greatman55:
And the winners of these highly tense realationship thread are those that go for 'COMMUNICATION'.

Yes without communication in a relationship other factors listed and not listed are inconsequential,if you know what i meant folks.

Communication can even sustain a distance relationship.

You said we are friends in class but we don't chat as friends,seeing you daily in class doesn't me we are friends we are just coursemates.

COMMUNICATION ROCKS!!!

Hello. Those are winners, because that is the trait that was important to you before you even opened the thread. Communication is good.
But it comes after Respect and Loyalty.

I want to ask you, Can communication Guarantee Loyalty?
Which is easier to work on in a relationship? Communication or Loyalty?
Which one can you stay in a relationship after, a breakdown in Communication or a Betrayal?

DaySpringer:


Lmao! I didn't actually see this post.
Young man, You need to stop hailling trust as if it comes on it's own.

if your babe goes all the way to Abuja for a conference and you call her and a man picks her phone in a Hotel room, by 9pm and your no shake because of trust, Yes, You have trust, but that "trust" only makes you a fool.

Your relationship will last ofcourse because you will believe any lie she tells you because you trust her.
She will manipulate you, and cheat on you and you will be blissfully unaware, why? because you trust her.
Yes, you will be secure, because you trust that she will not do anything to hurt you behind your back, but believing something that is not true is self deception. What happens when after all your trust, you discover that she has been betraying you behind your back all this while? Ofcourse you had your trust, but your trust made you blind to reality, the reality that you had been dating yourself all along, you had not been in a relationship.
That is why trust has to be built on a consistent display of good behaviors. You are putting the cart before the horse, you don't just give out trust, trust is earned. You don't give her trust simply because you are in a relationship with her, You trust her because she has consistently shown some consistency over time that makes you believe that no matter where she is, she will always display those behaviours.

You don't trust her to be loyal, you trust her because she has proven that she is loyal time and time again.
There are guys out there who trust their babes and they don't know that their babe is deceiving them. They like you, believed that trust should be given out blindly and thus, they didn't open their eyes to see the signs.

Trust is first a consequence before it becomes a trait you consciously employ, which is why it will always be less important than the others.

Why is it that when someone you love betrays you, you can forgive, you can still love, but you cannot trust the person again, except you are a fool? Think about it? If you can forgive after betrayal, if you can love after betrayal, why can't you trust again after betrayal, if trust is the principal thing?

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Did you read the post?

The OP asked a question about the most important thing in a relationship . I write my post based on personal experience
I understand your disdain because you have not seen a woman you can trust. Trust me they exist. 2000 babes may cheat on you but there is this particular one that would not.

TRUSTEDGUY:
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Did you read the post?

The OP asked a question about the most important thing in a relationship . I write my post based on personal experience
I understand your disdain because you have not seen a woman you can trust. Trust me they exist. 2000 babes may cheat on you but there is this particular one that would not.

Obviously. You did not understand the question in the post.

You read the post but did not understand it.
The behaviors that help you trust a person are more important than trust because you cannot have trust without those behaviors and that consistency!

That woman that you found that you could trust, did you just start trusting her or did she not exhibit certain behaviors with consistency before you knew you could fully, totally trust her.
Don't just have an opinion because of your experiences without thinking.

It's like you don't also understand the concept of importance as well.

I brought out points in my reply to you, logical points and all you could reply me with is "you have not seen a woman you can trust?".
No offence but you sound very naive.

Look at the picture below and see if it makes sense to you.

DaySpringer:


Obviously. You did not understand the question in the post.

You read the post but did not understand it.
The behaviors that help you trust a person are more important than trust because you cannot have trust without those behaviors and that consistency!

That woman that you found that you could trust, did you just start trusting her or did she not exhibit certain behaviors with consistency before you knew you could fully, totally trust her.
Don't just have an opinion because of your experiences without thinking.

It's like you don't also understand the concept of importance as well.

I brought out points in my reply to you, logical points and all you could reply me with is "you have not seen a woman you can trust?".
No offence but you sound very naive.

Look at the picture below and see if it makes sense to you.

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Trust has to do with the behaviors quite alright but the key thing till lies with the person that my point. Trust requires a greater commitment than the others and can only be given to the person he/she truly loves

TRUSTEDGUY:
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Trust has to do with the behaviors quite alright but the key thing till lies with the person that my point. Trust requires a greater commitment than the others and can only be given to the person he/she truly loves

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