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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by VERDA: 11:11am On Dec 01, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:


You have a point but our standards can never be the same.Even men who are not worth respecting would be shouting for respect because they feel they are men so that your use of attitude as an excuse for women not being respected goes both ways
Anyways nice submissions.

Of course it goes both ways smiley....

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by drnoel: 11:13am On Dec 01, 2018
Bullshit! His opinion and a false one at that.
Marriage is not by force or for everyone.
A woman must not wait on a man to complete her life.
This life is too short for all that shit.
This Nigerian mentality is why Nigerians never progress forward

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Xisnin(m): 11:15am On Dec 01, 2018
bamidelee:

feminist spotted
low IQ
Imbe cile, it seems you just learned about "IQ".
SMH

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:19am On Dec 01, 2018
Every woman, at one point in life, needs a man. I have a single mother complaining in my Facebook chat right now.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:20am On Dec 01, 2018
Xisnin:
Imbe cile, it seems you just learned about "IQ". SMH
lol
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:22am On Dec 01, 2018
Crap people should marry whenever they feel like they want to marry. undecided

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:23am On Dec 01, 2018
Olalan:
He's right....forget the fake Talk about not needing a husband to live a fulfilling life as some say just to save face, many of them wish to be happily married.
BTW there seems to be a wide difference in women who are happily married and their unmarried counterparts especially in a working environment. Thus for me a happy marriage makes a woman better.
lots of sense in what u said. The thing is, women no longer wants to go into marriage empty handed because it has caused more harm than good. I think d idea should be to make money early and settle down cos i Cant advise any woman to marry without at least six figure in her account

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:26am On Dec 01, 2018
vingeophysicist:
guy seriously this is unneedful. Ladies are fragile oo, they might end up doing what you wrote
I Dont believe any lady will take this serious

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Anfieldboss: 11:32am On Dec 01, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
So a woman should settle for anybody because she must marry before 30.She settles for anybody and starts crying in the marriage.
This man should advise his fellow men on how to be responsible and on how to respect women.Maybe then women would agree to marry them.
You can't tell me that the likes of Dambisa moyo,Oprah are unfulfilled because they are unmarried.
This closed minded society of ours should understand that you do not tell people how to run their lives.
A woman should never reduce her standard because she must get married before a certain age.
Love,happiness,companionship etc knows no age.
So this talk is silly and not factual for everybody.
Even evening tabloids would be calling wonderful humans newspaper.

I laugh when people ask "Is marriage an achievement"? Marriage is an achievement (both for a man and a woman) However having a happy marriage is even a bigger achievement.

One fact of life is that Family is what makes a man or woman truly happy, not financial success. You'll know this if you have been privileged to interact with rich men in their 50s and 60s.

What the poster is simply saying is that it is easier for women to get married before they are 30, and if you will be sincere to yourself you'll agree with me, he is 100% correct.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Evablizin(f): 11:34am On Dec 01, 2018
bamidelee:
my dear ow you
I'm good and you?
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by MannieA(f): 11:48am On Dec 01, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Maybe feminists might as well not get married....gringringrin..The guy is right sha ...



define feminism..... I'm pretty sure a lot of y'all don't know wat feminism is
so..pls..define feminism

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 11:51am On Dec 01, 2018
MannieA:




define feminism..... I'm pretty sure a lot of y'all don't know wat feminism is
so..pls..define feminism
Don't take most of my words serious....gringrin Sometimes I say things for the fun of it....
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by TimiRume(f): 11:55am On Dec 01, 2018
Even Paul advised christian men and women to remain single like him, but if they can't hold themselves they should marry. That tells me that people can actually live single and happy in this world, both men and women.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 11:57am On Dec 01, 2018
TimiRume:
Even Paul advised christian men and women to remain single like him, but if they can't hold themselves they should marry. That tells me that people can actually live single and happy in this world, both men and women.
smileysmiley

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by MannieA(f): 11:57am On Dec 01, 2018
IamD18:
In my opinion.

No sensible and reasonable man will stoop so low to marry an expired woman in her 30s.

These set of ladies are condemned and a big disaster to humanity.

Starting from their toxicity to their bad attitude, starting from their sexual expired features to their infertility, starting from their over 700 body counts to their overused pussay looking like an expired liver.

Spit on them!


After reading my comment, a reasonable unmarried lady in her 30s will not hesitate to do as the picture below interprets. They are not needed on earth.



let me explain something you don't understand... something you are ignorant about...
first of all....not all women in their thirty have been used... not all women at this age have bad attitudes....
it is not everybody DAT is destined to marry early...I'm not justifying late marriage... I'm also not condoning it....but sometimes ..look at the situation...and think rationally...Instead of spilling irrelevant shii...
u said..no reasonable man will ever Marry a woman In her thirties... my dear..there are lots of reasonable men who will Marry them...don't laugh at a person's situation... like my mother would say..the three things u shouldn't laugh about in a person... is
1]their inability to have children
2]their inability to get married..
3]no money
there are virgins who are still unmarried in their thirties...I get the fact DAT most girls play around during their early twenties...still doesn't mean all women are like DAT... and sometimes it may be a spiritual problem

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 01, 2018
gloria34:
I Dont believe any lady will take this serious
ladies are fragile oo. I once insulted a girl out of anger that she has come of age to get married and even her so-called boyfriends are just using her to quench their sexual urge. Though everything I said was true. I later regretted ever saying that to her. This babe cried profusely. I later apologized on mine kneels. An apology that spanned for over a week oo. I vowed never to reply a girl angrily no matter what.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by IamD18: 12:01pm On Dec 01, 2018
MannieA:




let me explain something you don't understand... something you are ignorant about...
first of all....not all women in their thirty have been used... not all women at this age have bad attitudes....
it is not everybody DAT is destined to marry early...I'm not justifying late marriage... I'm also not condoning it....but sometimes ..look at the situation...and think rationally...Instead of spilling irrelevant shii...
u said..no reasonable man will ever Marry a woman In her thirties... my dear..there are lots of reasonable men who will Marry them...don't laugh at a person's situation... like my mother would say..the three things u shouldn't laugh about in a person... is
1]their inability to have children
2]their inability to get married..
3]no money
there are virgins who are still unmarried in their thirties...I get the fact DAT most girls play around during their early twenties...still doesn't mean all women are like DAT... and sometimes it may be a spiritual problem
Put more effort in hiding the way you type with your main account.

It's glaring.

And for your own good, i don't think it'll be safe for you to quote me again.

I just don't think.
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by MannieA(f): 12:02pm On Dec 01, 2018
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it is better to wait for the right person... and have a happy marriage... than to rush into it because u want to please family members and society.. and then u end up unhappy...with a broken marriage.. and life... then ur children will start suffering the effects of a broken family
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Chiefjosy(m): 12:03pm On Dec 01, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:

Donstan go and tell this to oprah winfrey,Stacy Adams,Dambisa moyo etc.The people that respect these women can never respect you.
Your type would not hesitate to marry these women just to get a green card.Is it not your Nigerian or Afrcan brothers that stoop so low to marry them or are these men not responsible?
Be careful how you use your words because you don't sound sarcastic.
*spits on you*

Why’re you pained? Are you an evening news paper?

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 12:05pm On Dec 01, 2018
vingeophysicist:
ladies are fragile oo. I once insulted a girl out of anger that she has come of age to get married and even her so-called boyfriends are just using her to quench their sexual urge. Though everything I said was true. I later regretted ever saying that to her. This babe cried profusely. I later apologized on mine kneels. An apology that spanned for over a week oo. I vowed never to reply a girl angrily no matter what.
Hmmm, some people are like that sha, i am yet to hear something that will hurt me that much. If i vex too much, i ignore u
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Chiefjosy(m): 12:06pm On Dec 01, 2018
Missbee99:
Not everyone wants to get married and thats okay.

Keep consoling yourself till you reach 50. E go clear for your eye.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 12:07pm On Dec 01, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
So a woman should settle for anybody because she must marry before 30.She settles for anybody and starts crying in the marriage.
This man should advise his fellow men on how to be responsible and on how to respect women.Maybe then women would agree to marry them.
You can't tell me that the likes of Dambisa moyo,Oprah are unfulfilled because they are unmarried.
This closed minded society of ours should understand that you do not tell people how to run their lives.
A woman should never reduce her standard because she must get married before a certain age.
Love,happiness,companionship etc knows no age.
So this talk is silly and not factual for everybody.
Even evening tabloids would be calling wonderful humans newspaper.

if you read the post, he didnt say settle for less. what he meant is that if you see a potential man and you guys click, dont over played the game and make the man confused, go for what you want. dont over party, over do things, do not take trending agenda like feminism and other ills to serious, think for yourself. moderation is the key.

i hope you know oprah has a partner Stedman Graham since 1986

the reality is that most men will go for young and fertile women than a old woman.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Chiefjosy(m): 12:08pm On Dec 01, 2018
Xisnin:

Imbe cile, it seems you just learned about "IQ".
SMH

Shut up weak ass mofo. Pussy nigga

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by CAPSLOCKED: 12:17pm On Dec 01, 2018
IamD18:
No sensible and reasonable man will stoop so low to marry an expired woman in her 30s.
These set of ladies are condemned and a big disaster to humanity.

Starting from their toxicity to their bad attitude, starting from their sexual expired features to their infertility, starting from their over 700 body counts to their overused pussay looking like an expired liver.

Spit on them!

They have no use on earth.

I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE GOING TO DIE THIS FOOLISH.

GOD HELP YOU!

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by eaddyboy: 12:19pm On Dec 01, 2018
So many of them re on this table

Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 12:30pm On Dec 01, 2018
In as much as I detest LADIES that lack common sense, I will never SUPPORT this bashing.
The LAST Time, it was Pastor IBIYEOMIE of RIVERS STATE attacking the said ladies, yet I learnt people still troop to such places

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by sacx: 12:38pm On Dec 01, 2018
Saffi:
To all the women who feel pressured to tie the knot, do not purposely make your life a misery, it is not worth it. People will always talk, you’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Unfortunately we have unfortunate men and even women that will shame you and ridicule you for not getting married at the right time, these people will be the same ones that will laugh at you when you’re running from one place to another, crying about your marriage issues. Be patient, work on yourself spiritually, mentally and emotionally, build your finances, build relationships, work on your craft, and God will compliment you with your equal. My mother got married at 31, my mothers sister also got married at 34 and she’s blessed with 3 children today, and they’re still very happily married. Its not a rare situation, it’s called life. Shiit doesn’t always go according to plan, is your life suddenly over because of this? It’s not a crime to run your own race, quality men attract quality women. Men, see quality before anything. Boys use foolish stereotypes to produce their own thoughts. This actually applies to both genders. Heck marriage is not for everyone, if its not for you, jejely stay on your own and live your life in peace. I shall say no more.

Marry me grin
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by highqueen(f): 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE GOING TO DIE THIS FOOLISH.

GOD HELP YOU!
Hello!!!
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Uglymugg: 12:46pm On Dec 01, 2018
IamD18:
In my opinion.

No sensible and reasonable man will stoop so low to marry an expired woman in her 30s.

These set of ladies are condemned and a big disaster to humanity.

Starting from their toxicity to their bad attitude, starting from their sexual expired features to their infertility, starting from their over 700 body counts to their overused pussay looking like an expired liver.

Spit on them!


After reading my comment, a reasonable unmarried lady in her 30s will not hesitate to do as the picture below interprets. They are not needed on earth.
top lol
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Foodforthought: 12:50pm On Dec 01, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
So a woman should settle for anybody because she must marry before 30.She settles for anybody and starts crying in the marriage.
This man should advise his fellow men on how to be responsible and on how to respect women.Maybe then women would agree to marry them.
You can't tell me that the likes of Dambisa moyo,Oprah are unfulfilled because they are unmarried.
This closed minded society of ours should understand that you do not tell people how to run their lives.
A woman should never reduce her standard because she must get married before a certain age.
Love,happiness,companionship etc knows no age.
So this talk is silly and not factual for everybody.
Even evening tabloids would be calling wonderful humans newspaper.
One spotted.

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by carter009(m): 12:50pm On Dec 01, 2018
Bitter Truth.
PUSSYHOE:
Will someone please marry this one before she hit 40?

always why is the truth about girls considered insult by them?

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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by MannieA(f): 12:56pm On Dec 01, 2018
lol....a bunch of people will be screaming about speaking the truth.. or being truthsayers...when they can't even tell themselves the truth.. lol..

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