Awwwww that hurts.....so sorry. Just pray and move on sister

obembet:
It's very bad to cheat, that is my regret so far that make me lose the man of my dream.I wish he can give me second chance but God knows the best

Share yours guys

jeph19:
She's never yours... Until married

NEVER

...

ValCon888:

No matter how many orgasms you give her, she'll still leave you if you don't have money.

#FACT

soberdrunk:
Never ever confess!!! Stick to your lie!!

Wisdom

OgaBuhari:
repent.

Agbaya

So I should repent and start doing the thing with babes that have slippers on their chests? E no go work!

bolinjkezzy:

Am having same issue but in my case its something very tiny.....religion

It always look tiny at the beginning.. analyse the issue and make decisions fast

Divay22:

Mine is boyfriend like no other.
First time in all my relationships that am not getting tired of my nigga.
The only thing i wanna see him do everyday is Smile. Not some fake smile though, but a genuine smile and I just can't help it ,but to beg God to bless him each and every day of his life...

Would love to end up with him but if i don't, am sure not leaving him the way i met him.
I Love My Baby .

Awwww! What a lucky guy.

But please help me tell him that I will beat you when I see you. He should please bear with me.

obembet:
It's very bad to cheat, that is my regret so far that make me lose the man of my dream.I wish he can give me second chance but God knows the best

Share yours guys

man of your dreams and you still cheated on him?

lordizak:


I have already fallen in love with you.

selfwife:
I once gave love a trial. we trusted each other explicitly. I could breathe love. I was working(i made sure I never made the mistake of asking for anything) he was working. he was a single father and I accepted him and is baby (the baby already called me big Mummy). we had goals, dreams, to me, everything was damn set. we were planning to get married,we got the parents involved, excitement was everywhere.... Suddenly, I started seeing him with small small stuffs like nice clothes and perfumes that I knew he didn't buy(we buy on budget) I became inquisitive. I will never check my man's phone.... so I took him out that weekend as usual, made sure he drank double of what he is used too( though he can still talk sense) I started asking questions and he replied (he was now going out with a rich ex who was ready to give him this and that -all material things) I told him that with a steady growth, we will achieve all her promises.......... the next week, he told me not to come to his place again that he will look for another means for us to meet each other by now, I was in tears, I cried my eyes out, what will I tell everybody? for what reason? money? I forgot about my health, bp start to go up.headache.me that have hormonal issues before hmm my body was in a mess. I increased the number of Guinness I took per day, I ate uncontrollably. I couldn't figure out what I did wrong. I called and called. I cried and cried and yes I ate and ate. I landed in the hospital my blood pressure was high something I never experienced before.................... to cut the long story short, I tooky life my the horn..... I had no savings again all spent at the hospital, I took a loan, and got a room apartment, I changed my church, and changed those contacts (our mutual fake friends) he is now with the woman and I am now with my peace of mind......... ........I Am happy to inform you that as of yesterday, he is looking for a divorce lawyer because everything did not turn out as expected.HE THINKS HE CAN COME BACK AND I LAUGH IN MY LANGUAGE because my peace can not be compromised.

This too will pass. Stay strong sister

Juliearth:




This is rather too harsh and conclusive, but I am sure you have your reasons for saying that. I wish you healing, succor and true love.

Smiles no mind me, I get babe sef I just dey give format ni

chiefqueen:
Wow. Good for you. Nna where is she?

is you na

dokkyelele:
Awwwww that hurts.....so sorry. Just pray and move on sister

why are you telling her sorry, it's her that cheats

wintersnow:



Love you too babe

Make pant no shift.o
Lol

PrinceBBlack:
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with myp head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.

Oga, abeg send me the iPhone X, and I will be very grateful till the world comes to an end

ValCon888:

No matter how many orgasms you give her, she'll still leave you if you don't have money.

That's true my brother

Chase a cheque, never chase a chick

The Bible Was Not Wrong About Money Answers all Things.


Secondly Never Date A Value Less Girl, One Will No Focus. They Will Destroy Your Future

flyca:

Lol. You know why it's so?

Good men meet good women and have good relationships. So let's say that good people are busy with living and loving their lives, careers, businesses, families and so on. They ae busy intertwining into each other and navigating life together. They don't have excess time to come online to rant or whine. In fact, nothing to rant or whine about, because they solve their problems amicably. And forge ahead.

What you have here is basically slay queens and slay kings, underaged, who don't understand a thing. Here they are bashing the woman while forgetting that who they get into a relationship with is a reflection of who they are.

Odimma!

Take a moment to reflect if this opinion, while probably grand, isnt simplistic.

friendl:
All men are not the same ,all women are not the same ,men lie, women lie,man cheat , women cheat,

Don't expect too much from anyone in life , don't think life will be fair to you, don't think people will think the way you think ,..

There are still good men and women out there ,there are still terrible ones too

Best comment I have read on this thread so far & I read from page one.

ianq:


Take a moment to reflect if this opinion, while probably grand, isnt simplistic.

Grammar! Wahala dey!

frankmoney:
Never give a 100% in a relationship .
Stop saying sorry all the time
Sometimes you need absence to create value

Thanks for this piece of advice. That was my mistake and I've learnt not to be loyal to guys.

chiefqueen:
I've been in a relationship with only myself since I was born. I learnt that I need to start loving other people besides me. Single bell �, single all the way...

is it that guys don't approach you ?

never love any girl whom you have not paid for her dowry with all your heart...they don't deserve it.



the girl i wanted to settle down with just left without any reason till this moment, after several calls, sms, chats yet she couldnt open up. she even invited me to their house to tell me her reason which i did but she said, she can not say any thing.

mikaelangelov:


I'd love to hear her own story, she's also on nairaland, and she's on followers list so I guess if my comment is shared she'll read it too

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. lol.

mikaelangelov:


I'd love to hear her own story, she's also on nairaland, and she's on followers list so I guess if my comment is shared she'll read it too

You are a stranger to me, but I had to do this and i hope u see it and take it, from your comment is very likely you still have strong feelings for this lady and u hope she would become the girl u want her to be, dat my brother would never happen, you are a nice guy, if u meet d wrong women they would take u for granted, is normal, u need to be less nice and more selfish, think more about you, ur own fun and growth, putting anyone above u at anytime is wrong, u always come first, and putting a woman above u is the same as telling her u are don't value yourself enough, besides a woman want a man who takes control at all times and do not take any shit, not even one act of disrespect should be overlooked, if u overlook u give her a reason to do another, all in all please look for a lady that is matured and can appreciate you properly, such ladies are everywhere, leave this lady i can tell u dat from experience people don't change a behavior or habit they have learnt for anyone, she is currently hurting you and will continue to, i don't want to call ur lady a Hoe, is disrespectful to you, but she is and exhibit d behaviours of one, trying to change her or hoping she changes is an act of denial, u can hope all u like but it won't happen and marrying a lady like this will be a grave mistake which u will regret till u die. if u meet a new lady u would be surprised u were taking all the shit and the pain from dis lady in d first place.

wintersnow:



Love you too babe

Lol

I learnt that patience is a virtue.

JasonScoolari:
Awwww! What a lucky guy.

But please help me tell him that I will beat you when I see you. He should please bear with me.

Don't mess with me man
He doesn't joke with me

Paxie55:

Rubbish
If you like be an alpha from here till tomorrow, if you don't have money, oyo is your case.

Lemme be ur bf for 3 months....u will sing a new song..
Unless ur one of the brain dead,materialistic types with no present worth and no future ambition!!!
If u think all women worship money like u,ur so fvcking wrong!!!!