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Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by babyfaceafrica: 8:34pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
MariaLavina:hmm...it's not that straightforward |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by princfred(m): 8:35pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
jesmond3945:One will be tempted to believe he was high on stupid or ignorance when he wrote the post but actually you must have understood him better, the guy is high on Telemundo and African magic where the rich guy is always bad and the poor guy always nice. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by jesmond3945: 8:38pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
princfred:lol 1 Like |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 8:39pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:I don't get you. |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by jonath0012(m): 8:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Hmmmm. Who is this MariaLavina? I have been reading your comments. You are so intelligent, my kind of a woman. I envy that guy who wins your heart. |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Fazemood(m): 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:And you made this comment for what? Likes ? What a waste of beauty SMH |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by babyfaceafrica: 8:49pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
MariaLavina:you said that Nigerian men are control freak and are self centered..maybe yes..but whose fault?... some women... women are making money and having financial independence, but how many women want to split the bills?...you will hear them saying you money is our money while my money is mine. he who plays the Piper dictates the tune.if a man is expected to pat for everything in the house, then you are giving him all the power...if you contribute..then you will have a say... people should marry reasonable men..not just men who can sweet mouth you and take you to cloud nine. it is easier for players to get ladies than good men. ladies should learn to sieve through the bad and good ones....it is not just about been able to sweep your feet away...can we discuss intellectually?... 1 Like |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 9:36pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica: kpakam |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by kunleweb: 9:50pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
princfred: My brother your words around the scenario damn, Smh |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by gentlegenius(m): 10:18pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
MariaLavina:My dear... You seem to be the only lady making sense here. Honestly, I am so glad that I created this thread because it has exposed one things to those who have the understanding to take note... Majority of the girls we meet online including here in Nairaland are shameless goal diggers... And it is the guys that cause it. Imagine many ladies coming out here to admit that their only requirement for dating a man is money and shockingly, lots of guys here are clapping for them. This one weak me seriously. But with this kind of mentality, where is this world heading to? I just thank God there still exist a few responsible ladies like you. |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 10:21pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Gentilegenius, you don't have to sweat this out. There is no arguing that 'MOST WOMEN' are attracted to the superficiality of the surface. 'HOW MUCH MONEY DOES HE HAVE' without looking beneath this surface as to SUBSTANCE. INDEED MOST WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO THE SIZE OF A GUY'S BANK ACCOUNT THAN TO THE SIZE OF HIS DING-DONG OR SENSE OF HUMOUR OR INTELLIGENCE. Only a few look beyond the surface. Perhaps your girlfriend is one of this few, Hence your judgement. Yet those women who choose money above all else are not living in denial of our reality. Which is the importance of money in human affairs. Of course most women are attracted to money. It's so simple as A, B, C. It's been so ever since. It's not a bypass of a woman's humanity except if despite what lies beneath the surface which may be detrimental, she still chooses to be with that person. The easiest way to make women flock around you like flies unto a fresh sh!t in a latrine is to have money. ITS NOT A MISCONCEPTION. So, tell us how poor are you that your girl left a rich man for you? DO YOU BEG AROUND THE STREETS WITH PLATE IN HAND? I want to believe that you are comfortable. And I also believe if you are as poor as moving from one place to another begging for food, in tattered cloths, without an envisaged bright future even if you are the most intelligent guy in this world, full of humour. Very most likely, your present girlfriend will want to have nothing to do with you and so is the same with MOST LADIES. What you have written applies only to a few ladies with priorities beyond the superficiality of the surface and indeed these ladies are not that many. Who fine boy help without money for pocket. |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 10:24pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:money hungry olosho spotted |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by AxceX(m): 10:43pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
gentlegenius:You my friend are very sensible The emboldened is truly correct I love how you kept calm n never retaliated (insult),speaks well of you..Nairaland has managed to give them a persona where some feel like they too big to engage others n anything n person that's contrary to their stance is hogwash.Learnt that a long time ago Once again I commend your maturity n gentlemanliness 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by jagorinho: 10:53pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
kollinzgee:you are very correct, the mindset of an average nigerian guy is to tame a lady with money, it is a wrong path, although women are complex in nature but raining them with money and gifts doesnt reciprocate love from their side, we have seen a rich man's wife sleeping with his husband's broke worker, we have seen girls collecting money from one rich dude and lavishing it on a broke one, it is very good when the feeling is mutual from the beginning but thinking you can use your money to change people's mind on a thing as delicate as love usually ends in a very bad way. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
It does,this op is a broke fellow |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by kunleweb: 10:59pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Nobody: 11:01pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
kunleweb: Yes ooo,I am a baller |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by kunleweb: 11:07pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
nikeballing: I could use a friend like you in my life. Not dating or relationships or any of it. Haha, just acquaintances. Hope you don't mind. I have to say this, damn you're one of a kind. Plus, the screenshot of your inbox is really something. I love your guts. I'll like us to connect, just friends ( No dating, no games, you're cool with this ? ) |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by gentlegenius(m): 11:15pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
princfred:You are right... I was stupid and ignorant while you guys are the wise ones. But honestly speaking, all the 'wise comments' you guys are making here had exposed something important to me. I have known a few 'wise' guys like you in real life. One is my very close relative. This man never learned anything about women including how to approach a woman. He spent all his youthful years pursuing money because he believed money can bring different kinds of women to him without him making any effort to get them. Of course he achieved his aim, and women were flocking around him, but 99% of them were serious goal diggers. He didn't realize his mistake until he chose one of them to marry. This man was working with an oil company in Rivers State. Sometimes, he goes to work offshore and return back after two weeks. He provided everything necessary to make his wife live happily and comfortable. But The wife suddenly realize that money and wealth is not the only thing a woman want from a man. She learnt this when it was too late for her to change her husband's working schedule. The husband who thought money was everything to women also learn the hard way when his wife started sleeping around with men, including even their driver and houseboy. When it becomes unbearable, the man returned the wife to her parents and took care of two young children all alone, even though he wasn't sure if they were actually his children. This man lives a shattered and unhappy life thereafter despite all his money. I also remember a man I worked in the same company with during my IT. The company later fold up due to poor management by the Russian owners. This man lost his job and a few months later, his wife left him to marry another man who had money. This guy later suffered from stroke, died and was buried last year. Now the bottom line is this... IF MONEY IS THE ONLY THING YOU HAD TO OFFER, THEN YOU MUST PRAY THAT YOU DON'T RUN OUT OF IT, AND PRAY ALSO THAT YOUR WOMAN DOESN'T FIND A MAN THAT HAS MORE MONEY THAN YOU OR HAVE MORE TO OFFER HER THAN JUST MONEY. Don't be deceived by all these goal diggers who came here to claim that money is all they want from men. If you still insist that I am stupid and ignorant to share these experiences, then my prayer is that you make money and marry one of these goal diggers who got attracted to your money, so that you'll learn the hard way that money is not the only thing women want from men. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by kunleweb: 11:23pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
gentlegenius: A man only needs a good game to win a woman, all your comments are spot on. At the moment, i've got a manager in a firm on my matter , not just her, oh by the way she's damn hot and modelled for a telecom company, i have six around me at the moment, and guess what i didn't need to flash a coin. I just bring my attitude and game on and that's it. So, values, principles, morals, ethics, work ethics, diction, grammar, look, beliefs, I.Q. , intelligence, future, persona, charisma, upkeep, maintenance, carriage is all that's need to win any woman, add money to it adn you'll have an explosion |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by kunleweb: 11:23pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
gentlegenius: A man only needs a good game to win a woman, all your comments are spot on. At the moment, i've got a manager in a firm on my matter , not just her, oh by the way she's damn hot and modelled for a telecom company, i have six around me at the moment, and guess what i didn't need to flash a coin. I just bring my attitude and game on and that's it. So, values, principles, morals, ethics, work ethics, diction, grammar, look, beliefs, I.Q. , intelligence, future, persona, charisma, upkeep, maintenance, carriage is all that's need to win any woman, add money to it adn you'll have an explosion . 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Tonytonex(m): 11:33pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
[quote author=gentlegenius post=71355684]I have noticed strange ideas and beliefs here on Nairaland, but more strange to me is the misconception some guys seems to develop about women recently... If you check some threads here that has something to do with how men can attract women or what women find attractive in men, you'll see lots of comments that goes this way: 'Make money... Make more and more money, then women will follow you'. The funny thing is that such comments are only coming from guys, not the women themselves. Many guys seems to believe that the aroma of money is the only thing women perceive, so the more you get money, the more women will perch on you like flies on shit. But this is a completely wrong believe. Attraction has little or nothing to do with money and material things. Women like money, no doubt about that, but what women find attractive in men is far from money. Apart from looks, which really doesn't mean much to most ladies, there are some key character traits that draws women to |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Ajsmart(m): 11:40pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
You have wisdom bro. Thanks for educating these half-boy/men here who have zero understanding on how to attract AND keep women interested without materialism gentlegenius: 1 Like |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by gentlegenius(m): 11:49pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
WORDWORLD:I salute you for this matured comment.. You see, when I said that a beautiful lady once left her rich boyfriend who even promised her marriage to date me when I didn't have money, I wasn't trying to discourage guys with money. I also wasn't poor to the extent of begging food to eat... of course no reasonable, healthy person begs food to eat. The truth is: There were certain character traits she found in me that made her fall for me even though she didn't know my financial status. She later told me what she saw in me that made her fall for me but I won't share it here because no one cares to know. Everyone seems to care about pursuing money, but that's OK. I do pursue money myself, but I don't want my money to attract women to me because obviously, it will only attract the wrong ones. I created this thread to warn guys not to rely on money alone as women will only get attracted to their money and not to their person. I was simply trying to say that as you make money, try to also develop the right character traits that will genuinely endear you to women. This is the message I was trying to pass but lots of goal diggers and whoremongers who appeared here didn't care to understand me. Some ladies had indirectly informed us here that they can marry a thief as long as he has money. Since they don't want to learn anything here, my prayer is that they should end up marrying thieves and learn the hard lesson afterwards. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by gentlegenius(m): 11:57pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
kunleweb:Hmmm... Finally someone has understood my point. I wish you all the best in your exploration. |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by rex444(m): 11:59pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:gbam!!!! |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by technicallyrich(m): 12:06am On Sep 21, 2018 |
Op thinks money is only currency. When you are rich it reflets in you confidence,the way you act and talk,even the way you walk.when you are rich you become romantic. Do you also know that enviroment s affect our felling,there are some places and trips you will take a girl to she will start tripping. Lastly it takes lot to maintain or increase money when you are rich but belive me if a rich man want to make a girl fall in love it will be easier than a poor man. In summary if you love your self please be rich as almost everything in these world is for sale. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Burgerlomo: 12:31am On Sep 21, 2018 |
gentlegenius:
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Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by Gabriel004: 12:32am On Sep 21, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:Will like to folk you. |
Re: Guys Take Note: Money Doesn't Make You Attractive To Women by kunleweb: 12:36am On Sep 21, 2018 |
gentlegenius: I aint a kiddo, i've got tons of ladies around. Problem now is choice |
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