please it is right to give out your number to other guys, because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you cant have friends

valentinos22:

is it that you are jobless or what?do you have relatives?is there no important thing in ur life that u are expecting a call about? are u aware u just sounded like " a small geh with a big god" ? why live a life of switching of phone before u can know peace? is ur boyfriend dumb that he will not notice ur phone is switched of whenever u are with him? if u are bereft of ideas, is ur bf also bereft of the alarm bells in a failing relationship?

just some months back...a street oppposite just opposite my own street..a teenage guy stabbed his girlfriend to death..wat was the reason?..the reason was about trust and loyalty and trying to instill control. A week after dat on another area..a 41 yr old man stabbed his 38 yr old single mom girlfriend over the issue of infidelity when he saw condoms in her bag.it happened in benin.u guys are so damm emotional and little things tick u off at a moment notice leading to disastrous effect. If u feel ur girlfriend flirts with men on d phone or street its always easy to break off dat relationship.d world wont end if u both break up..afterall she's just an ordinary girlfriend. Trying to control who she talks to could lead to violent confrontation which might need to no good.wats hard in calling off d relationship. I don know how many violent girlfriend and boyfriend quarrel i don try settle for my former area dat if my and some of my guys no dey around d guy for murder im babe. I am a man and sometimes if i am very busy i switch off my phone. So does dat make me a gigolo? If u dont trust ur girlfriend then dump her instead of trying to instill control. If u end up for crime fighter tv as a guy who stabbed his girlfriend out of anger cos he was talkin to a guy on fone dat will be ur wahala.mehn life's too short to dey carry woman wahala for head and dey get high blood pressure over it.

valentinos22:

is it that you are jobless or what?do you have relatives?is there no important thing in ur life that u are expecting a call about? are u aware u just sounded like " a small geh with a big god" ? why live a life of switching of phone before u can know peace? is ur boyfriend dumb that he will not notice ur phone is switched of whenever u are with him? if u are bereft of ideas, is ur bf also bereft of the alarm bells in a failing relationship?

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erico2k2:

Thats the idealogy of some girls.Keep it opne

And they keep their legs opened while at it, end up giving a bastard to wrong father, even after marriage they keep options open in case of divorce... Jokers

openmine:
Yeah sorry... thanks for the correction!

You are welcome.

SO I CAN'T HAVE A FRIEND AGAIN BECAUSE I HAVE A BOYFRIEND? YOU NEED PEOPLE AT EVERY POINT IN TIME WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE SO I CAN NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT WILL RESTRICT ME FROM MAKING FRIENDS....IT'S EVEN A BOYFRIEND THAT CAN BREAK UP TOMORROW...YOU NEED THE 'I'M HERE FOR YOU ' FRIEND TO HELP YOU GET OVER IT.....

lefulefu:
just some months back...a street oppposite just opposite my own street..a teenage guy stabbed his girlfriend to death..wat was the reason?..the reason was about trust and loyalty and trying to instill control. A week after dat on another area..a 41 yr old man stabbed his 38 yr old single mom girlfriend over the issue of infidelity when he saw condoms in her bag.it happened in benin.u guys are so damm emotional and little things tick u off at a moment notice leading to disastrous effect. If u feel ur girlfriend flirts with men on d phone or street its always easy to break off dat relationship.d world wont end if u both break up..afterall she's just an ordinary girlfriend. Trying to control who she talks to could lead to violent confrontation which might need to no good.wats hard in calling off d relationship. I don know how many violent girlfriend and boyfriend quarrel i don try settle for my former area dat if my and some of my guys no dey around d guy for murder im babe. I am a man and sometimes if i am very busy i switch off my phone. So does dat make me a gigolo? If u dont trust ur girlfriend then dump her instead of trying to instill control. If u end up for crime fighter tv as a guy who stabbed his girlfriend out of anger cos he was talkin to a guy on fone dat will be ur wahala.mehn life's too short to dey carry woman wahala for head and dey get high blood pressure over it.

Exactly! You just nailed it. Unnecessary drama that can be overlooked. And trust me, most people that are that possessive and jealous are more guilty of the crime.

Cyoung4real:





Your boyfriend is not your husband!

A guy approached you for a relationship, and you tell him, 'I have a boyfriend', boyfriend ke.
Its very wrong to tell a guy, "I have a boyfriend', when a guy asks you out.
Its totally wrong!
A guy met a Lady of 27 years he really admired, he asked her out and she boldly told him, 'no! Using the word "I have a boyfriend!' "
Jesus!
A boyfriend at 27 years?
A boyfriend has no right over any girl, because he is not yet matured to have a woman, that is why he is a boy.
You can only tell someone, " I am engaged or I am married'.
Telling a man that comes your way you have a boyfriend simply means you are still a kid playing around with a boy.
You can't keep a boyfriend for the rest of your life and expect to be married.
A boy must graduate to a youth, then to a man.
A boy is someone that keeps a girl for fun, a fiancé is someone that want to marry her, and man is that person that finally pay her dowry.
Having a boyfriend that sex you doesn't mean you are in a serious relationship or you have a man that will marry you: it simply means, 'I have a boy that I have fun with'
You can have as many boyfriends at a time, but you can only have one fiancé and one husband.
Dont tie down your destiny with a boy.
Don't tie down your destiny because of ignorant.
Having a boyfriend is just like having a normal friend.
Having an intimate boyfriend is like having a sexual partner, that marriage isn't yet involved.
It is not being in a relationship.
Anybody is free to toast you.
Having sex with a boy doesn't mean you guys are committed for each other
You can be in a sexual relationship and thinks or feels you are in a committed relationship.
Committed relationship starts the moment you both had graduated from that childish fantasy, from that childish fallacy and that is when he finally proposed to you and meet your parents.
Stop being ignorant!
Stop living in ignorance.
You can reject your husband because of a boyfriend.
Don't ever be proud just because you have a boy that sleeps with you..
Anybody can be a boy or girlfriend, but not everyone can be a husband or wife.
You have a boyfriend, and so what?������

its a free world.she loves her guy and she's loyal.its not a must that a girl must spread her legs to every man on the street dat says hello to her. The only thing that is wrong is when a guy starts trying to force and control his girlfriend on who she should talk to and who she shouldnt talk to.

MissJoy29:

Exactly! You just nailed it. Unnecessary drama that can be overlooked. And trust me, most people that are that possessive and jealous are more guilty of the crime.

of course. I am seeing some guys here talking about controlling a girlfriend on who she talks to and who she shouldnt talk to? How do u control someone if not using force which can then escalate and lead to crime of passion. To avoid this just break up with d girl.its dat simple. Men who are too controlling tend to be violent. Its better if u feel ur partner talks to too many guys on d phone and u aint comfortable with it have a chat with her.if she no listen then waka.

OP, please create another thread that askes the question the other way round.

Watchout for responses. everything will go opposite.

hahahaha. lolzzzzzz

Opiletool:
Getting worried about a woman is the last thing a guy should do in this life. Too busy thinking about my own career. Don't give a damn what a girl does with her life.

Go ahead and cheat, just make sure I don't find out.

gbam! Gbam!! Gbam!!! Correct ororo oil dey ur head jor. Some guys don turn to monitoring spirit.dey monitor woman upandan. Wen person carry woman matter for head he wont live long. I cant imagine myself stalking a girl and asking her who she has talked to or what is she doing.be focused in whatever u are doing and stop monitoring gehls upandan.some guys no go listen.

Gantasanta:
The truth is the more a lady gives out her number, the higher tendency she knows she is going to be laid by the guys.

We all know that. We just don’t want to put our eggs in one basket

I love your sincerity. I collected a girls number recently. I chatted her and ask her whether she was in a serious relationship she said "kind of". Let us not deceive ourselves, girls do this to be on the safer side.

That was how I told a very beautiful girl sitting by my side in a bus to give me her number she said no. And I boned.. But then I noticed she keep staring at me.. I saw it from the corner of my eye.

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

true talk tho, but why Ur lips dey red like those pussy pics on pornhub hehehe

My girlfriend will give out the number...but you go call tire...when u tire,u go stop.

Or when you call and start the toasting,she will give you the reply u won't want to call again.

To me,I see no big deal in her giving out her number to anybody.she has her own life to live.because we are dating doesn't mean she should be in bondage.

A girl dat will cheat with always cheat,number or no number.

TimeMachine:
Nothing is wrong is giving out her numbers and even her name. What is wrong is you, who is insecure.

If you have what it takes to be confident then you be telling her; 'Dont give me a reason to leave you out in the cold world out there'. And she will get the message.

You know why ? Cos you are complete and need no one to complete you, but to complement you. Make her your fantasy work of art, and design her with the best fabrics and trinkets that naira can buy and carry her up like a trophy and she will padlock her pusssy and hand you the key/

Nice one

No, for me i don't think it's wrong... the both of you are just dating, you are yet to meet her parents. she might just meet the man of her dream. please guys we shouldn't hold down any girl in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend, if you truely love do the necessary thing and not promise and use her after 2 to 3yrs you dump her.

lefulefu:
of course. I am seeing some guys here talking about controlling a girlfriend on who she talks to and who she shouldnt talk to? How do u control someone if not using force which can then escalate and lead to crime of passion. To avoid this just break up with d girl.its dat simple. Men who are too controlling tend to be violent. Its better if u feel ur partner talks to too many guys on d phone and u aint comfortable with it have a chat with her.if she no listen then waka.

You couldn't be more right! Just waka. Life's too short abeg.

lefulefu:
gbam! Gbam!! Gbam!!! Correct ororo oil dey ur head jor. Some guys don turn to monitoring spirit.dey monitor woman upandan. Wen person carry woman matter for head he wont live long. I cant imagine myself stalking a girl and asking her who she has talked to or what is she doing.be focused in whatever u are doing and stop monitoring gehls upandan.some guys no go listen.

The guy that ever monitored/policed me the most turned out to be the one that cheated in unbelievable ways. Lol. I fear monitoring "demons" like mad! I run without looking back.

They know the bad things they are doing so they are policing to make sure you aren't doing same. The height of hypocrisy!!!

even as a wife you can give your number out to guys as long as you don't have any ulterior motive...abi are they not human beings?

SENSE THEY UR HEAD

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

dangoteinlaw:
true talk tho, but why Ur lips dey red like those pussy pics on pornhub hehehe

smiles

Femeto:
People have standards in their relationship.Your stand is right. Some ladys think they can act any how. ''If you don't respect your boy friend now how would you respect him when your married''.

imagine a girl that I have introduced to my parents, A girl my mom sent recharge card 3k on her birthday early this year...

why the Bleep are you still giving out numbers
when I confront her, she will say I'm being over protective and suspicious... that for the fact that she answers their calls in my presence means she has nothing to hide...

I just decided never to make mention of that again..

e go soon clear for her eyes...

northvietnam:



imagine a girl that I have introduced to my parents, A girl my mom sent recharge card 3k on her birthday early this year...

why the Bleep are you still giving out numbers
when I confront her, she will say I'm being over protective and suspicious... that for the fact that she answers their calls in my presence means she has nothing to hide...

I just decided never to make mention of that again..

e go soon clear for her eyes...

But that is wickedness of the highest order from your own side. If you don't need her anymore, let her know and let her off instead of deceiving her and keep bedding her. That act is tantamount to being a devil. And the need result maybe disastrous for you.

Lemme answer this with another question:
Is it normal to collect recharge card when ur cell phone is already loaded?
Well, you can decide to collect it and give someone else, that shows you ain't selfcentered, but using it is not a crime too, the choice is yours.

[quote author=enuk80 post=71120392]Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

If it's just relationship, pls them numbers

abdulkayus:



But that is wickedness of the highest order from your own side. If you don't need her anymore, let her know and let her off instead of deceiving her and keep bedding her. That act is tantamount to being a devil. And the need result maybe disastrous for you.

if I tell u what I have sacrificed for her Eeeeeh...

that's wickedness on her own side too... if she wants out, she should have told me than using this sharing of her number format on...

Cr7sBabe:




Oga, the thing is...u are feeling insecure jawe. Let trust do the work.

pls tell us how that trust has been faring till now

BS upon BS. A girl in a committed relationship should NOT give another guy her phone number, unless it's for a specific reason like workingon a school project and stuff.


O pari

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

thats not bad

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

Start by giving me ur numba, i hope u dnt mind.

Cr7sBabe:


smiles

I meant its sexy