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I Am In Love With My Bestie by Imuno(m): 7:18pm On Oct 19, 2018
Hello nairalanders, I want to discuss something with u guys.

There is this girl that we've been close for a very long time. Though she is my bestie, but I noticed the way she liked me so much. Though she had boyfriends but presently she is single.

But there is nothing about her that I don't know, her love life, her family, everything about her, she made it open to me. Even her family thinks am her boyfriend.

But here is the problem, I am having feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship. As a guy, I can say if a girl is in love with u. I think she's in love. But I haven't asked her out. Am thinking maybe I should? And again she schools at Ibadan and I school at Ogun state.

It's when we come back home to Lagos we see very well. Sometimes she comes to my school and vice versa. Should I tell her my mind, maybe she has fallen for me too, or I should keep it to myself.

Am confused. Help a brother

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Lomprico2: 7:23pm On Oct 19, 2018
She must not fall for u for you to ask her out!

If u like her enough to date, do ask her.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by nifemi25(m): 7:26pm On Oct 19, 2018
Alaye there is no crime in trying. Let her know your feelings towards her...

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Nobody: 7:28pm On Oct 19, 2018
It may not really be love. There's no way that two people of the opposite sex would spend most of their time together and one won't develop feelings for the other.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by sirusX(m): 7:34pm On Oct 19, 2018
I have feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship

Relationship can be great and you get to learn a lot about each other, but you need to know that it's different from friendship

I mean that little things that don't matter in friendship could affect relationship...so it's dicey as people have lost good friends in relationships that turned sour

So, ask yourself what you want from the relationship and why you want to be in that relationship? You have to be prepared to go the distance, and because you know her, being in a relationship should be an amazing experience as it all begins with friendship

It takes two to make things work, so I hope she's out there thinking about you the same way you're thinking about her

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by amaniro: 7:36pm On Oct 19, 2018
shocked




A wise man once said:


"Keeping a female as best friend is like taking a chicken as a pet, because one day you will surely eat it"

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 7:36pm On Oct 19, 2018
JamaicanLove what's your say on this?
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by amaniro: 7:36pm On Oct 19, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
It may not really be love. There's no way that two people of the opposite sex would spend most of their time together and one won't develop feelings for the other.



shocked



I totally agree with you.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by IamD18: 7:40pm On Oct 19, 2018
Wise folks don't date their bestie, they keep them as friends.

Believe me when I say that you both will end up loosing other, you both will start counting each other's flaws, much quarrel, less care for each other and development of insecurity.

Sex destroys friendship of young folks.

If you must have a greater plan about your bestie, let it be marriage, but at this your age being a student, your good friendship is as take.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 7:46pm On Oct 19, 2018
You have feelings for her abi?
Men always want sex from ladies.

Men are..... lipsrsealed

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
You have feelings for her abi?
Men always want sex from ladies.

Men are..... lipsrsealed

If only it's not the ONLY THING most ladies can offer men.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:00pm On Oct 19, 2018
WORDWORLD:


If only it's not the ONLY THING most ladies can offer men.
Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Nobody: 8:06pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:
JamaicanLove what's your say on this?



If the love is there, why not?


They are both adults and they know what they want.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:11pm On Oct 19, 2018
JamaicanLove:



If the love is there, why not?

They are both adults and they know what they want.

REAL LOVE...

We all want to experience it.
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:12pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?


I have something to offer. Something priceless. And I can only offer it if the hole is tight like a million virgins..

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by CAPSLOCKED: 8:15pm On Oct 19, 2018
THE THING IS MOST LADIES ENJOY THE ATTENTION, COMPANY AND PROTECTION THEY GET FROM THEIR MALE BESTIES. SOME EVEN GET MONEY AND OTHER GOODIES WITHOUT ADDING NOTHING TO THE YOUNG BROTHER'S LIFE.

THE PRESENCE OF SOME FEMALE FRIENDS ENSURES THAT YOU AS A GUY ENDS UP NOT CLICKING A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE OF THE ENERGY AND ATTENTION YOU INVEST INTO MAKING THIS FEMALE BESTIE FEEL COMFORTABLE (MEANWHILE SHE CAN HAVE AS MANY RELATIONSHIPS AS SHE WANTS, SEEKS RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM YOU.. BUT FEELS JEALOUS WHEN YOU TALK TO OTHER GIRLS).

THIS MAKES BRO FEEL ENTITLED TO SOMETHING CONSIDERING HOW MUCH HE'S BEEN LOSING IN THEIR 3-YEAR DIRECTIONLESS FRIENDSHIP.. SO HE TRIES TO GET THE ONLY THING THAT'S AVAILABLE, AND IF HE'S NOT GOING TO GET IT WITH EASE HE TRIES TO FORCE HIS WAY THROUGH, LEADING TO RÁPE, AND STORIES LIKE THIS.


THERE'S NO WAY IN THIS WHOLE WIDE WORLD THAT TWO PEOPLE OF OPPOSITE GENDER WILL BE TOGETHER FOR A CERTAIN DURATION AND WON'T FEEL THINGS... THEY CAN ONLY KEEP DENYING AND SUPPRESSING THEIR FEELINGS.

GUYS, KEEPING A FEMALE BESTIE IS THE MOST FOOLISH THING..
AFTER ALL THE WAYS YOU LOSE MONEY, CLOTHES, ENERGY, AND TIME DOING CHORES AND RUNNING ERRANDS FOR HER..... WHAT DO YOU GAIN APART FROM THE FEW TIMES SHE COOKS BADLY TASTING INDOMIE FOR YOU? undecided

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:17pm On Oct 19, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


THIS ONE IS A CHILD.
CAPLOCKED, MAINTAIN YOUR LANE

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:17pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:



I have something to offer. Something priceless. And I can only offer it if the hole is tight like a million virgins..
So, you no know sey na me. Go offer am to jalove
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:20pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
So, you no know sey na me. Go offer am to jalove
JamaicanLove has the tightest pvssy.

I think I love that girl..

But it's just a thought.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:21pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:
JamaicanLove has the tightest pvssy.

I think I love that girl..

But it's just a thought.
Lol, I no want talk
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:21pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
You have feelings for her abi? Men always want sex from ladies.
Men are..... lipsrsealed
Men are Kings..

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Nobody: 8:23pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:



REAL LOVE...


We all want to experience it.



You want to experience what you are running from, how is that possible?

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Nobody: 8:24pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:
JamaicanLove has the tightest pvssy.

I think I love that girl..

But it's just a thought.



Give it to someone who needs it.

I'm out!!!
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:24pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:

Men are Kings..
Mtcheeew... Women are Queens

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:26pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
Mtcheeew... Women are Queens
Yeah the are..

JamaicanLove is a living proof.
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:28pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:
Yeah the are..

JamaicanLove is a living proof.
Your Queen, I'm the Queen in my king's life.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:28pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
Your Queen, I'm the Queen in my king's life.

JamaicanLove is the Queen of queens
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:30pm On Oct 19, 2018
JamaicanLove:



Give it to someone who needs it.
I'm out!!!
Bae you deserve it. I love you like a fat kid loves cake..
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by Briee(f): 8:31pm On Oct 19, 2018
mimimile93:


JamaicanLove is the Queen of queens
Good for you. You are her King. She's got a lot to deal with. grin
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:35pm On Oct 19, 2018
JamaicanLove:



You want to experience what you are running from, how is that possible?
I keep running away from the ones that say they love me the most.
Lord, would you help me and stop this race..
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by mimimile93: 8:38pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
Good for you. You are her King. She's got a lot to deal with. grin
She's a dealer..

I trust her to deal with every single sh!t that i'm coming out with..








JamaicanLove, my mission's to purchase the earth for you. Present the gift without the curse.
Re: I Am In Love With My Bestie by KINGinVAHALA: 8:39pm On Oct 19, 2018
Briee:
Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?
Will you keep quiet there? Little thing!

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