Toks2008:
The Good Girl falling for the Bad Boy is a universal phenomenon. Many girls confess to being drawn to the wrong boys and this is one mystery the world may never unravel...

You will hear ladies talk about their need for a sincere,loving,faithful,romantic....guy but when they eventually have one asking them out they start acting up and in most cases, they usually don't develop any feelings for such.

In many instances i have heard ladies say " x is a great guy, he is caring, romantic...but I don't have any feelings for him but g is who I want but he is just treating me like shit and making me unhappy"

Please how do we reconcile a situation where many ladies keep desiring guys who treat them like pooh and at the end they cry over avoidable heart break...

I have seen several cases where I will tell a lady clearly that I'm not in yet she will just be ok with flings yet she will tell me about men who are genuinely interested in them. I guess im the bad guy in this situation cos i have no feelings for them.

This is one mystery I don't understand but maybe anyone else can give a clear reason to this strange phenomenon.

Nairalanders over to you all.

op we are both in the same situation, gf telling me how one good guy is trying to get her attention but friend zoned him but stuck with me that does not understand what love is, not that I am a bad guy but its clear n deep down I know i am not a good boy cos if her friends don't move correctly I might check mate them too

usoroh4luv:
Mhen, I could be a good guy this minute, and the next minute, I may not care.
Am I a bad guy?

we're the same, fam!

DanielsParker:


you're obviously less than 25. dreads, earrings and party trip you? LMAO.

lolz..na their way now.. all these indomie ladies

highqueen:

Lol, not at all.
My baby is the best.

diswan is just bragging over someone who am sure isn't bragging bout her..e sure me say una no fit end up in marriage

LuciferKristi:




Most rotten-fish odoured ladies are

Haba, are u retarded ni?

TonyeBarcanista:
Simple!

The bad boy is fascinating, the good boy is boring.

Mr Nice guy will always settle for the leftovers of Mr Bad Guy!

That's bad

highqueen:

Lol, not at all.
My baby is the best.

I hope its not all these ghost babies?
Show us ur baby or u knw d rest.....

IamD18:
It goes with age with women and it applies to both genders.

Let's focus on women since it's the topic.

Most ladies from 18-27 are childish, sluts, arrogant, flirts and not focused. They are only after their finacial-needs from guys and pussay-satisfaction which most bad guyz can offer.


From 28 upwards, maturity steps in, marital reality steps in, pressure increases, lots of heartbreaks, fear of biological expiration, depreciation of sexual features steps in, they wanna focus, they've realized lots of mistakes, they need a man to accept them with their flaws, they become decent, start pretending, talk responsibly, behave well because they wanna meet a target which is A CARING GOOD GUY as a husband. That's why you'll hardly see an aged lady from 28 upwards say trash, brag with number of men she fvcks or depend on men to survive. They don't do that. If you see any lady saying that men MUST provide while being jobless, glorifying their beauty and pussay, just know that she's still an immature lady mostly from 25 downward who's after bad guyz.


Real matured women from 28 upwards don't pray or fall for bad guys, kids from 25 downwards does that because they are not focused, inexperienced and yet to know what life and relationship is all about.

Falling for bad guyz goes with age, that's why most bad guyz are scared of aged ladies, they only go after the young ones with fish brains.

Beautiful analysis. What about with guys??

chuckjonesbaba:


You are right. I also think it has to do with nature and evolution. The bad guy is a survivor and women are attracted to stronger genes which they pass to the next generation.

how does been a bad guy and stronger gene correlate?..just say ladies are confused and bad guys are useless and irresponsible

Most of them don’t know what they want exactly

OgbeniSamm:


Beautiful analysis. What about with guys??

guys want to Bleep.. simple

DanielsParker:


you're obviously less than 25. dreads, earrings and party trip you? LMAO.

Most of the the girls that trip for bad guys are less than 25

dhardline:
Ask Eve why she fell for the serpents lies.

did the serpent really lie?

.

9ja girls are too fake to be understood

Keep your love, some of us just need a knacking mate without catching feelings.. But only "Hello", you have started planning relationship

highqueen:
Lol, not at all. My baby is the best.

Which of the two ladies in your dp is you? I want either of them.

melodyogonna:

Most of the the girls that trip for bad guys are less than 25

Very wrong

babyfaceafrica:
most of them are confused,a bad guy will pamper you,say sweet words, and buy you anything just to get into a Lady pants....a good guy doesn't have time for that,he is interested in your future,your emotions,your well being..but do these ladies care?.no!!!..all they want is the lies they are been told and the pseudo trills they feel........most ladies don't know what they want!!

Oga, please give me the permission to copy this your post sir.

IamD18:
It goes with age with women and it applies to both genders.

Let's focus on women since it's the topic.

Most ladies from 18-27 are childish, sluts, arrogant, flirts and not focused. They are only after their finacial-needs from guys and pussay-satisfaction which most bad guyz can offer.


From 28 upwards, maturity steps in, marital reality steps in, pressure increases, lots of heartbreaks, fear of biological expiration, depreciation of sexual features steps in, they wanna focus, they've realized lots of mistakes, they need a man to accept them with their flaws, they become decent, start pretending, talk responsibly, behave well because they wanna meet a target which is A CARING GOOD GUY as a husband. That's why you'll hardly see an aged lady from 28 upwards say trash, brag with number of men she fvcks or depend on men to survive. They don't do that. If you see any lady saying that men MUST provide while being jobless, glorifying their beauty and pussay, just know that she's still an immature lady mostly from 25 downward who's after bad guyz.


Real matured women from 28 upwards don't pray or fall for bad guys, kids from 25 downwards does that because they are not focused, inexperienced and yet to know what life and relationship is all about.

Falling for bad guyz goes with age, that's why most bad guyz are scared of aged ladies, they only go after the young ones with fish brains.

you seem to be a very intelligent person

You're very right Toks

A woman who doesn't appreciate a good man is probably a hoe.. Most ladies in their late teens or early twenties are usually confused. They're unnecessarily aggressive, rude and pompous until reality hits them. When does this reality hit them? It's definitely when age is no longer telling on them.

Their emotions are usually clouded with pamper, sweet talks, flirty words, material things and the chase and admonition from guys, and the bad guys are usually good in this aspect. They can be very romantic and a great provider when they need the kitty-cat. But when they're all over the bad guy, he begins to unleash the terror in him

The good guys have good intentions so they don't really have time for all these. They are very much interested in the lady's future as well as the unborn children

In conclusion, some ladies are just destined to suffer, so even if they fall into the hands of a responsible man they will still misbehave

Fazemood:
Bro, any lady who says such sh!t is still a child. Go and date an older lady and see how relationship is supposed to be

Abegi. No be all old ladies know wetin dem want. You find someone who is already in late 30s with a kid and you sell her a valid dream of building a home with her. Rather than spell it out straight up that she does not want, she keeps taking you on an emotional ride back and forth like a teenager. Today, you feel she might be interested and tomorrow, you feel like she doesn't want. And you sort of get stuck until you suddenly realize you have wasted a lot of time chasing shadows...

highqueen:
That's stereotyped.
I'm a good girl and I am.with the world best good man.

30 billion dn enta akant.

Hope u've told him dt.

Toks2008:
The Good Girl falling for the Bad Boy is a universal phenomenon. Many girls confess to being drawn to the wrong boys and this is one mystery the world may never unravel...

You will hear ladies talk about their need for a sincere,loving,faithful,romantic....guy but when they eventually have one asking them out they start acting up and in most cases, they usually don't develop any feelings for such.

In many instances i have heard ladies say " x is a great guy, he is caring, romantic...but I don't have any feelings for him but g is who I want but he is just treating me like shit and making me unhappy"

Please how do we reconcile a situation where many ladies keep desiring guys who treat them like pooh and at the end they cry over avoidable heart break...

I have seen several cases where I will tell a lady clearly that I'm not in yet she will just be ok with flings yet she will tell me about men who are genuinely interested in them. I guess im the bad guy in this situation cos i have no feelings for them.

This is one mystery I don't understand but maybe anyone else can give a clear reason to this strange phenomenon.

Nairalanders over to you all.

it is simple. what a lot of good guys dont realise is that they need to man up. A lot of good guys are effieminate, gentle,quiet as so on.

females are attracted to strength,leadership, dominance, maturity, success. How many so called good guys have that. When we want sincere, loving, faithful, mature,men. You also need to be masculine because that is what will attract feminine energy.
A jerk is masculine, but doesn't have the depth of character and responsibility to back it up. Meanwhile good guys have depth of character and responsibility, but are not masculine enough.
Masculinity is the first thing that attracts a woman to a man and vice versa. If you are a good guy, upgrade your game and get some balls.

TonyeBarcanista:
One thing about ladies is the ability to say a thing while they actually mean the complete opposite

better known as IRONY

Interesting �

Later in the future, most good girls still keep running back to the bad boys “irony of life” smile

Opposite Characters attract...bad girls would also go for good boys

Dollarboss93:


Come and date me
sweetheart, I'm boring...

You are so beautiful...

You can chat me up via my Email....dollarboss93 @gmail.com

God why?�

Fazemood:
Bro, any lady who says such sh!t is still a child. Go and date an older lady and see how relationship is supposed to be

In other words, nice guys get only leftovers? Haha. It's still the same thing we're saying. If the young and still hot ones give their prime sweet bodies to the bad guys in their peak, only to later realise their 'mistake' and settle for nice guys when they're in their 30s (no longer fresh and hot), na who come lose? It's the nice guy of course.