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Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by MrMcJay(m): 10:47am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace: Getting married in a self con is not the problem. Just ensure you marry a woman who won't ensure you remain in the self con. 13 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by awoofawoo: 10:47am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace: 2 Likes
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Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
if both of you can cope, go ahead |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by TRUEBLOOD59(m): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
it is OK since ur salary is less than 80k and u can start saving to get anoda before the arrival of a baby but it is ok |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by rozayx5(m): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
do it now or when u can get a one bedroom flat 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Speedyconnect15: 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
You can but delay kids etc. Afterall ppl marry even in a single room. Although there will be a lot of inconveniences like visitors coming and no space for them Imagine having a relative for 3 months. It means no love making Ideal minimum should be a room or 2 rooms and parlour. Life no easy oo 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Jayslicky: 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool:This really cracked me up, OP you should be talking to your girlfriend and not us, just cut your coat according to your cloth. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by mayorall(m): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace: No bro, the best you can do is to relocate to another area in same city with 150k or less, you can get 2 bedroom. Your wife might agree but women reason with emotions, they mostly think of today and not tomorrow. Her nagging and insults in one room can frustrate you, please don't even if she agreed, her character and behaviour will always show no. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by abiaumo(m): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Why not, what happened to little beginings. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Gaspardd(m): 10:49am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Save, start a biz, then do whatever u want. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Jonadull: 10:49am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace:... but don’t get pregnant there |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Lordofthewest(m): 10:49am On Jan 05, 2019 |
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Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by mokkalu1(m): 10:50am On Jan 05, 2019 |
I don't feel you should. I don't like the idea. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by olamy7(m): 10:50am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Newboss:wait, what is ur say actually? |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by SocialJustice: 10:51am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace:Yes, I live in a selfcon too and will be getting married this year but make sure you can move to a 2 bedroom apartment in 3 years. When children start coming, even if you move to a 2 bedroom, the baby will share your room for another 3 to 5 years at least. Having a free room in your house is also a draw to unnecessary family members or visitors unless you're fine with it. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by demmydy(m): 10:52am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Mr man, cut ur coat accordn 2 ur size. Beta still seek advice from ur pastor Bcus he will always be 4 u. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace:dont mind people saying its not advisable. So long as you have a roof over your head and have your privacy,there is nothing wrong with it. The most important part is if the lady is OK with it,of which I assume you have discussed it with her,if not then you need to sit her down and have the conversation with her and hear her thoughts about it because in the end the marriage is between you and her and not with nairalanders. I personally hate "face me I face you" setting. Since its a selfcon with a considerable level of privacy, go ahead if your wife to be is comfortable with it,thats the main thing. Hopefully when your family increases you can get a bigger place. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Born2Breed(f): 10:55am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace: What do you mean by self contain? A living room,bedroom with bathroom and kitchen? If yes then go ahead with your marriage plans. If it's like a studio then,well,hmmm,its not that it's that bad oh but you know with marriage comes kids. The question is do you want to raise ur kids in such condition? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Grupo(m): 10:55am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace: Why do most of you rush and get married? Huh? You earn around 80k and you are already rushing to get married? 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Nobody: 10:55am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Offpoint: Easter?? Omo...u dey in a hurry ooooo 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by PapaAdanna: 10:56am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Any girl that can't stay with you in self content house for a start doesn't worth it. As for those saying NO and saying you should wait till you get a 2 bedroom apartment... You are lame. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by faithfull18(f): 10:57am On Jan 05, 2019 |
bedspread:Op, when you are done getting the apartment, come collect bedspreads for your bed from this person..lol 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Neddyogu(m): 10:57am On Jan 05, 2019 |
If you're still seeking other's opinions before taking any step, then u are not ready for marriage yet. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by blackjack21(m): 10:58am On Jan 05, 2019 |
It's not advisable but, it's doable. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Admiralomoniyi(m): 10:58am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Goodplace:Most of them that are telling you no....live in one room apartment with their wife and children. Follow your heart desire bro...so far you are focused. You ar good to go. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Okoroawusa: 10:59am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Noooo! wait till u build mansion...u hear? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Mike008(m): 11:00am On Jan 05, 2019 |
People are married and staying in single rooms. Self contained is an upgrade. So long as your woman is comfortable, why not? But look set to look beyond that in the near future. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Ibadanchief(m): 11:00am On Jan 05, 2019 |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Offpoint: 11:01am On Jan 05, 2019 |
1StopRudeness:none of my neighbors gave me Xmas or new year food... I wan see if the repeat the same on Easter... |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by davecris(m): 11:03am On Jan 05, 2019 |
If you are comfortable and ready for marriage, and also if she is okay with ur present status, why not? Go ahead and marry. She can be a source of open doors and bigger things to come your way. Just pray for a good woman. Your present status wouldn't matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In A Self Contain? by Grupo(m): 11:05am On Jan 05, 2019 |
mayorall: You are an intelligent man. If the OP asks his girlfriend now, she is obviously going to say she is content with living with him in a self con. But just give her two months after the marriage, that's when she would change and start giving him trouble. If the OP likes, let him listen to people telling him to go ahead. First, he earns less than 80k a month. When he gets married, he is going to need nothing less than 60k every month to feed two mouths. Now, after taking out such an amount from his meager salary for feeding, what would be left? Meaning he is going to remain in a self con for many more years. A better advice for the guy would be to improve his finances before thinking of getting married. If you look closely, the guy might still be under 30, yet he is already considering marriage. I wonder why all of them are rushing? 14 Likes |
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