lexy2014:
madam I didn't ask u if u have travelled. I asked u have u dated or had a r/ship with an unemployed guy from d west. D men that kiss feet, did they kiss ur feet? If u havent, then u cant speak aithoritatively. Are u trying 2 tell me there are no men in Nigeria who cook 4 their wives?

Saff:
It’s poor ladies that want men who are providers? What planet are you living on? Or are you just delusional? I’m not here to argue about my financial status as this is only argument that most of you guys can ever counter me with. I know I’m good, never struggled and never will. Thanks for your concern though.

[s]You want women who are financially comfortable but just not more than you...right I get it. A woman who you can still have total control of, still cook, clean and do everything in the house but someone who you can also share the financial bills with. Rightttt, I get it. Someone who can help you do your job financially, but you still want to be regarded as the man of the house, riightttt I get it. Someone who is helping you in every aspect but helping her equally to do domestic chores is non existent in your world. Rightttt I get it. I find it so funny how most of you men are so adamant about women being financially responsible and helping out financiallly in the house but don’t have that same energy when it comes to things that are not financially related. I believe in gender roles. Why? Because I believe when there’s no gender roles the woman will carry the burden. She ends up doing nearly everything, being super woman. I’ve seen it happen too many times. [/s]

cronsberg:
Because believe it or not, numerically there are more women than men to the extend that if all men were to marry a woman each, there will still remain basically millions of women unable to find husband cuz all the men are taken. Plus the facts that men are likely to end up in prison, more men die than women, plus all the gay men etc. Polygamy offers a solution, but we are made to think its backwards and uncivilized. So here we are, with majority of new borns being females. Makes it look like as if we are really heading towards the prophecy that a dozen women will be chasing after one man because of male scarcity. Funny enough, with all that, women are still foaming hard to get and playing games, which interestingly also contributes to more women being single because men simply are refusing to chase after the hard to get women unlike before.

ImaIma1:


Sadly, this is the truth. No one wants to suffer in silence while a man torments them in the house. Who wants to be a slave for a man these days. Life is to be enjoyed. No one has the right ro make life unbearable for someone.

Too many mummy's boys who end up being a nuisance to their wives.

And mothers do not help matters when they spoil their sons. You can imagine a guy whose mum was washing his boxers up until he got married. Infact the guy is just less than a man now.

Hanseel1:



I think you're trying to be sarcastic ,you and Shugavee.

I don't subscribe to women doing house chores by themselves so stop saying those stuffs to me.

Check my created topics, you'll see a topic where I advised women to stop being submissive unless the men will reciprocate that submission.

I don't understand why y'all think all men here are alpha males, misogynists or whatever.

Shugavee:
I said what I said

Shugavee:
u r trying to twist what u just wrote cause this n what u wrote first don’t even follow

Shugavee:
u r trying to twist what u just wrote cause this n what u wrote first don’t even follow

dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

Saff:
It’s poor ladies that want men who are providers? What planet are you living on? Or are you just delusional? I’m not here to argue about my financial status as this is only argument that most of you guys can ever counter me with. I know I’m good, never struggled and never will. Thanks for your concern though.

You want women who are financially comfortable but just not more than you...right I get it. A woman who you can still have total control of, still cook, clean and do everything in the house but someone who you can also share the financial bills with. Rightttt, I get it. Someone who can help you do your job financially, but you still want to be regarded as the man of the house, riightttt I get it. Someone who is helping you in every aspect but helping her equally to do domestic chores is non existent in your world. Rightttt I get it. I find it so funny how most of you men are so adamant about women being financially responsible and helping out financiallly in the house but don’t have that same energy when it comes to things that are not financially related. I believe in gender roles. Why? Because I believe when there’s no gender roles the woman will carry the burden. She ends up doing nearly everything, being super woman. I’ve seen it happen too many times.

victorian:













My dear, the real world in dating and relationships is not palatable.. Trust me on that.

For instance what's happening between miracle the bbn guy and Nina, is what happens everyday to average people out there. Shiit happens. Let's not pretend, relationship is bliss cos it's not.

victorian:











Am telling you and the spoilt egoistical men are not ready to train themselves to be marriageable even when their parents have failed in that respect.
They feel only women should train themselves and be the ideal wives for any man on earth. Forgetting a woman who has trained herself to be an ideal, homely and supportive wife also needs an ideal, well brought man too for a husband . As men are scared of marrying the wrong woman, so women who knows their worth are scared of marrying just any man, for marriage sakes.
No sensible normal human being wants to be in caged unhappy relationship.

Saff:
It’s poor ladies that want men who are providers? What planet are you living on? Or are you just delusional? I’m not here to argue about my financial status as this is only argument that most of you guys can ever counter me with. I know I’m good, never struggled and never will. Thanks for your concern though.

You want women who are financially comfortable but just not more than you...right I get it. A woman who you can still have total control of, still cook, clean and do everything in the house but someone who you can also share the financial bills with. Rightttt, I get it. Someone who can help you do your job financially, but you still want to be regarded as the man of the house, riightttt I get it. Someone who is helping you in every aspect but helping her equally to do domestic chores is non existent in your world. Rightttt I get it. I find it so funny how most of you men are so adamant about women being financially responsible and helping out financiallly in the house but don’t have that same energy when it comes to things that are not financially related. I believe in gender roles. Why? Because I believe when there’s no gender roles the woman will carry the burden. She ends up doing nearly everything, being super woman. I’ve seen it happen too many times.

millionboi2:
lol.......if only thy know how scared we are.

hollah123:
just say the ones in your family n the ones around u.d major reason is financial buoyancy n d girls with unrealistic expectations

dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

victorian:


My dear, the real world in dating and relationships is not palatable.. Trust me on that.

For instance what's happening between miracle the bbn guy and Nina, is what happens everyday to average people out there. Shiit happens. Let's not pretend, relationship is bliss cos it's not.

DonPikko:
financial buoyancy aside, many Nigerian girls don't know what they actually want, they'll be like I want a guy with fresh legs, neat palms , it's very hard to find a Nigerian lady with common sense In this era

MariaLavina:
If you want to keep your sanity, avoid lengthy discussions with that guy.Because with time he deviate, degenerate, and lose comportment.

kunleweb:



Remember to look out for You in the news from next year, out


I am Pained. Permanently ignore me

braine:


Maybe those are the one youve been meeting. Likes attracts likes.

Hanseel1:



I think you're trying to be sarcastic ,you and Shugavee.

I don't subscribe to women doing house chores by themselves so stop saying those stuffs to me.

Check my created topics, you'll see a topic where I advised women to stop being submissive unless the men will reciprocate that submission.

I don't understand why y'all think all men here are alpha males, misogynists or whatever.

ImaIma1:


Not exactly. I met some especially from a particular tribe but i only see some i know that are married or married to people i know. Hardly able to hold a home together and act the part of a man because they cannot think for themselves.

Shugavee:
because I found myself in love!! Lol that’s what u tell urself, they r happy n good.. yeah sometime u want a relationship,,, but when u remember u heartbreak n how deceitful men r, u come back to ur senses,,, n wait for the right man!!! But being single is stress free,, n makes u focus on urself,,, when u r in a relationship u think of ur Partiner than urself most times,, how to please them n make them happy ,, u forget about urself,,

Hanseel1:


You're right. The feeble minded should be scared of having any kind of conversation with me.


Do you know the meaning of degenerate? You're following me about commenting bullshît on my threads and here you are, teenager of little faith afraid of having a conversation with me.

As the immature individual you are, I expect you to reply me with Insults.

I wonder if you have a life outside nairaland.

Saff:
Because that’s what most of you men are. If you want equality or a helper then please let it be in all aspects not just financially. You want a woman who can help you financially in the home, help her equally too. Or stick to your roles in the household and let everybody have peace. I personally do not believe in helpin anybody because like I said the burden will always be on the woman. Women are starting to wake up because we saw how our mothers suffered trying to be the mother and father in the house. While daddy will just drink beer and sit on his ass all day looking for side chicks. We’re not accepting it any longer and we will not fall for your manipulative tricks, brainwashing women to help you financially or she’s a ‘ liability’ . ITS NOT OUR JOB!

kunleweb: