₦airaland Forum

Shugavee:
There is greater peace in being a single woman,, i miss it sometimes

ImaIma1:
Not exactly. I met some especially from a particular tribe but i only see some i know that are married or married to people i know. Hardly able to hold a home together and act the part of a man because they cannot think for themselves.

rock003:
Greater peace in the sense that you had freedom to fvcck any guy you wanted without being monitored?

kunleweb:
There's too much bitterness in the middle class, this is what dissuades me, way too much bitterness.

lexy2014:
d men that trained themselves and that aren't spoilt or egoistic, y aren't u attracting such men? Or is it only egoistic, spoilt&untrained men u are attracting?

DonPikko:
the rich don't even have strength for all this political, relationship tantrums , they are after how to get more money, make more connections, and get more power

ImaIma1:
I don't think i said anything about all guys being mummy's boys. I said we have more mummy's boys. Even Nairaland has them in abundance.

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

DonPikko:
but it's there choice to decide, you don't need to force it down there throat, you're part of the problems we have in the society, you're in a relationship yet you keep preaching singleness, just like the idiots that'll travel out and tell you its better to remain in Nigeria, but they themselves won't come back

Shugavee:
well written,, women of course r now wiser n can’t settle for trash all in the name of marriage.

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile.

An average Nigerian female is a wh0re, a leech, an unfaithful b!tch,

No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals.

Same way no sane man will want to spend the rest of his life with a wh0re.

And a woman who got married to Evans the kidnapper is what? Insane I guess.

So Anni must be insane for getting married to 2Face who is known for his cheating spree

It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

And young Nigerian ladies who dumpd their babies in gutters and pit toilets don't have depraved minds abl?

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave.

The entire world also knows that an average Nigerian female is a wh0re, a leech and has absolutely nothing to offer a man aside her rotten vagina

Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery?

And why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly settles down with a leech and a wh0re?

Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them.

Same way men don't want leeches and prostitues as wivies. Timaya, Wizkid and the rest know this that's why they get children and say no to marriage

Life is too short for that!

dasparrow:
Can you blame your women? In the past, our mothers and grandmothers married and stuck with our broke fathers and grandfathers. But guess what? The minute our fathers and grandfathers finally hit it big and became rich, they dumped the woman of their youth - our mothers and grandmothers who stuck with them in trying times - and went on to marry some twenty-two year old.

African men can never be trusted and I will never advice any female related to me to settle with some broke Nigerian or African nigga. Go and make money first because it takes money to raise a family.

This is why Africans can never seem to get out of poverty. You don't even have sufficient money to take care of yourself yet you are dreaming of bringing a woman and innocent children into your poverty stricken life to suffer with you. Nonsense!

victorian:
Most men are not ready to be responsible, that's why.

And women these days prefer to be single have kids, than settle with just any guy for marriage sakes. Gone are those days, a woman will be suffering and smiling.

More women are not ready to be treated as slaves in a marriage they spend their hard earned money on. The guy more or else doesn't contribute anything other than sex, collects her money and he will still be as controlling as fucvk! Some slaps here and there, feeling he should be able to make her scared of him.
Why would a man instill fear in his wife instead of respect from his wife
So,
Most single ladies don't need such stress biko.

Personally, I can never marry a controlling, abusive, lazy man. I rather remain single and have kids instead.

Saao:
not really cuz most ladies nowadays are runs girls so not good for marriage. The good ones always found husband

omoharry:
I would rather remain single and be happy with my life than marry a necessary idiot that will make my life a living hell..so many people don't even know how to smile anymore ..all in the name of societal pressure to marry. Many have lost their lives becos of what society would say if they leave their abusive marriages and the children are also there to consider too isn't it?...of what use is life if half of your lifetime is spent in constant fear and misery...is that life? I define a good life as that which is lived with good and lovely memories of a life time ..either married or single..it now boils down to the individual what they cannot live without even if it will cost them their happiness.

Before My parent died, i long for marriage so much because i wanted it to happen in their life time since they were getting old..but now nature has taken its cause , Both my parents are dead, so I don't owe society or any body any explanation of why i choose to remain single than to be married to a someone that will make my life a living hell....I choose my peace of mind..and it will never be sacrifice at the alter of societal pressure for marriage... what ever possession I have i will go to my niece and nephews..If i don't have children...So stop shaming single women with marriage..they have a right to be happy and what ever makes them happy people should respect it.

Saff:
Most men of this generation are mentally weak and unable to handle life circumstances. Relying on weed/ alcohol, cigarettes or any kind of drug to function.

Most are lazy and not ambitious looking for easy quick money.

Not responsible, looking for a woman to help them or give them money. I don’t blame them, most were raised by women with the father absent or barely there. They don’t understand what it means to be a MAN.

Most men have poor financial management. Spend all their days on social media, betting, money on random women. It’s pitiful.

Most men never take responsibility for themselves. Always looking for one person/ thing to blame for their misfortune.

Rather be single, have a child and be happy than raise a boy into a man because his father didn’t do that job. I’m sorry.

kunleweb:
Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

Daeylar:


You used just one case to conclude that so many women are single, then came here and acted as if it is facts.

And I wonder why it's bordering you if women are single or not.

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

Olalan:
The economy isn't smiling for lots of mature young men who should have been married, but more worrisome is the desire for a rich guy for by ladies in this age.
Now ladies prefer being side chicks to rich guys than to be married to a young not too rich guy

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

omoharry:
I would rather remain single and be happy with my life than marry a necessary idiot that will make my life a living hell..so many people don't even know how to smile anymore ..all in the name of societal pressure to marry. Many have lost their lives becos of what society would say if they leave their abusive marriages and the children are also there to consider too isn't it?...of what use is life if half of your lifetime is spent in constant fear and misery...is that life? I define a good life as that which is lived with good and lovely memories of a life time ..either married or single..it now boils down to the individual what they cannot live without even if it will cost them their happiness.

Before My parent died, i long for marriage so much because i wanted it to happen in their life time since they were getting old..but now nature has taken its cause , Both my parents are dead, so I don't owe society or any body any explanation of why i choose to remain single than to be married to a someone that will make my life a living hell....I choose my peace of mind..and it will never be sacrifice at the alter of societal pressure for marriage... what ever possession I have i will go to my niece and nephews..If i don't have children...So stop shaming single women with marriage..they have a right to be happy and what ever makes them happy people should respect it.

victorian:
Am not talking of my recent circle of friends.
Am talking of few years down the lane kind of relationships I had. Its not easy forgetting bad experiences.

Now I don't take nonsense o.. Lol
If I smell any body coming to me with negative attitudes, I quickly cut off. I don't waste time at all. My circle of recent friends are happy in their relationships. For me, am OK and docile in my relationship . Past experiences has made me calm, cuz Av seen it all. I simply go with a positive flow. All those butterflies and excitements like a teenager is gone. I will say am more in control of myself and emotions. And my companion is an easy going positive guy. He's the one that has the butterflies lol. His enthusiasm makes me smile and laugh sometimes.

My own butterflies don dry up since, years back. All I have is years of experience to keep a good man around me. I am fine with my relationship, as of today.
Only God knows wat tomorrow holds.

Sophyrocks:
My goodness! Are we twins? A lot of what you just typed was what i had in mind.Awesome! Oh, how i loooooove my peace of mind! I can get rid of anything that denies me that.

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

dasparrow:
Can you blame your women? In the past, our mothers and grandmothers married and stuck with our broke fathers and grandfathers. But guess what? The minute our fathers and grandfathers finally hit it big and became rich, they dumped the woman of their youth - our mothers and grandmothers who stuck with them in trying times - and went on to marry some twenty-two year old.


And what do you have to say about our women who dumped their men for sugar daddies? Men who stood by them, some even sponsored their education and yet the dumped them for a Malaysian based boy.

African men can never be trusted

BREAKING NEWS!!!

African women are the most trusted beings on earth.


and I will never advice any female related to me to settle with some broke Nigerian or African nigga.


And I will never advice even my worst male enemy to settle down with an Afriacan lady especially Nigerian ladies. They are all leeches and wh0res.

Go and make money first because it takes money to raise a family.


Is it a taboo if ladies also make money and stop being leeches?

This is why Africans can never seem to get out of poverty. You don't even have sufficient money to take care of yourself yet you are dreaming of bringing a woman and innocent children into your poverty stricken life to suffer with you. Nonsense!

GreenArrow2:
Happy for you. You see, now that's yet another lady in a healthy relationship. Not what the comments on this thread would have let anyone believe.

dasparrow:
She is not silly. She is right. Only the living have hope for a better tomorrow. Doubt me? Go and ask all the women who lost their lives at the hands of their abusive husbands. They are lying decayed in their graves now. Never to experience life on earth again. It is better to be single, healthy, happy and alive than married and sick or worse yet, dead.

Shugavee:
There is greater peace in being a single woman,, i miss it sometimes

Sophyrocks:
Couldn't agree more. Pitiful! Tueh!