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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by vindisick: 2:02pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
Is very clear you are not attracted to him. I blame the guy sha, cos i should have quit the relationship long ago. Some guys dont just know when to let go. This is pure torture. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 2:03pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
gloria34:i don't really comment to thread like this, but i must today, pls babe if u can't tolerate his touch that means u don't like him enough, let him go, don't waste the guy time, i can't even stand it, date a girl i can't touch, No. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kollinzgee(m): 2:07pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
you see this is why nice guys are bound to suffer in the hands of women .being nice does not trigger attraction in women infact it is a turnoff because women see it as emotional weakness. guys learn, the innocent guy has been caring and loving to gloria but he got friendzoned at the end.take you time to learn how to upgrade you game and watch women chase you and save yourself alot of emotional aches and money for only those who are willing to learn though. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 2:08pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
vindisick:emotional torture indeed, the moment i place my hand on a lady and she withdraw, i let go immediately, i know she doesn't like me enough. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by soflygerian(m): 2:12pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
zenith4biz:Hoo my lawd.. Savagery at its PEAK ..... Hahahaha |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
kollinzgee:nice guy suffers a lot in relationship, because most of them are introvert, shy, fragile minded, and don't really know how to fleet around,myself as an example. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Rahyberg(m): 2:26pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
[color=#550000][/color] Good boys tends to suffer the most.. That was how a friend of mine got friend zoned all in the name of being a good boy.. He can't touch the gal , talk less of holding her hand in public but will call on my friend to tell him informations been released in their department.. [right][/right]Mi no dull sha, I don do good boy for sec. School, na d other side remains.. Listen to my music and I dance to ur tune.. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kosmos95(m): 2:32pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
victorisreal02:hahaha which is one is 12 month rule una no go kill person. After waisting 5 month already. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by akiOYIBO: 2:55pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
gloria34:Yes, it happens. And the fact is: for being such a nice guy to you, you have no choice but to friendzone him. You only see him as a friend and thats all. He needs to avoid you for a long time so your brain can reset. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Eaziquiel(m): 2:59pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
Your failure to define the relationship from the start is the problem. Tell him how you feel about his touches. it's on him to continue with you or not |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 3:02pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
No wonder many marriages don't last these days. The girl did nothing wrong. And maybe we don't know the meaning of courtship any longer. What we have today is sexual relationships that leads no where. Sexual attraction doesn't hold a relationship. For most girls, it takes a long time to build strong attachment for body intimacy up. They have to study u for months. A guy that has already fallen for you will wait and give you more time. If I'm this babe, that comment from him has already disqualified him even if I have fallen for him. That's a big red flag. What he want is sexual relationship and is restless you aren't reciprocating. Some times deprive the person of ur presence. There are many ways to break a girl. Everything isn't about sex. Maybe you guys will have to go and learn how to woo a girl silently. You send signals without violating her space unexpectedly and see her caving in. Also some don't know how her previous relationship was. She is definitely attracted to him but is not yet settled in her mind and then the guy is destroying the fantasy she is forming in her mind(without knowing it). And pls can you all stop with the gifts? I will eye a guy that wanna spoil me with gifts at our initial dates with side eye as he isn't to be trusted. He is definitely after something. Oh well, what do I know, girls use that to define a good man 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by gbbec: 3:03pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
@Gloria34, reasons why you are feeling like that are 1. You dont love the guy 2. You may have a spiritual husband 3. He may just be a friend in your mind. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by BillgatesMaigad(m): 3:13pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
Truth is she doesn't love the guy that's why. The guy is probably not good looking hence she acts the way she doesn't. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:48pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
sassysure: So you believe that being quiet while not stating what you seek/desire, and instead blindly leading your partner on (for 5 months), is right? And furthermore, when that person who has been misled ask to know what is between them, not being honest to that man and instead being quiet is right? Sexual attraction doesn't hold a relationship. As much as they dont need sex, they certainly need some positive flow between them, this man is merely trying to get closer to this girl..... His touches are NOT sexual but could lead to it. If a woman is not comfortable with it, then she should say so, et voila, case closed. If she cant even openly Express herself to this man after 5 months then something is foul here If I'm this babe, that comment from him has already disqualified him even if I have fallen for him. Dismiss a guy because he wants to know where you guys stand?! Disqualify him because he wants her to be honest about her intentions/feelings?! Isnt it obvious this girl must be be as impossible to read as a poker player.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Longman6(m): 4:46pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
I really might not be able to marry a Nigeria girl....and have got fears for my life. How would a girl equate love with sex......humans(guys) generally have the innate desire to try out multiple sex partners......so if any lady is taking sexual connection for love or anything tangible...its fraud.... On the love side, i honestly have no opinion on that. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by AHCB: 6:48pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
pocohantas:now touching has become a yardstick in knowing if you like a person. Wow. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 8:17pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
mexzony:I have a prepared questions...the way she responds will determine if i can date a girl. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mexzony: 8:41pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
Fourwinds:Oya share Na. Make me self upgrade.no knowledge is wasted. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by rosalieene(f): 8:58pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
zenith4biz: hahaha..... you're a clown |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Fourwinds: 8:58pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
mexzony:it is for serious minded guys or girls who are ready to settle down... I hate any gender wasting another gender's time in the name of dating..... My approved dating period is a maximum of two years.... My question to every mature guy and girl out there is if u fail to learn how to greet in your parents house or wash clothes, is it when u are 20 years or more while dating that u will now know? Most failed marriages are as a result of all these things but people keep blaming witches and wizard...do the right thing while u are growing ,then u will have less to worry about... My partner is intimidated by qualities....i wash my clothes, cook etc sometimes even though i can ask her to do it....the respect is magnifying.. I ended up putting her on her toes |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by blackgold2018(m): 9:17pm On Dec 24, 2018 |
gloria34:You are really CONFUSED and sound stupid with this you said. The same stupidity probably made you a single mother. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 1:15am On Dec 25, 2018 |
Mariangeles:GBAM! I'm out of this thread. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Angelicsweetnes(f): 3:43am On Dec 25, 2018 |
gloria34:Sweetie, firstly you have been avoiding intimacy for about six months now, if your motive is to avoid fornication them it's understandable that you find his touch repulsive. If you feel like this for other reasons, best option is to communicate them to him. Proper and effective communication can never be overemphasized in a relationship. Merry Christmas everyone ���� 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by bassette(m): 4:44am On Dec 25, 2018 |
2buffagain:Here is the best take on this issue and it works. If it were the guy that came out here stating this issue I would said same to him.. "Step back n get busy", but being her I understand its a mix of chemical, emotional, psychological stuff going on in her. It happens to women especially one that had been active earlier on. Even as it is should she allow him have his way with her they would still part. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 6:53am On Dec 25, 2018 |
Angelicsweetnes:U are an angel 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mexzony: 9:09am On Dec 25, 2018 |
Fourwinds:Ok. Oya Na share. |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by jakandeola(m): 9:21am On Dec 25, 2018 |
rosalieene:We fight a lot and hate each other but cos is Christmas I make peace wit u |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by victorian(f): 9:26am On Dec 25, 2018 |
sassysure: God bless you! You will live long! Amen. Men of these days are crap, all they think about is sex. Always in a hurry to fuccck! Gloria34, you are not weird, there is nothing wrong with you. The only thing is cut him loose if he's not ready to be patient. I hate impatient guys. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by dru23(m): 9:33am On Dec 25, 2018 |
QuitNotice:
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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 10:06am On Dec 25, 2018 |
gloria34:how did you come about your son sef? outside wedlock? Why don't you settle down in marriage once instead of tasting different man and you'll be fine. I dislike courtship in totality |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 10:20am On Dec 25, 2018 |
[quote author=gloria34 post=74145980]U are an angel[/quot you have a son and you're telling us you never have any intimacy for 5-6months ago, I think you should marry a responsible man. let's assume this guy is attracted to you, he services for sometime and go on his own, you'll still be looking for another man. I don't know your age but consider been under a good man and enjoy yourself without limit than slaying after one. once again I hate formication |
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