, all the best. Pls never u go back to her at all, she's a multiple cheat, sadly

boiz2men:
It's night already. Is your clock broken?

Yes

boiz2men:
It's night already. Is your clock broken?

Yes

Babyforever:
Stop judging

Na prayer huz she dey go everynight? Birds of a feather!

Babyforever:
Yes

The Lord is your strength. Find a job so you can buy a new one na...

Abi, ain't you tired of being broke

eddyghali:
Na prayer huz she dey go everynight? Birds of a feather!

Stop calling me names

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

only a female will say such a thing...

justscorchone:
Brotherly listen carefully,I have been in your shoes and I thought she was the only girl I could ever love genuinely but right now I have totally moved on,I will advice you to cut all ties with her,remove her from your IG,block her on whatsapp or any chat app,delete her number and do whatever brings you joy,you won't recover over night but when you eventually do,oh boy.you will be asking yourself if you were jazzed,don't stop being the loving,caring and faithful person you are,for surely a better girl will come your way that will make you feel like a king and you will be glad to have a queen to shower with TLC. Godspeed on your recovery.

He doesn't need to block her at all. Let him just erase her from his mind and move on. Whenever she says hi, let him reply hi. Ending a relationship doesn't mean u guys should turn to enemies bro.

Op, move on, don't block her on any platform. Just make sure u don't go back to her for any reason on earth except Jesus Christ comes down in person and appear to u to tell u to accept her back, except that, never u go back to her ever.

BiggerbossAmani:
bae why are you saying this?

Am surprised ooh

. Don't mind her !!!

boiz2men:
The Lord is your strength. Find a job so you can buy a new one na...
Abi, ain't you tired of being broke

Did I tell you that I need a job

Bro na Man U b .��

Babyforever:
Stop calling me names

Stop thinking like the name you assumed i called you

eddyghali:
Stop thinking like the name you assumed i called you

Stop quoting me

Babyforever:
Stop quoting me

Have you changed

eddyghali:
Have you changed

You have NO right over me

Babyforever:
Did I tell you that I need a job

Yes you do. My coy needs cleaning services...

Can you SUCK away fluids?

The sockaway is full

boiz2men:
Yes you do. My coy needs cleaning services...
Can you SUCK away fluids?
The sockaway is full

Bye boy

franchasng:
He doesn't need to block her at all. Let him just erase her from his mind and move on. Whenever she says hi, let him reply hi. Ending a relationship doesn't mean u guys should turn to enemies bro.

Op, move on, don't block her on any platform. Just make sure u don't go back to her for any reason on earth except Jesus Christ comes down in person and appear to u to tell u to accept her back, except that, never u go back to her ever.

Not everyone can handle being mere friends with an ex,so to avoid the circle repeating itself it's best to avoid as best as you can,out of sight out of mine.IMO

Babyforever:
Bye boy

Welcome hag

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Don't take it too serious. I'm messing with you

Babyforever:
You have NO right over me

sisi... just change...thats what the girl OP talked about always say when she want to stray. Between the two of you who is the leader?

eddyghali:
sisi... just change...thats what the girl OP talked about always say when she want to stray. Between the two of you who is the leader?

You are the leader

Babyforever:
You are the leader

Two top professionals in the game of prostitution? haba sisi...i cant fit lead o

justscorchone:
Not everyone can handle being mere friends with an ex,so to avoid the circle repeating itself it's best to avoid as best as you can,out of sight out of mine.IMO

anyway that's true for some people, now I agree with u, so it's left for the op to decide then

Yea! You did the right! You may not know the good thing you have done to yourself. You have no reason to have mixed feelings. You have just shown the sign of a strong man. Had it been you allowed her to take the decision,the pain will be almost unbearable.

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

Are You SAYING THIS? Wait is she your sister?, She sleeps in different boys houses and girls, and she cant listen to her boyfriend for once, you are saying he should go and beg her? Bro....... LISTEN Carefully, you are not married to her, shes not discipline. the moment you do what this one is saying( begging) you become a pussssszzsyy. let a LovePeddler become a LovePeddler. DONT TRY TO SAVE A LovePeddler.

Flickzvill:
Happy Sunday peeps well let me not bore you with the details, I broke up with my ex today because I am tired we started dating few years back while I was still in sch I was in 300lv nd she was in 100lv. At that time we started she stated shes got more of male friends than female I accepted bcz dia was nothing I could do.

Months after she lost her hostel space nd wanted somewhere to stay for the night before going home the next day nd I myself traveled i wasn't in sch nd I can't allow her sleep in my apartment my 2 roommates are guys I told her to go to her friends in the hostel but she declined that she can't stay with her I now asked her where does she have in mind she mentioned a guys name I was a bit angry at first but I asked her why him she said bcz he is like a brother to her I just laughed nd allowed her so she doesn't say I am controlling.

Anytime I asked about this guy she keeps saying his not like dat bla bla black sheep like I am a kid I confronted her that this her friendship with this guy can't continue believe me before they cut ties this said guy had to graduate before i rest you see why it's bad to date small girls? Fast forward this year she's now a big girl we are still dating but I noticed something she started hanging out with some girls they party together flex which is very normal but what pains me the most is going to sleep in a random guys house nd anytime I asked her if she's back she would say I nd my friends couldn't make it home so my friends bf offered to house us, believe me this is not the first time it always happens and anytime I confront her she uses this words "I am not married stop acting like we are and stop controlling me" this gets me worked up bcz I don't understand ladies like this why be in a relationship when you want to live a single ladies life? Few days back she called that she would be attending a wedding with this so called "friends" I just said ok but call me when you get back home she agreed hours later no calls i had to call her around 11.pm she didn't pick till this morning she flashed me nd den I called her she said she slept early that's why she didn't pick my calls i just said ok and asked her if she's home yet she said no I asked her where was she, she said shes in her friends close friends house I was like again? She started ranting what was wrong with that? Really?.

I am very much faithfull bcz I choose to I can as well carry any lady I see and bleep but that not my thing I can as well bring ladies over and party everyday but that not my thing I want to build something strong so my kids will emulate, my parents where very responsible even my dad confirmed it that my mom was very responsible before they got married that why I am very responsible today. I called her not too long ago and told her I am no longer interested in the relationship she bluntly said if that what I want fine and I ended the call.
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the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings. Happy sunday

wen person hear new music e dey sweet well well. This is the case of ur girlfriend bros she go soon come beg wen her eyes don clear........na so dem be.

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

what is this one saying? Abi u nor read e post? If na ur brother what will u advice him to do? Be like u go like support bad tin, cos u are a girl. if the story na opposite now you wud be saying something else( anty shebi u have a guy wud you allow your guy to be sleeping in different chicks house per sey all in the name of dey're friends

eddyghali:
Two top professionals in the game of prostitution? haba sisi...i cant fit lead o

You're a professional BROSTITUTE

Terryindeed:
Are You SAYING THIS? Wait is she your sister?, She sleeps in different boys houses and girls, and she cant listen to her boyfriend for once, you are saying he should go and beg her? Bro....... LISTEN Carefully, you are not married to her, shes not discipline. the moment you do what this one is saying( begging) you become a pussssszzsyy. let a LovePeddler become a LovePeddler. DONT TRY TO SAVE A LovePeddler.

Stop judging he never caught her with anyone

Women matter tire person.
U nor dey call she go complain, u dey call u don turn monitory agent or control freak

op your story reminded me of my first girlfriend, she was immature, just wanted to have fun and all..your ex is at that stage currently and from what you wrote I can tell you need something serious, which you won't get from her ( at least not now) you have done the right thing by breaking up with her and surely you will get your heart desire someday..Please don't be tempted to call her, even if she comes back begging and promises to change, trust me she won't.....except of course you want to Continue wailing

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

beg gini? it obvious u no get sense