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Hello nairalanders, I want to discuss something with u guys.

There is this girl that we've been close for a very long time. Though she is my bestie, but I noticed the way she liked me so much. Though she had boyfriends but presently she is single.

But there is nothing about her that I don't know, her love life, her family, everything about her, she made it open to me. Even her family thinks am her boyfriend.

But here is the problem, I am having feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship. As a guy, I can say if a girl is in love with u. I think she's in love. But I haven't asked her out. Am thinking maybe I should? And again she schools at Ibadan and I school at Ogun state.

It's when we come back home to Lagos we see very well. Sometimes she comes to my school and vice versa. Should I tell her my mind, maybe she has fallen for me too, or I should keep it to myself.

Am confused. Help a brother

She must not fall for u for you to ask her out!

If u like her enough to date, do ask her.

Alaye there is no crime in trying. Let her know your feelings towards her...

It may not really be love. There's no way that two people of the opposite sex would spend most of their time together and one won't develop feelings for the other.

I have feelings for her, like we should be in a relationship

Relationship can be great and you get to learn a lot about each other, but you need to know that it's different from friendship

I mean that little things that don't matter in friendship could affect relationship...so it's dicey as people have lost good friends in relationships that turned sour

So, ask yourself what you want from the relationship and why you want to be in that relationship? You have to be prepared to go the distance, and because you know her, being in a relationship should be an amazing experience as it all begins with friendship

It takes two to make things work, so I hope she's out there thinking about you the same way you're thinking about her

A wise man once said:


"Keeping a female as best friend is like taking a chicken as a pet, because one day you will surely eat it"

JamaicanLove what's your say on this?

GrabHisBalls:
It may not really be love. There's no way that two people of the opposite sex would spend most of their time together and one won't develop feelings for the other.

I totally agree with you.

Wise folks don't date their bestie, they keep them as friends.

Believe me when I say that you both will end up loosing other, you both will start counting each other's flaws, much quarrel, less care for each other and development of insecurity.

Sex destroys friendship of young folks.

If you must have a greater plan about your bestie, let it be marriage, but at this your age being a student, your good friendship is as take.

You have feelings for her abi?
Men always want sex from ladies.

Men are.....

Briee:
You have feelings for her abi?
Men always want sex from ladies.

Men are.....

If only it's not the ONLY THING most ladies can offer men.

WORDWORLD:
If only it's not the ONLY THING most ladies can offer men.

Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?

mimimile93:
JamaicanLove what's your say on this?

If the love is there, why not?


They are both adults and they know what they want.

JamaicanLove:
If the love is there, why not?

They are both adults and they know what they want.

REAL LOVE...

We all want to experience it.

Briee:
Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?

I have something to offer. Something priceless. And I can only offer it if the hole is tight like a million virgins..

CAPSLOCKED:
THIS ONE IS A CHILD.

CAPLOCKED, MAINTAIN YOUR LANE

mimimile93:
I have something to offer. Something priceless. And I can only offer it if the hole is tight like a million virgins..

So, you no know sey na me. Go offer am to jalove

Briee:
So, you no know sey na me. Go offer am to jalove

JamaicanLove has the tightest pvssy.

I think I love that girl..

But it's just a thought.

mimimile93:
JamaicanLove has the tightest pvssy.

I think I love that girl..

But it's just a thought.

Lol, I no want talk

Briee:
You have feelings for her abi? Men always want sex from ladies.
Men are.....

Men are Kings..

mimimile93:
REAL LOVE...


We all want to experience it.

You want to experience what you are running from, how is that possible?

mimimile93:
JamaicanLove has the tightest pvssy.

I think I love that girl..

But it's just a thought.

Give it to someone who needs it.

I'm out!!!

mimimile93:
Men are Kings..

Mtcheeew... Women are Queens

Briee:
Mtcheeew... Women are Queens

Yeah the are..

JamaicanLove is a living proof.

mimimile93:
Yeah the are..

JamaicanLove is a living proof.

Your Queen, I'm the Queen in my king's life.

Briee:
Your Queen, I'm the Queen in my king's life.

JamaicanLove is the Queen of queens

JamaicanLove:
Give it to someone who needs it.
I'm out!!!

Bae you deserve it. I love you like a fat kid loves cake..

mimimile93:
JamaicanLove is the Queen of queens

Good for you. You are her King. She's got a lot to deal with.

JamaicanLove:
You want to experience what you are running from, how is that possible?

I keep running away from the ones that say they love me the most.
Lord, would you help me and stop this race..

Briee:
Good for you. You are her King. She's got a lot to deal with.

She's a dealer..

I trust her to deal with every single sh!t that i'm coming out with..








JamaicanLove, my mission's to purchase the earth for you. Present the gift without the curse.

Briee:
Apart from large balls and tiny prick, watin most men get to offer?

Will you keep quiet there? Little thing!