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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nobody: 10:32am On Nov 12, 2018
ChiefAlex:


Bitch shut up. You can’t dictate what he wants for him. Mofo

Exactly
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nobody: 10:34am On Nov 12, 2018
sparko1:


Is this guilty conscience or you just want to be argumentative? Nobody is talking about if they deserved to be married, Everyone deserves a companion, but will you chose a woman who you know has committed an abortion?

If you as a woman, cannot tell a man who is not your husband yet to use protection when sleeping with you, then you deserve whatsoever the outcome, yeah, if the child is born, the man will take responsibility. You can't say because someone put a snake in your house, you will burn it down. It's YOUR HOUSE FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! it might be wrong of him to throw a snake into your house but you don't burn it down for that reason.


Look....sense will not kill you jare..

I still don't understand how they are the ones carrying the womb, yet they find it easy commuting abortion. And want to play the gender equality card later in life
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 10:38am On Nov 12, 2018
But when a woman wants a rich man, you shame her and call her a gold digger and leech. Meanwhile most of you community dog peniss men want a virgin. Men are allowed to have standards but women can’t? Okay na I see the logic..
ChiefAlex:


Bitch shut up. You can’t dictate what he wants for him. Mofo

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:38am On Nov 12, 2018
Saff:
It’s one thing to have standards. It’s another thing to be utterly dense with fairytale-like presumptions. Don’t have too much expectations when looking for a wife, you will be very disappointed I’m telling you. Life does not work like ABC, the unexpected always happens to those who are extremely arrogant and condescending.
I'm not looking for wife, I don't even wish for a wife sef. I am very comfortable being a bachelor and if I have my way, all my offsprings will be through Babymama. However, I have to fulfil the desire of a very important woman in my life (Mother), so I may consider marriage and she will be a VIRGIN! The likelihood of settling with a non-virgin is less than 10%, meaning she has to be extremely decent, Not more than 1 ex-BF/Body count, no abortion, very submissive and loyal, young and beautiful (under 24) and highly productive among others. Otherwise, NO DEAL!

Thankfully, there are other alternative means to give my parents their grandkids grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Splazy(m): 10:42am On Nov 12, 2018
Amakababe:
I don't just think. I know and am sure of more than 50%
I think when something is up to 85% then you have to generize.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 10:43am On Nov 12, 2018
All I have to say is goodluck to you. In this day and age, to find all those things you have to go to your village in Anambra to find a lady who has not been exposed to nada in life. Age will teach you a lesson, you’re just young and a little bit delusional at this point so I completely understand. I wish you well!
TonyeBarcanista:

I'm not looking for wife, I don't even wish for a wife sef. I am very comfortable being a bachelor and if I have my way, all my offsprings will be through Babymama. However, I have to fulfil the desire of a very important woman in my life (Mother), so I may consider marriage and she will be a VIRGIN! The likelihood of settling with a non-virgin is less than 10%, meaning she has to be extremely decent, Not more than 1 ex-BF/Body count, no abortion, very submissive and loyal, young and beautiful (under 24) and highly productive among others. Otherwise, NO DEAL!

Thankfully, there are other alternative means to give my parents their grandkids grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Luckygurl(f): 10:43am On Nov 12, 2018
kennedith9:
Maybe many guys are like that but not me. I hate always hate abortions, I want a girl who is decent but I would still prefer a single mother to someone who's killed a soul before. When she told me, I froze. I distant myself a little to wrap my head around it, she starting insulting me saying I'm conderming and leaving her because of something that's not a big deal.

If you've never had unprotected sex with any lady thereby putting her in a position to opt for abortion then you're right to want a supposedly decent girl and feel that way.

If not, you're just the same as any other girl who has committed abortion or it's equivalent.

That been said, she told you plainly what her past is like, let's hope she didn't mask the numbers anyway.
If you're scared of her ability to conceive, go to the right quarters and conduct necessary tests on her. If she has ticked all your boxes regarding your choice of partner, this alone isn't reason enough to call off whatever you guys share.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by abiola7195: 10:46am On Nov 12, 2018
I don't know why people now promote immorality in the society. We shouldn't support abortion irrespective of the situation. There's always an alternative to abortion.....

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:46am On Nov 12, 2018
Saff:
All I have to say is goodluck to you. In this day and age, to find all those things you have to go to your village in Anambra to find a lady who has not been exposed to nada in life. Age will teach you a lesson, you’re just young and a little bit delusional at this point so I completely understand. I wish you well!

Anambra ko, Okigwe ni!

I think I'm comfortable behaving like a child on this subject... I don't wish to grow up please.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 12, 2018
Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

U have come again.

Dont worry

that savage 18 year old guy is coming for you...

U remenber him?
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 10:49am On Nov 12, 2018
Yeah and I like I said, I completely understand. The unexpected will happen to you, mark my words grin
TonyeBarcanista:
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Anambra ko, Okigwe ni!

I think I'm comfortable behaving like a child on this subject... I don't wish to grow up please.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Paulchib: 10:49am On Nov 12, 2018
Marrying her is not the problem, the problem is her not conceiving

Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by missdee384(f): 10:50am On Nov 12, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:

I am not even bothered whether she is honest or not but trust me to do personal investigation on her. If I find out, that's the END!

Beside, the probability of marrying a girl I didn't disvirgin is less than 10% no matter how angelic she may appear... And, I DON'T TRUST WOMEN except my mother and female relatives (siblings, nieces).

So you see, I'm in a safe zone grin
TBH....u are so full of yourself.... read your comments on this thread so far and all I can smell is pride. SMH

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:50am On Nov 12, 2018
Saff:
Yeah and I like I said, I completely understand. The unexpected will happen to you, mark my words grin
You will be the one to make it happen na... Oshey
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Luckygurl(f): 10:52am On Nov 12, 2018
DonBenny77:


I get your point such people have no conscience, I dated a JW who aborted my seed and jumped on "asoebi wedding train" in another city the next day

Broke up with her afterwards she got married to a JW last year December funny enough she's taken in already

Loll

We're you willing to get married to her immediately?

Only then is the breakup justifiable
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by desireh(f): 10:52am On Nov 12, 2018
Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz.
women don't usually say things like this, unless she really loves you, its to grave things. fool, go on your knees and thank her.




Aunty I have never had an abortion

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 10:52am On Nov 12, 2018
That’s right. If you don’t know, I practice juju, and I know who you are. So be careful smiley
TonyeBarcanista:
You will be the one to make it happen na... Oshey
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by press005: 10:55am On Nov 12, 2018
ednut1:
I know a girl who did abortion back in school,she don marry born of recent. I also know 2 virgins wey marry 2014 and 2015. No pikin yet. Life no get manual

@ d bolded......Truth.

Though we should still strive to live right.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by orobs93(m): 10:55am On Nov 12, 2018
EMMAUGOH:

Exactly my position. Nigerians are pure hypocrites.. Maybe the younger ones.. Some are below 17 here. Be careful

adults are among them after all we all nor get work a were we fit reason reach be that
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by gentlegenius(m): 10:55am On Nov 12, 2018
Amakababe:
shut up don't be stupid.
you're not perfect, no man is neither is any woman.


marry her for being honest or end up with a worst Olosho in ur house
Amaka WHY?
Why did you disappoint me like this??

My dear, everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. Insulting those who had different opinion with you is not a good way of life.... Pls learn some manners and get a life!

Meanwhile, from your first comment above, it is illogical for you to generalize that there's no girl (18-45) that has never had abortion. This is a public forum, and comments like this won't make people see you as a sensible person. It's just like a prostitute telling you that all women in the world are prostitutes, or a thief telling you that everybody else is a thief... Will you agree to that?
Pls Learn to be logical and respect other people's opinions especially in issues like this... I might even decide NOT to marry a lady that has slept with any man before. It's my own opinion, and insulting me from January to December won't change that. Though, I know people like you don't even believe that virgins still exists in this world, but trust me, a few still exist in this part of the world that I'm living. I don't know about your side grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Luckygurl(f): 10:56am On Nov 12, 2018
grin grin grin grin angry

Any man that hasn't deflowered a girl is still a virgin.

Loll!! This is a very stupid logic.

Nothing person no go hear for nairaland
excel001:

One of the warnings i got from a mentor is never to deflower a girl am not ready to tie the knot with and I have always kept to it. Even on some occasions that i have come across some virgin girls. i quickly Zip up. So i believe any man who has not disvirgined a girl before is still a virgin and has full right to seek for one in marriage

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by gentlegenius(m): 10:58am On Nov 12, 2018
desireh:




Aunty I have never had an abortion
Pls tell her... Because she seems to think everyone else is like her.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:59am On Nov 12, 2018
missdee384:
TBH....u are so full of yourself.... read your comments on this thread so far and all I can smell is pride. SMH
Honestly, I don't care much how you interpret it my Dear. It remains a personal decision for me and by me

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:01am On Nov 12, 2018
Saff:
That’s right. If you don’t know, I practice juju, and I know who you are. So be careful smiley
You practice juju, Juju practice me. I am a god to the deities... grin
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by press005: 11:01am On Nov 12, 2018
KanielOutis92:
Az in eh boss my mouth was left open reading that babe's comment. She seems to be talking from a position of experience like you rightly pointed out. I was gonna just overlook the comment..i mean she ended it with an "Lol"...perhaps she was joking or something. But her subsequent comments tho..say otherwise. Amakababe no offence ( oh well..i could care less if u take offence ) but ur generalization ( as it concerns that age bracket ) is very sickening...


Brother, that Amakababe might be expressing the facts in a wrong manner but she is right. Abortion is not written on the face, Lots of girls does that and will never tell you.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by missdee384(f): 11:01am On Nov 12, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
Honestly, I don't care much how you interpret it my Dear. It remains a personal decision for me and by me
noted but I am not your dear..... Take note

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 11:02am On Nov 12, 2018
Looool I laughed out loud when I read that
Luckygurl:
grin grin grin grin angry

Any man that hasn't deflowered a girl is still a virgin.

Loll!! This is a very stupid logic.

Nothing person no go hear for nairaland
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by jiboladhino(m): 11:04am On Nov 12, 2018
My girlfriend had an abortion for her ex , it wasn't what she wanted and I knew of it because we were friends before we started dating , I would love and marry her over and over again irrespective of abortion....she has the most beautiful soul a man could ever wish for
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 11:07am On Nov 12, 2018
You are sick. Weird people everywhere in this world.
excel001:

One of the warnings i got from a mentor is never to deflower a girl am not ready to tie the knot with and I have always kept to it. Even on some occasions that i have come across some virgin girls. i quickly Zip up. So i believe any man who has not disvirgined a girl before is still a virgin and has full right to seek for one in marriage

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by ChiefAlex(m): 11:08am On Nov 12, 2018
Saff:
But when a woman wants a rich man, you shame her and call her a gold digger and leech. Meanwhile most of you community dog peniss men want a virgin. Men are allowed to have standards but women can’t? Okay na I see the logic..

This is Nigeria not USA. Women are should learn how not to open their legs anyhow. Even though i can marry a girl who has done abortion 5 times. What matters is fertile womb. But that doesn’t mean you should set standard for others
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 11:11am On Nov 12, 2018
Oh but men can stick their dirty peniss inside any hole whilst taking medication for various stds, but still demand a virgin? Oh okay I get it.
ChiefAlex:


This is Nigeria not USA. Women are should learn how not to open their legs anyhow.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by gypsey(m): 11:11am On Nov 12, 2018
yes, why not? pussi is pussi.

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