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Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by myself13: 10:57pm On Jan 06, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol, you are not single because girls do not like good guys. We both know why you are single.

I was talking to a colleague, she kept on ranting on how guys do not like good girls LIKE HER. But what I noticed is, she was with a "bad guy", how did she expect such a guy to treat her? Good people should be able to attract their kind.

Some so called "good people" are also basic, men and women tend to love a little of drama and challenge. Don't just sit like a pushover all in the name or being good. Be memorable...
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by myself13: 11:11pm On Jan 06, 2019
koyyes:
In developed countries, people are true to themselves and find their match at any age.

What is killing us here is pretense.
People should go for their type.

If you are a tout, go for a razz girl.
If you cool, go for a cool person.
If you are cool outside but hot inside, go for your type.( this is for all those people that appear like saints but are demons)

People should just be true to themselves and stop all these mismatching. There are enough males and females to go around if people can stick to the rules.
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by CyberWolf: 12:04am On Jan 07, 2019
Getting married is not the problem, keeping the marriage is.. most bad girls marriage tends to crash in the long run because their past always come back to hunt them. Old habit never die..
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by naijajobx: 1:12am On Jan 07, 2019
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Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by nuelzz04(m): 2:51am On Jan 07, 2019
sweetilicious:
Am telling you.
My sister life isn't black and white
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Bianda24: 4:08am On Jan 07, 2019
Some Good girls not getting married? This is new to me. I must admit it.
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Nobody:
Elderlucifer:
See asslicker forming good guy. Stop asslicking pocohantas the bitter woman.
Your behaviour is synonymous to your moniker, lucifer has been bitter ever since he was cast down from heaven...roaming about nairaland to and fro no job.
As for pocohantas, if you know her in person, you will not just asslick her, you will beg her to be her house boy shocked
If you doubt me ask supersystem.
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Nobody: 6:04am On Jan 07, 2019
Jeezuzpick:
Haba?

No oooo!
Lol! Thanks
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Nobody: 6:13am On Jan 07, 2019
pocohantas:

Lol, you are not single because girls do not like good guys. We both know why you are single.

I was talking to a colleague, she kept on ranting on how guys do not like good girls LIKE HER. But what I noticed is, she was with a "bad guy", how did she expect such a guy to treat her? Good people should be able to attract their kind.

Some so called "good people" are also basic, men and women tend to love a little of drama and challenge. Don't just sit like a pushover all in the name or being good. Be memorable...
@The bolded, So you knew why im still single? All knowing poco....
I hail thee.
As for ur colleague, probably she made the choice after waited for good guy and she could n't find. When the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by SassyVixen(f): 6:31am On Jan 07, 2019
Narldon:


I really love your profile photo. #Vintage
Thank you smiley
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Tashacobbs(f): 11:32am On Jan 07, 2019
excessmon:
Why won't you be confused since op isn't writing about breasts and other things that stimulates ur interest....


This is a new year youngie...not every posts comment desire likes...
Brian Tracy said change ur thinking change ur life....

My piece though
indeed such an interesting book
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by sweetilicious(f): 1:20am On Jan 08, 2019
nuelzz04:
My sister life isn't black and white
Yeah.You right.But it has rules
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by nuelzz04(m): 4:09am On Jan 08, 2019
sweetilicious:
Yeah.You right.But it has rules
oh really..... I'll need to get my pen n paper den wink
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Greatestbull201(m): 8:36am On Jul 10, 2019
LordKO:
First to marry vs marry well. . . Go figure out. It's not the early morning bird that catches the day. Besides, there's nothing good about a girl with entitlement mentality in any guise, because greed (for anything) breeds entitlement mentality.

Good girls have got no reason to regret being good - whether they marry early or late. They should remain steadfast and strive to marry well. Being good (or goodness) isn't synonymous to myopia or foolishness as the article connoted.

Being a good girl remains the only condition to genuinely get a good man who has achieved self-realization.
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Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by babakb: 9:06am On Jul 10, 2019
rosalieene:
awwww

Truth is when we reach that stage, we would all be overprotective of our children.

The only thing there is, never say because of your parents overprotectiveness, you would go astray.
Just keep been good and a little disobedient lol, I mean go out, highest they would only scream at you. But never bring shame and disgrace to them, that's what matters.
Your parents have really done a good job if not you wouldn't have been this sensible.

The whole idea of the overprotectiveness is to minimise as much as possible the effects of "The Bad Boy" in your life,
The Bad Boy has really destroyed the lives of innocent girls from decent homes causing them to continuously engage in pre-marital sex, smoking and drinking, abandoning their studies, fraud and in extreme cases violent crimes.

Thumbs up.
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Pzzz: 12:43pm On Jul 10, 2019
Oga I salute u

Experience talking here!


davillian:
The bad guys takes longer time to settle down and they prefer settling down with (innocent,decent,Godly ,pretty ,young) good girls.

The bad girls knows how to hunt and catch a man and the good (decent,innocent,calm)guys are easy prey for them.
The bad girls know the bad boys only use them for fun, so when they realise that the bad boys won't marry them.
They begin to hunt decent boys to marry.
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by CyrusVI(m): 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2025
Botfuss:
There are lot of bad girls who are not married too. No dey push these girls.

I’ve noticed all these oloshos eventually marry omo mummy boys wey no tear eye for school and can’t differentiate a good p**y from a smelly one. The oloshos simply give them a good adventure and they mumuly propose because it’s nothing they’ve experienced before. When they eventually see the truth by fking one or two of their staffs at work and see the beauty of a tight p**y,they will now say marriage is having problem. Yen yen yen

What am I saying?guy man fk enough pssy before u marry so u won’t keep digging borehole for the rest of your life.


Dear good girl,keep being good. Even though I don’t know your qualification of being good?my friend once bursted a babe and in 6 months she knocked over 7 boys...


I’d say being good for a girl is not having more than two body counts before marriage. Even at that,all these girls that lived couples life in school had only one boyfriend yeah?but fcked everyday for 4 years...that is- they also have well dug bore hole ...chai this life....these girls.

Ok sha..sha have a good pssy...don’t smell down there..if your bf doesn’t like giving you head..that’s a subtle message,just go to the hospital.


Ok...I have to confess I’m bored �
Its 2025 and i still laugh real hard while reading this
Re: Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) by Philosopher1979: 4:24pm On Apr 18, 2025
rosalieene:
Most times, parents are to blame. There is no young girl that purposely want to lock herself up unless the extreme introverts.
Back then, I had always been an indoor person and still is one because of home training.
I could be indoors for weeks except when I am going to church, market etc.
But now, I try to go out.
Now am home to spend time with family before going back...
Just last night, I had a big argument with my mum, she said I am lost! She doesn't know me anymore..... Says I go out and come back anytime and she can't trust me.
Hian! Like seriously? I cannot go out in peace again ni. When has going out to hangout spots and seeing friends become a crime? They just want me to be indoors from morning till night.
Its shameful as to how I would go out and be hurrying to leave so that darkness would not meet me but trust Lagos holdup, you would definitely get home when darkness sets in.
So my point is, if you check out, most Nigerian parents are part and parcel of this problem all because they want their daughters to be good girls.
Anyway, its all good. If you can't train your children well, who will?
The real issue is poor social skills. In an effort to make a child a good boy or girl some Nigerian parents shut down the social life if their children. These kind of children when they grow up do not k iw hiw to relate with people, have few friends and are socially awkward. Also, we don't listen to our children and this affects their self confidence. These problems spill over into getting married to a good man or woman. Poor social skills, inability to express oneself confidently etc
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