Tweak2k:



go and marry your m*ther na.... sh*ty feminist

Cry baby

In a relationship there's always a 3rd party, the devil named them BESTIE,

Ogaga87:


If you have no advice for this guy, make you give your phone to somebody take play game joor.. ... What crime has he commit by multitasking

everything na news.... 3things to keep secrete

1 income
2next moves
3love life

As a neutral guy there are some things you should be doing to her to see the way she responds, if positively, go ahead and tell her your mind

Do it already

finish school first befor talking about relationship

Finally bestie is the title for a friendzoned brother...

IamD18:
Wise folks don't date their bestie, they keep them as friends.

Believe me when I say that you both will end up loosing other, you both will start counting each other's flaws, much quarrel, less care for each other and development of insecurity.

Sex destroys friendship of young folks.

If you must have a greater plan about your bestie, let it be marriage, but at this your age being a student, your good friendship is as take.

Yes! You took out the words from my mouth. It is so true in most cases that besties don't guarantee good relationships. That is when selfishness at its peak come to play, unforgiveness, counting of flaws too. Remain besties please unless you feel you want to get married soon then you can consider telling her about your feelings.

Aurielfinizu:


everything na news.... 3things to keep secrete

1 income
2next moves
3love life

This wan nor concern me joor

Imuno:
Hello nairalanders, I want to discuss something with u guys.

There is this girl that we've been close for a very long time. Though she is my bestie, but I noticed the way she liked me so much. Though she had boyfriends but presently she is single.

But there is nothing about her that I don't know, her love life, her family, everything about her, she made it open to me. Even her family thinks am her boyfriend.

But here is the problem, I am having feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship. As a guy, I can say if a girl is in love with u. I think she's in love. But I haven't asked her out. Am thinking maybe I should? And again she schools at Ibadan and I school at Ogun state.

It's when we come back home to Lagos we see very well. Sometimes she comes to my school and vice versa. Should I tell her my mind, maybe she has fallen for me too, or I should keep it to myself.

Am confused. Help a brother

Have you come across HARDDON's dating drill here on NL?

Well said...

IamD18:
Wise folks don't date their bestie, they keep them as friends.

Believe me when I say that you both will end up loosing other, you both will start counting each other's flaws, much quarrel, less care for each other and development of insecurity.

Sex destroys friendship of young folks.

If you must have a greater plan about your bestie, let it be marriage, but at this your age being a student, your good friendship is as take.

Briee:
You have feelings for her abi?
Men always want sex from ladies.

Men are.....

Not every man won sex from a � woman.

this exactly wat I'm going through presently

Dont tell her nothing o. Thats how 1 girl who would buy things for me stopped talking to me cos i told her i loved her o. My opinion tho..

1StopRudeness:


Don't take life too hard....try and watch some funny movies, loosen up a bit.. this one that u can't even identify a simple joke mixed with sarcasm....don't go and kill ur self oooo.

I’ts my fault. I apologize for quoting you.

Thanks.

Imuno:
Hello nairalanders, I want to discuss something with u guys.

There is this girl that we've been close for a very long time. Though she is my bestie, but I noticed the way she liked me so much. Though she had boyfriends but presently she is single.

But there is nothing about her that I don't know, her love life, her family, everything about her, she made it open to me. Even her family thinks am her boyfriend.

But here is the problem, I am having feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship. As a guy, I can say if a girl is in love with u. I think she's in love. But I haven't asked her out. Am thinking maybe I should? And again she schools at Ibadan and I school at Ogun state.

It's when we come back home to Lagos we see very well. Sometimes she comes to my school and vice versa. Should I tell her my mind, maybe she has fallen for me too, or I should keep it to myself.

Am confused. Help a brother

TELL HER YOUR FEELINGS OOO.... You never know until you try, don't be a doubting thomas...You don't want to regret later... I recently had an issue like this but she wasn't my bestie but more of a close friend from highschool. Turns out i liked her so much in highschool and never said anything, she also did too because we just talked recently but now distance is a problem and time has gone.

why do i get d feeling that OP needs sex from that girl and feels this is d only way.but ur own friendzone deep sha..
Anyway here is my advice.
NEVER TELL A GIRL U LIKE,LOVE OR HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER. U know why?
SHE ALREADY KNOWS. U see ladies are experts when it comes to reading body languages, so she has already decoded from d way u look at her, call her most times, and d way u talk to her, she knows dat u like her. So d moment u tell her u like her, u have spoilt everything.
One quick question? If u have ever had sexual thoughts of this girl, maybe u even undressed her with ur mind,
Oga what u are feeling isnt love but lust stop deceiving urself for d moment ''u insert ur modem into her system and use it to browse her internet'' u will discover that d feeling of 'love' go evaporate..

GrabHisBalls:
It may not really be love. There's no way that two people of the opposite sex would spend most of their time together and one won't develop feelings for the other.

Absolutely right. That's why I laugh at those who say it's okay for a married person or someone in a serious relationship to have an opposite sex as a bestie.

Imuno:
Hello nairalanders, I want to discuss something with u guys.

There is this girl that we've been close for a very long time. Though she is my bestie, but I noticed the way she liked me so much. Though she had boyfriends but presently she is single.

But there is nothing about her that I don't know, her love life, her family, everything about her, she made it open to me. Even her family thinks am her boyfriend.

But here is the problem, I am having feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship. As a guy, I can say if a girl is in love with u. I think she's in love. But I haven't asked her out. Am thinking maybe I should? And again she schools at Ibadan and I school at Ogun state.

It's when we come back home to Lagos we see very well. Sometimes she comes to my school and vice versa. Should I tell her my mind, maybe she has fallen for me too, or I should keep it to myself.

Am confused. Help a brother

Read Mr. Friend zone and you'll get all you need.

Briee:
Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?

hmmmmmm

MarieSucre:
See what a Muslim is typing. Subhanallah.

As-salamu alaykum

mimimile93:

As-salamu alaykum

Wa alaykum salam