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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 30, 2018

Some foolish guys will take this as an avenue to display their foolishness.

Just because she’s independent doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat her like a baby. Spoil her as often as you can and if you’re lucky and she’s more than an angel, she’ll spoil you too.

Relationships are fun when you both chip in financially and at the same time have a great sex life.

You’re dating to make each other happy and NOT to sadden one or the other with burdens. If there happens to be burdens, you both can handle it “together”. Two heads are better than one.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by PUSSYHOE(m): 8:20pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae:
are you trying to crack a joke or what?

Note the major reason the world value ladies is because of vagina,not brain or handwork, vagina define you

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by highqueen(f): 8:21pm On Jul 30, 2018

as long as I'm concerned,nothing like dating a broke imp or being in a relationship that the guy won't know that I change hair or stuff.

it can never happen, rather stay single then.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by dollytino4real(f): 8:39pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae:
are you trying to crack a joke or what?

joke how, men look 4 women with everytin money clothe jeweleries so

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by FRANNN: 8:44pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae:
many of my fellow ladies subscribe to it.
Am talking to the lazy ones.

On point

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jul 30, 2018

I wonder how it would be if women had the same entitlement mentality for D like men has for the P.... Just wondering.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae:
I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies.
It's Oriaku rant series again
The professional table shaker.

Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date.
But not any more.
I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough.
I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina.
Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement.
That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways,

.......

Women we need to wake up!
We need to protect our dignity!
We need to work hard and earn our own money.
Men owes us nothing financially.
If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want
But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped.
Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent.
Ndewo nu.
.
NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored

It took some years before you came to this understanding, but I tell you with all assurance that Feminism will never work in this country. The poverty in Nigeria is too much for Women to just accept that their Life depends on them alone. The issue you are Ranting about is much much bigger than what you even think it is.

Ladies who are working & earning a salary of between 70k to 120k in LAGOS are still doing runs by the side, Meaning they are still having 2 to 3 Boyfriends who render financial help. One will buy her a iPhone, be paying for her subscription & taking her out to the Movies, the other will pay for her Rent (Assuming she lives alone) & the other will Join money with her so she can get the Car she has been saving to get.

You fail to realise that the problem here is not RUNS GIRLS, Runs Women are everywhere in the World.

It's a general women's mentality in Nigeria, Even ladies from the Church speaking in tongues covered with Holy Fire do all this, I'm telling you.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by CrazyPros: 9:53pm On Jul 30, 2018

Na now you dey wake up? We've been drumming this since. How can half of a population depend on another half for survival. They are dragging humanity backwards.

Very soon, the institution of marriage will be heavily questioned.

For woke men out there, read about red pill, mgtow etc.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by babasolution: 10:06pm On Jul 30, 2018

guys in nairaland and young guys these days are stupid,thats why women disrespect men so much these days because men are incapable of providing for their women,thats a big aspect of being a man,providing for your family,nigerian young guys think so weak these days,you pushing women to independence later you guys complain that women are bashing men,how wouldnt they bash men when men can no longer provide for their women

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:38pm On Jul 30, 2018

You again.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by yazzman(m): 11:39pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae:
I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies.
It's Oriaku rant series again
The professional table shaker.

Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date.
But not any more.
I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough.
I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina.
Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement.
That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways,
One of the things feminism taught me is that "A real woman should not be a financial parasite to a man"
A girl needs to wake up and have something doing that will be fetching her some money, am not talking about being a cheap runs girl,
Yeah runs girls are cheap sexy toys used for pleasure by men.
Oriaku says so!
God bless every hardworking lady out there,
Men owes us nothing as women when it comes to finances! Get your lazy azz up.
And it is the same girls with entitlement attitude that will be criticising feminism online because the movement exposes their flaws,
There are many skills a girl can learn, many are smiling to the bank, all thanks to their skills,
Learn one or two today so that you can be financially independent as a woman.
I hate seeing a fellow woman disgracing herself in the name of being a financial liability to men,
We need to break that cycle,
Hell will not break loose if you take him out on a date and cater for the bills,
Relationship is not a poverty alleviation program,
But some girls have turned it into one,
.
Look at the society and see how some girls are messing themselves up due to money gluttony,
Laziness coupled with a sense of entitlement drove some of them into the mess they are into.
A girl that learnt catering and is working hard and making some money from it will not think of stopping so low to be a runz girl.
There are many skills that a fellow girl can pick and learn even if you are a graduate and there is no job.
Dear runs girl, I hope you will read this thread and stop embarrassing women folk.
.
An incident I witnessed this afternoon left me speechless,
A guy was seriously beating one girl who should be in her middle 20s on the road, few people intervened ,but nobody could hold the enranged guy until one military guy came on board,
What's the problem?
The boiling young man brought out a torn unilag bachelor's degree certificate that the girl teared(though not in pieces, just straight tearing that can be joined again by a *cellotape*)because of 10,000,
When the stupid young girl was asked about the issue ,she accepted that she did that because the guy was owing her 10k they agreed on before having sex in his house,
After the sex, he only gave her 2k which enranged her, she managed to see the guy certificate in an envelope and took it, teared it to teach him a lesson,
When the angered guy descendent on her, she ran out for help ,
Can you imagine?
Of course the guy ran after her, caught her and brutalize her.
*you are very silly and stupid *- the angry remark came from my voice towards the silly thing.
You tored his certificate because of 10,000 ,
Why?
Just because you turned yourself into a sexx toy.

I just don't understand.
There are many girls like her who are under the sun working off sweat and maintaining their dignity,
No she doesn't want to suffer,
By the way, she has vagina, so men should spoon feed her forever.
.
Women we need to wake up!
We need to protect our dignity!
We need to work hard and earn our own money.
Men owes us nothing financially.
If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want
But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped.
Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent.
Ndewo nu.
.
NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored

i wished i could talk to you privately

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:44pm On Jul 30, 2018

Thank you jare. Don't mind that Oriaku of a lady. Chip in, I chip in. Of what use are you to me if there's no fluidity? No one says any girl should be a leech, but then, the frugal men will see this as a jam for themselves.

mrAMG:
Some foolish guys will take this as an avenue to display their foolishness.

Just because she’s independent doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat her like a baby. Spoil her as often as you can and if you’re lucky and she’s more than an angel, she’ll spoil you too.

Relationships are fun when you both chip in financially and at the same time have a great sex life.

You’re dating to make each other happy and NOT to sadden one or the other with burdens. If there happens to be burdens, you both can handle it “together”. Two heads are better than one.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae, your heart is in the right place.

Please counsel them.

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Freeman50(m): 11:53pm On Jul 30, 2018

Amarabae:
I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies.
It's Oriaku rant series again
The professional table shaker.

Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date.
But not any more.
I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough.
I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina.
Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement.
That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways,
One of the things feminism taught me is that "A real woman should not be a financial parasite to a man"
A girl needs to wake up and have something doing that will be fetching her some money, am not talking about being a cheap runs girl,
Yeah runs girls are cheap sexy toys used for pleasure by men.
Oriaku says so!
God bless every hardworking lady out there,
Men owes us nothing as women when it comes to finances! Get your lazy azz up.
And it is the same girls with entitlement attitude that will be criticising feminism online because the movement exposes their flaws,
There are many skills a girl can learn, many are smiling to the bank, all thanks to their skills,
Learn one or two today so that you can be financially independent as a woman.
I hate seeing a fellow woman disgracing herself in the name of being a financial liability to men,
We need to break that cycle,
Hell will not break loose if you take him out on a date and cater for the bills,
Relationship is not a poverty alleviation program,
But some girls have turned it into one,
.
Look at the society and see how some girls are messing themselves up due to money gluttony,
Laziness coupled with a sense of entitlement drove some of them into the mess they are into.
A girl that learnt catering and is working hard and making some money from it will not think of stopping so low to be a runz girl.
There are many skills that a fellow girl can pick and learn even if you are a graduate and there is no job.
Dear runs girl, I hope you will read this thread and stop embarrassing women folk.
.
An incident I witnessed this afternoon left me speechless,
A guy was seriously beating one girl who should be in her middle 20s on the road, few people intervened ,but nobody could hold the enranged guy until one military guy came on board,
What's the problem?
The boiling young man brought out a torn unilag bachelor's degree certificate that the girl teared(though not in pieces, just straight tearing that can be joined again by a *cellotape*)because of 10,000,
When the stupid young girl was asked about the issue ,she accepted that she did that because the guy was owing her 10k they agreed on before having sex in his house,
After the sex, he only gave her 2k which enranged her, she managed to see the guy certificate in an envelope and took it, teared it to teach him a lesson,
When the angered guy descendent on her, she ran out for help ,
Can you imagine?
Of course the guy ran after her, caught her and brutalize her.
*you are very silly and stupid *- the angry remark came from my voice towards the silly thing.
You tored his certificate because of 10,000 ,
Why?
Just because you turned yourself into a sexx toy.

I just don't understand.
There are many girls like her who are under the sun working off sweat and maintaining their dignity,
No she doesn't want to suffer,
By the way, she has vagina, so men should spoon feed her forever.
.
Women we need to wake up!
We need to protect our dignity!
We need to work hard and earn our own money.
Men owes us nothing financially.
If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want
But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped.
Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent.
Ndewo nu.
.
NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored

Oh, such a darling, you had spoken well, I appreciate you too. I do like ladies that are up and doing too. But I want to ask ya a question... why is it that "some people" esp. the girls don't learn from other people's bad experiences?

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 3:08am On Jul 31, 2018

UyaiIncomparabl:
Thank you jare. Don't mind that Oriaku of a lady. Chip in, I chip in. Of what use are you to me if there's no fluidity? No one says any girl should be a leech, but then, the frugal men will see this as a jam for themselves.

Chaii!

Tomato jos!

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 3:23am On Jul 31, 2018

Amarabae:
I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies.
It's Oriaku rant series again
The professional table shaker.

Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date.
But not any more.
I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough.
I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina.
Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement.
That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways,
One of the things feminism taught me is that "A real woman should not be a financial parasite to a man"
A girl needs to wake up and have something doing that will be fetching her some money, am not talking about being a cheap runs girl,
Yeah runs girls are cheap sexy toys used for pleasure by men.
Oriaku says so!
God bless every hardworking lady out there,
Men owes us nothing as women when it comes to finances! Get your lazy azz up.
And it is the same girls with entitlement attitude that will be criticising feminism online because the movement exposes their flaws,
There are many skills a girl can learn, many are smiling to the bank, all thanks to their skills,
Learn one or two today so that you can be financially independent as a woman.
I hate seeing a fellow woman disgracing herself in the name of being a financial liability to men,
We need to break that cycle,
Hell will not break loose if you take him out on a date and cater for the bills,
Relationship is not a poverty alleviation program,
But some girls have turned it into one,
.
Look at the society and see how some girls are messing themselves up due to money gluttony,
Laziness coupled with a sense of entitlement drove some of them into the mess they are into.
A girl that learnt catering and is working hard and making some money from it will not think of stopping so low to be a runz girl.
There are many skills that a fellow girl can pick and learn even if you are a graduate and there is no job.
Dear runs girl, I hope you will read this thread and stop embarrassing women folk.
.
An incident I witnessed this afternoon left me speechless,
A guy was seriously beating one girl who should be in her middle 20s on the road, few people intervened ,but nobody could hold the enranged guy until one military guy came on board,
What's the problem?
The boiling young man brought out a torn unilag bachelor's degree certificate that the girl teared(though not in pieces, just straight tearing that can be joined again by a *cellotape*)because of 10,000,
When the stupid young girl was asked about the issue ,she accepted that she did that because the guy was owing her 10k they agreed on before having sex in his house,
After the sex, he only gave her 2k which enranged her, she managed to see the guy certificate in an envelope and took it, teared it to teach him a lesson,
When the angered guy descendent on her, she ran out for help ,
Can you imagine?
Of course the guy ran after her, caught her and brutalize her.
*you are very silly and stupid *- the angry remark came from my voice towards the silly thing.
You tored his certificate because of 10,000 ,
Why?
Just because you turned yourself into a sexx toy.

I just don't understand.
There are many girls like her who are under the sun working off sweat and maintaining their dignity,
No she doesn't want to suffer,
By the way, she has vagina, so men should spoon feed her forever.
.
Women we need to wake up!
We need to protect our dignity!
We need to work hard and earn our own money.
Men owes us nothing financially.
If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want
But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped.
Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent.
Ndewo nu.
.
NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored

I'm surprised u have sense like this. huh

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by DavidEsq(m): 6:28am On Jul 31, 2018

Terrible spellings, due to prevalent interference of the mother tongue, encouraged to distort proper spelling as a result of poor reading habits lipsrsealed

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by CAPSLOCKED: 8:13am On Jul 31, 2018

dollytino4real:
We are help mate u hear preacher. I just want u to know dat we are at the receiving end dat is y God create us to have Toto (under) men prick (untop) it has been like dat fRom B.C.. Abraham gave his servant gift to go and look 4 wife Rebecca 4 Isaac not the reverse

GOD SAVE US FROM THIS INFECTIOUS DUMBNESS. AMEN.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 10:49am On Jul 31, 2018

You've changed a lot since last year

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 31, 2018

Amarabae:
I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies.
It's Oriaku rant series again
The professional table shaker.

Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date.
But not any more.
I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough.
I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina.
Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement.
That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways,
One of the things feminism taught me is that "A real woman should not be a financial parasite to a man"
A girl needs to wake up and have something doing that will be fetching her some money, am not talking about being a cheap runs girl,
Yeah runs girls are cheap sexy toys used for pleasure by men.
Oriaku says so!
God bless every hardworking lady out there,
Men owes us nothing as women when it comes to finances! Get your lazy azz up.
And it is the same girls with entitlement attitude that will be criticising feminism online because the movement exposes their flaws,
There are many skills a girl can learn, many are smiling to the bank, all thanks to their skills,
Learn one or two today so that you can be financially independent as a woman.
I hate seeing a fellow woman disgracing herself in the name of being a financial liability to men,
We need to break that cycle,
Hell will not break loose if you take him out on a date and cater for the bills,
Relationship is not a poverty alleviation program,
But some girls have turned it into one,
.
Look at the society and see how some girls are messing themselves up due to money gluttony,
Laziness coupled with a sense of entitlement drove some of them into the mess they are into.
A girl that learnt catering and is working hard and making some money from it will not think of stopping so low to be a runz girl.
There are many skills that a fellow girl can pick and learn even if you are a graduate and there is no job.
Dear runs girl, I hope you will read this thread and stop embarrassing women folk.
.
An incident I witnessed this afternoon left me speechless,
A guy was seriously beating one girl who should be in her middle 20s on the road, few people intervened ,but nobody could hold the enranged guy until one military guy came on board,
What's the problem?
The boiling young man brought out a torn unilag bachelor's degree certificate that the girl teared(though not in pieces, just straight tearing that can be joined again by a *cellotape*)because of 10,000,
When the stupid young girl was asked about the issue ,she accepted that she did that because the guy was owing her 10k they agreed on before having sex in his house,
After the sex, he only gave her 2k which enranged her, she managed to see the guy certificate in an envelope and took it, teared it to teach him a lesson,
When the angered guy descendent on her, she ran out for help ,
Can you imagine?
Of course the guy ran after her, caught her and brutalize her.
*you are very silly and stupid *- the angry remark came from my voice towards the silly thing.
You tored his certificate because of 10,000 ,
Why?
Just because you turned yourself into a sexx toy.

I just don't understand.
There are many girls like her who are under the sun working off sweat and maintaining their dignity,
No she doesn't want to suffer,
By the way, she has vagina, so men should spoon feed her forever.
.
Women we need to wake up!
We need to protect our dignity!
We need to work hard and earn our own money.
Men owes us nothing financially.
If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want
But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped.
Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent.
Ndewo nu.
.
NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored

Truer words have never been said. They'll be ciritizing feminists on twitter because they depend on men on survival therefore feminists should stop spoiling things for them.

Even on this site, I've read comments from ladies insulting feminists, saying they'll submit to men and all that nonsense.

A lady insulted the hell out of me when I created a thread that women shouldn't submit to men in the name of marriage unless the men wants to reciprocate the submission.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 31, 2018

Chubhie:
I wonder why men oppose feminism. Op is a very good reason every man should encourage and fund the advancement of this noble ideology.

Sometimes I wonder if Nigerian men really understand the meaning of feminism when they insult feminists .

They just hate feminists with passion, just like the great adichie anytime her topic reach the front page Nigerian men will start insulting her for being a feminist rather than read the post.

As far as I'm concerned, feminism is the best thing that ever happened to mankind.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 11:03am On Jul 31, 2018

UyaiIncomparabl:
You again.

You don't like the post? cheesy

Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by Nobody: 11:05am On Jul 31, 2018

babasolution:
guys in nairaland and young guys these days are stupid,thats why women disrespect men so much these days because men are incapable of providing for their women,thats a big aspect of being a man,providing for your family,nigerian young guys think so weak these days,you pushing women to independence later you guys complain that women are bashing men,how wouldnt they bash men when men can no longer provide for their women

The earlier you realize this is 2018 not 1950 ,the better for you.

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by dollytino4real(f): 12:17pm On Jul 31, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:
GOD SAVE US FROM THIS INFECTIOUS DUMBNESS. AMEN.

y giving they pain guys bt recieving dey sweet

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by gees101(m): 12:20pm On Jul 31, 2018

dollytino4real:
We are help mate u hear preacher. I just want u to know dat we are at the receiving end dat is y God create us to have Toto (under) men prick (untop) it has been like dat fRom B.C.. Abraham gave his servant gift to go and look 4 wife Rebecca 4 Isaac not the reverse

a liability has been spotted

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Re: Dear Fellow Ladies, Men Owe Us NOTHING Financially! by gees101(m): 12:23pm On Jul 31, 2018

mrAMG:
Some foolish guys will take this as an avenue to display their foolishness.

Just because she’s independent doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat her like a baby. Spoil her as often as you can and if you’re lucky and she’s more than an angel, she’ll spoil you too.

Relationships are fun when you both chip in financially and at the same time have a great sex life.

You’re dating to make each other happy and NOT to sadden one or the other with burdens. If there happens to be burdens, you both can handle it “together”. Two heads are better than one.

good view but stupid intro

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