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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:17am On Oct 11, 2018
You better Not Fool Enter That Trap Get Set Ready Prepare Then Marry When You Want To
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Witlee(m): 9:18am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

that's why every guy that comes will continue fucking you in every three months interval
you can come let me propose to you and Bleep you for a whole year

another olosho spotted
#awongoldigger

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobodys(f): 9:19am On Oct 11, 2018
Babes let so many irrelevant things bother them, Imagine saying all ur friends are married remaining you , Lolz...Well I understand her Sha, she's just that kind of lady that wants to belong....with the mindset of a traditional African lady.. Lolz ..

Op, If you love her and you're financially stable then why not marry her?. Well it's your choice, you know what you want, if you ain't ready now then try to talk her out of that mindset..try to explain things to her, make her understand your reasons....

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by 1miccza: 9:19am On Oct 11, 2018
LivingFree:


Relationships have levels and commitment in stages... he's obviously reluctant to discuss the next stage of their relationship. The girl isn't wrong to speak her mind and he needs respond. Simple!

On the contrary i think instead of goading, threatening or arm twisting him she should have listened to him and then planned ahead even my sister's fiancee who has lived practically all his life in London, worked with various top firms, owned a house and started his company here in Nigeria is taking his time to plan and they are planning so well..
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by openmine(m): 9:20am On Oct 11, 2018
milemimi93:


He is not just a 'He' but a gay..

He saw one of my comments i made that I that i am done with women.. The idiot and is fellow idiot on this forum sent me pm. At first they started off like they are good pals little did i know that they are gays.. This Jamariwolff be sending me gay nudes making advances. I turned him down hence his bitterness.


A lot of dude on this forum are gays..

Ive encountered three..
grin grin
BUSTED!
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Rubyventures: 9:21am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

Sounds more like desperation to me, Three months is not enough to really get to know the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Women should learn to enjoy courtship cos that is the sweetest part of the relationship.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by 1miccza: 9:21am On Oct 11, 2018
milemimi93:


He is not just a 'He' but a gay..

He saw one of my comments i made that I that i am done with women.. The idiot and is fellow idiot on this forum sent me pm. At first they started off like they are good pals little did i know that they are gays.. This Jamariwolff be sending me gay nudes making advances. I turned him down hence his bitterness.


A lot of dude on this forum are gays..

Ive encountered three..


Wow!! Heeeeeyyyy!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by whytepawn1(m): 9:22am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.
the young man said he hasn't even slept with the girl...
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Dominatrix4U(f): 9:22am On Oct 11, 2018
Check my profile
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 11, 2018
franchasng:
unplanned marriage can hinder or affect your chances of becoming financially stable in life.

Yes destiny is real but still, u need to guide your steps to achieve your destiny in life.

Some ladies are not ambitious, their only life ambition is to marry and give birth expecting hubby to foot the bills at all cost.

If u marry a lady with such a mentality when u as the man is not financially prepared for the journey, I tell u bra, u might never achieve your financial destiny.

In the Bible, Abraham instructed his oldest and experienced servant on how and where to go get a wife for his son Isaac!

Abraham denied his wife Sarah in a foreign land just to get favor to help his business. If he had insisted that he is married, maybe he would have ended up being killed and his lineage squashed!

Who you marry in life can make or mar your future!


Am not advising him to rush into marriage. Am only telling him to access the girl if truly, he like the qualities she posses and he should try keep her close and if he doesn't then he should let her go in time. He mentioned she is working and earning like 60k monthly. It's something atleast and normaly her parent would be disturbing her since she has graduated and working.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Madukaele(m): 9:25am On Oct 11, 2018
dingbang:
Sit her down and talk to sense into her

empty brain advise

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by segzyndpep(m): 9:27am On Oct 11, 2018
milemimi93:


Is there anything you can offer him in these 3months aside your dirty smelly stinky hole?

You nail it sir..God bless u
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Arijude(m): 9:28am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.
Even if you have a golden pvssy, you dare not talk about marriage to me within 3 months of knowing each other.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Daeylar(f): 9:29am On Oct 11, 2018
I don't know why op is trying to paint his gf bad,
Calling her desperate and all that for no reason, Mtcheewwww,
I'm even glad that she gave him a deadline.That's a smart girl. If he is ready he better step up, if he is not ready for marriage he needs to step out. No reason for him to waste anyone's time.
I'm glad she spoke her mind, Instead of sitting quietly and hoping for marriage, she now knows where she stands.
What I do fault her for though is her harassing him with the "everybody is getting married and she has other toasters" line. That's wrong.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:32am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
like for real this time?
You sure you won't have those homosexual desires in a minute time and start pouring your frustration on me?

I didn't make you gay, man.
Go argue with your bipolar bitch of a mother.
Her dysfunctional pûssy made you a faq.

grin grin grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by adetes: 9:37am On Oct 11, 2018
If u r nt ready let her go and marry, @24 she is nt too young, many r marry @that age.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:38am On Oct 11, 2018
Elxandre:

One of the reasons poverty is prevalent in nigeria is leaving everything to "fate"

Any proof of fate or destiny selects people to grant wealth?



Am a wealthy Man. Believe it or not. Just this time last year I never believe I could be like this. Just a biz deal with a friend and we boom unexpectedly. If u ask me prior to the business I will bet with u that we can't make even upto a million but the M rains on us far beyond out expectation.

The Christians believed "our destiny is in our hand while the Muslim believed our destiny is written divinely but it can be changed with prayers. It's now left for us to act in line with our believe.

Am speaking from my experience and not generalizing. That's y I said we perceive things differently base on our experience in life.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by openmine(m): 9:39am On Oct 11, 2018
daben1:
at 24, I bet you this girl is not psychologically, mentally and emotionally fit for marriage, one if these girls that you'll marry and in the middle of the night they'll start crying, when you ask them what happened? they'll tell you nothing and in the morning they'll start crying again that when she's was crying in the night, you didn't pet her, you continued sleeping...
grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by franchasng: 9:40am On Oct 11, 2018
hilario12:



Am not advising him to rush into marriage. Am only telling him to access the girl if truly, he like the qualities she posses and he should try keep her close and if he doesn't then he should let her go in time. He mentioned she is working and earning like 60k monthly. It's something atleast and normaly her parent would be disturbing her since she has graduated and working.




Okay, well understood now

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Just2endowed2(m): 9:44am On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

Lol this lady mean business.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by pocohantas(f): 9:44am On Oct 11, 2018
The only thing I see wrong here is her excessive desperation to get married. That is a very wrong reason to start off with.

1yr isn't too short to define where a relationship is headed. Truth is, OP doesn't want to marry that girl. When a man meets the woman he wants to settle down with, he knows and she will know too. He doesn't need years to figure this out.

The lady knows OP doesn't want to, so she is trying to use emotional blackmail. Don't fall for that. You guys can part ways. If she is so desperate to marry, a young guy like you shouldn't be her target. Because few years from now, you people will likely breakup and you come online to talk about evening newspapers.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by whodeyhere: 9:47am On Oct 11, 2018
UncleNnamdi:
Mr Man. There's nothing to discuss about.

She's ready and want to get married as a woman she is, that's her major priority and goal in that relationship for now, and I believe you have yours aswell.

Path ways if you aren't ready to marry her yet so that she'll settle down with someone else, while you get busy with your hustling priority until you are ready to settle down.

-Don't delay her and end up not marrying her.
-Also, don't let her drag and emotionally blackmail you into what you are not ready for.

It's a simple stuff. No time for Yama Yama.

Chai my brother, this is the best advice o, just follow it as it is. I could not agree more.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by computerizeniaja(m): 9:48am On Oct 11, 2018
milemimi93:


Is there anything you can offer him in these 3months aside your dirty smelly stinky hole?

Finally a big foo spotted ....
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by TheVerdict: 9:48am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:
I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been going smooth with us until recently. I just don't know were the desperation for marriage came from. Now we barely have a normal conversation without the marriage issue coming up.

Though I don't have a steady job per say, I am a business man and am able to make myself a good some of money every week which isn't so bad. She is also working and makes around 60k every month. I have been telling her to relax a little bit so we can plan properly and get ourselves ready for the life time journey together, but she won't listen.

Her own is that in her place once a girl has graduated from school everyone is expecting her to get married. She will even bring up issues of the young girls getting married in her church and she is the only single were she works even though she is actually the youngest in her office.

She is just 24 years of age and almost 25 so she keeps saying she set a deadline for herself to get married before 25. The worse part is that sometimes she tries to threaten me that so many guys are asking for her hand in marriage but she doesn't want them, its me she wants.

This whole desperation is getting on my nerve and I really don't want to rush into marriage because her people want her to get married. So am thinking of calling the relationship off so that she can go and marry one of those men she said is asking her hand in marriage and I will wish her all the best.

Just so you know, am not trying to be tribalistic here, she is Yoruba and said that's how things are done in their culture so I don't know if that's true or she is just making all that up.

Congratulations! U seem like someone who has priorities and understand life. U think with a cleat head. Never allow anyone pressure you. Free her if she doesn't understand time n seasons.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by kizwid(m): 9:51am On Oct 11, 2018
Tuns20:
Marriage is Important but Money is Importanter...You will not feed her with garri And groundnut..Remember pampers and Sma Gold money in another 10 months if you be sharp shooter...you should be financially and mentally ready..it is a mental something..Pls I'll advice you not to rush..And have this at the back of your mind bro..whatever that would be yours would yours..Take your time and be happy..peace ✌✌✌✌✌

how i wish i can like this ur write up in millions time....
well spoken

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:51am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


This is not chop and clean mouth ooo. Funny enough we haven't had sex before as untrue as it may sound. Am not keen on that.

Oga you have no interest in marriage, set the girl free, I can't date for 12 months if i have no interest in marriage, but I applaud ur attitude on the sex approach, that is cool

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 9:53am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


Make she follow go Malaysia naaa... As I be small African boy. But then again she knows am the type that can't be oppressed. Am not rich neither am I a show guy, but if Malaysia big boys pop 20 Hennessey, I go fit pop with legit money. If Malaysia big boy buy am Brazilian hair 500k, I go fit buy 20k and e go fine pass the 500k lol
I like your spirit, as I can see, you a nice person, if you truly love her to settle down with her, let her know and be confident on that, her fear might be "dumping her later" or more so since you said you guys haven't had sex, don't you think the thing dey hungry her and wanna marry to have that grin but all the same sha make her feel free that she's the one and only.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Lexusgs430: 9:55am On Oct 11, 2018
Daeylar:


Simple. I don't know why he is trying to paint the girl bad,
Calling her desperate and all that for no reason
Mtcheewwww
I'm even glad that she gave him a deadline.
That's a smart girl.

If he is ready he better step up, if he is not ready for marriage he needs to step out.

No reason for him to waste anyone's time.




Tell him,
I'm glad she spoke her mind.
Instead of sitting quietly and hoping for marriage.
Now she knows where she stands.

What I do fault her for though is her harassing him with the "everybody is getting married and she has other toasters" [/b]line.
That's wrong.



[b]She had to lay her cards straight...... So long as he has not proposed yet and performed any traditional rites, she is anyone's lucky bride - to -be ......


Remember, it is not written anywhere, that if he does not marry her, he would die ............
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by globemoney: 9:57am On Oct 11, 2018
It’s very simple. She’s afraid you’ll dump her and marry someone from your tribe. You have to reassure her or leave her

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 9:57am On Oct 11, 2018
Genniez:
From the write up,what I don't understand is the deadline ,sounds desperate, childish and she has no where to go. still keep your calm and observe cos (you)ending the relationship means you broke her heart as some ladies are funny(nothing diabolic oo but spreading the news like j boy broke my heart after using me..lol)so allow her end it so you can be free and I'm very sure no heart break involved from your end cos you are already prepared about her next action..

Sense will not kill you jare..
.that's how this babe wanted to push another man's bele on me last year.she just came out with this march deadline saying she wants to marry on her next birthday..
.my mind was like mayb she's ogbanje. Which one is deadline.....I decided to wait it out only for her to come and tell me she was pregnant around end of february....holup holup holup holup!!!!!!!..I'm not understanding.
.what saved me was the 3months fasting an prayer in church..we had sex a couple of time in 2016..but sex at all in December in fact from the last few weeks of November cos I travelled.and January, the start of the year fasting started.. she tried to use family blackmail, went to my folks...only for belle to start showing the subsequent weeks...long story short she just vanish like smoke....na me and God now oo...I don born again sharp sharp..

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Lexusgs430: 9:58am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


This is not chop and clean mouth ooo. Funny enough we haven't had sex before as untrue as it may sound. Am not keen on that.

Has either of you had sex elsewhere before ?

If both of you are still in the V club, the more reason you should be rushing her to the registry (if both of you are fully compatible)........... Have you checked your blood groups ?

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