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No need of too much stories,
I have a friend who works with a multinational firm, he has a matured girlfriend in her second level in the University, she resigned her job two years ago to get a degree.
They have been dating for over a year now and he intends settling down next year with her, presently, the guy pays her fees and gives her monthly upkeep cash, money to make her hair etc. but the problem is that the young man complains that she rarely washes his clothes, even boxers. Sometimes the guy spends 7 days in a week at work with no time to wash his clothes. And he doesn't like giving his clothes to drycleaners as they usually ruin the colours. He prefers hand-washing them, which he does any night he returns, sometimes, into the night, 1:00AM when you call my guy, he is still washing his clothes, bedsheets etc.

When asked the girl says "I am not washing your clothes, if i start washing your clothes now, what will I do when we get married, you'd better give them to the drycleaner.

My guy is totally confused, knowing that a character exhibited during a relationship will definitely come into play in marriage. Please what should he do.

Tell your friend to tell his girlfriend to start washing those clothes with immediate effect. Lazy girl.

But wait o, before you go there, why are you meddling in your friend's relationship? You better stay away from other peoples relationship before you break it, focus on your own [mind your own business].

Yes

lol, she is not domesticated, probably she is the career type. Everything depends on what your friend value more in a woman. A career-oriented lady lack ability in carrying out simple house chores, they spend more time pursuing their dreams.

So he works even on weekends?

What kind of work will keep him away for 7 days without even that little time to wash his own clothes? Lies Abeg.

But just so you know, your partner can only decide to help at her own discretion. After all it's not an obligation.

He should hold back his cash and stop paying her fees. If she ask, tell her "When we marry; what will I now be doing?".

vingeophysicist:
lol she is not domesticated, probably she is the career type.

That's how their house will be smelling.

Tell your friend to buy a washing machine with the money he's been using to pay her school fees.

Simple.

If I keep paying your school fees and upkeep without getting laundry help , wetin I gain?

Is she one of those sophisticated confused feminists ?

She must show me the level of her domestication before taking her to altar.

IamD18:
Tell your friend to buy a washing machine with the money he's been using to pay her school fees.

Simple.

Thank you, wash BOYFRIEND'S clothes, nahhh!!!

there's no universal law as regards to that , it should be a personal decision by any girl out there to make

I pray say they won't later turn over the gboromideleru friend. Dont interfere in another person relationship.

I guess she's not reasonable enough to help him out SOMETIMES, use the money to buy washing machine when jumia black friday reach.

Works in a multinational but cant afford washing machine

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Xaos:
So he works even on weekends?

What kind of work will keep him away for 7 days without even that little time to wash his own clothes? Lies Abeg.

But just so you know, your partner can only decide to help at her own discretion. After all it's not an obligation.

People work 7days a week

Na from contribution of firewood you go take know how burial ceremony go bi!

If she doesn't, how will you know if she can later.

Dear Kings, set your standards from the word GO. If you don't, anytime you do something, she will say you have change oooo. That your friends have started misleading you.

I'm taking of fiancee not gf shaa! What will make a gf wasj a man's clothe sef?

Not as a responsibility!
After reading the story, mehn that guy should go to cherubim for serious deliverance from iberiberism!

What's the big deal in that?

it depends if there is money inside....

I will wash Dj Cuppy's pant sharply.. but if you give me Kemi Olunloyo jersey i mean asoke...i will slap it sote the slap will affect aunty kemi's brain... then she will start singing Nwokem Khalid-No brainer

Watch as them feminists troop in

Should a girlfriend allowed her boyfriend to folk her?

If she’s chanced during weekends, she should try it,that’s what we’ll trained homie ladies do.
Relationship isn’t all about SEX and FLEX.. there are little things u can do that spark up the other persons view of u.

If he undertakes responsibilities such as giving her money for hair, recharge cards and creme, then he'll yea, she should wash and iron his clothes.

Tell the murfvka to buy a washing machine but if he is broke... Do the chores b.itch

It's her responsibility now

Lol.. I only did this once and til today I've always regretted it

Never doing it again