vickatcch:
Lol.tell us the primary school u attended,abi na o ta akara school u go

I wonder o

Even Jesus asked which is easier to do to say "Your sins are forgiven or to say rise up and walk"

Which is easier to tell us the name of the primary school or to post photo of passport COVER upandan?


Abeg tell us ya primry Su-kul

My mission is accomplished on this thread. The guys are trying too hard to keep their egos intact, but they are crumbling. Bye bye.

Saffi:
My mission is accomplished on this thread. The guys are trying too hard to keep their egos intact, but they are crumbling. Bye bye.

Delta girl claiming London babe. You have not even started life, when you are 28, come back and we can talk

pocohantas:



Now you are trying too hard. Typical

Only a sweet babe like you gets me hard. You know right

boiz2men:


There are 5 stages of grief... Most don't get passed the depression stage.. They commit suicide. But, you my love will scale through. I believe God for your quick recovery.

Good night my love..

I will always love you

Lol,its like you want to be giving that lazy broke ass girl part of ur salary every month abi.We are still trying to rescue brother from a bitchh,and you want to shook head in saffi matter..

vickatcch:
Lol,its like you want to be giving that lazy broke ass girl part of ur salary every month abi.We are still trying to rescue brother from a bitchh,and you want to shook head in saffi matter..

Hehehehehehehehehehehehe. I learned the hard way. Most guys will too especially if buhari wins again. My money is for me and my family members while the crumbs, if any, will fall down to the leeches

vickatcch:
Lol,its like you want to be giving that lazy broke ass girl part of ur salary every month abi.We are still trying to rescue brother from a bitchh,and you want to shook head in saffi matter..

Lol

Look, dude. Regardless of the animosity. One must be sensitive enough to know when one is in grief.

People in the depression stage need lots of love.

I don't know about others but I had some fun

Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

If not that my mother is Nigerian I would have wished death on all of you!
Can you afford a plate of rice for your useless barren mother.
Can he present his salary without looking hungry?
Can he confidently say he didn't force your mother into marriage?. Useless gold digging idiot.

0monnak0da:


I wonder o

Even Jesus asked which is easier to do to say "Your sins are forgiven or to say rise up and walk"

Which is easier to tell us the name of the primary school or to post photo of passport upandan?


Abeg tell us ya primry Su-kul

Lolz..May be she attended only evening school,the ones with no name

boiz2men:



Yes na.

I want to go the abroad. abi, u dinnur want to go.

Saffi will you take me to the abroad.. So my life will be better

Dey whine yourself for there.

Saffi good night and please dream about me o.na me be that below

pocohantas:





Now you are trying too hard. Typical

Saffi:
The guys are trying too hard to keep their eg

TRYING TOO HARD

limbolimbo:


I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person

Hmmm.... I know she likes me......really?

limbolimbo:
I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person, she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further. But something started giving me a reason to worry about here mindset towards relationships.

She celebrated her birthday last month, and I got her a very expensive wrist watch, it cost me 94k, she doesn't know this. I also got her a really nice cake, cost me 10k, so in all I spent over a hundred thousand on her birthday. I know for some this may not seem like much or may seem like too much, I think what really matters is tat I was fine with it and could afford it. Within the same period, she would indirectly ask me for funds, she said she was broke, I could have helped her with this but I felt it was way above my position, as I am only a "To Be Boyfriend", to offer her all this after spending a 100k on gifts for her birthday.

A week ago we had a very interesting discussion, about the role of the man and the woman in a relationship, she said that "A man should be responsible for the upkeep of his Girlfriend, he should save a portion from his salary monthly which he should give to his girlfriend for upkeep". I thought that was nonsense and I quickly called her out on it, all I can say now is that I don't think we would be dating anymore, because she took it very personally, she said she thinks she would suffer if she goes into a relationship with me, because I am already showing signs of being stingy.

If I keep writing I would not end, so my question here is, is she right? Should I have instead given her the cash rather than the gift? Because to me it now seems she doesn't see the value of the gift and would rather have cash. I want adult opinions please.

(Please note that I am not trying to paint this lady as an evil person, she is really sweet, loving, caring, she loves getting attention and doesn't have any problem in showing me how she really feels about me, overall she is a great lady.)

I think most Nigerian ladies have the same mindset as her, on relationships. Does she work? It's obvious she would not appreciate the gifts. You should have given her the cash instead. But I don't see any prospect for serious relationship between two of you because of her mindset. Most Nigerian guys don't seem to mind being magas though.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Dey whine yourself for there.

100k just like that where am here just looking for 10k this life sef too muchpartiality

Jeferious:
Abeg where my brothers dey see this kind girls... because to me they don't exist. Abi na brothel op go find this im girlfriend?

The thing is that most men are so poor that the only thing they have is money. It's the only thing they can use to impress a lady. But the thing is, women value great sex more than money. I've been with mainstream prostitutes so I know what I'm talking about. They often have lots of money, mostly running into millions, that they don't know what to do with. But funny enough dem go still collect maximum payment from the next client. And intelligence is another trait that women admire a lot. Strength, eloquence, good looks are also capable of capturing a lady's heart.

From a personal point, I've a gf who I kept under my spell not with money(she has not even begged me money before in the first place), but with so many other qualities. And I can't remember her denying me anything before. The only bad thing is that I don't want to marry her, or anybody else. I just want her to give me children, preferably males.

Can you share the detail of how you deal and how you get this type of gals ?

Saffi:
My mission is accomplished on this thread. The guys are trying too hard to keep their egos intact, but they are crumbling. Bye bye.

After you have triggered them finish abi.......Omo iya charlie

This thread is funny sha.....I done laff taya

Give and it shall be given to you.......


If we don't give them, who will?

But then, if they have more, will they give.

the day we ladies stop depending on guys for everything is the day all this nonsense will end

why why why why will you ever think he should be responsible for your upkeep ahn ahn is he your fada , remember that's someone son and brother too nah

Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

WE SIGHT YOU... MINER

Enough paraing on this thread
I don laff setee my cat join me.

Only, I would have said you should oblige her request, since you can afford it, and you claim she is 'sweet'. But on the flip side, march break let me hear your tires (shoes) screech

Ozkar:
wow... Several paragraphs of undiluted waffling.

You don't get the point, do you? There are basically only two real issues here...

1) Is it okay to spend extravagantly on a lady one isn't even in a relationship with? According to the OP, he is a "To be boyfriend", and after he stated his stance, she said she doesn't think they can be in a relationship.

2) Is a lady entitled to a part of a man's salary as pocket money because they are dating? This is the part that gets the most backlash. You said you found her matter-of-fact entitlement annoying, yet went ahead to explain how it is a natural expectation that women have of their man. So what exactly makes her entitlement annoying to you? The fact that you wouldn't say it outright?

I found it interesting that you noted you would not want to spend your money to do stuff for your partner. He has to give you money from time to time, for you to spend money on him.

It is known that many ladies are tightfisted with their money. So what would encourage a man's natural inclination of good will? Why shouldn't guys who spend on these ladies (that only receive and never give) feel stupid too?

Women from time immemorial were relegated to domestic duties in our part of the world. Many used to think (many still do) that women are incapable of any logical thought or of managing positions of leadership. Does the fact that many have thought so for long justify it?

You are viewing the world with colored lens, and expect others using colored lens too to have the same color as yours.

You are a really smart person. I like minds like yours, you are literally the only person who was able to pick up all the sub-issues in the story. Well done.

Apart from you? The ultimate evaluator of brain power

You flatter yourself Who are you to judge what are issues and who can pick up issues. Na work? Is there a cheque at the end of it

Reality is the same sun somewhere right now is bringin daybreak and twilight in differenet places
It all comes down to perspectives and circumstances
If a poor woman marries into wealth or fame for example Tiger Woods or Prince Williams almost certainly she will draw a salary even if they are merely dating cash could still change hands

If an agbo jedi seller dates an okada rider where is the salary coming from
It all depends...........

What is extravagant spend to one person is nothing to another

What is normal in Warri is strange in Gusau

This is a cultural issue not a PhD thesis

xelly:
At the end, WHAT IS YOUR PROFIT? I mean after spending 100k+, what is your profit?

If there's no addition to what you spent, then you are investing in liability. If that's good for you, keep it up.


Let me ask, how much has she spent on you? Don't give me the crack that she doesn't have anything, if she doesn't have anything, she isn't worth anything.

Boxers and socks

Saffi:
Anywhere like where? I posted two different pictures. Oga it’s clear that you think you’re smart but you’re not. You know deep down, but your useless ego won’t Allow it . The passport means nothing to me. Take your L and goooooo

My dear u re still young, you prove ur point, you really don't have to insult people ok. Going to UK does not mean u better than others, pls stop dis ur attitude. I feel u re a nice person.

Thanks. Yeah I know, and I am a nice person.

tejiri4:


My dear u re still young, you prove ur point, you really don't have to insult people ok. Going to UK does not mean u better than others, pls stop dis ur attitude. I feel u re a nice person.

Sorry you do not prove any point by showing the COVER of a passport

The only thing you prove is your brainlessness

COVER

Haa!!


Passport COVER




Claiming it is

YOUR

passport

That would only fool
mumus like you

Just like taking a photo with a car and claiming it is yours]]

Not nicee at all

A dirty insolent Ho

0monnak0da:
Sorry you do not prove any point by showing the COVER of a passport

The only thing you prove is your brainlessness

COVER

Haa!!


Passport COVER




Claiming it is

YOUR

passport

That would only fool
mumus like you

Just like taking a photo with a car and claiming it is yours]]

Not nicee at all

A dirty insolent Ho

I don't like what saffi posted earlier that lead to this whole show of passports, but I must say that she completely won all the arguments arising from your claims about her background and lifestyle. As a matter of fact, she owes nobody any explanation about her lifestyle for her opinions to be considered relevant. She made her point known if you don't agree with it what you can do is to state your reasons why you oppose, there was absolutely no need for all these long discussions you guys have had, it has only succeeded in moving the centre of attention from the topic. As far as I concerned the scoreline is 50 to 0 for Saffi.


I still don't agree with what you said saffi.

Nigerian parents should be warned seriously that 2019 is never going to be a year where they will leave their vulnerable daughters upkeep to the goodwill of random men...all that nonsense must end in 2018.

And to all the greedy and self entitled Nigerian girls, I have just one message for you all
2019 will be a new wave of red pill men 2.0 and blue pill men hiding their wallets, so start creating YouTube contents or selling cheap stuffs online if you don’t want to end up in a desperate and uncertain situation.

Saffi:
My mission is accomplished on this thread. The guys are trying too hard to keep their egos intact, but they are crumbling. Bye bye.

Liability, you never tire. Rondon liability