| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by obaataaokpaewu: 7:10am On Dec 04, 2018 |
AGideon:
Well.... there's an Igbo adage that says: the hen that claims to be mad, is because she has not seen a drunken fox.
I believe there are subtle tricks you can use to get her understand she's wrong and have her apologize whenever she is wrong. can you type this adage in Igbo please? |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by vickydevoka(m): 7:11am On Dec 04, 2018 |
I rather marry a gal with a smelly puss.y than to marry a gal with a big ego. I once had dat experience. Dat relationship didn't last at all. Cus me I sabi talk my mind. # baba abeg run. I de knell down. I fit cry make u leave her. Even of she be doctor or banker with fat account. Abeg abeg leeeave her to gooo 5 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by macho44(m): 7:13am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Khallyella:
The same reason I'm thinking about ending things with my boyfriend if he doesn't change , Ego runs in his veins, he'll never apologize lest he sees tears dropping from your face  , I despise proud egoistic humans, pfft. What are you waiting for na?��� |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by adesina746: 7:19am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.
She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.
It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.
What do you think? My brother you are not wrong at all. It is a very big problem you shouldnt ignore and i must also warn u that she cant change. If u can cope with it and u love her stay with her, but if ut is affecting u and u can no longer cope just end it 4 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by vickydevoka(m): 7:20am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Tokziby:
Small pikin everywhere  from the first comment to the last...
What u just explained exist virtually in all women, forget whether u are in a relationship now or married. Women are like Television, they may have different manufacturers but they are wired the same way. Either u buy flat screen or orobo tv, whether u use ur TV with ordinary antenna or cable tv they will all show u something, some u will like and some na to just manage... That's just a tip of the ice berg. I laugh in roman numeral hahahahah this children will not kill someone.
Have u ever heard of a saying that, a woman will offend u but u will accept the blame plus ending up to apologizing to her. That's women trickery for u and every woman is born with her own form of trickery.
Example, The lady u love does something wrong but didn't want to apologize, then it causes a heated argument and the woman hits u first(be it a slap or punch) but she immediately starts to cry, and saying "u see what u made me do now, u made me hit u" while she continue to sob. . Abeg Bros, what will u do?? You'll definitely hug her and start to pacify her like a baby saying sorry dear, sorry i made u hit me.
You are talking about the only human being that had a one on one talk with the Devil himself and convinced man to eat the forbidden fruit... someone that single handedly humbled SAMSON wey dey kill lion with bare hands. someone that made Bill Clinton lied on national tv and still came bak to eat his words. The people that made a president mumu himself and to talk about oza room on national tv.
Guys one very good advice, have it at the back of ur mind that the lady u date today either for 1 day or 100 years, will never exhibit her full potential/behavior until she pack enter ur house as wife. If all men could discover the entire behavior of their wives before marriage, there can never be anything called divorce. Hence, u that is forming sharp and hard guy today, saying ur girl is gentle and quiet, and that u have a total control of her and u are 100% sure that she can never misbehave, i have one bad news for u... YOU AINT SEEN NOTHING YET!!!
Just know this, women are carved from our crooked rib, if u try to straighten them, them go break and if try to bend them the more, them go scatter. Hence, na to just manage them like that and accept them with their faults as no one is perfect. But if them try to destroy ur life, abeg u know what to do... My niggur u de burst my brain lyk balloon in De air. Buh finally good women dey. I swear I don see buh it's rear. Three Sisters from a wealthy family got married n after 10yrs all dere husbands are still showering accolades.. 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by BamideleOJ: 7:21am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Baba if dem tell you say God said and you fall for it forgetting that God can change destiny. You die well then. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Emmanuelcann: 7:26am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.
She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing
It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.
What do you think? You're right. There's no guarantee that she'll change even after marriage. What about her positive attributes, can you overlook her flaws? Because you also have your own flaws too. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by colestephan86: 7:27am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.
She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.
It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.
What do you think? Make sure you sort that out if you must continue, do not marry her if those simple words( sorry, please , thank you) can't come out freely from her mouth. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Emmanuelcann: 7:29am On Dec 04, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:
I really think you should let her go.
A woman should apologize when she is wrong and even when she is right.
That is total submission.
You don't need to tell her she is wrong or try to convince her to apologize.
Apologies come naturally to every woman oblivious of her onions.
She should apologize when she is wrong,
She should apologize when you think she is wrong,
She should also apologize when you are wrong,
Even when she is right, she should still apologize for not being perfect.
But the main apology she owes herself is for finding an immature scum.
SMH |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by boomssey(f): 7:30am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Just do d needful since she doesn't want to b corrected or won't apologize for her wrongs.what she doesn't understand is finding a good man these days isn't easy n there are so many ladies out there older than her who doesn't av a serious relationship talkless of marriage. Abeg japaa! U go always get another babe but mind u no one is perfect. All d best. 5 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Snow87(m): 7:33am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Take her to Shiloh 2 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by olaide1260(f): 7:37am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Whether u make her apologize or not datz ur problem oooo. U guys are here judging d lady one way or d other what abt dis that is also repeating same problem or issues all d time. Oga u self change ur behavior n attitude towards her so dat same issues won’t keep on happening again. If Dere is love y r complaining nah, u guys hav bin together fr quite a time now. U guys shud sort urself joor. khalhokage:
I don't want to have to coerce her to apologize every time she's supposed to, she's a grown woman not a child, if i make her apologize then that apology is meaningless. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by sfgrace(f): 7:40am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Jombom:
Are you trying to make sense or justifying the egoistical altitude as a flaw ? Either way none should be condoned. I wasn't talking to you sir. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by khalhokage(m): 7:42am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Emmanuelcann:
You're right. There's no guarantee that she'll change even after marriage. What about her positive attributes, can you overlook her flaws? Because you also have your own flaws too. Everyone has flaws my namesake, she has hers flaws but I can handle the rest they hardly even exist to me on a day to day basis, but this is just the one i can't take, I believe that there's no place for pride in a relationship. How can you be proud for someone that knows your secrets, your past, your dreams, they know where you come from and where you want to go, they know the flaws you hide from the world, how can you be proud to someone that has seen you naked and has seen your O face? The answer is simple, they don't think much of you. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Leo10000(m): 7:48am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Tokziby:
Small pikin everywhere from the first comment to the last...
What u just explained exist virtually in all women, forget whether u are in a relationship now or married. Women are like Television, they may have different manufacturers but they are wired the same way. Either u buy flat screen or orobo tv, whether u use ur TV with ordinary antenna or cable tv they will all show u something, some u will like and some na to just manage... That's just a tip of the ice berg. I laugh in roman numeral hahahahah this children will not kill someone.
Have u ever heard of a saying that, a woman will offend u but u will accept the blame plus ending up to apologizing to her. That's women trickery for u and every woman is born with her own form of trickery.
Example, The lady u love does something wrong but didn't want to apologize, then it causes a heated argument and the woman hits u first(be it a slap or punch) but she immediately starts to cry, and saying "u see what u made me do now, u made me hit u" while she continue to sob. . Abeg Bros, what will u do?? You'll definitely hug her and start to pacify her like a baby saying sorry dear, sorry i made u hit me.
You are talking about the only human being that had a one on one talk with the Devil himself and convinced man to eat the forbidden fruit... someone that single handedly humbled SAMSON wey dey kill lion with bare hands. someone that made Bill Clinton lied on national tv and still came bak to eat his words. The people that made a president mumu himself and to talk about oza room on national tv.
Guys one very good advice, have it at the back of ur mind that the lady u date today either for 1 day or 100 years, will never exhibit her full potential/behavior until she pack enter ur house as wife. If all men could discover the entire behavior of their wives before marriage, there can never be anything called divorce. Hence, u that is forming sharp and hard guy today, saying ur girl is gentle and quiet, and that u have a total control of her and u are 100% sure that she can never misbehave, i have one bad news for u... YOU AINT SEEN NOTHING YET!!!
Just know this, women are carved from our crooked rib, if u try to straighten them, them go break and if try to bend them the more, them go scatter. Hence, na to just manage them like that and accept them with their faults as no one is perfect. But if them try to destroy ur life, abeg u know what to do... WHAT IS THIS ONE EVEN SAYING,BROTHER PLEASE NEVER BE A SHOE SOLE IN YOUR LIFE,NEVER CONFUSE AN ADULT WOMAN TO AN INFANT,ALL ADULT HAVE THE conscience OF BOTH RIGHT AND WRONG,WHICH ONE YOU SLAP ME AND THEN START CRYING,I THINK SHE NEED FACTORY SETTING 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by komodapson(m): 7:52am On Dec 04, 2018 |
My brother move on. You know why? Because she's going to cost you a fortune later in future. Picture her as a deputy or VP who refuse(s) to apologize.what will you do? khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.
She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.
It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.
What do you think? 3 Likes |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:52am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Thislady:
So it might just be that she's BROKEN, she doesn't want to let you know and she feels an apology would make her feel weak..
Yes she might be proud
Yes she might be Broken(due to past relationships) and her philosophy is if he truly loves me he'd come back, what's mine is mine. MAYBE .. Senseless. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by mayusguy(m): 7:56am On Dec 04, 2018 |
After dumping him, holla at me so we can start afresh. I’ll apologize to you every minute Khallyella:
The same reason I'm thinking about ending things with my boyfriend if he doesn't change , Ego runs in his veins, he'll never apologize lest he sees tears dropping from your face , I despise proud egoistic humans, pfft. 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by naturefellow(m): 7:59am On Dec 04, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:
I really think you should let her go.
A woman should apologize when she is wrong and even when she is right.
That is total submission.
You don't need to tell her she is wrong or try to convince her to apologize.
Apologies come naturally to every woman oblivious of her onions.
She should apologize when she is wrong,
She should apologize when you think she is wrong,
She should also apologize when you are wrong,
Even when she is right, she should still apologize for not being perfect.
But the main apology she owes herself is for finding an immature scum.
Growls! 
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| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by komodapson(m): 8:03am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Which break again...the dude has spotted a red flag. He needs to flee...this are little early warning signals in mitigating impending disaster eunisam:
Take a brake 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by NoToPile: 8:03am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Tokziby:
Small pikin everywhere from the first comment to the last...
What u just explained exist virtually in all women, forget whether u are in a relationship now or married. Women are like Television, they may have different manufacturers but they are wired the same way. Either u buy flat screen or orobo tv, whether u use ur TV with ordinary antenna or cable tv they will all show u something, some u will like and some na to just manage... That's just a tip of the ice berg. I laugh in roman numeral hahahahah this children will not kill someone.
Have u ever heard of a saying that, a woman will offend u but u will accept the blame plus ending up to apologizing to her. That's women trickery for u and every woman is born with her own form of trickery.
Example, The lady u love does something wrong but didn't want to apologize, then it causes a heated argument and the woman hits u first(be it a slap or punch) but she immediately starts to cry, and saying "u see what u made me do now, u made me hit u" while she continue to sob. . Abeg Bros, what will u do?? You'll definitely hug her and start to pacify her like a baby saying sorry dear, sorry i made u hit me.
You are talking about the only human being that had a one on one talk with the Devil himself and convinced man to eat the forbidden fruit... someone that single handedly humbled SAMSON wey dey kill lion with bare hands. someone that made Bill Clinton lied on national tv and still came bak to eat his words. The people that made a president mumu himself and to talk about oza room on national tv.
Guys one very good advice, have it at the back of ur mind that the lady u date today either for 1 day or 100 years, will never exhibit her full potential/behavior until she pack enter ur house as wife. If all men could discover the entire behavior of their wives before marriage, there can never be anything called divorce. Hence, u that is forming sharp and hard guy today, saying ur girl is gentle and quiet, and that u have a total control of her and u are 100% sure that she can never misbehave, i have one bad news for u... YOU AINT SEEN NOTHING YET!!!
Just know this, women are carved from our crooked rib, if u try to straighten them, them go break and if try to bend them the more, them go scatter. Hence, na to just manage them like that and accept them with their faults as no one is perfect. But if them try to destroy ur life, abeg u know what to do... Loool kikikiki @ the bolded |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Khallyella(f): 8:09am On Dec 04, 2018 |
airsaylongcon:
Please just speak regular English. Your use of "lest" here is contextually incorrect. he'll never apologise lest unless he sees tears....
I clearly comprehend what I typed, jog on. 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Khallyella(f): 8:10am On Dec 04, 2018 |
mayusguy:
After dumping him, holla at me so we can start afresh. I’ll apologize to you every minute Smiles, torrh. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Khallyella(f): 8:10am On Dec 04, 2018 |
mayusguy:
After dumping him, holla at me so we can start afresh. I’ll apologize to you every minute Smiles,torrh. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 04, 2018 |
valdes00:
Getting married to such lady is the same as man utd employing mourinho as coach.. ask their fans now, they are suffering for it... LOL Some people sha |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Eleganza33(f): 8:13am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Funny thing is dat if u c the 1 wey dey quick to apologise u go stil treat her like trash 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by rednek: 8:13am On Dec 04, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:
I really think you should let her go.
A woman should apologize when she is wrong and even when she is right.
That is total submission.
You don't need to tell her she is wrong or try to convince her to apologize.
Apologies come naturally to every woman oblivious of her onions.
She should apologize when she is wrong,
She should apologize when you think she is wrong,
She should also apologize when you are wrong,
Even when she is right, she should still apologize for not being perfect.
But the main apology she owes herself is for finding an immature scum.
The only immature scum here is you my dear......am sure you are just the exact kind of person being talked about here. No decent girl from a good home will call a man such a name in public, you have just shown yourself here and i am sorry for you.........Guyz please take note of her. |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Nobody: 8:14am On Dec 04, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
Subtlety rules the world. I believe this, explains everything. To get absolute peace, get rid of that distraction that causes you that pain. I cannot tolerate an egotistical spouse, I expect that you shouldn't too. Please do the needful. Get RID of her. She won't change. Dissuade any person who tells you otherwise. She'll only get worse.
Make your struggle easy. No need recycling dysfunctional homes. We are tired of the ones around.  You are man in female monikers. 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by rednek: 8:17am On Dec 04, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
Subtlety rules the world. I believe this, explains everything. To get absolute peace, get rid of that distraction that causes you that pain. I cannot tolerate an egotistical spouse, I expect that you shouldn't too. Please do the needful. Get RID of her. She won't change. Dissuade any person who tells you otherwise. She'll only get worse.
Make your struggle easy. No need recycling dysfunctional homes. We are tired of the ones around. I salute your wisdom......Waw! 1 Like |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by 3verblazing(m): 8:32am On Dec 04, 2018 |
All I've read here are her flaws... I'm sure u have flaws too... What triggers pple's attitude and how they react to issues.. Is not always as simple has gabbage in gabbage out...and it's alot more complex when it comes to dealing with ladies... I'm no expert.. I have my relationship issues too... Bu what I can tell u is.. Good communication, understanding and some level of compromise is everything... Forget the "in-love-feeling" that shit is for kids... Focus more on friendship.. My advise.. Don't breakup.. Let out some steam.. Relax.. Relate with her like a friend and not a husband... |
| Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by 0ubenji(m): 8:39am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.
She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.
It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.
What do you think? 3 Likes 
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