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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:49pm On Dec 23, 2018

highpriestess:

Lmao.
E don tey naa.
Transgender thing.

I will open new account next year..

Me self will try it. Them don kuku dey address me as guy here before. grin

New ACC? why?

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by highpriestess: 5:51pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:
Me self will try it. Them don kuku dey address me as guy here before.

New ACC? why?

New year, new aakant. grin

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by JasonScoolari: 5:52pm On Dec 23, 2018

Arthurity1:

With your comment I can tell you are a rapist.

You're a wise man.

Respect.

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:53pm On Dec 23, 2018

u not attracted to him.u only see him as a brother.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:54pm On Dec 23, 2018

highpriestess:

New year, new aakant.

What about the ones you have already?

I don't have time to open another account o, if I deactivate this one it will be permanent. And I'm having this feeling I will be doing that soon. Nl don tire me.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by symbian123(m): 6:03pm On Dec 23, 2018

But sister na WA o. After 5 months. I already feel for the dude. Lol. I keep saying this. Nice guys carry last all the time. Maximum of two weeks is what I need before I start touching every part of that body.. If as a guy u allow yourself wait till about a month or more, she would immediately friendzone u and think u ain't interested in her. That's women for u. Make the move early. If she agrees, fine. If she doesn't agree, no problem. That's how one of my female friend called me the other day to remind me how she friend zoned me few years ago in school. Lol. I no blame her sha. I mumu then. She's carrying my pvssy all over Lagos and I can't have it. Chai. Na my ex cause am sha

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:05pm On Dec 23, 2018

symbian123:
But sister na WA o. After 5 months. I already feel for the dude. Lol. I keep saying this. Nice guys carry last all the time. Maximum of two weeks is what I need tutorials start touching every part of that body.. If as a guy u allowed yourself wait till about a month or more, she would immediately friendzone u and think u ain't interested in her. That's women for u. Make the move early. If she agrees, fine. If she doesn't agree, no problem. That's how one of my female friend called me the other day to remind me how she friend zoned me few years ago in school. I no blame her sha. I mumu then. She's carrying my pvssy all over Lagos and I can't have it. Chai. Na my ex cause am sha

I can relate.... Maybe I should change for the better cheesy

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Homeboiy: 6:09pm On Dec 23, 2018

DanDeeBoss:

lol come see the way she was moaning like her life depend on me

3 rounds, I come dey talk for my mind
so Na Shakara she first dey do

Na one week relationship sef

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by JasonScoolari: 6:10pm On Dec 23, 2018

DanDeeBoss:
I can relate.... Maybe I should change for the better

E work for "A" nor mean say E go work for "B"

Just be yourself, you must not be a "Bad" man to get female validation.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:12pm On Dec 23, 2018

JasonScoolari:
E work for "A" nor mean say E go work for "B"

Just be yourself, you must not be a "Bad" man to get female validation.

I know boss... Don't mind me

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by symbian123(m): 6:14pm On Dec 23, 2018

DanDeeBoss:
I can relate.... Maybe I should change for the better

�. Yes boss. Very necessary. Sometimes been a narcissist is all it takes cool

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by highpriestess: 6:15pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:
What about the ones you have already?

I don't have time to open another account o, if I deactivate this one it will be permanent. And I'm having this feeling I will be doing that soon. Nl don tire me.

Lol.
I won't be that active If I open new one.

With the way these kids on nl comment these days, one would be forced to do the needful.

How are you spending your Xmas?

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by leonard002(m): 6:16pm On Dec 23, 2018

dear op, there are two things involved here

1. You're either not romantically attracted to this dude.

2. You've been sexually molested in the past.

Either way, let me be polite. Stop wasting this guy's time. Just let him go ok? It'll be better for the both of you.

Don't worry, you'll find someone else who you can't wait to touch you in different places!

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kay4kay: 6:31pm On Dec 23, 2018

Earthbound:

Gloria, Gloria, Gloria. You're not a virgin and you're depriving this guy who has invested time, love and money in you. 5 months?! Haba! You are wicked!

You even a baby mama. Cargo

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Uglymugg: 6:52pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

You're just not into the guy.

While your brain might like him,

your _pussy clearly doesn't.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by chara019: 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2018

Prolly,you just like him as a person and nothing further
2. He irritates you
3.You already have some steamy imagination of you both sexually and his touch seems Luke he wanna have his way with you.
4.you've had some bad past issue with a touchy touchy guy
5,you............* clears throat* um.......masturbate,and love only your own touch and hands.....lol

just my opinion.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by 2buffagain(m): 7:20pm On Dec 23, 2018

MrBrownJay1:
@Gloria34
I certainly would like to know your answer to his question...... And why you didn't tell him exactly that?

If you see him as a friend then at least let him know about it so you guys Aint wasting each others time. Let him also have the choice to bounce if he feeds that he is wasting his time.

Love has nothing to do with this issue, because if "she" loved him she wouldnt be turned off by his contact.

She is just friend zoning the heck out of the guy.
Honestly, no matter what logic is in place, I feel her feelings for him will be much clearer when she sees him having moved on with another girl.

As a man, when you find yourself basically asking a woman for more affection, you are already going down the wrong path. The best way is to step back and let her CHOOSE to step forward. During this seeing back period, also begin to start forgetting her and start going on other dates. The onus is on her at that point to decide if she wants you enough to try.

Guys, you need to learn to sit back sometimes and let the woman invest too. No be only you waka come. It is in her investing that you know if she is actually worth your time.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kay4kay: 7:23pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

Ere Kini aja n ba ekun se

Note you are approaching evening newspaper. Afternoon already.

After one for that matter

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by BoyHuncho(m): 7:26pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

You obviously have no feelings for that nigga madam! Tell him straight up and stop wasting his gaddem time!

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MannieA(f): 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2018

Mcdreamy15:
no be our fault na...

ehenn..okay.I hear,it's our fault abi

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 7:31pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:
You MEN on this thread touched my heart nah. Its been a while I've seen guys here come together to handle a situation maturely.

abi o.. dont cry biko..the only creature that can cry now is..fowl,cow,goat etc..u get

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 7:33pm On Dec 23, 2018

lefulefu:
u not attracted to him.u only see him as a brother.

gbam!! feelings atimes can be dicey

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 7:34pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

heheheheheeeeeee

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 7:38pm On Dec 23, 2018

chara019:
Prolly,you just like him as a person and nothing further
2. He irritates you
3.You already have some steamy imagination of you both sexually and his touch seems Luke he wanna have his way with you.
4.you've had some bad past issue with a touchy touchy guy
5,you............* clears throat* um.......masturbate,and love only your own touch and hands.....lol

just my opinion.

hmmmmmm

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Vegaqueen(f): 7:45pm On Dec 23, 2018

you ain't comfortable with him

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Abortions: 7:51pm On Dec 23, 2018

JasonScoolari:
Some of you dolts are just another reason Nairaland ladies call us Scums.

What is the reason for the Insults? Must Gloria34 or any Female nairalander be like your sisters?

Be civil and think well before you type some bullshit.

No hard feelings.

93.8% Hard Feelings Observed

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:52pm On Dec 23, 2018

symbian123:
But sister na WA o. After 5 months. I already feel for the dude. Lol. I keep saying this. Nice guys carry last all the time. Maximum of two weeks is what I need before I start touching every part of that body.. If as a guy u allow yourself wait till about a month or more, she would immediately friendzone u and think u ain't interested in her. That's women for u. Make the move early. If she agrees, fine. If she doesn't agree, no problem. That's how one of my female friend called me the other day to remind me how she friend zoned me few years ago in school. Lol. I no blame her sha. I mumu then. She's carrying my pvssy all over Lagos and I can't have it. Chai. Na my ex cause am sha

Women are all different and you cant just use what happened between you and one bad Apple, to suddenly judge them all.... Thats just a sure way to fail.
Some women will dig you within a few dates and others will need to have more time to develop some genuine feelings.... Expecting ALL women to be receptive of you (within a set short time), regardless of who she is, is simply wrong....and thats why COMMUNICATION is so important.

2buffagain:

She is just friend zoning the heck out of the guy.
Honestly, no matter what logic is in place, I feel her feelings for him will be much clearer when she sees him having moved on with another girl.

I think they only lack healthy honest COMMUNICATION between them.... I mean after a few weeks of dating, that man should have asked that question, not after such a long time. As much as what she did Aint normal, i could understand the babe's actions, especially in Nigeria where Peer/social/religious/family PRESSURE is real.

As a man, when you find yourself basically asking a woman for more affection, you are already going down the wrong path. The best way is to step back and let her CHOOSE to step forward. During this seeing back period, also begin to start forgetting her and start going on other dates. The onus is on her at that point to decide if she wants you enough to try.

I think the above is a dangerous step to take, because you are not honest with who you are and start to play games..... Why portray being uninterested if you really care for the babe?! Thats a sure way to mess with a good thing. Instead a man should be honest and let the babe know how he feels about her, and ask her to be honest in return about how she feels about him. Sadly, many Nigerian men are not comfortable with opening their heart and being fully honest with a woman (and vice versa), thus why so many r/ship fail.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 7:55pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
He has always been cool so i assumed it will always be so, truely i'm at fault

how can a lion keep young goat for six month without checking if it is matured for dinner

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 7:59pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:
This one is another case ooo, that guy just want to chop and clean mouth.

Chai!!!

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by franklingud(m): 8:01pm On Dec 23, 2018

Alpha males like us don't allow girls to friend zone us.

I have ex-communicated many girls that have tried to friend zone me.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Abortions: 8:04pm On Dec 23, 2018

MannieA:

Your comment made my evening.

Nice one.I was about replying him but just chilled

SomEONE's CommENT MADE UR EVENing

U mUST BE very Easy To IMPRESS

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 8:13pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
I've had their support lots of times and i'm grateful

let me respond....the problem with you is that you didnt define the relationship right from the beginning....

Let me give you a senerio....a male colleague at work cannt touch you in those places you mentioned even though you have been working together for a long time..

Most of you girls make this mistake...it takes me 10 minutes to know if i can truly date a girl... One a month to know if a can marry her.. So as a guy, girls under my friendship book are catalogued less than two months...so you see y my diick cant just wander any how? But girls takes eternity that is y many of u have this problem...i discharge girls that cannt flow with me in a matter of few weeks.

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