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nkwuocha:
Oga,Ubochi d'egwu!
That's why I love white people.You see two white couple working in restaurants and with two kids already!Living In a small apartment but clean and cozy.Thats the life!

If he can't afford life in the location he is,change location!He can stay at the outskirts of the city where house is relatively cheap.Make him marry jor!Many people were marry with one room still dry wear NIKE shoes,drink for beer parlour,toast babe still come house make love to their wives.

Goodplace:
Please advice, wish to get married, live in a self contain but working for a salary less than 80k. Is it reasonable to live with a wife in a one room?

nkwuocha:


With two bedroom, family members will remember to come visit.But when they realize one stays in a room and parlour,they begin to first think of their comfortability.

morgan100:
i stay in a room self con, and planning on getting married this year, am saving up for another accommodation already, at least a room and a parlor self con, with a space for dinning. Not that she cant stay with me in a room self con, but i dont want that, in my own little way, i want her to be comfortable living with me, so it all boil down to what u want, and the partner involve and what u can afford, that's why is good to open up very well when u are in a relationship with anyone, dont be claiming omo Dangote and Otedola, when u know say u dey hustle ni.

So it boils down to what u want and what u can afford.

Noel1:
No no no no. At least get a flat.

A word they say is enough...

GistFullGround:
[b]Before getting married, I faced a "panel" of Elders of 9 people at my wife's church, who did my marriage counselling.

These are some questions amongst many that were thrown at me;

1. "What do you do for a living?" - I told them

2. "What kind of business?" - I told them

3. "What's the situation of your living condition?" - I told them I live in a 3 Bedroom flat by myself

4. "Do you own a car?" - I told them, yes, not just a car but a Mercedes Benz. They were impressed and I could see some of them giggling

5. One lady now said, "By the way, I see your last name as....... Are you in any way related to the ........s" - I said I am the son of ........... "Oh really, she asked"

6. They asked, "What is your genotype" - I told them I am AA, while my fiance was also AA because both of us did it together just to confirm for ourselves

7. Then they asked that I excuse them for about 5 mins and that I would be called back in.

Later I was called back in and I could see them all smiling, and the head said "Congratulations" from the response we have gotten from you, we have come to the conclusion that you are in better stead to take care of our daughter. We do this because we need to establish a solid foundation for our daughters in our church so there won't be financial or otherwise problems in the future.

So many things were said on that day and I still keep them to heart and it is working for me; I have been married for 15 years now.

From that 3 Bedroom flat, I moved into another 3 bedroom flat, which was better, then to the US. While in Naija, I had a Housemaid, I had no problem of where she would stay because there was a room I could give to her. My in-laws always came visiting, and I could also accommodate them without any problem.

I still remember all of them and May God bless those old men and women (may the soul of the departed continue to rest in peace). If I had not taken to their words of wisdom, who knows, maybe I may be divorced by now.

So, OP, don't rush into marriage, strive to be more comfortable and I tell you, God shall bless your hustle and make your wife stand form with you.[/b]

Goodplace:
Please advice, wish to get married, live in a self contain but working for a salary less than 80k. Is it reasonable to live with a wife in a one room?

Just2endowed2:
you no won feed extra mouth abi.?

GistFullGround:
[b]Before getting married, I faced a "panel" of Elders of 9 people at my wife's church, who did my marriage counselling.

These are some questions amongst many that were thrown at me;

1. "What do you do for a living?" - I told them

2. "What kind of business?" - I told them

3. "What's the situation of your living condition?" - I told them I live in a 3 Bedroom flat by myself

4. "Do you own a car?" - I told them, yes, not just a car but a Mercedes Benz. They were impressed and I could see some of them giggling

5. One lady now said, "By the way, I see your last name as....... Are you in any way related to the ........s" - I said I am the son of ........... "Oh really, she asked"

6. They asked, "What is your genotype" - I told them I am AA, while my fiance was also AA because both of us did it together just to confirm for ourselves

7. They asked, "How often do you have a misunderstanding?" - I told them the truth, "In fact we had one 2 days ago"

8. Then they asked that I excuse them for about 5 mins and that I would be called back in.

Later I was called back in and I could see them all smiling, and the head said "Congratulations" from the response we have gotten from you, we have come to the conclusion that you are in better stead to take care of our daughter. We do this because we need to establish a solid foundation for our daughters in our church so there won't be financial or otherwise problems in the future.

So many things were said on that day and I still keep them to heart and it is working for me; I have been married for 15 years now.

From that 3 Bedroom flat, I moved into another 3 bedroom flat, which was better, then to the US. While in Naija, I had a Housemaid, I had no problem of where she would stay because there was a room I could give to her. My in-laws always came visiting, and I could also accommodate them without any problem.

I still remember all of them and May God bless those old men and women (may the soul of the departed continue to rest in peace). If I had not taken to their words of wisdom, who knows, maybe I may be divorced by now.

So, OP, don't rush into marriage, strive to be more comfortable and I tell you, God shall bless your hustle and make your wife stand firm with you.[/b]

Isoduwa:
Is that the life you wise your self? My guy enter house �

victorazyvictor:
story for the gods.

Why wont you send him few dollars, urge him to go ahead with marriage and with your connection, make calls, provide him job? story teller chief

ndi onu "son of"

Goodplace:
Please advice, wish to get married, live in a self contain but working for a salary less than 80k. Is it reasonable to live with a wife in a one room?

Isoduwa:
You will be the first to say this dude F'up after a year and six months when their matter come back to niaraland

nkwuocha:
Go rent flat for an na!
You wet dey hustle since,wetin you use the money do?
You think say na by dreaming and wishing?Oga,if you no dey ready to marry and manage life,enter house dey fool yourself.If person calculate how much you drink for beer for the last two years,he go reach to pay dowry put woman for House.

Wait till you reach 50 with 2 years as your first issue.

Goodplace:
Please advice, wish to get married, live in a self contain but working for a salary less than 80k. Is it reasonable to live with a wife in a one room?

Newboss:
I know a guy who did that thing about 4 years ago. Till date, he still lives in a self contain while popping kids like champagne

Don't do it. It could make you desperate for money irrespective of who you married. You might end up considering doing rituals sef You don't need such pressure in your life

nkwuocha:
Even people wey dey 3 bedroom still dey 4ck up!4ck up no get class.

nkwuocha:
I hope you realize there are several families in US who started from one room in Ajegunle and Iyanikpaja?
I know of a friend that couldn't pay the brideprice of his wife,his uncle married a wife for him.As we speak,his family are still on vacation out of the country.Life has got twist and turns...

nkwuocha:
Nna Ike guru!

victorazyvictor:
story for the gods.

Why wont you send him few dollars, urge him to go ahead with marriage and with your connection, make calls, provide him job? story teller chief

ndi onu "son of"

He should not get married and continue hustling till when?

But your married with your wife enjoying ba?

Time wait for no man. yes he hardship will intensed but it will make you work hard and channel your resources to the right position.

I STARTED IN O E ONE WITH MY WIFE

Offpoint:
yeah, The sex is always extra ordinary.

Abraham got married to Sarah in a hut

Adam was homeless when he married eve.

My great grandpa got married while still living with his father, my grandpa.

as long as there's enough space for bed, get married and pump those kids.


Happy Easter everyone.

Isoduwa:
Ok �� oya enter house �


I get work to do now

victorazyvictor:
nna hapu ndi onu odumodu

I STARTED IN ONE ROOM WITH MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER...

"Time wait for no man BUT money, fine houses, latest cars will always wait for you in fact they renew their selves every year for you" but your age (time) don't.

It won't kill you but make you stronger, wiser and most important channel your money into right direction.

Wisdom!

GistFullGround:
Comment responsibly in 2019 and avoid childish insults!

Princedapace:
We are funny in this country.. A man who lives in three bed room apartment can be broke tomorrow even without a roof..

We need to embrace family planning. Get a good family planning, work wit ur babe, two heads better than one
U guys can save for better apartment within one or two years..

We need to learn to do family planning weda married or not.. And a home is built by two. A husband and wife..

Everyone must not start the same way.. Some started poorly and ended richer, some started richer and ended poorer. Life is not predictable..