greatnaija01:
see life... I am teaching you hacks and you want me to be your first victim.... lemme go and hug transformer since nepa have not given us light since AUGUST.

lemme sing...
AM WALKING AWAYYYY
FROM WURA in my life
AM WALKING AWAY EH

oh to find a bera girl...

U can do better than to hug transformer na

apholaryn:
well I think you started it yourself, you got yourself in the situation, you gave him some kind of attention and light he probably misinterpreted as green.. why to fi nkan ti o mor pe o nije run imu?
nonsense!

Keep shut there!

Who told you I started it? Abi is it a crime to agree to be friends with a guy

Wuraola01:



Lol. I aint friend zoning him, ma'am.

He should come out straight instead of surprising me everyday. U can't say I'm friend zoning him cos it's not like he asked me out, I refused and requested he remained my friend.

.hmmm..it seems you already have a solution to ur problem then... coz you are sounding like you do....wait for him to tell u na..or ask you out...shikena

MannieA:
wait...this issue is kinda intricate...
but first lemme start with my experience...
I used to date this guy...he told me everything,his plans..his projects and even showed me his bank account balance most times... I guessed he trusted me.. but then again we were dating...so sure he liked me..another is my bestie..he tells me everything... he is fond of me... he can't go one day without telling me wat he does.....I dunno if he likes me..as in emotional aspect ..I'm not sure he does... so I gave these two stories because he can either like you or just feel safe telling you things...when person feels safe with a particular person...they tend to tell you everything...
so.. I suggest u take wat greatnaija said and put him on a test... to find out his feelings..
another issue is you not being ready for a relationship tho...do you like him?? and why aren't you ready for another relationship coz..I suggest if you don't like him... you should just withdraw a little bit.. don't always make urself available.. it will hurt him tho sha...
and...it's always the guy who can determine if you pple are dating or not.. if the guy doesn't approve.. DAT means there is no relationship

God bless you, sis
Here is another angle to it. Not jumping to conclusions

He might just feel safe with telling me things. Yh, I definitely intend to find out which it is.
Don't want to go into a relationship now cos of personal reasons

Wuraola01:



Lol. I aint friend zoning him, ma'am.

He should come out straight instead of surprising me everyday. U can't say I'm friend zoning him cos it's not like he asked me out, I refused and requested he remained my friend.

Girl smh
You just said you are not ready for a relationship so what difference is it going to make if he asks?

MissRaine69:

Girl smh
You just said you are not ready for a relationship so what difference is it going to make if he asks?

It would make a lot of difference as I would get to know my stance with him. Whether to stop being friends with him or not

Wuraola01:



God bless you, sis
Here is another angle to it. Not jumping to conclusions

He might just feel safe with telling me things. Yh, I definitely intend to find out which it is.
Don't want to go into a relationship now cos of personal reasons

hmm...I get tho.... but if you try testing him and he doesn't show any sign DAT he wants to date you.....then let it be...if he wants you he will tell you eventually... but do u have feelings for himu can have feelings for somebody and still not want to date 'em

Wuraola01:



Yeah. I'm so torn
In between indecision.
And scared of myself too

Lol... Do you have feelings for the guy??

wuraola01, i hereby break up with you and your generation for hating me this much.... I WILL NO LONGER HUG ANYTHING. i will just watch horror movie tonight.....

you broke my phone's heart....
lemme be going to soak garri before someone come and beat me

Wuraola01:




U can do better than to hug transformer na

MannieA:




hmm...I get tho.... but if you try testing him and he doesn't show any sign DAT he wants to date you.....then let it be...if he wants you he will tell you eventually... but do u have feelings for himu can have feelings for somebody and still not want to date 'em

Okay. Thanks

Yeah, I like him
I like us being friends.

greatnaija01:
wuraola01, i hereby break up with you and your generation for hating me this much.... I WILL NO LONGER HUG ANYTHING. i will just watch horror movie tonight.....

you broke my phone's heart....
lemme be going to soak garri before someone come and beat me

It yaf nuh reach that one na

Aww, .
Oya I'm sorry

DanDeeBoss:
Lol... Do you have feelings for the guy??

Errm.

I like him. Just afraid I might grow to have feelings for him with the way things are going

Wuraola01:



Errm.

I like him. Just afraid I might grow to have feelings for him with the way things are going

Then be patient and see how it goes...

Wuraola01:



It would make a lot of difference as I would get to know my stance with him. Whether to stop being friends with him or not

Figure out what it is you want first.

DanDeeBoss:
Then be patient and see how it goes...

Tnx

Wuraola01:



I won't feel bad. As there's nothing between us


He shares more with me than he's meant to, being a mere friend

What do you understand by the word "friend"?

Wuraola01:



Keep shut there!

Who told you I started it? Abi is it a crime to agree to be friends with a guy

it is wrong to lead someone on...I pity the poor dude, I pray he see tru your deceit forthwith

Newboss:


What do you understand by the word "friend"?

A person other than a family member, spouse or lover whose company one enjoys or an associate who provides assistance.

apholaryn:
it is wrong to lead someone on...I pity the poor dude, I pray he see tru your deceit forthwith

Deceit? Really

Guy, what exactly don't u understand in all I typed

Wuraola01:



A person other than a family member, spouse or lover whose company one enjoys or an associate who provides assistance.

Well, that's not a friend because a stranger can give you all you just mentioned

I can't call a stranger a friend, I don't know about you You need to define friendship and set it apart, putting it in an exclusive class of its own

Newboss:


Well, that's not a friend because a stranger can give you all you just mentioned

I can't call a stranger a friend, I don't know about you You need to define friendship and set it apart, putting it in an exclusive class of its own

Hmm. So then, who's a friend?

Wuraola01:



Hmm. So then, who's a friend?

Well, that's personal. That's a term everyone must define for themself But in my world, a stranger cannot be termed a friend

Newboss:


Well, that's personal. That's a term everyone must define for themself But in my world, a stranger cannot be termed a friend

Ehen. Alright then

Wuraola01:



Deceit? Really

Guy, what exactly don't u understand in all I typed

yea deceit.. I don't expect you to agree with me so easily ..let me break it down to you if it's too hard for you to comprehend ..
It's never ok to make someone believe you care for them and want to be with them when you're only looking for mere friendship or casual hookup at most..relax and think about some of your actions in the past towards him, unknowingly you've made him believe you're into him more than the friendship thingy

apholaryn:
yea deceit.. I don't expect you to agree with me so easily ..let me break it down to you if it's too hard for you to comprehend ..
It's never ok to make someone believe you care for them and want to be with them when you're only looking for mere friendship or casual hookup at most..relax and think about some of your actions in the past towards him, unknowingly you've made him believe you're into him more than the friendship thingy

I sure haven't acted like I wanted something other than friendship from him. In other words, I've neva led him on . Sincerely speaking tho

Wuraola01:


I sure haven't acted like I wanted something other than friendship from him. In other words, I've neva led him on . Sincerely speaking tho

well if that's the case ...the dude must be really into you to be acting like a fool.. lol or probably his own definition of true friendship includes helping yourselves to grow which explains sharing his future plans with you and making you part of it...its possible you're just been paranoid about it..just play along

apholaryn:
well if that's the case ...the dude must be really into you to be acting like a fool.. lol or probably his own definition of true friendship includes helping yourselves to grow which explains sharing his future plans with you and making you part of it...its possible you're just been paranoid about it..just play along

Lol. Right

Thanks. Thought we were going to argue for a while

SweetBuns:

You've friend zoned him girl. I've been there before.
You just have to slowly back away. He will try to take it to the next level

it's possible he was the one that friend zoned her... She is just trying to be careful not to raise her hopes too high

Wuraola01:



Lol. Right

Thanks. Thought we were going to argue for a while

lol..see your head! so you were enjoying the argument

apholaryn:
lol..see your head! so you were enjoying the argument

Kind of

you must come to village to appease the gordz for xmas....
they are demanding the following

a one eyed housefly
a virgin lizard
the first sperm of a male mosquito
unripe pawpaw shaped like banana
and
the milk teeth of president buhari when he was a child.


IF YOU DO NOT DELIVER IT WITHIN 7 DAYS.... nepa will take light in your area during xmas.

Wuraola01:



It yaf nuh reach that one na

Aww, .
Oya I'm sorry

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