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This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

You are mere gold digger.

haywire07:
You are mere gold digger.

How? I didn't date him then cos I was with someone. Not that I refused to date him because he was broke and now he's rich

Marry person wey no gree date me years ago I dey craze?

no i cant do that

Sure..
If you feel he truly loves you and you love him why not..

lefulefu:
no i cant do that

Hmm
But what will be your reason if you ask her to date you again after a long time? Especially when you know you won't marry her

You said you refused him earlier cos you were with someone

Are you not with someone now?

If I be that guy
Na to use vex of the suffer wey u give me, Chop n clean mouth

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

sometimes the best thing you are looking in the USA is standing next to you, for that guy to come back for you after several years of turning him down, he's worth the short my point is that the guys loves and adores you, You seems to be his teast and has the qualities he might be looking for in a woman so my dear give him a chance let me see why you won't fall in love with him....
Don't let someone else eat your own cake and sell it

Was it her fault that she was in a relationship and the guy was asking her out? Now she’s single, she’s ready to give the guy a chance, what’s the issue please?

Please don’t be a stero typical airhead, please try to use your brain. Just a lil lil bitttt

Homeboiy:
You said you refused him earlier cos you were with someone


Are you not with someone now?


If I be that guy

Na to use vex of the suffer wey u give me, Chop n clean mouth

Juliusdaughter:
How? I didn't date him then cos I was with someone. Not that I refused to date him because he was broke and now he's rich

fine, but tell me the truth,.............is he rich now?


Yes or no?

You don't want to be used. How? Are you a virgin? Make una try dey get sense Abeg.

You have been having sex with your ex for five years without any thing to boast of from the relationship, and here you are, talking about being used.

Biko! Fire down with him, if he ends up as your husband, your luck. But if he fvcks, treat you like trash and dump you for refusing him then, you endure and vamoose.

Relationship na luck. No scripts for it.

Saffi:
Was it her fault that she was in a relationship and the guy was asking her out? Now she’s single, she’s ready to give the guy a chance, what’s the issue please?

Please don’t be a stero typical airhead, please try to use your brain. Just a lil lil bitttt

this girl is so rude, aggressive, ill-mannered and violent!!!

Don't ever consider him. His intention could be good/bad. Spare yourself the stress. Don't give him a chance

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

Juliusdaughter:
Hmm
But what will be your reason if you ask her to date you again after a long time? Especially when you know you won't marry her

some guys do it.maybe at first the girl refused their wooeing cos they are broke and in later yrs when they make it and now come back to d same girl to ask her out she says yes.low self esteem men do such .

Pray abt it. That way...You won't be misled

lefulefu:
no i cant do that

you say? but you go lick nau

Pray about it... dt cud be your Mr right esp if you re set for marriage now as well*
Took my time to go tru your profile n all, it’s funny you just thought of moving on...! I start to imagine the hell that guy must have walk you through in the name of the so called love*

Fine boys n men re everywhere you shouldn’t enslave yourself bcus of fine Tns lol...!

We cud be WhatsApp friends* hit me up

Go about it the right way. Date him, don't sleep with him till he put a finger on it.

Martin0:
you say? but you go lick nau

no i cant lick wetin go purge me

lefulefu:
no i cant lick wetin go purge me

chai

@ d mention of marriage senses begin to loosen n panties begin to drop.

You no love the guy 5years ago, na now you love am Abi?

It's obvious you're using the guy as an alternative and the olodo no still code

He go straff u nd run

Well sorry to say; you two are mad. So having the same characters will make a perfect couple.

You re afraid to be used again as your ex did. You rejected him then because of the same ex(that if it's even true) and now you feel he's very OKAY.
To the lover boy: For him to still go bk to you or evn in possession of ur number means he's a psycho with no self love n esteem.
So you see two of you are mad and fits each other.

most men that have been trailing a woman's life for 5 years like this wuld need to sit with a therapist for sessions bcuz he may pass for a freak, or pyscho that may end up being violent and abusive.
1. if in the last 5 years he has been so good and always there for you. pls woman, bring him home to at least face his future-inlaws and have the whole gang of your family drill him with serious questions as regards himself, background, etc. let somebody who is dominant enough instill 'inlaw- fear' in him so he ll know you didnt fall from the sky.
2.know everything there is to know about him, his likes & dislikes, what makes him tick, check for early signs of a hoarding anger issues, etc.
3. when the time comes. 'no pity am for bride price & all its requirements. if he no get make he use mtfbank loan.' some men are doing it already.
4.above all seek for God's wisdom, direction & etc.
5.listen to not only ur heart but the gentle voices in ur head & ask yourslf dz over and over again' CAN I TOLERATE HIM?

Headlesschicken:
@ d mention of marriage senses begin to loosen n panties begin to drop.

Wetin boys don use the word marriage do ehn.

The boy no get sense of his



He no no say your value don depreciate after five fuvking years

samysmoothfresh:
this girl is so rude, aggressive, ill-mannered and violent!!!

Lol biased statement

pcguru1:
Lol biased statement

and the "unbiased statement" would be.,.......?

All is fair in love and war right? What's d harm in trying?

IamD18:
You don't want to be used. How? Are you a virgin? Make una try dey get sense Abeg.

You have been having sex with your ex for five years without any thing to boast of from the relationship, and here you are, talking about being used.

Biko! Fire down with him, if he ends up as your husband, your luck. But if he fvcks, treat you like trash and dump you for refusing him then, you endure and vamoose.

Relationship na luck. No scripts for it.

my brother i tire o.


After 5yrs of multiple sex with ex and maybe 2yrs of freelance sex and one night stands when she dey single, she still dey talk about using.

wetin dem wan use again?