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Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:26am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Ugosample: That was me, but i always get banned when i write in French..... They brought the post back up, check it out |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nig4Greatness: 1:38pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
sodres:... So in your sane mind,there are no poor people in America??.one thing you should realise is,society cannot breed equals.stop blaming your government entirely but instead focus on your situation because a lot others are making it big in the same country you are cussing. 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nig4Greatness: 1:44pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Lawyer777:..... Of course we are not quarreling and I quoted you for reference and it's no offense because it's a public forum. So how far can you go as a dishwasher with $100 per day??. Hahaha...I guess this is what you mean by being successful.ok now continue...lmao!!!!. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m): 2:12pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Perhaps go back to your initial post and read the bold part that I highlighted instead of behaving like a chimp. If you are in a r/ship with a woman that wants to move indefinitely to the other side of the world (talking about coming back FOR YOU instead of going there WITH YOU ) This made no mention of greencard or no greencard, just a general statement which encompasses all groups, this is what I called BS on and gave you the example of how it was done back then and was still in vogue as recent as 2009. Your BS theory is just that, BS! Now to challenge your other BS statements, if your spouse won the visa lottery and you never included them in the initial application, you run the risk of visa fraud, many have been denied just for that, but moving on we are talking mostly about BF/GF relationships as stated in the OP, goodluck convincing a VO that you got married after the application. Like I said earlier, your lack of exposure is exposing your limitations, your heart might be in the right place but you just can't make generalized statements and expect everyone to marvel in your BS..... 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Ejadike(m): 2:20pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Naijaforeigner:chief, I greet you. If I don't Wanna migrate to Canada through the skilled route, can I migrate through applying for short term courses and possibly get a job? |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Ejadike(m): 2:36pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Admitwithschola:how can I get the tuition waiver and monthly stipend? I finished with an HND sha |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:06pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
abbey621: What kind of deluded person only takes PART of my whole post and then says i see things in black and white..... Maybe, Juste maybe, you should use your Brain and read the whole statement again.....here it is: Whether that woman has a valid green card (or not) is irrelevant/secondary here.... If you are in a r/ship with a woman that wants to move indefinitely to the other side of the world (talking about coming back FOR YOU instead of going there WITH YOU ) then thats the moment you guys should accept reality and part ways, as its obvious you guys have different life plans. now if these guys have similar life plans to move to their eldorado (aka US) then they should sit down and decide how they will attain such feat, in an intelligent/plausible way. If your babe says she is leaving to the US with no plans whatsoever (but a tourist visa) then she needs a mind resetting dirty slap Asap. This made no mention of greencard or no greencard, just a general statement which encompasses all groups, this is what I called BS on and gave you the example of how it was done back then and was still in vogue as recent as 2009. What the hell are you talking about?! EVERYTHING WRITTEN ON THIS THREAD IS ABOUT THE OP's INITIAL POST.... Now do you know what it is or do i have to spell it for you?! You foolishly came for my post who was a response to a the subject at hand, aka a woman wanting to move to the States WITHOUT a valid immigrant visa!!!! So all your NONSENSE about traveling with a green card and/or visa lottery rubbish is ARRANT GIBBERISH!!! but moving on we are talking mostly about BF/GF relationships as stated in the OP Then, as i started earlier, let BOTH partner in this r/ship agree to this nonsense of having one partner leaving with NO aim, NO prospect, NO legal means to stay in that country, while talking about coming back for the other party, IF (and thats a big "if" they can get a residency/citizenship. Let us all remember that many do fail miserably at Security a legal mean to stay in the US (let alone to bring a partner) and just run back to 9ja with their tail between their legs while their deluded partner waited foolishly for nothing. goodluck convincing a VO that you got married after the application. Like I said earlier, your lack of exposure is exposing your limitations, your heart might be in the right place but you just can't make generalized statements and expect everyone to marvel in your BS..... Yet you are the one who wrote the below deluded statement.... About leaving with a green card gained via a visa lottery while this whole thread is about the opposite, BWAAAAAAAH! abbey621: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m): 3:11pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Like I've said earlier, it's pointless arguing with someone with a limited vision. My initial reply to you was to the bold part of your statement not your entire statement, if only you had the sense to analyze instead of blindly critiquing there would not be any need for this back and forth. Anyways, I said what I said, if you don't like it, feel free to argue with your internet! 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:30pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
abbey621: the reason why so many people fail in life (and especially in Nigeria) is because there are too many deluded people, with nothing to bring to a r/ship, who Lay all their success/achievement in life on the back of others. The minute anyone UNWILLINGLY put their life on hold, in the aim that some other person goes abroad and find some miracle ways to get a residency/citizenship, so that they can come back for them after years.... Then i am sorry to say that this person has rightfully failed at LIFE.....important word here is "unwillingly" 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Auladimeji1: 5:00pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Useless Nigerians,Useless Nairaland.Now that you've caste your fellow Nigerians,what do you gain.Useless Creatures Trump right now 1 Like
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Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Ladies that have boyfriend over to you |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by 2buffagain(m): 7:22pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Valerie47: On the real, I'm not seeing a whole lot of female comments. Surely they have something or experiences to add to this subject....they are typically the victims. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Ejadike(m): 7:27pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Lawyer777:let's chat on WhatsApp biko. 2348137137224 |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 9:15pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
planetx: Why is it called Shola? |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by 2buffagain(m): 9:47pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
InyinyaAgbaOku: Why do we call papers "kpali"? 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by tizzdi(m): 10:30pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
lionlee216:bros which one b shola again |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 2:25am On Dec 22, 2018 |
EVILFOREST:and avoid to marry a Nigerian in need of Green Card, he/she will dump you after he/she gets it but first he/she will rip you off of all your money and leave you in troubles. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 2:35am On Dec 22, 2018 |
OluDare01:Texas |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 2:47am On Dec 22, 2018 |
myk2mic=74043039:If an American marries you understanding it's simply a business arrangement, this American will face jail and $250,000 fine, as well as losing all his/her assets, house, car, job, pension and getting out of jail, he/she never finds a job, because it's a big crime to cheat on American government. That's why this business arrangement maybe accepted by a low level trash people, drug addicts who don't care and want your money for marriage, yet they will ask you for more money and more and cheat you in getting a Green Card. And about a foreigner, Nigerian in this case, marrying as the way to get the Green Card, not for real, he is sent to jail too, $250,000 fined too and deported banned for life from ever come back to US. It's is the LAW. And in America the Law is observed well. 7 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by 2buffagain(m): 8:34am On Dec 22, 2018 |
Angela777: Yup. And this is why I tell them... Close up old romantic tethers, travel light, and marry in the US FOR REAL if your goal is to migrate here and your girls friend or boyfriend can't come with you. You complicate your life much less this way. 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
2buffagain:Yes. You are right. Better to marry FOR REAL and to build the new life in US and release your girlfriend in Nigeria, so she also can build her life. By the way, if you lie to US government, it is never forgiven. Even if it is discovered years after you forged your documents or married for papers, even if you are already a US citizen, if the lying is discovered, you get jail and deportation. Do you need to live your life in fear of that? I don't think so. Any man or woman with brain, will better do it right and secure his/her life and future with no fear to lose it. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by 2buffagain(m): 8:12pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
Angela777: The US government is the real mafia. They will Bleep you up bad mehn if you fall into their hand. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 8:46pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
2buffagain:Lol, the biggest scams were invented by Americans. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by santos41: 6:25am On Dec 23, 2018 |
Yes. You are right. Better to marry FOR REAL and to build the new life in US and release your girlfriend in Nigeria, so she also can build her life. By the way, if you lie to US government, it is never forgiven. Even if it is discovered years after you forged your documents or married for papers, even if you are already a US citizen, if the lying is discovered, you get jail and deportation. Do you need to live your life in fear of that? I don't think so. Any man or woman with brain, will better do it right and secure his/her life and future with no fear to lose it.[/quote] For the married couples, schooling or $500k to invest in the US economy is the surest way to obtaining GC? |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 8:10am On Dec 23, 2018 |
santos41:better try L-1 visa. https://www.forbes.com/sites/andyjsemotiuk/2018/07/12/quickest-visas-for-investors-to-immigrate-to-the-u-s/#48437ac87e43 |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by igbanbajo(m): 9:30am On Dec 23, 2018 |
Well written |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by myk2mic: 4:19am On Dec 27, 2018 |
Angela777: Everything thing is a risk, if you can convince them that ur marriage is real all good, I have lots of friends who went thru that route and today are citizens and have married someone else for real. Test the system but be careful. It is an open secret here in the country. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 7:51am On Dec 27, 2018 |
myk2mic:That's why, we, Americans shouldn't marry any foreigner who needs his / her papers, so many cheaters and liars using us and wasting our best emotions and life for to get what they want, it's disgusting and hurting to know afterwards this person said he/she loved you, went to bed with you, made love to you, using your heart, body and soul, your support in everything. Cheating the person who loves you, the system and you say your friends are happy citizens. May God and Karma pay them back all damage they did to honest and kind people. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by vickifeanyi47(m): 11:55am On Dec 27, 2018 |
Hello viewers, I have been a silent reader on this thread tho I have similar problem about this relocation issue and I need some clarifications I'm a young graduate from one of the federal universities and I am seriously making plans to go for my msc in Canada next year and possibly stay back there to start life with the intention of bringing my babe over after marriage. We have been dating since 2014 up till date. Yes we've both gone a long way in this I love and want to settle with her for life. Infact I have promised her heaven and Earth and she is very keen on waiting for me no matter what. How do I go about it? with what I'm reading up here, it seems marrying a citizen for papers is the easiest way to legally stay and start life there. I don't want to emabark on that kind of arrangement because I am not an advocate of cheating in a relationship. I need your candid advic please Thanks |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
Angela777:I agree it's wrong playing with people emotions like that. but this white old women are not helping matters at all. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 2:22am On Dec 28, 2018 |
LordSaints:They are helping, Last 2-3 years they get in the news, TV shows and YouTube and tell people how were they scammed and cheated and it helps other people to think better. Many men and women were in this situation and now many are talking and some even go to Africa to arrest their scammers. We have also huge government campaign against scam, marriage fraud and many scammers are caught in America, Africa and other countries and put to jail. Also it's very interesting to read the real Nigerian people opinion here in NairaLand, real point of view about the young Nigerians marrying old white women. Thank you. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by 2buffagain(m): 5:05am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Angela777: Are you an old white lady? |
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