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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Eveezy(m): 8:34pm On Nov 11, 2018
God Forbid, for why na?
























She must have had atleast 4 to prove dt she is fertile
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by KanielOutis92: 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2018
Ayemileto:



Because u have done multiple abortions don't mean all ladies between a particular age gap must have done it.


I just pity the man that will end up marrying you.

See the way you're jumping around the thread as if you're the OP's girlfriend.

SMH.
Az in eh boss my mouth was left open reading that babe's comment. She seems to be talking from a position of experience like you rightly pointed out. I was gonna just overlook the comment..i mean she ended it with an "Lol"...perhaps she was joking or something. But her subsequent comments tho..say otherwise. Amakababe no offence ( oh well..i could care less if u take offence ) but ur generalization ( as it concerns that age bracket ) is very sickening...

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Amakababe(f): 8:50pm On Nov 11, 2018
KanielOutis92:
Az in eh boss my mouth was left open reading that babe's comment. She seems to be talking from a position of experience like you rightly pointed out. I was gonna just overlook the comment..i mean she ended it with an "Lol"...perhaps she was joking or something. But her subsequent comments tho..say otherwise. Amakababe no offence ( oh well..i could care less if u take offence ) but ur generalization ( as it concerns that age bracket ) is very sickening...
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Oyindidi(f): 8:53pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
CAPITAL NO!

NO MEANS NO irrespective of the excuse!

Others may, I CANNOT!
Never say never
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by hayzed1090: 8:59pm On Nov 11, 2018
Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz


Are u kidding me? This is serious o
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by KanielOutis92: 9:01pm On Nov 11, 2018
Amakababe:
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.
Wow..i cant believe what i'm reading. You do realize that what you are doing right here, is subtly saying to the world..."Hello world, my name is Amaka, & just like every other girl out there, i've had an abortion"...right? Oh well..congrats to you then Amaka. You are the true MVP..oops my bad, scratch that..abortionist

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by gtim4uall: 9:02pm On Nov 11, 2018
Amakababe:
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.
.
Guys 'd be like 'ladies ain't real' but when they see one they will play the jury judging and callimg names I Wonder What We Realy Want.
Dear I admire realnes and also kinda agree with you silent truth in today hypocretic world

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:07pm On Nov 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
Never say never
NEVER will I marry such Lady! NEVER

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Oyindidi(f): 9:09pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
NEVER will I marry such Lady! NEVER
What if she didn't disclose her past to you?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Ayomathy01(m): 9:10pm On Nov 11, 2018
You mean can I marry a murderer??... Hell no once a murderer always a murderer.... You have no excuse whatsoever to kill an innocent child..
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:10pm On Nov 11, 2018
kennedith9:
Maybe many guys are like that but not me. I hate always hate abortions, I want a girl who is decent but I would still prefer a single mother to someone who's killed a soul before. When she told me, I froze. I distant myself a little to wrap my head around it, she starting insulting me saying I'm conderming and leaving her because of something that's not a big deal.
RUN

RUN

RUN

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Ayomathy01(m): 9:12pm On Nov 11, 2018
Amakababe:
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.
you are talking from experience from all indications....

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:13pm On Nov 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
What if she didn't disclose her past to you?
For a start, the likelihood of me marrying a non virgin is very slim...

Secondly, I will do my investigation and I will ask her (in the event that I decide to marry a non virgin). If she lies and I find out later, THAT'S THE END!

This is just me though... Beside, marriage doesn't interest me, if not for my Mom, I will remain single and take to having kids outside wedlock! Shikena

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nuezha(m): 9:13pm On Nov 11, 2018
Is abortion a sickle cell anaemia?!!!

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Oyindidi(f): 9:15pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
For a start, the likelihood of me marrying a non virgin is very slim...

Secondly, I will do my investigation and I will ask her (in the event that I decide to marry a non virgin). If she lies and I found out later, THAT'S THE END!

This is just me though... Beside, marriage doesn't interest me, if not for my Mom, I will remain single and take to having kids outside wedlock! Shikena
Are you a virgin?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:15pm On Nov 11, 2018
kennedith9:
I was not expecting her to be a virgin, I know how hard it is to remain chaste these days but I thought she should atleast tell me it is one of the biggest mistake she's ever made. You can insult me all you want but I Know It's Not a crime to have standard.
Stick to your standard dude, don't compromise standard!

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by highqueen(f): 9:16pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
For a start, the likelihood of me marrying a non virgin is very slim...

Secondly, I will do my investigation and I will ask her (in the event that I decide to marry a non virgin). If she lies and I found out later, THAT'S THE END!

This is just me though... Beside, marriage doesn't interest me, if not for my Mom, I will remain single and take to having kids outside wedlock! Shikena
Are you a virgin?

Virgin males deserve virgin females only.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:16pm On Nov 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
Are you a virgin?
I am not but I make my rules and set my standard grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:18pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:
Are you a virgin?
Virgin males deserve virgin females only.
Who deserve who is not my problem, mine is my rules, my standard!
I set my rules and my standard! Simple...

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by highqueen(f): 9:20pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
Who deserve who is not my problem, mine is my rules, my standard!

I set my rules and my standard! Simple...
Since you ain't a virgin, let's say you have compromised your standards.

Thereby, deserving what you are. cool

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 11, 2018
Amakababe:
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.
Guys please don't mind this moniker. He's a guy. sad angry
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by teresafaith: 9:22pm On Nov 11, 2018
Turn cloaks are supposed to be ignored
Mtchewwww
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by akaahs(m): 9:22pm On Nov 11, 2018
kennedith9:
Maybe many guys are like that but not me. I hate always hate abortions, I want a girl who is decent but I would still prefer a single mother to someone who's killed a soul before. When she told me, I froze. I distant myself a little to wrap my head around it, she starting insulting me saying I'm conderming and leaving her because of something that's not a big deal.
Me when she told me just feel like jumped through the but on a second thought I decided to give it a try nd after 9 months into the relationship she began act cool now because of her attitude, the thought of this abortion keep rigging on my head.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:23pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Since you ain't a virgin, let's say you have compromised your standards.

Thereby, deserving what you are. cool


Like seriously?

My standard is to marry a chaste lady(virgin) and not to remain a virgin prior to marriage, and I am.very serious with it.

Meanwhile, I don't deserve any lady, I CHOOSE my kind of lady! If she reciprocates, fine! If she doesn't, her choice...

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by highqueen(f): 9:25pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
Like seriously?

My standard is to marry a chaste lady(virgin) and not to remain a virgin prior to marriage, and I am.very serious with it.

Meanwhile, I don't deserve any lady, I CHOOSE my kind of lady! If she reciprocates, fine! If she doesn't, her choice...

Lol, God knows how to punish your type.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Oyindidi(f): 9:25pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
I am not but I make my rules and set my standard grin
who go marry the ones you ride?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by highqueen(f): 9:27pm On Nov 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
who go marry the ones you ride?
Don't mind him.
His type ends up with the cheapest of them all. grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:27pm On Nov 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
who go marry the ones you ride?
Ehn? Is this supposed to be my concern? Honestly, I care not.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Oyindidi(f): 9:31pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:

Ehn? Is this supposed to me my concern? Honestly, I care not.
Yes, you should walk the walk not just preaching. Love will leave you to a woman that is not a virgin. A virgin in Nigeria will be a girl of 14. grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Oyindidi(f): 9:32pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Don't mind him.
His type ends up with the cheapest of them all. grin
I don't want that for my Tonye
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by highqueen(f): 9:34pm On Nov 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
I don't want that for my Tonye
Lol, it happens.
It's inevitable.
Have seen his type brag so much about who and what to marry, only to end up with something else.
This life eeh. smiley smiley

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by paix(m): 9:36pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything
The way you're sounding ma'am, are you a victim?

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