IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.



I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

Burning her clothes and chasing her out isnt just the solution rather adding more fuel to fire. Kids of this tech generation are quite difficult to tame, takes patience and love. My only advice is for your dad to take it easy on her, have your mom talk to her as a mother... then try to bring her close to the family, your dads attitude towards her is insecurity, and as for you... you also need to sit her down and talk to her like a big brother. It might not be easy as this sounds but with God and prayer anything is posssible.

children of nowadays are just so uncontrollable, may God help us

Another teen horse located.

This matter strong oooo.. Na wisdom una go take follow that girl, your dad sending her out will only complicate things, she needs all the love she can get now.. Plenty counseling too, with God hopefully she'll change.

Persons like this learn when reality bites.

What drives her is the joy of sex, nothing else. I will suggest you advise her if she must must have sex, she should derive orgasm with regular boys and not Yahoo boys.

I hope u read about d 300level university student that committed suicide yesterday? Ori bibe ko ni oogun ori fifo o. Your family needs to take it easy. This is the time to show her love. Draw her close. Talk to her. Cry for her in her presence and tell her how her behaviour is making you all sad. Do not sound judgemental. Just correct her in love through prayers.
Omo eni kii buru ki a gbe fun ekun lati paa je. I pray the Lord Almighty will restore her and that her brain will be reset

iamPlato give me her contact details let me see if she is really guilty of those accusations.. hope she's sexy

Chasing her out is asking her to go deep into the wilderness. No amount of beating will help either.

Has the thoughts of her sexual hormone ever cross your mind?

As her big brother have you ever been there for her when she need someone to talk to?

Has your mum being their to guild her sexually?

She needs counseling and a confidential counselor.

Try that and you will get a positive result

cutting d head off is not d cure for headache

chigoziri2403:
let her hustle hard, buy the old man a jeep, and build a mansion, her sins would be forgiven instantly
money rules the world
I had a relative like that, her father always traced her to hotels, even used a cutlass on her, but when she started flying to Qatar, and bringing goodies, she became her fathers fave, the person whom has the final say in everything concerning family matters

You must be Igbos, right?

U suppose all parents are long throat. Some have dignity.
quote author=chigoziri2403 post=74222028]let her hustle hard, buy the old man a jeep, and build a mansion, her sins would be forgiven instantly
money rules the world
I had a relative like that, her father always traced her to hotels, even used a cutlass on her, but when she started flying to Qatar, and bringing goodies, she became her fathers fave, the person whom has the final say in everything concerning family matters[/quote]

Once her in-road becomes like this, she will definitely run to Christ Jesus before returning to your father..

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

There is nothing wrong with your sister and your mother is amazing, the issue here is that your Dad has not yet realized the signs of the times and you also are lost on what is going on.

This planet is at a cross-road now and things are no longer what we expected. I am not sorry to say that what your sister is doing is not the fault of your Dad, your Mom or you or even your family. Your sister has desires which can not be met and she also has sexual needs which need to be channeled to keep her sane.

Enjoy the few coming months because it is about to get intense on this planet as we have crossed the point of no return. Even the Elohim has lost out in the affairs of their creation.

We are under an invasion. We will witness weird behaviors that we can not explain.

Fellow Nairalander
This scenario depicted here should be a serious cause for concern
This attitude described of this teenage girl is exactly the evil vice that has become Soo widespread among our girls today
Our girls today are not only into sexual immorality but are also heavily into drugs
Sleeping with different guys to survive is not considered any bad by them
A serious concern for the future of our collective existence as a people

The male folks are something else and into all forms of vices, cultism, drugs, gangsterism, internet fraud, robbery and sundry crimes

What does the future holds for Nigeria and it's citizens

VOTE A NEW NIGERIA

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

Your dad is the problem. I've discovered that wen so many fathers fail, they turn against their wives. If He practices christianity or anyother religion, being an extremist is like saying he leads by rules, laws, which weren't feasible, yet, he wasn't ready to make amends. Her lifestyle may jst be a payback. U can't really tell though.

You can turn a bad girl good, but once a good girl goes bad, she's gone forever

KendrickAyomide:
iamPlato give me her contact details let me see if she is really guilty of those accusations.. hope she's sexy

Who invited crayfish in a gathering of fishes? 99 peeps with sense and one nonsense come spoil am?

Child of the world ..

Pikin wey go die go die

If e b say she still continue after watin yur Fada do to ram so, just leave am, all dis thing make she dey do go affect am later,but just still dey advice am whether she go change

dingbang:
Its too late, she can't change. Let her learn from the hard way

she can change and she will change

All you need to do now is let her know the consequences of her actions/choices with love and also back it up with prayers.

I pray it isn't going to be too late before she realises she is on a wrong path.

Let her get pregnant and you will see her back in her default state


Shikena

CreepyBlackpool:
Everyone in your family is just over reacting.

Y'all should take a a deep breath and calm down for a sec.





Now, solution.

Ask your father for 5k.
Go to the market.
Spend the entire money on canes, koboko and #300 pepper.
Whenever she comes back lock her in.
You grab her legs, your mother grabs her hands.
Your father should make sure he finishes all that cane on her.
Rub the pepper in her anus and private parts.
Her brain will reset and her sense will be restored.

16yr old already collecting d!ck!!!!!!
Is she mad

Weldone Osama bin ladin!
U self be xtremist I don mark ur name

Pathetic! Take her to SCOAN for deliverance.

UyaiIncomparabl:



Whoever will change will change. For a stone hearted person like me, flog me from dusk till dawn, you're just wasting your time and strength.

My dear, dem no flog you well... if me as a specialist flog you, hmmm comment reserved... nah joke i dey

listen and listen carefully, let her fcvk the preek she so much want as much as she can,then later she will now realize that its just preek and it's normal to fvck them then you know her senses must have been corrected.

See what d drug called peniscilin has caused,y do girls love this antibiotics called peniscilin and guys keep producing it even though scientist know its no longer potent spits

Your family wasn't there for her when she was growing up, you come from a dysfunctional family like most of us, she needs a lot of attention and affection, it should have been done on time, it's never too late, if she has a mentor, she will change and be upright, but the immediate solution would be to find her a gainful employment or spouse because she is definitely not going to succeed in school as she will be distracted easily. Some father do have them.

Samakus:
There's nothing your father can do again. Let him delete her from his mind. I know it's hard but not impossible. Children like that should be forgotten.

Besides, did any of your parents tow that line during their youth? Blood is thicker than zobo o

Never! My Mother Is Phlegmatic by Nature And Grew Up To Be Very Calm. Women Then Are Different From Women Now

MannieA:



she can change and she will change

lol...its good to be optimistic sha
but see your confidence for someone you don't know from adam

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

Guy if this your story has anything truth in it. Then you are like the last hope in the chain. You have to know if she likes what is happening to her and whether she likes what she is doing. you have to know why she started, what is the gain she now have. Since she is still a kid, as much as you try to understand her, do not respect all of her opinions because they are not built on conviction but maybe see-and-copy kind of thing. You have to know what went wrong. But I believe she has been hipnotized meaning there is strong believe
or an idea controlling her thoughts and feelings