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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by randy01(m): 11:35pm On Dec 27, 2018
Don't stress your self a lot.let me use my little sister as example.she is like your sister then exactly 16 years.she will never listen to advise sometimes she will insult my mom.she only behave normal when we her grown bro are around. She got pregnant at 16 and gave birth to a boy.she move in with the guy that impregnate her.that is when she knew all gilter are not gold.the is g boy but maga never pay.to cut the long story short that is how my sister end going to farm with the guy mom.she have come back home and start begging because the suffering is too much.we accept her back.@ op now she is a medical doctor.she hate guys a lot.she never accept any guy that want to date her.Am even scared now if will ever get married.just leave your sister let her make mistake then she know how life is.

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by dROC1: 11:36pm On Dec 27, 2018
lonlytroy:
Picture of your sister in slut mood or i don't believe

lmaoooo
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Boss13: 11:37pm On Dec 27, 2018
emmyid:
Hmmm. But, why do you have to go through her chats in the first place. Secondly, you claim you don't care about her anymore, but from the mood and tone of your writeup, you scared of losing her and still care pretty much about her. Your father is just doing what most Nigerian fathers will do though. Maybe, your sister needs a rehab!

Meanwhile watch the stunts at Calabar Bikers Carnival that took place earlier below -


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tb7t44cpkYc

What is this one saying? Of course he still cares. She is family. He is just irritated.

Chief - I can understand your father’s action, but I think it’s inappropriate. Your father chasing her out is only going to make her dive straight into strangers. Maybe the old man needs to tune down a little bit and try to understand what’s she wants and advise her of the consequences involved. The criticism should end. I think she feels she is not loved or well cared for at home and considers her lover(s) to be more caring.

She needs her father more and your father needs her too because he may lose a daughter.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Gkemz: 11:37pm On Dec 27, 2018
The blame goes to your parents for their failure to raise her in ways of God at her tender age when she could be pruned.

Do you believe that God can change the situation for good no matter how ugly it may look. How's your relationship with your God. She needs to be delivered because you're dealing with something bigger than your sister. She could be 16 but what is inside of her is much more stronger than a 16yrs old girl. You can seek for a genuine man of God from a Bible believing church but first she need to surrender herself because for a deliverance to be more effective, the individual has to volunteer his or herself otherwise she may return to her vomit after the deliverance.
Who knows maybe she's been possessed and controlled by spirit of fornication or it could be that she's operating under a spell and for her to regain her freedom you need to address it and deal with it spiritually.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by alexmaye(m): 11:38pm On Dec 27, 2018
Op Take Her For Deliverance At Mfm Like Somebody Suggested, Its Never Too Late For God To Change Her Life.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 11:38pm On Dec 27, 2018
dingbang:
Its too late, she can't change. Let her learn from the hard way
She can still change
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Myzubby(m): 11:38pm On Dec 27, 2018
Well. This is a serious matter , but the general coperation of the whole family is needed on this. I don't know whether you are religious or not but there is no therapy or advice that can help IN the matter now. This is an issue that requires spiritual solution am not trying to advertise a religion here but I Know Very Well that prayers and intercessions is needed for your sister's sake. You Or Any Member of your family can as well use any human tactics known to you but it won't work, BECAUSE her conscience and spirit is in bondage and she is under a spell and satanic influence. Let Me Tell You. Even If Your Dad Should Kill Her . Your Mum Might Be Dead. And I Believe Your Dad Won't Live With A Clear And Guiltless Conscience After That. YOUR FAMILY NEED SPIRITUAL HELP.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by dingbang(m): 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2018
MannieA:



she can change and she will change
how? A sex addict? A nymph?
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2018
Itzurboi:
My dear, dem no flog you well... if me as a specialist flog you, hmmm comment reserved... nah joke i dey

I know. smiley

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by dROC1: 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2018
stonemasonn:
Somebody said when a good girl turns bad, she stays bad forever.

Idleness is the cause.

Advice to every parent, teenagers are not kids, they’re adults with no life experience, they need responsibilities and must not be idle at anytime.

If the dad had bought a sewing machine and a laptop for his favorite daughter when she was 13, and invested in her learning advanced design, cutting and sewing during school holidays, by now she would have been busy with something worthwhile instead of chasing ordinary penis. Penis that will still be there when she’s 100.

Best advice on this entire thread. I think her folks missed it here.

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Wirelessmic(m): 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2018
Hope he didn't burn her pants? shocked

If you know you know! grin



God will take charge
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by emmykk(m): 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2018
1. Marry her off to a husband you can officially satisfy her sexual urge

2.Send her packing to join whoever she stay that long with till night,by the time she live outside your domain and permanently with the G-boys they will be tired of her too and will chase her or careless and she will come to her sense.(remember the prodigal son)

3.if your mother is a business woman that is if she has a shop,you guys can make her be with your mother every seconds,if she is to go out someone will be with her always.

There are tens of girls of her age at azikiwe road port Harcourt doing prostitution,she will not die nor do all yahoo boys do jazz, she should be allow to explore society then she will come to her senses.

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2018
Bro sorry to say this, There is nothing much you can do again.
That button.... I mean the maturity switch have been turned on forever!

It is just like going back again, again and again to watch indecent movie.

Biology at play here.

She is just satisfying the second to last xterics of all living things being reproduction. The last R.

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by skarz: 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2018
dingbang:
Its too late, she can't change. Let her learn from the hard way
there's no such thing as too late in this area
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Lekan1o1: 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2018
Lekan1o1:

Take her to MFM moutian of fire.
I can connect u to my neighbour who attends the church if u are interested
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by aadoiza: 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
Everyone in your family is just over reacting.

Y'all should take a a deep breath and calm down for a sec.





Now, solution.

Ask your father for 5k.
Go to the market.
Spend the entire money on canes, koboko and #300 pepper.
Whenever she comes back lock her in.
You grab her legs, your mother grabs her hands.
Your father should make sure he finishes all that cane on her.
Rub the pepper in her anus and private parts.
Her brain will reset and her sense will be restored.

16yr old already collecting d!ck!!!!!!angry
Is she mad
Wow!!! Great formatting technique.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by pooozeee(m): 11:45pm On Dec 27, 2018
What happens to deliverances and prayers ?

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by ohem007(m): 11:45pm On Dec 27, 2018
my kid sis sef dey do this same thing o..
pikin wey I use two people take senior...

I don't even know where to start sef


this girl get mind tell me say she no dey fear anybody

she comes home around 11pm to 1am the next day...
girl of 14 years o
her friend even tell me say she tell her say she get one boyfriend wey wan buy her phone with 5k as allowances

see my oga I swear down i don tell her say if I handle her ehnn them go hear my story for nairaland say big broda beat kid sis to death...


buh I go like to hear how your own play out sha

you fit add me for Facebook or you DM me....

you are not in this alone bro

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by abbey621(m): 11:46pm On Dec 27, 2018
konkacid:
A wayward child, whether male or female is an error of both parents. How many parents take time to know their children. You see the blame game? A father's responsibility doesn't end at putting food on the table. From children responsibility angle, your children shouldn't have a better friend and confidant than you. We need a new generation of fathers who would be their homes' watchmen. Being there for your family, and guiding them through life's journey is your utmost calling as a father. Not just spilling akamu, dropping money for upkeep and snooping around. Permit me to say that, some parents have even left the responsibility of their childrens' moral upbringing to teachers!

NB: Fathers, you are stewards in charge of your family. You will given detailed accounts before The GIVER someday!


I vehemently disagree! A wayward child is the responsibility of both the child and the parents. The parents could give him or her all the attention and resources in the world and he or she still choose the wayward path, this does not mean the parents failed rather it meant it was out of their control. Apart from spiritual battles, some children need a change of environment or reality check. Having both parents still catering to your needs often clouds the judgment of children and complacency sets in. We all can blame the parents all we want but at some point the child will wake up and realize she's responsible for her own damn mistakes.

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Allylic(f): 11:46pm On Dec 27, 2018
@OP..try to link her up with a very successful woman especially a married and career woman who has witnessed a lot of things or a retired runs girl.These people are the only ones that can help her and guide her to make the right decision....na puberty dey worry her,I just pray she won't realize when its already late..

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by aadoiza: 11:47pm On Dec 27, 2018
lonlytroy:
Picture of your sister in slut mood or i don't believe
You wan try mark your own register. I see you.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Enigmaticprof(m): 11:49pm On Dec 27, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
Everyone in your family is just over reacting.

Y'all should take a a deep breath and calm down for a sec.





Now, solution.

Ask your father for 5k.
Go to the market.
Spend the entire money on canes, koboko and #300 pepper.
Whenever she comes back lock her in.
You grab her legs, your mother grabs her hands.
Your father should make sure he finishes all that cane on her.
Rub the pepper in her anus and private parts.
Her brain will reset and her sense will be restored.

16yr old already collecting d!ck!!!!!!angry
Is she mad

Lol, I bet it with you this would never work. Negativity doesn't rectify a negative energy.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by IamPlato(m): 11:54pm On Dec 27, 2018
Pinkyposh:
I'm sorry about that..
Please may I ask how growing up was like? Were your parents strict?
my Father Highly Strict, i Suffered Intense Beating At Tender Age in His Hands worse Than My Siblings...


My Mother Is Extremely Loving... Yes, Extremely... She Was Always There To Listen.



I Consider My Sister To Be Heartless because She Should Have Considered Her Innocent Mother Who Is very Close To 60 and Has Shown Her So Much Love despite All My Mother Hears About My Sister, she Still Pulls Her Close but The Girl Is Just An Animal...


Honestly I Feel Hurt because My Mother Had Sleepless nights For This Same Girl and She Is The Only Girl

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fash20: 11:54pm On Dec 27, 2018
God! Female children are difficult to train...

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 11:54pm On Dec 27, 2018
IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

oga nobody knack your sister jazz or anything.
its simple pure logic.
I'm 16 too and the best thing you can do is talk to her and approach her in a calm manner.
try to understand what ever she's going through from her perspective.
Its no excuse but teenagers develop and maybe she's expressing her self the wrong way.
blood is blood, if you guys are treating her like this, how would outsiders treat her ?
talking to her and explaining things is not that hard. its a very simple thing. if u like flog her from today till she gets prego it wont change anything. she's emulating someone close because teenagers just dont develop these attitudes at once.
its not also spiritual.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by IamPlato(m): 11:56pm On Dec 27, 2018
pocohantas:
Lol, this one just wan create thread grin

Anyway, one family provided a useless yahoo son, another family provided a cheerful giver. Balanced equation.
Anyway, I still Dont Hate You... You Are Still My Friend From A Distance That You put Yourself
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by saajus: 11:58pm On Dec 27, 2018
Your Dad should take it easy so that he won't lose her totally. Please, talk to your dad. About you, your sister is your sister. Keep talking to her. Show her some love and let her know the danger of following "Yahoo boys". She needs you now more than ever. Please, handle this situation with care.

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Xinzu: 11:59pm On Dec 27, 2018
OP, seize her phone nd keep her committed to a church. C'est fini.
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by AKAyomide(m): 11:59pm On Dec 27, 2018
To frank, she is too young to engage her self into romped.... Your mother might be begging on her behalf because she's a little child without knowing what's ahead of her. That doesn't mean,she's pampering her or shielding her away from a drastic move your father might take against her..
The solution is to seat her down and interrogate her about a lot...... She's till a teenager.. She can be easily influenced by things within her..

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 12:00am On Dec 28, 2018
Bro am sorry for this problem or family issue
But the truth is having a girl child in nigeria is really problematic with the way young guys get them self involved in frudulent act just to impress d opposite sex, my simple advice to you is this a praying family stays together, ,,

do u and your family hold morning devotion ? If u don't start it tomorrow morning


My house is worst than yours to d extend u sleep frustrated and wake up relieved but wen we see our parents face again dat same morning we become angry, ,,but even though things are messed up in my house hold, ,we still hold prayer every morning, ,i mean every morning for 15mins, it helps

Even if my father is d church type of person and me na street boy I still find relief after dat paryer seaction which I myself will abid to, ,,even wen married also, ,,when any of us messes up and my parent advice the child and we d siblings also chip in too that we show deep concern """"my popular say is abi u wan disgrace us for this area, ,if I day Waka people go day laugh me abeg try no do am again



I wouldn't advice u just as d rest would advice u like leave am make she carry belle she go calm do, ,,

Bro if she carry belle she becomes a liability


Just one advice for u to speak up, u real have the best intrest of ur sister at heart

Start doing morning devotion it helps, ,,,,,in nigeria we hardly say mom we lve u or dad we lve u, ,,,morning devotion is the only means of saying it with one voice saying amen, ,,,,,trust me with time she will even open up to u how one area boy is disturbing her,,,,i kw b pastor o....i b street guy but doesn't miss morning devotion, ,,its d only unity I have

Peace

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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 28, 2018
chigoziri2403:
let her hustle hard, buy the old man a jeep, and build a mansion, her sins would be forgiven instantly
money rules the world
I had a relative like that, her father always traced her to hotels, even used a cutlass on her, but when she started flying to Qatar, and bringing goodies, she became her fathers fave, the person whom has the final say in everything concerning family matters
dat one na dysfunctional father

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