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IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

Your father didn't handle it well, he in fact, made it worse.

So funny how everyone is judging the poor girl, I think your sis is in lack of love..your father's love

All these could have been avoided with proper parenting. Best to cut your losses, move on and probably pray for her safety daily (if prayer is your thing). There's really nothing you can do anymore, she controls her destiny.

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

I usually do not comment on Nl but let's see how it goes. Here's my own story. I have a younger brother who,well,used to be good and when he got into school,got missed up with bad boys and became smoking indian hemp.

Now,my family happens to be quite religious and there was one time he came home for hols,and out of the blues was smoking imside the house and my mum caught him.

Everyone cried,pleaded,bla bla,everything seemed not to work. Anyways my pops registered him in a rehan centre and he was able to open up to the therapist.

Kids like my brother and your sister have a knack for attention and when outsiders give it to them,they feel that they are in love. Now,have you ever had a family meeting where everyone just sat together to express feelings?lemme answer that for you,No,why,cause you're shy

Bros,i don't know you,but can you sit everyone together and tell them to say what's on their mind,that's what those therapist usually advice,not judgemental eyes,no hate,just gather everyone together to express themselves.

If you need help along the way,feel free to pm.

God bless your family cos in the end,that's all we have eventually

A day is coming when she will give her life to Christ completely, that is an experience of near death will make her repent if she live to tell the story.but don't relent in praying for her over her being lost to the world.

IamPlato:
he Burnt All Her Property Yesterday Night..


MODIFIED

She Doesnt Lack Love At All. My Mother Loves Her So Much but I Believe She Hates her Mother... When Ever She Went Out For Days, my Mother Would Not Sleep But Keep Callin this Girl But She Will Not Pick The Call.



When Ever My Mother Begged And My Father Forgives Her, he Pulls Her Closer but She Ends Up Doing Worse

then why calling ur father extremist? men can't bear shame so let him act as please to him.

UyaiIncomparabl:
What do you seek from us now?

To chastise your father or curse your sister further for being a spoilt brat?

There's little or nothing you can do right now, or do you want to get your father arrested? Get it done with immediate alacrity. And your sister? Let her be taught that all that glitters isn't gold, perhaps be used for BENZ. After all, you said you don't care if she dies or not. So you see, it's a WIN-WIN situation.

You obviously just wanted to make a comment.

IamPlato:
She Used To Be His Favourite Years Ago but She Just Changed like She Got Cursed Or Something...


Also My Father Is A Strong Choleric and Will Never Listen To Anyone Because He Believes He is Always Right And Never Regrets his Actions... We Are Not Even Close at All. We Are Two Different Person

Look bro,u,ur pops man n mallie r overacting. Although it is a good thing u guys r shown ur displeasure,it will only hurt u guys d more while she rots more. so,my advice is that u guys let her be. truth is,she go explore did life wet dey sweet am until na she go tire,but funny enough life go still remain.

You're focusing more on the symptoms and not the cause. Your sister needs to see a therapist that will help her. This not a beating issue. She needs psychological intervention. Please get her help asap

emmyid:
Hmmm. But, why do you have to go through her chats in the first place. Secondly, you claim you don't care about her anymore, but from the mood and tone of your writeup, you scared of losing her and still care pretty much about her. Your father is just doing what most Nigerian fathers will do though. Maybe, your sister needs a rehab!

Meanwhile watch the stunts at Calabar Bikers Carnival that took place earlier below -


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tb7t44cpkYc

Bikers carnival with about 10 toy bikes lol.

It is obvious your sister is a Nymphomaniac. She needs sex rehab asap.

Please let me have your sister's phone number. I want to talk with her

Are there good REHAB centres in Nigeria?

Simplep:
children of nowadays are just so uncontrollable, may God help us

Your pf looks scary

People Usually Don't Learn From People's Mistakes Until It Happens To Them!!

Just let her live her Life, her sense go soon come back nah she go locate house shap shap...
Keep Praying For Her!

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

Take her to TB Joshua, she needs deliverance. She's possessed a sexual demons.

IamPlato:
She Used To Be His Favourite Years Ago but She Just Changed like She Got Cursed Or Something...


Also My Father Is A Strong Choleric and Will Never Listen To Anyone Because He Believes He is Always Right And Never Regrets his Actions... We Are Not Even Close at All. We Are Two Different Person

I'm having same kinda dad too. i feel ur pain bro.

take her to the barrack make soldiers drill am trust me the fear of going back there will bring about a change but mind you she may abscond after the drilling due to fear

Allylic:
@OP..try to link her up with a very successful woman especially a married and career woman who has witnessed a lot of things or a retired runs girl.These people are the only ones that can help her and guide her to make the right decision....na puberty dey worry her,I just pray she won't realize when its already late..

It won't work. High oestrogen levels are at play. She is sexually active and there is nothing that can be done until she learns the hard way by becoming pregnant and denied by all the boys whom she frolicked with.
Her eyes will clear then

Sometimes their problems are spiritual they don't do all those things with plain eyes. Just love and prayer using harsh way will result to another thing which might lead to regret. My neighbour use to have this 12 years old girl that will make her cry out tears. The mother will tell you that she is very wicked, she will cook soup and the girl will deliberately pour it away and will talk to the mother any how, she has given her all kinds of beating still to no avail. When I looked into the lite girl eyes I told her mother she is possessed and will only need deliverance not physical beating. Today the girl is cool headed and one of her monther's favourite daughter

IamPlato:
if Na Cane, he Has Flogged With Types Of Cane even Used Broom And Nearly Blinded Her but She Waited To Get Healed And continued.

Few Weeks Ago, he Beat Her With Hands And Legs like He Would Kill Her But My Mother Stopped Him before It Became A Death Case. He Said Its Better She Left Or He Would Commit murder

Your mother sha!

It's a hereditary trait that most parents ignore before marriage.
Between your mum or Dad, one of them lived that kinda life and is sitting down there pretending he/she is holy under the cover of marriage.
There is no smoke without fire!
It's only grace of God that turns things around for good.
I know many male friends I distanced myself from years ago just because they 're extreme womanizers with high sex libido. The worst is that they are always the ones to rush into marriage. No rehab or medical counselling. No spiritual attention.
You want to tell me they married women with low libido?
One even swore he must marry from a particular tribe in Nigeria because of the high sex libido known with the women from there.
Now imagine what they will produce as children?
Angels abi?...I don't want to laugh.
OP you sister needs Jesus and a good deliverance. Sought out a true man of God.
Another solution is to give a carefully articulated thunder slap once she walks in from any of her waka waka.
Just take your time with the slap. Don't kill her o

Let your sister be...there’s very little you can do to savage the situation....she’s already a child of the world.

However, she will soon realise that you don’t call father and mother the same way.

IamPlato:
you All Are Just Saying She Needs love. Bros! Love Is One Thing This Useless Girl Doesnt Lack at All... My Mother's Love For Her Is So Strong. When Ever My Father Forgave her He'd Draw Her Close But She Ends Up Doing The same Thing And Even Worse

Lol...peeps don't understand waddup; she's not as terrible as your family is making her look. Shes having sex, yes, that's waddup. Sex has destroyed good families; women has abandoned their husband, children and good homes just to follow one Street boy becuase of sex. Responsible men have lost their work/family/careers because of sex. Trying to stop a teenager from having sex is trying to work against nature. She's started it, what your family needs is damage control.

You think it's worse now? Nope! Think of what happens if she gets HIV? Or pregnant? Or tries aborting a feotus and damages her womb? Those are the permanent scars that could ruin her totally. So try and compare where she is now to the scenarios I just painted, then you will realize that chasing her out of the house was a bad move.

Well, you are not the decision maker in your house, your dad is and as such, you have little or no influence in the matter. Just talk to your dad to losen up. His uptight ars'e will ruin that girl. Burning her properties does not mean nada. If/when she gets belle, the home-boy riding her now will definitely push her away and guess where she will come to? Same house you guys chased her off. Whether una like am or not

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

child of the world...that thing don sweet the gal but she get belle she go come too her senses.

othenok:
You're focusing more on the symptoms and not the cause. Your sister needs to see a therapist that will help her. This not a beating issue. She needs psychological intervention. Please get her help asap

Xda59:
It is obvious your sister is a Nymphomaniac. She needs sex rehab asap.

Guys calm down, Na naija family be dis no be jand things. How you wan take her go rehab even if they find one? You bundle her inside the trunk of the car and head down to rehab? She doesn't see her lifestyle as a problem. She probably have friends of the same age doing it so why would hers be any different. Moreover, she's enjoying it.

Prayer is a solution. No matter how it may sound to some people here. Keep praying for her and take her back in. Its better she is going out from home and she is being talked to daily, followed by prayers. One day God willing, she will change.

You all need to sit down together and make an intervention that will save her life. Take her to a church camp or something. One with strict rules, no phones and the rest. She will adjust.