On the other hand, I don't think you're prepared for marriage. Trust me, if you love someone you wouldn't mind whether they live in your house for a year or less.

There is absolutely no difference between the life you both live and the life an average married man lives. In fact married men even spend more; school fees, bride price, wedding, feeding the whole world in the name of reception, etc. but you don't see them crying over expenses. It is called love!

It shows you don't love this girl and you see no future in your relationship with her. I don't see the point in dating someone you don't love enough to consider for marriage. It is a waste of time and resources and a waste of mental and emotional strength.

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ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

Tell her to come to my place. I can take care of her on one condition. That she will offer me the only thing she have to offer in this world because I know she can only offer one thing and nothing else.

ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

Auntie don't be angry

virago:



You mean naivety , and no she wasn't naive

Can you see the quotation marks? Do you know what quotation means?

You are mad, very mad.
you forgot to tell us how you persuaded her to come over your place and all the promises you made to her.

Atleast get her the house you promised her so she can start her life from there..you have been having sex with her for three months so calculate if you were sleeping with a call girl how much you would have spent.get her a house nomatter how small then advice her to get a job to be able to take care of herself so if she doesn't then that's her business.

ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

He said the girl is lazy and is not looking for Job, don't you think he is making his decision based on finances mind you the guy is in his early 20s...I think that makes you the inconsiderate Scum!

Hmm after three months of smashing

Let us be faithful to our selves , there are more to this story... I am a guy and I know what guys are capable of doing. This should be a lesson to all ladies. No free food In free town. For the past 3 month... why is it now ur eyes now opened very well to all what you said now to the extent you want her to move by force by fire?
or you are tired of her, or she is spoiling your show?
there are so many question in my mind.
I won't just hear one side of story and start typing nonsense.
Love conquers all.
be sincere to your self, you don't have feelings , genus feelings for this ladies In question.

No body is on the guy's side,pls kindly travel to Ghana for like six month and tell her that when you come back you wanna get back to her .

Jasen1:



We had serious issues about it last month I asked her to leave since she don't want to work, she started crying and begging even her parents(mum) and her sister called me too, I pardoned her but she still not working yet, bro I'm soft hearted am not really complaining about the expenses but the fact that she becomes more lazy everyday is worrisome

Guy, send that idiot out of your house.
What nonsense.

You are lucky she never get belle lol

When you guys met... Who do you asked?

jattopeter:
Let us be faithful to our selves , there are more to this story... I am a guy and I know what guys are capable of doing. This should be a lesson to all ladies. No free food In free town. For the past 3 month... why is it now ur eyes now opened very well to all what you said now to the extent you want her to move by force by fire?
or you are tired of her, or she is spoiling your show?
there are so many question in my mind.
I won't just hear one side of story and start typing nonsense.
Love conquers all.
be sincere to your self, you don't have feelings , genus feelings for this ladies In question.

And so?

There is no genuine feeling in most marriages.

So he should let her choke him because of feeling?

The house and food she has had for free what did she use to pay for that?

She knows that she's paying with her pussy.

So let's stop fooling ourselves.

He should take a firm stern stand and give her ultimatum.

Jasen1:




Lol..... Thank you sir


She should go and work and help her family


I know how many times I've sent money to her mom

You nor well at all she don use charm for you.....mumu ...boy nah belle be the next tin she go get for you..be wise

sandra50:
Atleast get her the house you promised her so she can start her life from there..you have been having sex with her for three months so calculate if you were sleeping with a call girl how much you would have spent.get her a house nomatter how small then advice her to get a job to be able to take care of herself so if she doesn't then that's her business.

He has been raping her?

Rhea:


Ayam surprise she neva carry belle for you
The girl dey dull big time

You get am. If I lazy like her I for use fertility pills for the mumu carry quintuplets for am. Let him keep wasting time. She go born repete for that house very soon.

And I have been living in a big duplex alone for 3yrs now with no visitor monthly except few friends that come once in a while and leave same day cos they got their home too, some guys are their problem always thinking with their dick

Just because of ordinary sex guys jeopardize their future and finances, its a pity

I wonder how u guys even cope with harboring a stranger in your home, me that's scared of living together with a woman as wife talk less of girlfriend, hmm, una de try sha, life

I can only live freely with my mother, father, siblings (of which there is none as I am d last), few childhood/school friends and of course my children who I can wait to have in future (gosh )

You shouldn't have told her to come over, it's easy inviting her, but to leave is the problem, you have to use force, if anything happens to her, it will be a big problem, it's wrong for you to be living together with her when she's not your legal wife.

chiommy123:
you can help her get a job and start preparing for your marriage cos I don't know who you want to leave her for

he only have her for three months. what about those who have been having her since?

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

Wait first, all this three months, shey you been dey pound the pussy steadily, abi? The thing done come tire you, you want to change toto.

Raise some cash and open small shop for her. Then after you stabilise you go pay her dowry, because for her mind she's at her final bus stop, relationship-wise

Jasen1:


Am to renew my rent new year February and it's 130k annually, like am hustling trying hard to get the money before then, here is someone iny house everyday just eating, and doing nothing




Well y'all can accused me of getting tired after having sex with her, but the truth we both are having the sex together I've not for one day force her she even ask for it, if she starts working today I will be happy

I've sent her this link already maybe she will read

What!!!! How old are you?

Do you know how manipulative women are? Did you even confirm her story with her so called sister? The girl will manipulate you into getting pregnant.

If you want her out of your life, be firm about it or you would regret your life in the future. That lady manipulated you into staying with you rent free. The next thing you are going to hear is that she is pregnant.

Young man wake up and be a man.

Jasen1:



We are dating sir, we just started dating 3months ago

The first day she visited my house after a week she started complaining about her sister

Ok, now what's d problem actually.
Be honest..
Are u tires of dating her or u ar tired coz she can't work

Hundreddegrees:
After fvcking someone's daughter for three months you want to send her away ..you no no say you don get wife be that..
Infact take this..

dingbang:
very good question. I feel the people she told to call are fake ... It doesn't add up.

Yes bro u are right!
I'm surprised

sandra50:
Atleast get her the house you promised her so she can start her life from there..you have been having sex with her for three months so calculate if you were sleeping with a call girl how much you would have spent.get her a house nomatter how small then advice her to get a job to be able to take care of herself so if she doesn't then that's her business.

.
she no enjoy the sex? if he that have her for only 3months should get her a house ,what will those who have been having her since get her?

1x2x3:
Throw her out ASAP. Na ashawo wey no get house, that her so called Sister's place is non-existent all na wash.

Just like I thought. He should have confirmed her stories. She didn’t stay with him 10mins in PH, but spent the night immediately he got his place in Abuja. Her friend is a well known prostitute. What is she doing with such a friend? She does not want to work. She does not have a job - those are behavioral patterns of prostitutes.

sylvez:


Sex can keep a man until that man decides to quit.....

My brother you need to experience 3times a day sex.. Doctors prescription....she's always available and can never say no... Do you know what it is

lol....bad guy

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

How many times she don abort for you?
Shebi u get sisters...
God is watching you.

Ezkid:
Well, I'm in a similar situation , she started by spending the weekend with me, whenever she bids her family goodbye on Saturday , she would spend Sunday in my place then off to work on monday morning, she was working as a teacher in a private school. She would leave her place of work on Friday, spends only the Friday night with her family then off to my place on Saturday morning where she ll prepare for the next week..
I started seeing the whole thing as a problem when she decided to stop working, she spent the next two months with me without going home while lying to her family that she's stuck at her working place cos she wasn't paid! Then I introduced the detachment strategies!
You see, once a leech is attached to your body, its inadvisable to forcefully detach! There will be consequences and it may become tragic for both of u if care isn't taken( Hell has no fury than woman scorn). I got her another job where she'll be going from her parent home then I started what they call emotional detachment, I stopped the sex, limit the convo and made sure there's zero visits.
Fast forward to now, shes doing pretty well without me and we're best of friends.

no fuckin again......another guy just dey chop ur tin4ur back.

Tell her ur mum is coming around. 4get all dis nonsense talk on nairaland, she's got no future ambition (NFA).