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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by january1(f): 7:44pm On Oct 18, 2018
I like domesticated, but appreciate my little effort
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


Spits on any man who marries someone with this kind of disgusting and uncivilized mentality.

Woe be unto any man who goes into marriage with the mindset that cooking isn't the responsibility of both partners.
Cooking isn't the responsibility of both parties. Quote me anywhere 'cause I know that when you're done with your social media rants, you'd go back to reality. So my husband and I are supposed to make a cooking rooster? Don't I know my duties as a wife? Your types are wife people abuse feminism whereas it has absolutely nothing to do with dragging roles in marriage.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 18, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
Cooking isn't the responsibility of both parties. Quote me anywhere 'cause I know that when you're done with your social media rants, you'd go back to reality. So my husband and I are supposed to make a cooking rooster? Don't I know my duties as a wife? Your types are wife people abuse feminism whereas it has absolutely nothing to do with dragging roles in marriage.

You're just dumb. How is my post in anyway related to feminism?


Woe be unto any man who goes into marriage with the mentality of 'cooking is the responsibility of women alone". You're obviously suffering from Stockholm syndrome.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


You're just dumb. How is my post in anyway related to feminism?


Woe be unto any man who goes into marriage with the mentality of 'cooking is the responsibility of women alone". You're obviously suffering from Stockholm syndrome.
Seems you're looking for who would go into one those your baseless fights with you tonight, but I'm so uninterested. grin

#womanwrapper!
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:56pm On Oct 18, 2018
Oluwasaeon:

Then you should learn!

WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO?
MAJORITY OF THESE FOLKS DETEST LEARNING ANYTHING NEW. YOU EITHER MANAGE THEM HOW THEY COME OR MOVE UNTO THE NEXT ONE, AFTER WHICH YOU MOVE TO ANOTHER.... AND IT KEEPS GOING ON LIKE THAT UNTIL YOU'VE HAD ENOUGH.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 18, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
Seems you're looking for who would go into one those your baseless fights with you tonight, but I'm so uninterested. grin

#womanwrapper!

Your English is very bad ...

A 200level student for that matter',the time you spend in constituting a nuisance on this site should be spent on better things.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Vince77(m): 7:59pm On Oct 18, 2018
Oluwasaeon:

E dey sweet ?


grin grin grin grin grin grin very wicked question
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:03pm On Oct 18, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
Cooking isn't the responsibility of both parties. Quote me anywhere 'cause I know that when you're done with your social media rants, you'd go back to reality. So my husband and I are supposed to make a cooking rooster? Don't I know my duties as a wife? Your types are wife people abuse feminism whereas it has absolutely nothing to do with dragging roles in marriage.

ELDER0001

WOMEN WHO TALK LIKE THIS DO SO IN A BID TO ESCAPE ANY FORMS OF RESPONSIBILITIES, ESPECIALLY FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY.
THEY JUST WANT TO COOK AND CLEAN.... AND SHOULD IN CASE YOU BECOME INCAPABLE OF TAKING CARE OF THE FINANCIAL NEEDS SHE SWITCHES OVER TO THE NEXT AVAILABLE MAN WHO CAN "TAKE CARE OF HER", WHILE SHE CONTINUES TO COOK AND CLEAN (WHILE COMPLAINING HOW BIG A FAVOR IT IS TO COOK AND CLEAN "FOR HIM" IN A HOUSE THEY LIVE TOGETHER).

SOME WOMEN AND BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR THINGS ARE LIKE SNOW LEOPARDS AND AFRICA.... THEY CAN NEVER MEET.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


Your English is very bad ...

A 200level student for that matter',the time you spend in constituting a nuisance on this site should be spent on better things.
On going back to what I wrote, omitting 'of' in my post makes my English bad? Go and sleep, my friend!

I don't even know you, not to talk of as much as you know me. Shows you're a fan. grin
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by meobizy(f): 8:05pm On Oct 18, 2018
I honestly don’t know about this. One thing I’m very sure of is girls do not like this. I believe women don’t mind especially when they look for a husband.
Then again I’ve learned what women say is different from their actions. The majority of female posters say they like a good cook for a boyfriend/husband so I’ll quickly assume in real life women hate it.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 18, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
On going back to what I wrote, omitting 'of' in my post makes my English bad? Go and sleep, my friend!

I don't even know you, not to talk of as much as you know me. Shows you're a fan. grin

Says a kid still studying in school! Wow.

Go and play with your mates that have spoiled your mind with patriarchal bullshîts.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Oct 18, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


ELDER0001

WOMEN WHO TALK LIKE THIS DO SO IN A BID TO ESCAPE ANY FORMS OF RESPONSIBILITIES, ESPECIALLY FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY.
THEY JUST WANT TO COOK AND CLEAN.... AND SHOULD IN CASE YOU BECOME INCAPABLE OF TAKING CARE OF THE FINANCIAL NEEDS SHE SWITCHES OVER TO THE NEXT AVAILABLE MAN WHO CAN "TAKE CARE OF HER", WHILE SHE CONTINUES TO COOK AND CLEAN (WHILE COMPLAINING HOW BIG A FAVOR IT IS TO COOK AND CLEAN "FOR HIM" IN A HOUSE THEY LIVE TOGETHER).

SOME WOMEN AND BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR THINGS ARE LIKE SNOW LEOPARDS AND AFRICA.... THEY CAN NEVER MEET.

You sir,are the wisest man on nairaland.

They want to escape financial responsibilities by being traditional.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Oct 18, 2018
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ELDER0001

WOMEN WHO TALK LIKE THIS DO SO IN A BID TO ESCAPE ANY FORMS OF RESPONSIBILITIES, ESPECIALLY FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY.
THEY JUST WANT TO COOK AND CLEAN.... AND SHOULD IN CASE YOU BECOME INCAPABLE OF TAKING CARE OF THE FINANCIAL NEEDS SHE SWITCHES OVER TO THE NEXT AVAILABLE MAN WHO CAN "TAKE CARE OF HER", WHILE SHE CONTINUES TO COOK AND CLEAN (WHILE COMPLAINING HOW BIG A FAVOR IT IS TO COOK AND CLEAN "FOR HIM" IN A HOUSE THEY LIVE TOGETHER).

SOME WOMEN AND BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR THINGS ARE LIKE SNOW LEOPARDS AND AFRICA.... THEY CAN NEVER MEET.
You are either a confused person or just being a hypocrite.

If I say we must share the roles, you would scream and fault feminism, whereas how couples choose to manage their marriage/home has absolutely nothing to do with feminism. Conversely, that I won't condone sharing of roles makes me a dependent woman.

Guy, you all have a long way to go, and FYI, I don't intend being a house wife who contributes nothing. In fact, I can stand being idle.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by barristerzinny(f): 8:12pm On Oct 18, 2018
martyns303:
Of all the women I have dated, only one is comfortable with me being able to cook, clean and do my laundry effortlessly. The rest find it intimidating, I have heard things like, "you make me feel like I can't cook" "u make me look dirty".

As the first child of my parents my mom made sure I learned how to do chores, which really helped me as a young man. I had thought women would appreciate a man that can do chores or at least help out. But the reverse has been the case.

As a woman do like your man domesticated?
I like a man that is domesticated, but not an OCD type of man. That is obsessive compulsive disorder, for cleanliness.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:18pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


You sir,are the wisest man on nairaland.

They want to escape financial responsibilities by being traditional.

Funny enough,this same kimbraa used to preach feminism on romance section.


IT'S A COMMON TREND AMONG SELF-ACCLAIMED FEMINISTS TO REJECT THE IDEA AND DENOUNCE THE MOVEMENT ONCE THEY MANAGE TO GET HOLD OF A MAN WHO "TAKES CARE OF THEM".

SEEMS THE PROBLEM OF MOST OF THEM IS FRUSTRATION FROM BEING SINGLE, OR REJECTION BY MEN... SO THEY EMBRACE MAN-HATE AND START CAMPAIGNS AND RECRUIT OTHER INEXPERIENCED GIRLS..

AND LIKE THE SLITHERING COTTONMOUTHS THEY ARE, THEY WITHDRAW AGAIN FROM THE MOVEMENT WHEN THEY GET ANOTHER MAN.


I WON'T FORGET THIS 2017 POST IN A HURRY.

freecøcoa:
So I finally got a marriage proposal after all these years, and the condition that he marries me is, that I denounce feminism, so my people, here I am to.....

1. State that I, freecocoa 1 of igboland(well known former feminist, world over), is no longer a feminist. cry

2. Remove myself from every feministic activity, I will neither be seen nor heard wherever the word "feminist" exists.

3. Warn every and any feminist on this platform to never quote nor mention me, ever, as I have no business with them as does light and darkness.

4. Say that henceforth, all opinions of me, shall be as that of a virtuous women. I shall be known and addressed as "Ezi nwanyi nke di uko"

5.Apologise for ever being a feminist who thought it wasn't okay for a man to cheat on me, silly me.

And lastly, Ask you all to pray for/wish me luck on my impending nuptials, please pray especially that the spirit of feminism never locates me again.

I hope I'm able to finally keep this one, yay.grin

Thank you all.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


Says a kid still studying in school! Wow.

Go and play with your mates that have spoiled your mind with patriarchal bullshîts.
The society you live in is a patriarchal one, and it would be a joke on yourself if you think otherwise. It's no bullshiit, but reality. My comments are not based on societal conventions, but a matter of choice. Why is it so hard for you to respect the fact that I don't want my husband domesticated? And you would claim civility. Civility must have gone to the dogs. grin Funny enough, the person that's calling me a kid has not made any headway in life. grin
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 18, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:



IT'S A COMMON TREND AMONG SELF-ACCLAIMED FEMINISTS TO REJECT THE IDEA AND DENY THE MOVEMENT ONCE THEY MANAGE TO GET HOLD OF A MAN WHO "TAKES CARE OF THEM".

SEEMS THE PROBLEM OF MOST OF THEM IS FRUSTRATION FROM BEING SINGLE, OR REJECTED BY MEN... SO THEY EMBRACE MAN-HATING AND START CAMPAIGNS AND RECRUIT OTHER INEXPERIENCED GIRLS..

AND LIKE THE SLITHERING COTTONMOUTHS THEY ARE, THEY WITHDRAW AGAIN FROM THE MOMENT WHEN THEY GET ANOTHER MAN.


I WON'T FORGET THIS 2017 POST IN A HURRY.



Miss cocoa said her post was sarcasm .

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by umuna(m): 8:30pm On Oct 18, 2018
phintohlar:
i don fry egg for you b4?
I no mind if you go fry for me o make I taste!
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by victorian(f): 8:30pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


Seems you've forgotten who're talking to...if you had any shame left you in you'd have kept quiet but off course ,a lowlife like you have no shame.








Kept quiet on your concocted lies ? You must be very stupid. Who are you?

You are the one with no shame , I pity idiots like you.

Better go and look for something meaningful to do with your life. Concocting lies upandan, u think u are doing me? U are doing yourself!

Anyways I don't expect anything different coming from an imbecileee as you.

Useless Elder0001, looking for whom to troll and exchange insults with all night.

Keep whining all night with lies. I don't fucking care.

Silence is the best answer for a fool like yourself.
Can everyone imagine? I should keep quiet while he spews so much lies. God punish you Elder0001, you will never do well in life! Your plan to imagine me single forever has failed. You are the one who will remain single forever . You are not married, u don't have a gf, you don't have a kid. U are just a frustrated imbecilee! God pass u!
Ode oshi! Bad belle kill you there!

Come and remove me from my husband house, cos u can't bear the thought am married and happy.. Useless goat!
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 18, 2018
victorian:









Kept quiet on your concocted lies ? You must be very stupid. Who are you?

You are the one with no shame , I pity idiots like you.

Better go and look for something meaningful to do with your life. Concocting lies upandan, u think u are doing me? U are doing yourself!

Anyways I don't expect anything different coming from an imbecileee as you.

Useless Elder0001, looking for whom to troll and exchange insults with all night.

Keep whining all night with lies. I don't fucking care.

Silence is the best answer for a fool like yourself.
Can everyone imagine? I should keep quiet while he spews so much lies. God punish you Elder0001, you will never do well in life! Your plan to imagine me single forever has failed.

Ode oshi! Bad belle kill you there!









Hi dear,have you gotten a nice job yet? Or you're still doing your fashion and design work and hoping to marry a rich man to lift you from poverty?

Hopefully,my wife never depended on men. She'll be happy to groom you in the ways of the modern life.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by victorian(f): 8:36pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


Hi dear,have you gotten a nice job yet? Or you're still doing your fashion and design work and hoping to marry a rich man to lift you from poverty?

Hopefully,my wife never depended on men. She'll be happy to groom you in the ways of the modern life.










Your wife indeed! Who dash you wife?

Lol.

In your dreams.


Keeping dreaming about imaginary wife!

No be only my wife.


So with my rich looks, I appear poor. Ode!

Your type cannot even afford my morning meal.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Oct 18, 2018
victorian:











Your wife indeed! Who dash you wife?

Lol.

In your dreams.


Keeping dreaming about imaginary wife!

No be only my wife.


So with my rich looks, I appear poor. Ode!

Your type cannot even afford my morning meal.


My dear, don't you think lying everytime makes you stupid ?

You could achieve those imaginary dreams of owing 3companies and Benz with a rich fiance only if you work hard .
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by victorian(f): 9:03pm On Oct 18, 2018
Elder0001:


My dear, don't you think lying everytime makes you stupid ?

You could achieve those imaginary dreams of owing 3companies and Benz with a rich fiance only if you work hard .







Hmmmm! So your problem and ranting tonight is all because am successful and doing well in life. You look my profile, read my posts, and thinking one kill you, u couldn't bear it anymore. That's why all these tonight? Jeez!

Chai! God! Now I understand where all these is coming from.

Guy! Ask your creator, why your life is so miserable. I am not the cause of your problems in life. So don't blame me and trolling me about my God given success.
I have no hand in your deplorable life. It's not my fault o.

Talk to God about it.. And get the Bleep! Off my mentions! Ode!

You can't even hide your envy!
Mtchewwww! Or better still go hang yourself!
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by midehi2(f): 9:43pm On Oct 18, 2018
wonder233:
That's what you all say, you meet such a man, you behave exactly the way OP described
na lie oo, just see the vegetable soup he made this evening grin
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by oyeezah(f): 9:44pm On Oct 18, 2018
Really? When that is the kind of man I've been praying for
martyns303:
Of all the women I have dated, only one is comfortable with me being able to cook, clean and do my laundry effortlessly. The rest find it intimidating, I have heard things like, "you make me feel like I can't cook" "u make me look dirty".

As the first child of my parents my mom made sure I learned how to do chores, which really helped me as a young man. I had thought women would appreciate a man that can do chores or at least help out. But the reverse has been the case.

As a woman do like your man domesticated?
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by wonder233: 9:45pm On Oct 18, 2018
You're trying too hard, all na pretence
midehi2:

na lie oo, just see the vegetable soup he made this evening grin
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by midehi2(f): 9:51pm On Oct 18, 2018
wonder233:
You're trying too hard, all na pretence
will u call him now and ask, he's right beside me grin
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by ImaIma1(f): 10:00pm On Oct 18, 2018
phintohlar:
Why won't i like it, but the problem wey dey there be say. Most guys that knows how to cook don't really appreciate ladies food,they either said the salt is much or pepper no reach. You can imagine when am frying egg for my guy only for him to stand behind me and said “Do you know u've made a mistake” n am like how. Just because he knows how to cook, and anytime his cooking and am there, den he'll be like “come n learn from me oh”


Not all o...lol. My husband is a better cook but he is very comfortable with my cooking and hardly complains. And i enjoy the benefits when he cooks...awesome stuff
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by ImaIma1(f): 10:06pm On Oct 18, 2018
victorian:
I love domesticated men.

My hubby is one of such men, even tough he has this tough look smiley


Same here. If you see my hubby outside, you will never guess especially as he is in the "beard gang" and looks tough.

But men!!! He can cook every dish both local and continental, bake, he does the plumbing in the house. If a pipe is leaking or something, he fixes it. If there is an electrical issue, he does it.

He is a hands on guy that knows a lot about DIY. Even car issues, he fixes it except it is a major problem. I have not seen his type.

And with kids...fantastic. They guy try all in all. His mum and dad did a fantastic job with him.

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Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by mechanics(m): 10:29pm On Oct 18, 2018
phintohlar:
Why won't i like it, but the problem wey dey there be say. Most guys that knows how to cook don't really appreciate ladies food,they either said the salt is much or pepper no reach. You can imagine when am frying egg for my guy only for him to stand behind me and said “Do you know u've made a mistake” n am like how. Just because he knows how to cook, and anytime his cooking and am there, den he'll be like “come n learn from me oh”
Lolz.
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by U2ice(m): 10:30pm On Oct 18, 2018
phintohlar:
Why won't i like it, but the problem wey dey there be say. Most guys that knows how to cook don't really appreciate ladies food,they either said the salt is much or pepper no reach. You can imagine when am frying egg for my guy only for him to stand behind me and said “Do you know u've made a mistake” n am like how. Just because he knows how to cook, and anytime his cooking and am there, den he'll be like “come n learn from me oh”

You ain't far from the truth dear my guy wife de always fear to fuckup na so she go de sweat even tho na noodles she de cook grin
Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by bilulu(m): 10:39pm On Oct 18, 2018
Divay22:
Omo I'll like mine domesticated o grin grin
But not to make her feel inferior or less of herself, I think you should balance it. She should go to the kitchen with you even if you wouldn't want her to help she can at least talk about her day while you do the cooking.

So know when to balance it. Even if she won't do anything just let her be close to you (that's the fun of a relationship)
You chop onions i fry the meat wink
The slice the plantain, I fry it wink
You sweep, i mop (or the reverse )
Make the bed, I scatter it (Shebi you like work)
You wash the clothes, i hang them
Even if you don't want her to work, always involve her, make her feel her presence around is necessary.
Even if you fry thr meat and she start eating (all na work).
This is the time you guys bond, rare moments money can never buy, and fun time that involves no cash but filled with happiness, smiling face and love...

Awww cry
to much of telemoundo or nollywood is bad....

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