After Jesus died and resurrected for our sins we are new Adams babe. Una no plenty reach this time around.

Amakababe:
that's the problem with guys, you are very stubborn and never listen.
that's why eve made them pursue you from eden. continue

Can you get a wife who never had an abortion prior to marriage.

tunwumi:


Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone. About 70% of non Virgins have had one abortion or the other. It may be induced or self. You can marry a virgin and still have child bearing issues. It has been proved scientifically.

Seriously, you have to use the bible to support this, You this is just a case of sex with another man, let me put it this way.

Jesus would have said, well let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone, and when there was none, he would say well Peter, you can take this woman and marry her. These things have implications, Child-bearing may be one of the issues but trust me, that is not the only issue.

AryEmber:
How many?

hOW MANY U DON DO??

3 NOW ABI?

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samysmoothfresh:
It's sad seeing how these phrases: "don't judge him/her"
"he/she's not perfect"
"it's a past mistake" etc
have rid the world of it's morals


because of "dont judge", many people now do shiiit, condone shiiit, willingly accept shiiit and encourage shiiit.


Because of "dont judge", no one sees the killing of a feotus (abortion) as a grave sin/crime


well for me, i refuse to accept "dont judge" hence, i can never marry a lady who undergo an abortion esp one who feels no remorse


she's a murderer and i refuse to accept her

EOD


PS: op dont let "dont judge" and it's advocates confuse you


do what you think is right

GBAM!!!

kennedith9:
Especially if she shows no remorse about it.

you did not get the question well..Should read ''can you marry a lady who has had an abortion for you before''

Because from statistic,one out of every 4 adult ladies have had at least one abortion before and you will hardly know cos they wont tell you.

kennedith9:
Especially if she shows no remorse about it.

bro diz na mumuuuu archaic caveman ignorant distant time question.....Incase u don't know about abortion it comes with different colors, deliberate, accidents,rape, deception etc...Unlike the west...Africa is fundamentally plagued with secrecy that arose from religion and culture...Unbeknownst to many children 90% of their moms @one time or the other had committed abortions...Something in me is even telling me u aren't ripe enough for marriage...U need more exposure hence u will make your wife's life unlivable...U will pay too much attention,details to trivial issues....Needless to even ask u if u can marry a woman who has a child at her teens or divorcee or widow...If u can't even overlook abortion..

I'm not a fan of rudeness,crudeness,oppression and intimidation or deception as it were but bro for u to have a next best union u must not seek perfection...Its a mirage...Perfection is achieved not divine or born with...

If u love her marry her...But i still insist u give ursef time...Argue all u want u will remember me if u don't because i av a strong conviction u aren't matured emotionally to house a woman.

Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

I WILL KNOW
I WILL NEVER MARRY A GIRL LIKE YOU.

ONCE A KILLER,....

AryEmber:
Don't tell me you think every lady in that age gap gas had an abortion before

Her post was utterly stupid. I just had to restrain myself from replying her. She thinks everyone is careless, sleeps around and puts their lives at risk.

kennedith9:
Especially if she shows no remorse about it.

98% of all adult female hav had an abortion, d remaining 2% u will hav to fly to heaven to find them.

To me abortion is very wrong but Even the ladies our parents married for they even know that they did abortion, guys in life you can know everything or all about a woman, if you try to dig deep about any lady, trust me you aren't ready to have anything with she, same applies to men, so do the needful love the girl based on her present attitude and continue ur life, it has never ended well for those that do much findings about girls.

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

Why not ?
Even when I never have sex till now...
I Will....
I will marry soon and the person I want to marriage had it once for another.... abeggy... I will....what matter is love

Amakababe:
I don't just think. I know and am sure of more than 50%

98% sef am sure

Amakababe:
shut up don't be stupid.
you're not perfect, no man is neither is any woman.


marry her for being honest or end up with a worst Olosho in ur house

No be every guy u fit deceive with your lies


I no fit marry a killer

Some people still think abortion leads to infertility in 2018. Some people believe abortion means opening your legs and putting a knife in your vagina in 2018. Some people still belive that abortion is murder in 2018.

I’m 100% pro abortion, although if it can be avoided that is the better option. There’s nothing worse than bringing an unwanted child who will lack proper parental care due to a 5 min mistake. Nigeria is already populated with poor, depressed drug addicted youths, we don’t need to add on to it. Let’s have children in proper environments and use condoms when having sex.

Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz.
women don't usually say things like this, unless she really loves you, its to grave things. fool, go on your knees and thank her.

Madam their lots of ladies that have not done abortion before ooo nah.. why you dey talk like say you no know this? that been said well, it still dont mean at all if you love her and she is still fit to bore a child then why not if not.

No. In a real life situation the man got all the opportunity to choose wether he wants a virgin or not. You women have no choice on this. So keep yourself and stop fooorking up and down.

highqueen:

Are you a virgin?

Virgin males deserve virgin females only.

Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz.
women don't usually say things like this, unless she really loves you, its to grave things. fool, go on your knees and thank her.

WOW!, I am not surprised by what you said, I am only surprised by the boldness and pride with which you said it.
AND you went ahead to add, "YOU SHOULD THANK HER!", NO, he should give her an award, these things are shameful, I get the fact that this forum is a faceless one, but at least show some form of morality.

Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

Why ar u so pained??I guess u can't count the number of abortion u av done...lol

Lol. How old are you. What kind of ‘real’ life logic is this. Men get to choose. Even if they have been having sex since they were in the womb.

highqueen:

Since you ain't a virgin, let's say you have compromised your standards.

Thereby, deserving what you are.

Still a virgin... I deserve a virgin as well... God please keep my future wife intact for me... With what am seeing now only 1% are virgins by 20 years of age...

AryEmber:
Ashawo for my husband, amin.

No mind that bitch, she is just insulting everyone up and down. I can understand why she take this topic so serious

You will never know unless that lady opens her mouth to tell you. It is not written on people’s forehead. It does not cause infertility, it’s not written on her vagina , you cannot go to the hospital to find out. Tell me how will you know? Don’t deceive yourself, you better pray that that woman opens her mouth to tell you, but most women take that information to the grave. Some don’t even tell their own boyfriends that they had sex with, goodluck you hear!

OsuMustGo:

I WILL KNOW
I WILL NEVER MARRY A GIRL LIKE YOU.

ONCE A KILLER,....

haconjy:
Why not ?
Even when I never have sex till now...
I Will....
I will marry soon and the person I want to marriage had it once for another.... abeggy... I will....what matter is love

Will it change anything if she has had an abortion three times?

The ones that don’t mind. We’ve got lots and lots of them.

Oyindidi:
who go marry the ones you ride?

6 of 10 modern day ladies have done abortion. I always ask. Its annoying. I have never gotten a girl pregnant before and if i did i wouldn't ask her to kill a baby cuz she's gonna lose value. Although some abortions are necessary some girls take it as a habit. Answer to the question is yes i can marry her as long as she didn't damage her engine and is still fertile.

Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

my friend will you get out of here before I throw you out

Amakababe:
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.

Nne your Simply saying the truth but the use of your Words makes it Irresponsible
but I dimm Ma na Obi

Maybe you don’t know life that much. Sometimes you get what you don’t deserve. Make sure you grow old more and you’ll see this.

highqueen:

Lol, it happens.
It's inevitable.
Have seen his type brag so much about who and what to marry, only to end up with something else.
This life eeh.

Very stupid question. If you can marry a sinner why not