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internationalman:
Well your question put me in a state of dilemma..

Can't answer it..

ayobamiJR:
God forgives. I dont!!!

vingeophysicist:
My problem is not forgiving you. I will definitely forgive you but I will never forget. This simply means I will never trust her again with the opposite sex.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again muslim, cheating is prevalent amongst we muslims because of the indecent ways we dress unlike our christian counterparts who are mostly covered and guided by the commandments of God

ojuoluwani:
the one happening to me right now look like she is cheating on me but never imagine how it can even happened. what happened was I discovered that she has been receiving call from a particular man for some time now and I became so worried, but just to cut the story short few days ago I opened her phone and I got some messages both on her WhatsApp and Facebook very romantic messages when I mean romantic messages i mean hot romantic messages I couldn't believe my eyes but I just calm down, I ask her she said there is nothing between two of them I ask her to explain those messages yet she couldn't, I av never seen her in this act before even never for once, I am thinking of telling my pastor or to just end the relationship cos I av never cheated on her and I trusted her soo much before this happened , for over 4 days now she irritates me in fact I am very confused now, don't forget she is my wife and the man we are talking about here is older than her father and at the same time the man is not rich the man is just a recharge card hawker .

Divay22:
I'll book a scar on his arms

I can, but no use dating again.
Love can't be the same after that.

zicoraads:
Yea, right.

More like you'll soak your pillow with tears and tears and more tears.

Divay22:
Who is gonna make me wet my pillow with tears, I mean tears really gonna have a strong influence on me.
I don't cry for irrelevant things anymore

zicoraads:
Really?

So do tell, what makes you cry now?

Divay22:
You

zicoraads:
Somehow I doubt that. I am not sure I can even make you cry. I can do a lot of things, but crying is not one of them.

Divay22:
Conversation is getting juicy
Ehn, so what are does things?

zicoraads:
Erm... Of course it's juicy.

However, don't you think the walls here have ears?

Divay22:
Right!
Oya lead I'll follow


Ehn, hope you're getting prepared for Sunday
It's our first date Zico, you better don't mess up .
I don't want noodles o

Offpoint:
Even bible support we kick out a cheating wife... So, I'm not some Jesus to forgive a cheating wife/gf.

The only time I'm to forgive... is if sex wasn't involved, but if sex was involved.... forgiveness can go to farthest, hottest and deepest depths of hell and sucks the devil's dìck... I don't care.

They can go fork themselves till fork do them apart.

There are 2 sins I don't forgive. stealing my things subtly and forking behind my back.

Just what you do don't let me catch you red handed cuz I'll take your life and face the consequences with no regrets or remorse.

hkidola00:
waoo,im Trina understand dat part of sex u said, my girlfriend had some romance with her cousin, kisses and sucking of breast, no penetration, and she was emotionally bonded with him for a while, what would u do and u loved d girl so much

Offpoint:
Forget her bro... she had sex with him. she can't possibly tell she did.

Love doesn't exist bro...

hkidola00:
no she didn't, she lied to d guy that she's a virgin, so she only allowed her carress her body, d day I had sex with her,she was angry and called guy that I've deflowered her....so dey didn't have sex,got to know through d sound recorder, so no sex, wud u still end it

wolesmile:
No one can actually say what they'll do under any given circumstance, until they are faced with the situation. Many might want to argue this, but it is just the plain truth.



I used to think I can't forgive being cheated on.... until it happened to me. I was mad... raging mad!!!
I almost beat the hell out of her!!!
I said it was over.
But then, after cooling off for a few days, I started remembering the number of times I have cheated on her. Several times I have had to lie when almost caught. Then I knew I was wrong. I was even the one that eventually went to beg her. Though we didn't eventually marry (Just a kid between us), but the separation had nothing to do with cheating on either side.



Don't say you can or not, until you are faced with the situation....

My Opinion, though.

planetx13:
Forgiving a cheat is not a problem....(Anybody can be tempted) ... the problem is forgiving a serial and an unrepentant cheat ...trust me it's not worth it... You only get waves of heartbreak.

If my woman cheats and she is remorseful about it, why not?? .. I will forgive her and even forget it ever happened..... after all, the bible says - to sin is human and to forgive is divine...

Ciao

Operamunir:
On point

atikulated2019:
forgiveness is a sin
If you bam you go know
Jubril no bam at all
Except ThE girl give me her friends