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| I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 12:50am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Hello Admin pls move this to the front page and I will be in the comment section reading. Pls I want to take a boldness step and I will not mind where it can lead to. I have to open an account now to post this. My wife is also a guest of nairaland and she will be seeing this post. It happen that I got married to my wife over Nine yrs ago and we only have a Kid. I was working in a big company then before the new management came in and change the policy of the company and I was laid off. I was idle like 3yrs before I got another job. she is working in one of the biggest bank in Nigeria. Like 5yrs ago I noticed she will be smiling whenever she is chatting with one of her male colleague. I ask what are they normally discussing, but she told me that it was their office issue that they are discussing. I know the guy and his family and the guy has came to my house not more than four times. It happen one day that I demanded to give her phone to browse because I was having problem with my phone. she gave me the phone around 10:30pm and I noticed she has has cleared all their chat. This make it look suspicious and I asked her immediately that why did you deleted the chat, but she told me it was a mistake. I think over it for sometime because I trust her then, but on the other hand my mind was telling me to find out more. As an IT expert I connected her phone to my system and do some forensic research on the phone, alas what I discovered was bad. My wife and the guy have been having an affair and chatting and sending their nude to themselves. I called her immediately and demanded to explain the pixture but she denial it and was telling me another story that she snap the pixture and to show me how she was Hot so that we can have sex that night. she said I should show her where I got the nude pixs and before she came back from the office she has wipe all the pixs that I showed her thinking that I cannot recovered it anymore and I asked her why should you do that but was just begging me. I recovered all the pixs back and the chat she believe she has deleted and I have more proof that she has been cheating on me. So I asked her to tell me the truth what is going on with the guy and her but she was just begging me. But I told him I dont want her to do or have anything with the guy again that if I catch her again she will not like what I will do for her, with the hope that she will change. Recently I noticed she stil chatting with the guy again and I rake on her to stop it but she told me that she was just explaining office issue she has when he (the guy) not around because she is the one that relief him on work. This week they are still chatting late in the nite cos I always seen the chat, though she will delete it as soon as they chat finish but I always have the chat and also today they have chat alot to the extend that my wife was crying when she expecting good reply from the guy but the guy fail him and I noticed she has intimate with the guy rather than me her husband. My wife can lie and so Promiscuous. I have called her severally to change but she did not, recently I heard she was talking with one of her online friend from Abuja when the guy told her he will be coming to visit her this coming week, and I expect my wife to tell me but uptill now she has not saying anything on it. This make me not to have much trust in her again because if she tell me something I will still think over it like five times again before I accepted. So my plan now is to call the wife of her colleague and explain everything to the wife and I also planing of arresting her colleague because I still have the proof and dont mind what can come out of this, because I tired and cant continue like this anymore, ever since I have caught her I did not enjoy my home anylonger and I tried to erase it from my memory but not get it wright. Pls save me and save my marriage if possible. Thank you. 55 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 2:10am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Is she still your wife? This one na our wife na. What exactly are you fighting for? 408 Likes 16 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 2:20am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Get a divorce and let sleeping dogs lie. Marriage is not by force, you may you’re ready for it, you may think that’s what you want but clearly the sign says otherwise. Let go and seek happiness elsewhere 201 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by globatop: 2:48am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Though it may sound cruel but it might saves lifes, get a divorce, this could lead to domestic violence of which no one can predict the end. Ur child needs both of u alive, marriage immaterial. She doesn't love u or have respect for ur Marital vows. 121 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by chiommy123(f): 4:00am On Aug 19, 2018 |
for better for worse. report her to her family so it does come as a surprise to them when you make your decision 71 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by mankettle(m): 4:01am On Aug 19, 2018 |
@ Op. 1. keep the evidence. 2. don't tell the wife. 3. Since you have proof that your wife is committing adultery,, a. if you can tolerate her, don't divorce her if not get a divorce. get a lawyer to advise you. 4. if getting a divorce you can sue the colleague as the named party. if you are lucky, the Judge may award damages to you. 5. on no account must you arrest him as the offence he committed is purely civil and not criminal? except you stay up north. 6. do not allow the wife to loose her job as it will affect your finances. 190 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Ishilove: 4:34am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Our wife 20 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 4:55am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Ishilove: Lol. Youuu, after going thru your playlist. I'm very sure you must be 50years & above because ehn, that playlist is for the Ancestors  32 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Uchenaija: 4:56am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Once you start, it's hard to cure immorality, it's like drug.  What do you want: your wife back? Divorce? Ending your wife's or/and her colleagues job? Destroy the lives of two families? Forgiving and managing your wife? Managing life alone with your kid? After careful thought, state exactly want you want, what will truly make you happy then your want would determine your decisions & outcome. No one can make the choice for you in glaring facts. Modified: I remembered your wife was reading this too, so let me send her a message: Stolen waters are sweet, And food eaten in secret is pleasant but the aftermath is as bitter as wormwood. And your disgrace would never be wiped away. 348 Likes 28 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Philipmems(m): 5:31am On Aug 19, 2018 |
I will suggest you make up your mind if you still want her in your life or not and let it be or move on. Embarrassing her and her colleagues will not benefit you or anyone. The deed has already been done, sink or swim is your choice but rise above pettiness. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by oglalasioux(m): 5:38am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Whatever you do she will find someone else to cheat with. Divorce her and stay single. Marriage is not for reasonable human beings. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Boss13: 5:42am On Aug 19, 2018 |
First, I must say you are causing yourself more harm by intruding into your wife’s privacy. At this point, I don’t think you have the right to arrest your wife’s lover. He has committed no crime. Your line of thought would only cause you more damage. Second, your wife is actually not matured. She is seeking romance outside of her matrimonial home. She is putting her marriage and family at risk. That lover of her would dump her if circumstances changes because nobody wants extra financial baggage. Third, call a meeting and bring forth your evidence because after all confrontations, your wife has refused to change. However, if you consider your wife promiscuous, then that’s absolutely a huge problem because it has nothing to do with the guy, but your wife. If the guy leaves the equation, another player may enter. Finally, I cannot advice your to divorce your wife. That’s a sensitive situation. However, like you said that your wife may read this; let me ask her - MADAM WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU? YOU’RE COMPROMISING YOUR SITUATION WITH STUPID GAMES. THE MAN YOU’RE CHEATING WITH ONLY WANT FREE OR CHEAP SEX. PLEASE STOP IT AND ACT MATURED AND BE RESPONSIBLE. 115 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by patani(m): 6:27am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Sometimes I wonder why some men come to nairaland to ask for advice after catching their wives pants down. Can’t you man up for once @OP? Even bible(the holiest of all books ) said you can put your wife away on the ground of infidelity. Hear this, a cheating wife is a killer. My simple advise, don’t bother arresting the other guy, that’s a waste of time. Simply take your son and move on dude. 107 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by weyreypey: 6:30am On Aug 19, 2018 |
If an adulterous spouse doesn't kill himself or herself then such a person will definitely kill the innocent spouse.... Here is your answer. If your wife is more important than your life remain.... I wanted to type more but the immediate post above says it all 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by MrPresident1: 6:30am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Oshe monitoring spirit husband, go and bring your wife let us hear her own side of the story 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by revolt(m): 6:43am On Aug 19, 2018 |
mankettle:best advice here. 14 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Wilfredpat22(f): 6:47am On Aug 19, 2018 |
SIR, that is we women for you. It is so difficult for us to close our legs especially if we have been sleeping with countless men before marriage. Her colleague has been enjoying her with you and you are the weaker man here. I will advice you to take a divorce. If my man cheats, I don’t even want to hear forgiveness, I am exiting from the house (that is if it his house) And sir, it is only the colleague you are aware of, she might have been opening her treasure for the Bank manager, Auditor, Security guard... etc Please take CHARGE AND DONT BE A SISSY 106 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by MetroBaba1(m): 6:51am On Aug 19, 2018 |
mrAMG: Op, I Can't Handle A Cheating Girlfriend, Talk More Of a Cheating Wife 34 Likes
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| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Ishilove: 7:50am On Aug 19, 2018 |
cruchenutii:Haha! I'm just a youth who recognises the quality which is missing in contemporary music. From my childhood to adulthood, I listened to music from different eras and perceived a vast difference. As a child, the way i reacted to Bee Gees, Queen and ABBA was always very different from the way I reacted to Run DMC, MC Hammer and disco music. The former had beauty and soul while the latter sounded like...noise. Quality, my friend.  22 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Ishilove: 7:53am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:Aunty, speak for yourself and stop your satanic generalisation. 62 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Atk1nson(m): 8:08am On Aug 19, 2018 |
@mysaviouralive , I don't think you can arrest a person for sleeping with your wife. Well maybe you can in Nigeria, but when the rule of law finds you, you will be found on the wrong side. However, if vindiction is what you want, then I can give you can do the following: 1. Report the matter to the colleagues wife, if the man will not let your home have peace, he does not deserve peace in his own home 2. Report both of them to their employer. The employer may tell you its a personal affair, but it will definitely reflect in how their career progresses, at least in the short time. 3. Report your wife to her family, hopefully the shame will make her change NB - if you choose the path of vindication, it's akin to pouring water on a flat surface. You cannot be sure of the direction of flow. The alternative is to seek peace with your God and yourself. Tell your wife to decide what she wants in life and if you are not content, let her go on her way. 22 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by oloriooko(m): 8:09am On Aug 19, 2018 |
OP so your plan is to destroy her and the alleged lover and you stand to gain what? I marvel at how many people go extra mile to deliver instant judgment over this matter without hearing from the wife. Marriage issues are the most delicate things to deal with in life. Here the man has narrated his own side of the story then let the wife give her own side of the story. Na person web first call police dey right. Why do we permit every other mistakes but hammer on infidelity as if its the only error one can make in marriage? OP better calm down and think this through, making a rash decision to divorce her may have consequences. Seek better opinions not all this online counsellors. God help you 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by victorian(f): 8:18am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: Behind this moniker lies a man not a woman. No woman will say such senseless thing. Perhaps u are from the pit of hell, sent on earth to destroy homes. What a waste of a human being u are. 25 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 8:26am On Aug 19, 2018 |
Divorce is not even an option because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. You just have to make your marriage work. I hate to hear about cheating causing dissolution in marriages or relationships. By the way your wife could be flirting and not cheating completely... Are you still doing those things you were doing during courtship? 9 years is a long time and trust me you must have begin to adopt the mama and papa style. When was the last time you both went for a dinner, movies, walk, vacation...? Do you even still remember to call your wife sweet names?? Some foot massage after a hectic day?... Raunchy whatsapp message whilst at work?, breakfast in bed.... Little gift, lingeries, etc.. How's is your sex life? Do you communicate your fantasies and cravings? , when was she last time she got an orgasmic gift and said "THANK YOU"! Hunku you're married so no limits, no boundaries... Set everything on fire! Maybe your marriage needs a rejuvenation, we sef dey get bored sometimes.. Reignite 'em romantic spark and set the atmosphere on fire. Instead of snooping, change your mode of dressing, stay trim and fit, wear a clean hair cut and smear some cologne mix n match. If all this doesn't work, pray and watch WAR ROOM, please watch this movie and your marriage would be back to how it was. 63 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by pocohantas(f): 8:30am On Aug 19, 2018 |
yettymuse: Exactly!!! A wise man buildeth his home... OP, please follow this advice. Don't listen to all these alphas that would tell you to divorce your wife. They want you to be an unhappy bachelor like them! 29 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 8:31am On Aug 19, 2018 |
I actually feel really sorry for you. This is why some men ask their wives to be a sit-at-home mom to reduce their interactions with the opposite gender. OP, to solve your problem, hire a private investigator. If you can't find one, come back, I will help you, but at a price  1 Like 3 Shares |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by 9japrof(m): 8:32am On Aug 19, 2018 |
It's always easy to claim the victim when our marriages go south and the other party starts cheating. Everyone has emotional needs, that you have married someone does not mean that the spices and flavours needed to make the relationship sweet should cease. This is very common in marriages in Nigeria, where the man now automatically becomes solely a bread winner, no communication, no fun, no surprises that gives goosebumps, no romance just premeditated boring sex. The female folks now turn fattened bamboos, look haggard and unsexy, smell onions all the time , cannot keep conversations well into the night. When all the above mentioned happen, the next thing is to source for it elsewhere, and that's how cheating starts even for those that want to be faithful in their marriages. No matter what you, who you report to, but the status quo remains, you can't save your marriage. You might want to make us believe your wife is bad and unfaithful, but you do not play your role well. So do some soul searching and find out the real cause of the problem and you two work on resolving it, resolve it as fast as you could but be very careful, cheating wives do murder their husbands sometimes to cover their tracks. Stay blessed 5 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nukilia: 8:33am On Aug 19, 2018 |
The elders know what to do in this kind of situation. You don't need to start shouting up and down like a kid... 4 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Desloaaa(f): 8:35am On Aug 19, 2018 |
yettymuse:Oga make this a sticker. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by chigoziri2403(m): 8:35am On Aug 19, 2018 |
the reason you are still in the marriage is because she provides for you, emotionally you are under her 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by chigoziri2403(m): 8:36am On Aug 19, 2018 |
mysaviouralive:which state and which bank please 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Want To Expose My Wife And Her Colleague In A Bank, They Are Having Affair by Nobody: 8:36am On Aug 19, 2018 |
yettymuse:Please. You women are never satisfied. Trust me, I know. Nothing justifies a married woman flirting with anyone. That just sends very bad signals. Very bad. (when a woman flirts with me, I come to the conclusion that she's sexually attracted to me and I stand a chance for whatever) Stop trying to make it look like its the OP's fault his wife is sending another woman's husband her naked pictures. Watching movies cannot solve this type of problems, madam. 58 Likes 5 Shares |
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