Earthquake1:


This is the first time you have commented more than one line on nairaland

nikkypearl:


*just passing*

nikkypearl:


*just passing*

babyfaceafrica:
just leave story and women..and make money.focus to make your life better...

nikkypearl:
who your riddle epp

Riddle kor paddle ni...we talking money,u talking riddle..my sista,abeg park one side.

gentlegenius:

There are two things that gives us happiness in life... Our relationships and our achievements. Though money can come through our achievements, but according to philosophers and psychologist, money is not even mentioned as one of those things that brings us happiness and satisfaction. This is because money hardly satisfy anybody... The more you make it, the more you want it, and the more you worry over it. Also, money is a visitor... It can come to you today and leave you tomorrow. The only thing that brings us real happiness remains our relationships, and our achievements.
So how dare you tell me to forget about women and pursue money?
There are men who followed this your advice, but after making money, they married the wrong women, live a life of regret and die before their time.

gentlegenius:

Have you ever seen some men who got married when they didn't have enough money but later became very rich?
Have you also seen some men who got married as rich men but later become very poor?
This world we are living is very unpredictable, so I can't understand why money, and not potentials should be the most important thing that draws you to a man.

gentlegenius:

There are two things that gives us happiness in life... Our relationships and our achievements. Though money can come through our achievements, but according to philosophers and psychologist, money is not even mentioned as one of those things that brings us happiness and satisfaction. This is because money hardly satisfy anybody... The more you make it, the more you want it, and the more you worry over it. Also, money is a visitor... It can come to you today and leave you tomorrow. The only thing that brings us real happiness remains our relationships, and our achievements.
So how dare you tell me to forget about women and pursue money?
There are men who followed this your advice, but after making money, they married the wrong women, live a life of regret and die before their time.

zainmaxwell:
A wise man once said you lose money chasing women but you never loses women chasing money



Abeg some with that pics of while at work this is how jobless guys eat your girlfriend should help me with it






Say no to money hungry hoes
Money hungry hoes will be ignored

Saff:
Potential, potential and more POORtential. If I had POTENTIAL to be beautiful, a good cook, motherly, educated, wouldn’t you opt for the next best thing that has those traits right now? I’m not sticking with a man that has potential, why? Once he reaches his potiential, he will potentially look for a women who values herself and accepts more than potiential. Goodbye.

gentlegenius:

You simply don't understand what I mean by potentials... There are guys who may not have money today, but have what it takes to become rich tomorrow. In fact, most of the rich guys you see today, if you had seen them about 5 years ago, you wouldn't believe they'll ever become rich.
Anyway, I don't think there's anything I'll say that will change this mentality of yours. So there's no point wasting more time with you. Pls stick to your own belief and let me stick to mine...
The end shall justify...
Good bye also!

kollinzgee:
bro u are right .money is the only way guys with low self esteem attract women (nice guys) they don't know women are more mysterious than they think. I av a friend here I'm far richer than him but he get girls more than I do. if u become rich u are going to attract people both male and females but 90% of them are fake. the most attractive force a man can have is his confidence and masculinity .i learnt this from my friend and it's working for me I just improved my self confidence now I have a girlfriend Am not even spending much on her. this is the fact the world will present itself to based onthe way u see it all these guys we no fit even walk up to a girl and talk to her without fear go dey say only money go get Girl Wat if the girl is a rich man daughter how will u get her?

Saff:
listen most men make it in their late 30s/40s. If they married in their 20s when they had “ potential”, they’ll leave their wife or cheat on her significantly with the women they truly desire. This is not rocket science and that’s why I don’t rely on potential.

gentlegenius:

Good question... @babyfaceafrica, princfred, abeg make una answer this question: If money is all you have to offer, and the girl you want is from a rich family or she already has money, then how do you attract her?

Isn't it obvious that men who have nothing to offer except money will only attract goal diggers?

gentlegenius:

Like I said earlier....








































Goodbye!

Saff:
e pain am. Go and sleep my friend, oponu.

gentlegenius:

Pathetic...
I used to see you as a responsible person on Nairaland, but you just proved me wrong with this insult.
So, because we had differing opinions here you had to resort to insults just because I didn't subscribe to your opinion... What do you take yourself for? 'Madam know it all'?
You forgot that this is a public forum, and other people are observing what we do here.
Anyway, thanks for proving to us who you really are. Forgive me for making the mistake of debating issues with someone like you. It will never happen again.
If you still have time to continue insulting me, then go ahead, but you won't get my attention anymore.

gentlegenius:

Good question... @babyfaceafrica, princfred, abeg make una answer this question: If money is all you have to offer, and the girl you want is from a rich family or she already has money, then how do you attract her?

Isn't it obvious that men who have nothing to offer except money will only attract goal diggers?

princfred:
It takes one who has stupidity as superpower to not know that many more women leave their broke husband. Money gives women more reasons to see more other reasons to be attracted to a guy. Money makes the average Nigerian woman even the married ones, wet. A very high % of married women back outside to rich men while confessing love to their broke husband. What kind of love is that that the broke guy with is enjoying?

nikkypearl:
who your riddle epp

Riddle kor paddle ni...we talking money,u talking riddle..my sista,abeg park one side.

gentlegenius:

Have you ever seen some men who got married when they didn't have enough money but later became very rich?
Have you also seen some men who got married as rich men but later become very poor?
This world we are living is very unpredictable, so I can't understand why money, and not potentials should be the most important thing that draws you to a man.

babyfaceafrica:
lies...ask Lara what attracted her to oshiomole?...have you seen the alafin of Oyo wives?..any day any time most ladies will take a rich ugly married man to a fine single poor boy.


my advice..make money. na dem go rush you

gentlegenius:

Have you ever seen some men who got married when they didn't have enough money but later became very rich?
Have you also seen some men who got married as rich men but later become very poor?
This world we are living is very unpredictable, so I can't understand why money, and not potentials should be the most important thing that draws you to a man.

Martinez19:
Have you seen some men who got married when they didn't have enough money but they still were poor?
Have you seen some rich men that got married as rich and later were still poor? You seem to forget these cases because they don't fit your narrative.
If you like have the greatest moral compass, character, attitude and integrity, it still wouldn't change the fact that girls consider money above these. If you like don't go and make money. Girls are smart enough to know that integrity, good character and moral uprightness won't pay the bills. I know there are gold diggers but no sensible and good lady would want to bring a child into the world to suffer all in the name of foolishness love. If you are broke as fvck but have good character and moral uprightness, forget it.

Cc. babyfaceafrica, saff

gentlegenius:

Wrong example... Oshiomole had money no doubt, but he obviously had other things to offer: Intelligence, humour, fame... And forget his ugly looks, he might even be romantic and good in the other room

gentlegenius:
I have noticed strange ideas and beliefs here on Nairaland, but more strange to me is the misconception some guys seems to develop about women recently... If you check some threads here that has something to do with how men can attract women or what women find attractive in men, you'll see lots of comments that goes this way: 'Make money... Make more and more money, then women will follow you'. The funny thing is that such comments are only coming from guys, not the women themselves. Many guys seems to believe that the aroma of money is the only thing women perceive, so the more you get money, the more women will perch on you like flies on shit.
But this is a completely wrong believe. Attraction has little or nothing to do with money and material things. Women like money, no doubt about that, but what women find attractive in men is far from money. Apart from looks, which really doesn't mean much to most ladies, there are some key character traits that draws women to men. If you focus only on making money and showing it off, without developing these key character traits, women will only follow your money and not you. They'll only be attracted to your money and not to you. Take note of this. Though they can give you sex, pretend to love you, and some will even get so desperate to marry you, but all these is not because they find your attractive; It's simply because they find your money attractive. The moment you run out of money, or maybe you just stop spending it on them, they will drop you like a piece of hot iron.
I have seen a few guys who doesn't have money, yet beautiful ladies still get naturally attracted to them. This is because they are the REAL men that women don't joke with because they are not easy to come by.
Though money is good to have, but If all you do is make money and enjoy the attention women give you, then be rest assured that any woman that comes to you because of your money must have had a real guy somewhere that she naturally finds attractive, and most of the money she'll collect from you will end up in that guy's pocket. She doesn't care about you, except in pretence to get what she wants, but she passionately care about the other guy (who may not even have money). So at the end of each relationship you had with them, you'll discover that you were the greatest fool. It's high time you stop fooling yourself around, believing that money is the only thing that will make you attractive to women. If money is the only thing you have to offer, even when you get married, the marriage will only last as long as your money last.

Money is just like beauty... If all a woman has to offer is her beauty, then she'll only attract men who comes to her due to LUST and not LOVE... All they want from her is her body, not her company. She might think guys are rushing her but the truth is that they are actually rushing those features on her body that provoke their LUST. They only find those features attractive and not her, so they are there to enjoy those things while they last.

Conclusion: Money & Beauty are good to have, but they are two things that has little or nothing to do with love and attraction.
So find out and develop those important qualities that can make you naturally attractive and irresistible to the opposite sex.